I guess that lady on the video has had a lot of failed relationships. There is so much pain and hatred in her. She wants to dominate her man but ends up dominated. She is trying so hard to put up a nice facade but she can't hide her desire to make her relationships successful.
Relationships are not about control or domination. You do acts and things and wants to keep the other person happy and realize her/his full potential because you love the person and not for any other reason. Instead of berating like "you're a lousy driver", instead, you say "darling, let me show you how it has to be done".