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Espiya Lobby => Introductions [Pakilala ka!] => : ms.muckraker May 14, 2009, 08:53:39 AM

: busy boyfriend
: ms.muckraker May 14, 2009, 08:53:39 AM
how to deal with a boyfriend who's always havin overtimes, even worst, always away for work? though he's been vocal how his love is sincere, the 'tampo' feeling is insatiable. ladies, i know u hate it wenever ur man's always away. should i settle for this kind or what? anyone?
: Re: busy boyfriend
: agent 007 May 14, 2009, 09:04:29 AM
Siguro try 2 understand him muna, not bcuz busy cya s work tampo kna agad my times din nmn n ikaw ung busy, relationship needs a lot of understanding, hindi smoking:: pwede pg busy ung isa hiwalay n agad ung iniisp, malay m nmn para rin sau ung mga gnagawa nyang effort s work to secure evreything specially ung future nyo...
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: Gat J.P. Rizal May 14, 2009, 09:05:44 AM
Siguro try 2 understand him muna, not bcuz busy cya s work tampo kna agad my times din nmn n ikaw ung busy, relationship needs a lot of understanding, hindi smoking:: pwede pg busy ung isa hiwalay n agad ung iniisp, malay m nmn para rin sau ung mga gnagawa nyang effort s work to secure evreything specially ung future nyo...

 ::notexting

Thanks...

: Re: busy boyfriend
: UrAnus May 14, 2009, 09:07:16 AM
hhhmmmm. kng ganito gf ko.. iintindihin ko na lng xa.. as long as alam ko kng saan xa pumupunta at cguradong "work" yun.. hehehehe.

natural lng naman ito if your partner wants to do good sa work nya kasi para sa future nyo rin naman ito..

pero, there is a big chance na baka na mawala ang pag-ibig nyo sa isat-isa..

nangyari na kasi sa dalawa kng kaibigan to eh.. at first medyo ok lng.. pero sa katagalan, parang nawala na yung

excitement nila sa isat-isa
: Re: busy boyfriend
: Khaye Garcia May 14, 2009, 09:46:04 AM
how to deal with a boyfriend who's always havin overtimes, even worst, always away for work? though he's been vocal how his love is sincere, the 'tampo' feeling is insatiable. ladies, i know u hate it wenever ur man's always away. should i settle for this kind or what? anyone?


work is work smoking:: we can never compete with that sis :-* what we can do as now is talk to our bf and tell them or ask them to give us some time, spend it together as couples.well its a matter of understanding na lang siguro sis toast:: make yourself busy too :-* para maiwas iwasan ang "tampo" feeling sa kaniya... the more you think of him the more you'll gonna miss him.. kaya mas ok kung preoccupied ka para iwas iwas talaga sa ganyan toast:: wala naman tayong magagwa kung "trabaho" ang kalaban or kaagaw natin sa mga bf natin ayt? kesa naman tumambay tambay lang siya tas wala pa siyang time para sayo... so at least kahit pano, may valid reason si bf... masyado lang talaga tayong emotionally affected pagdating sa ganyan eh... :(


guys talaga... smoking::
: Re: busy boyfriend
: X-MANGYAN May 14, 2009, 10:06:24 AM
Ako kahit busy pag tinawag ako ng gf ko nag aabsent nlang ako sa work. Alam ko na kasi kasunod na mangyayari eh. hehehe... ::)
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: frost entangle May 14, 2009, 10:45:36 AM
most man are workaholic. and we are designed to do so..
we are the provider.
but you gals know the difference if your man is cheating on you.
girls instinct na rin yun
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: brucewayne May 14, 2009, 12:44:14 PM
most man are workaholic. and we are designed to do so..
we are the provider.
but you gals know the difference if your man is cheating on you.
girls instinct na rin yun
tama ka katotong frost. toast::
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: cenon2 May 14, 2009, 05:27:27 PM
Ako kahit busy pag tinawag ako ng gf ko nag aabsent nlang ako sa work. Alam ko na kasi kasunod na mangyayari eh. hehehe... ::)

hahaha... I like this comment bossing...  finger4u
 toast::
: Re: busy boyfriend
: namster May 16, 2009, 03:21:24 AM
Ako kahit busy pag tinawag ako ng gf ko nag aabsent nlang ako sa work. Alam ko na kasi kasunod na mangyayari eh. hehehe... ::)

walang kakupas-kupas talaga si pareng X-Mang !!!
: Re: busy boyfriend
: leightot May 16, 2009, 03:28:20 AM
If you are understanding and fun to be with, you can motivate him to find more time to be with you and less at work haha. however i think it makes a couple closer don't you think? because when you guys do see each other ... it's like a fantasy ... so lovely ... it'll make you guys stronger ... and hopefully you'll realize soon if its worth the wait for you ... :)
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: Asiong Salonga May 16, 2009, 05:37:31 AM
Siguro try 2 understand him muna, not bcuz busy cya s work tampo kna agad my times din nmn n ikaw ung busy, relationship needs a lot of understanding, hindi smoking:: pwede pg busy ung isa hiwalay n agad ung iniisp, malay m nmn para rin sau ung mga gnagawa nyang effort s work to secure evreything specially ung future nyo...

mang joe bago ka magpayo ayusin mo muna sarili mo ha
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: ♥»»bLűeSΩűL««♥ May 16, 2009, 05:40:35 AM
mang joe bago ka magpayo ayusin mo muna sarili mo ha
naku! nabuhay na naman si asiong...  smoking::
: Re: busy boyfriend
: ms.muckraker May 17, 2009, 10:42:05 PM

work is work smoking:: we can never compete with that sis :-* what we can do as now is talk to our bf and tell them or ask them to give us some time, spend it together as couples.well its a matter of understanding na lang siguro sis toast:: make yourself busy too :-* para maiwas iwasan ang "tampo" feeling sa kaniya... the more you think of him the more you'll gonna miss him.. kaya mas ok kung preoccupied ka para iwas iwas talaga sa ganyan toast:: wala naman tayong magagwa kung "trabaho" ang kalaban or kaagaw natin sa mga bf natin ayt? kesa naman tumambay tambay lang siya tas wala pa siyang time para sayo... so at least kahit pano, may valid reason si bf... masyado lang talaga tayong emotionally affected pagdating sa ganyan eh... :(


guys talaga... smoking::
uhm yep. my patience has been very much extended. he's told me nman how busy his work is. thing is, well..ok. patience na lng cguro. or maybe im just a lil too demanding & inconsiderate. bt MEN, u must be forgetting dt u actually has ur otherhalf. mkapag puff nalng nga..smoking::
: Re: busy boyfriend
: ms.muckraker May 17, 2009, 10:49:03 PM
If you are understanding and fun to be with, you can motivate him to find more time to be with you and less at work haha. however i think it makes a couple closer don't you think? because when you guys do see each other ... it's like a fantasy ... so lovely ... it'll make you guys stronger ... and hopefully you'll realize soon if its worth the wait for you ... :)

i know wts on ur mind.haha..well he's makin it up for me naman. maybe m just unsatisfied..we've a very peculiar love story.hehe..maybe il just give him a credit. hows that?hehe smoking::puffff pufff pufff
: Re: busy boyfriend
: Khaye Garcia May 17, 2009, 11:14:08 PM
Sure thang gurl! toast::

Men...



Tara sm0kebuddy smoking:: hahaha
: Re: busy boyfriend
: codered May 17, 2009, 11:16:55 PM
Ang tanong eh, dati ba siyang ganyan? Kung di man eh baka iba na yan, hehe.

Baka workaholic sya talaga para sa future nyo o baka nawala yung spark kaya di na sya nageeffort gumawa ng paraan to be with you. Either way, dapat pagusapan at intindihin ang side ng bawat isa.
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: ms.muckraker May 18, 2009, 12:40:53 AM
Ang tanong eh, dati ba siyang ganyan? Kung di man eh baka iba na yan, hehe.

Baka workaholic sya talaga para sa future nyo o baka nawala yung spark kaya di na sya nageeffort gumawa ng paraan to be with you. Either way, dapat pagusapan at intindihin ang side ng bawat isa.
workaholic po xa sir. everybody hu knows him asserts that he is since then...& i will know if he stinks. but so far, things are real nman. only thing is, busy nga.
: Re: busy boyfriend
: brucewayne May 20, 2009, 02:30:23 PM
dito ka na lang sa Espiya tumambay habang inaantay ang BF mo, tingnan mo, pagnalaman nun na dito ka tumatambay biglang magbabago ihip ng hangin... toast::