Topic: Have you ever been with a guy who couldn't get it up?

[FerminaDaza]

hello!Trisha here favor sana syo sis pwede ba? hindi kasi naman ako madalas sa site at nahihiya din ako magtanong.naexperience mo na ba na habang kasama mo ang bf mo and nagpetting na kyo tapos yon naman hindi naman sya tigasan! pwede mo ba tanongin mga babae dito?na experience na ba nila 

First off,mods-mam laces,pasensya na po,if need ilipat sa ibang board-TIA 

@ Trisha , good question and maganda sanang topic KASO onti na lang mga spy girls po na active though...nevertheless , here, na post ko na and sana may ibang SPY GIRL pa na makasagot ng question mo po.


and to answer the question- IME,ime ko na naman  WALA pa naman po.
And i guess if am to face that situation that he's not that responding physically/Can't get it up -(And if like & love ko naman) -will be nice ,will try to be supportive- i will try not to make a big deal out of it- KAHIT pa my vajayjay is screaaaaming - "are you effing kidding me?!" 

Anyways,sure naman ,di lang ikaw nakaranas ng ganun,I have my 2 male friends that confides to me dati,especially kapag sobrang lasheeenngg daw-as they already made their way to bed and about to do the deed and then jaran! little tom is sleeping and can't be disturb!
If your in love with that guy, maging supportive ka pa din, you can try to SPEAK/ASK  him about it but be gentle/in a non judgmental voice.

That's it, Please feel free to share in the comments. Or kaya as usual yun mga honest na spy men may mai-sharena din

[ragnaogurat]

As a guy talagang may times na tulog si manoy, kahit pa merong teasing, marami kasing factors eh.  Minsan pagod gusto ko man mentally di naman kaya physically, isa rin pag lasing, too much alcohol affects the flow of blood na nagpapa tayo sa penis ng lalaki.  Minsan naman worried or may problema or anxiety kaya kahit anong libog naaagaw ang concentration.  Minsan naman sobrang sex, pansin ko kasi kapag more than once a day ako makipag sex the following days or a week di talaga tumatayo penis ko unlike yung may interval naiisip ko pa lang partner ko tayo na agad.  Ang ginagawa namin kapag ayaw tumayo agad take a shower, that makes my blood circulates more therefore more blood circulating sa penis the harder it gets.

Di ibig sabihin na ayaw tumayo eh hindi ka na mahal or hindi ka na desirable, pero kung araw araw hindi tumatayo ang penis ng partner mo sayo and the he will tell you lets not do it instead then may problema, its either impotent sya o may kajerjeran syang iba... dahil ang lalaki kapag loaded ang penis pag hinimas ng babae maganda man o hindi sexy may o hindi tatayo at tatayo parin ang ari...

[sajangnim]

well it happened to me twice na (hiya)... different gurls but both were my first time to have sex with them. what i observed is that ninenerbyos ako during the first intercourse (some not all). Yung isam bes nga talagang hinde na tumayo sabi ko na lng nagtutulugtulugan siguro kasi anghirap gisingin
Anyway the next time we went out parang si totoy bato na ang penis ko, third time parang si iron man na. So maybe nerbyoso lang si bf hehe

[leightot]

pansin ko sakin pag nag masturbate ako early in the morning and then will have sex at night parang di kinakaya ni manoy. parang nawawalan ng gana haha. kaya when I know ill have sexy time this day. I dont really masturbate para mala sparta ang lakas!

Bro Leigh parang hindi ako makapaniwala ah.... anyways for me lalong turn off kung tatanungin nung girl kung bakit ayaw mag standing ovation, just do your thing girl.... work it out.... deym   

[leightot]

Bro Leigh parang hindi ako makapaniwala ah.... anyways for me lalong turn off kung tatanungin nung girl kung bakit ayaw mag standing ovation, just do your thing girl.... work it out.... deym   

bro, nanghihina lang ako pero doesnt mean di ako tinatayuan parang walang gana lang yung si manoy nanlalambot agad. pero tama ka din bro, dapat may obligation din ang babae magpatayo ng manoy lol

[junex29]

 

[papachu]

minsan kulang lang sa lambing, or nagtatampo kasi matagal hindi nagamit. hehe.  But from my experience work it and when it wakes it'll work for you LONG time!   

[FerminaDaza]

nice naman,salamat po sa mga share bros 

yan mga sistah,na share po ng mga kuyas some possible reasons as why o why what goes up-eventually-comes down but so soon ? it could be physical,psychological (performance anxiety, alcohol, porn, even thick condoms din daw po , causes it. So try not to judge or jump to conclusions ,it's doesn't indicate a lack of attraction to you or his loss of sexual function

dapat may obligation din ang babae magpatayo ng manoy lol

hmmm, yun oh ladies, so carry on daw and move on to other enjoyable activities such as kissing, breast stimulation, sensual massage, ORAL play/BJ's -at pag wala talaga call it a night. *sigh*

and to some cases that your lovedovey is not really sure if it's Physical or Psychological causes,do the Tap test:

Normally, a man can develop an erection during the night or upon awakening. This body response is known as nocturnal penile tumescence and is proof that he's physically able to have an erection. If your guy isn't sure, he can wrap a very thin and narrow piece of tissue paper around his flaccid penis, secured with a little bit of scotch tape. It's likely that if he has an erection when he's sleeping the paper will break to some degree. If he easily gets an erection during sleep, but not in other situations, the cause is likely psychological. If not, the reason is likely physical.

OR

Let him give himself a hand. If a guy can get aroused when he's alone (and masturbating, for example) and not when he's with a partner, the cause is psychological.

[BlueAlphaZero]

I am reminded of something the actor George C. Scott supposedly said before filming a love scene with a rather voluptuous Hollywood actress: "I apologize if I get an erection, my dear. And I apologize if I don't."

I've quoted Mr. Scott a few times, to be honest. Of course there's my other favorite line when a moment of intimacy doesn't go as planned: "Well! At least now we know that Krispy Kreme Donuts and C2 don't always improve a man's performance in bed, n'est-ce pas? ." Humor always helps to defuse any awkwardness caused by the flesh being weak despite the spirit being willing (so to speak).

And foreplay, of course. Let's not forget foreplay. Plenty of foreplay, in fact - physical and non-physical. Some m'sieurs et demoiselles are capable of arousing their partners with a mere look. Consider yourself fortunate if you can do that on a semi-regular to regular basis.

[oploook]

sa akin naman base sa experience ko, ive been married for 8 yrs now plus 4 years na live in a lot of times na this happens well if physically weak lang its so easy to handle pero pagmentally weak yan ang mahirap, somethings goin on. sa akin kasi many times na si manoy ayaw magcooperate sa init ng eksena, as for me ayaw ko matapos ang gabi ng kainitan na hindi succesful yung partner ko i do a lot of things for her then babawi ako sa madaling araw nangangalabet talaga ako so its just a matter of mutual affection. tell your guy sis to try sa madaling araw, pero if the reason is kalasingan, well blame it on the spirits and alcohol. and of course dapat din you have to work it out walang pagod na t*t* sa babaeng malandi!