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mrsquirter

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erection problem
« on: October 26, 2012, 02:30:19 pm »
I think there's something wrong with my erection.. Before, we use to get 3 to 4 rounds with my gf during sex just for 5 hours but now after 1 round my penis suddenly lose it's erection and it is not as hard as before when it erected. I'm a seaferer/seaman and it's just been 1 month since I set foot in land.. I'm so concerned about this matter because my gf starts on complaining because she thinks that I don't get aroused as before and she is not contented with our sex now a days. We both are not use to this because we knew that we are really wild in bed before.. Need some advice!!

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Re: erection problem
« Reply #1 on: October 26, 2012, 03:24:37 pm »
Marami pong factor kung bakit ang isang tao ay may ED.  Kagaya ng pagiging diabetic, na check mo ba kung diabetic ka o hindi?  How about sa bisyo mo? Kung ikaw ay malakas maninigarilyo ito din ay isang dahilan.  Ang dulot ng nicotine ay nakakasira ng good blood flow ng system mo. Excessive alcohol intake din basta sobra nakakadulot ng masama unti2x lng ng pag-inom kung may session kayo. Baka yung sinsasabi ng GF mo ay lalong nakadagdag sa problema mo, lalo kang na stress hanggang nagkakaroon ka ng sexual performance anxiety.  Explore kayo ng mga alternatives moves hindi yung routinary na pagdating sa usaping sex. Focus more on foreplay di lng si jr ang nakakaexcite sa partner mo gawin mo na lng pang finale yang paputok mo, ibuhos mo ang attention sa katawang ng partner mo hanapin mo yung kiliti nya.  Dont hesitate to go down under, take control the situation.  Huwag kang magmamadali take your time.  Kung kayo ay open- minded bring your sexual relationship to next level invite someone or a couple nothing can stop you of being contented in your sex life baka ito pa ang magpapainit kay jr. Always remember their are more important things than sex in a good relationship.
« Last Edit: October 26, 2012, 03:59:10 pm by Gat J.P. Rizal »

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Re: erection problem
« Reply #2 on: October 26, 2012, 10:06:38 pm »
yung problem ko naman is mahirap mag erect yung sa akin kapag nakikipag one night stand ako sa iba...para bang nagcursed si GF dito -.- paano ba ang dapat ko gawin dito?
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Re: erection problem
« Reply #3 on: October 26, 2012, 10:26:41 pm »

 time and time again mga ka espiya sa mga problemang medical siguro naman po ang dapat natin tanungin eh mga doctor tama po ba? consult a physician for the best answer to your concern salamat.

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Re: erection problem
« Reply #4 on: October 27, 2012, 01:27:49 am »
medyo may halong psychological issue yan TS. technically, ang lalake kaya niya tigasan at labasan pagkatapos ng "refractory period".  ang tagal nito, nag-vary or iba iba sa bawat tao, pero as a guide, 15minutes pag binata (puberty), then tumatagal ito.  ang ED naman, in the strictest sense ay pagkawala ng abilidad na maintain ang erection until nakatapos ang sexual act.  hindi ito ED pag naka 1 round ka na.  Kaya ko nasabing may halong psychological, or possible na emotional, kasi ang sexual stimulation at foreplay ay malaking bagay sa quality ng erection mo.  ikaw na mismo nagsabi TS na matigas pag sobra excited ("one night stand" hindi ba?), so this affects the sexual need you seek from your GF, kasi napuno ng iba...
may ibang way to please your GF without going through 4-5 rounds ng pagtalik, but that would call for another thread...

isang factor din dito ay stress at emotional baggage... pag madami ka iniisip, pansin mo, mahirap ka tigasan... (sa simpleng salita mind you...), factor din ang physical exertion, stamina and exhaustion.  Pag pagod ka, mahirap tumayo yan.  kung physically fit ka, mataas ang stamina level mo, and you can perform and deliver the desired sexual performance longer than expected, AND POSSIBLY, the number of "rounds"...

kung mahal ka ng GF mo pre, hindi dapat issue yung "number of times" ng orgasm mo TS.. kung issue yun, e di mag focus ka na ipleasure siya in some other sexually stimulating way, until makahabol ang erection mo, at tigasan ka ulit...

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Re: erection problem
« Reply #5 on: October 27, 2012, 01:50:18 am »
kagagawan kasi yan ng mga gahaman na mga politiko.