papano kung ganito un situation:
actually, i raised this query in search for answers for my dilemma. you see, i have a bro na adopted namin since he was born. he's in college now and nde pa rin nya alam up to now that he's adopted. i just don't know if may hunches na sha about it. i really want to tell him kasi he has a right to know but ewan ko lang if it will be a wise decision. mabait naman sha, nga lang, ngayon eh mejo nagiging pazaway na. lagi past midnight na umuwi and lagi ginagalit si mama kasi nde sumasagot pag tinanong if saan galing and may instance pa nga na nde pala pumapasok for the whole sem while getting allowances. the prob now is, baka kasi pag ngayon sinabi sa kanya that he is adopted eh lalo magrebelde, another prob eh ung mom nya eh yung katulong namin na lagi nya kaaway kasi pinagsasabihan sha. kaya siguro nde na naiisip nila papa na sabihin sa kanya yung totoo is dahil wala namang intention yung mom nya to get him kasi ipinagkatiwala na nya ke mama ung anak nya since she gave birth to him. naawa lang ako kay mama kasi minsan bastos na ang treatment nya ke mama, dati nde nman sha ganun, ambait nya dati, nun late highschool na lang sha nagbago, ewan if dahil sa barkada or what. maayos nman sha pinalaki nila mama and we treated him like a real brother. naaawa din ako sa kanya kasi gusto ko mapaayos buhay nya kaya nga kinonvince pa rin namin na mag-aral sha ng college khet ayaw na nya dati kasi nde daw nya alam gusto nya.
gusto ko sana sha kausapin about this issue but i just don't know if it will be a good idea... or just leave it as it is kasi never naman kme nagkulang sa pag-trato sa kanya bilang totoong kapamilya at kadugo. basta ang alam ko mahal ko yung kapatid kong yun and all i want is para sa ikabubuti nya.