sis stress na stress na ako sa work ko!parang wala na akong gagawin tama sa boss ko.ginagawa ko naman lahat ng inuutos sa akin pero lage pa din galit.nasa abu dhabi ako ngwowork.9mos na ako dito sa 1 interior design company. yun amo ko ay local na babae.3 lang kaming staff at madalas ako naiiwan sa opis,receptionist na,accountant pa at Personal assistant pa din-pero sobrang sama ng ugali ng boss ko.lageng galit.nag try na akong mag resign 2mos ago pero iniipit nya ako sabe nya need ko daw taposin ang contract ko.medyo kumalma sya ng nagpasa ako ngresignation,but after kinausap nya ko balik na naman sya sa ugali nya!na-stress ako na araw araw blah ng blah >:( anu po ba ang dapat ko na gawin sa ganitong sitwasyon. ano ba dapat gawin ko?minsan gusto ko na syang suntukin smoking:: sis pa help nyo naman ako sa espiya please !
teka lang wak kang manununtok ;D timely, check mo mga post ni creampie na muna :) Sa totoo lang the way you described your situation parang nakaka aaarrrrggghhh nga...Pero gusto ko malaman mo sa ugali ng boss mo, siguro or most probably HINDI sya Happy sa life nya. So, bro,,let's take perspective on that. As I always said- we Don't have CONTROL to the events that happens in our lives But we DO have control/choices on how to Respond. Most Unhappy ppl take their anger or unhappiness to others. KNOW THAT IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. But in the events that it affects your performance at work because of her unprofessional treatment,(you might help her take responsibility ,even though it's HER responsibility to change her behaviors especially at work)TALKING to her about it would help also. Avoid or don't appear complaining, Always,use your "I" 'I feel uncomfortable when you seems under stress and the way You speak is making me feel difficult to realllly get what You want' and Tell her 'I know we both want to be Professional at all times'...Start a dialogue where in you address the issues.Avoid statement that will lead to arguments. Remember,She's still your boss,so try to remove that blame factor...Let go of your Anger ,resolve to put your anger aside.I know it's hard but don't let her criticism damage your self-esteem. and you Do that by controlling your emotion. Stay open-minded. Don't feel trap. At times difficult ppl are also teaching ask something about ourselves. Choose to let go of the frustration. Begin to look at it as an opportunity to learn and really understand instead of fighting. A lot of great transformational leaders suggest that the Cure in dealing with difficult ppl is being AWARE. First,we have the reaction to them as arrgghh kind of automatic response but as we continue to interact with them,we see them coming and eventually stop and walk around the trap that they may set for us consciously /unconsciously.It's a learning process but very possible that we can handle them without strangling them ;D Remember also we all have issues or baggage we carry in us.Baka si boss mo sa bahay nila hindi sya na aappreciate or anu pa man or someone is being difficult on her also.So try to give her that thought and allowance.(She might be needing to feel love, to have attention, to be acknowledge etc) Not that am saying You will let her walk over you--but by UNDERSTANDING bro--You can response much better po.
So,try mo muna lahat ng madiplomasyang aksyon ika nga,but don't just QUIT!(let her fire you instead-you get your severance pay then :) )
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@ E.Republic your thoughts and help please ::flowers