I hear a lot from my male friends that they don’t know how to show a girl they like her and how to make her feel the same way.
So, I thought it was time the guys heard from the women about what they truly want from men. And here are my top tips on capturing a girl’s heart, but I am sure you too have some ideas, Ladies, so, please, by all means, pitch in!
1. Listen to her …
Listen when she speaks, and engage in actual conversation. Women love to talk about things, so give her support, and ask her how she feels about things.
2. Actions speak louder than words …
Hold the door open for her, keep the lift, and help her carry heavy bags. Show her that you’re reliable and caring.
3. Remember important information …
Remember her birthday, her families’ names, her past…she’ll be impressed if you listen and reuse the knowledge.
4. Learn about her hobbies …
Make her feel important, and special. Remember her favorite bands, and ask her about new songs, or albums. She’ll feel close to you if she can discuss her opinions and likes with you.
5. Compliment her …
Don’t go overboard; just give her a small compliment once in a while. Tell her that her hair looks nice in the morning, and she’ll feel pretty all day. Check out how to give a good compliment to make sure you are doing it right!
6. Value her …
Tell her that you really love your lunchtime talks, or nights out. Make her feel a valued part of your day. Make her feel important, and she’s much more likely to open up to you.
7. Don’t overcrowd her …
Give her a little time to think about you, and miss you, if necessary. You can rest assured that if you’ve done all of the above, you’ll be on her mind.
8. Get to know her friends …
Impress her friends, and you’re half way there! Seriously! You know how important PR is, soif you make her friends fall in love with you, they’ll for sure not rest until she falls in love with you!
9. Have your own life …
Girl’s don’t like guys who stick to them like cling film. Make sure you have one or two things every week that you have to do. This’ll give her chance to notice that you are independent, and reliable, and you do have your own life.
10. Make an impression …
Be yourself. Demonstrate a skill or talent thats unique to you, show off your dress sense, set yourself apart from the crowd. Not only will she notice what makes you you, it’ll make you feel much more confident too.
11. Flirt …
Make brief eye contact, and smile at her. Strike up a casual conversation. Flirt. Don’t think of her as the girl of your dreams, or worry about what will happen if you say the wrong thing, just live in the moment and impress her.
12. Talk to her …
Tell her what you enjoy doing. Tell her about your future dreams, your aims, your past. Ask her what she loves in life, and get excited. Be positive, and listen. She’ll be attracted to this new, happy you.
13. Be romantic …
Think about what really gets her excited. Did she admit that strawberries are her only vice? Put a little punnet on her desk. Pay attention to her, and demonstrate that you know her better than anyone in the world.
14. Break the touch barrier …
Make sure you aren’t being sleazy. Hold her hand, or touch her arm, and break the barrier. Look out for signs of discomfort, though, and don’t push it too far.
15. Make her laugh …
Tell her jokes, watch her favourite sitcoms, play dares. Have fun with her.
16. Ask her out …
Invite her to do something with you. Make sure it’s something you’d both like to do, and try to avoid normal dates such as a drink or a club. Find her favourite restaurant, or a tribute night to her favourite band. Impress her.
