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Men's Top 20 Sexual Turn-Offs *_*
« on: August 14, 2011, 11:36:54 am »
...tell me! don't tell me about it  :D  :P


Men's Top 20 Sexual Turn-Offs-xoxo


1. Women who acts as If they don't like sex.

    
#ladies,we may have several reasons why we act like that but know this:

Myth: Men don't respect women who like sex.
Fact : Emotionally healthy men want a partner who enjoy sex.
- give yourself permission to relax and be the sensual woman you truly are .

2. Women who never Initiate Sex.

#ladies,same as of Turn-off #1: Go after that man of yours and let him know you're in the mood
for some loving!Make him feel that you want him as much as he wants you & that turns him on.


3. Women who act unfamiliar with a man's body.

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I was with a woman who touched my penis like it was some ancient artifact.
She was so timid to just hold it or rub it,as if she'd never seen one before---it totally turned me off.

#ladies,  ;D Ok,then don't just grab a man's cock noted.
Men identify so closely with their penis that they interpret how you treat it as how you
feel about them.
So,make Friends with your partner's PENIS! :D

4. A woman who makes a man responsible for her Orgasms.

# ladies,Love yourself enough to ask a man for what you want & need.
Guiding a man to stimulate us to 'O' means admitting that we aren't naturally sexual goddesses
who can come at the drop of a hat.

5. Women who are Sexual Traffic Cops in Bed. ???

- this is a woman who has to be in control of the lovemaking.She gives a lot of instructions
and tries to get her partner to fit into her ideas of perfect lovemaking.

#ladies,give your man a chance to get to know your body & learn how to love it the way you
want to be loved.


6. The Sexual Corpse-women who are Unresponsive in bed.

#ladies,when you don't respond,either physically or verbally to your man's lovemaking,he feels
like a failure.

7. The Sexual Blabbermouth: Women who talk too much in bed.

- it distracts him from experiencing pleasure.
When you talk a lot in bed,your man will feel obligated to talk as well.

8. Women who don't take care of themselves.

Ask yourself this question:If you were a man,would you be attracted to you?
You'll never be physically perfect,but you can make yourself aesthetically pleasing to taste,
smell,and touch,since that was sex is all about.

Why should you expect a man to put his mouth on something you think is disgusting?
If you don't like the way you smell,or the way you taste,he probably won't either!

9. Women who don't like their own bodies & put themselves down.

#ladies,learn to love your body as the beautiful feminine expression that it is.
Stop putting yourself down in front of your partner.
If you don't like something about yourself, Change it.Otherwise don't talk about it.
And when your partner tells you that you look beautiful,say,"thank you!"


10. Women who are too concerned with their appearance.

#ladies,Men appreciate your ability to enhance your natural beauty,but they also need to know
you can be comfortable Just As You Are .Practice being beautiful from the inside out. ::flowers

11. Women who don't like receiving oral sex.

Myth: Men are selfish in bed,thinking about their own pleasure & not about yours.
Fact : men love giving pleasure to women---it's one of their biggest turn-ons.

12. Women who are sloppy kissers.

Why this turns men off? For the same reason it turns women off-It has no subtlety;
it has no sensitivity;and it can give you a chapped face! ;D

13. Women who are too serious.

Women who are too serious remind men of schoolteachers,mothers,& other scary
female authority figures.
#ladies,learn to laugh @ yourself,both in & out of bed.

14. Women who are excessively needy and clingy.

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weak,wimpy,whiny women turn me off-Mario
#ladies ,the more needy & clingy you appear,the more a man feels responsible to rescue you.
He become,the child,and sexual desire disappears.

15. Stupid,Superficial Women.

Men need to feel proud of the woman they love.
Remember #ladies: Smart is Sexy

16. Women who care Only about a man's financial status.

Men hate feeling used OR evaluated for the amount of money they have.
#ladies,if you want men to love you for what's inside you & not just what they see
on the outside,you must be willing to do the same for them.

17. Women who use their sexuality to manipulate man.

Men aren't stupid,they know when a woman is manipulating them w/her sexuality.
#ladies,If you don't want to be treated like a sex object,don't act like one,and don't
treat men like one.

18. Women who talk about former lovers.

.................blah!

19. Women who aren't sexually spontaneous.

The power of quickie.He wants you now!#ladies don't take forever in the bathroom.

20. Women who wear UGLY UNDERWEAR.

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When I undress a woman,and notice that she is wearing ugly underwear
it makes me feel 3things:one,that she must not care that much about herself if she can actually
wear that stuff; tow,that she must not care that much about me to let me see her wearing
with that stuff;and three,she must not care that much about sex,because she couldn't
possibly feel sexy wearing that stuff!

#ladies ,even if you're single,wear underwear that makes you feel sexy.after all,you never
know where or when you will meet the right person.I say,be prepared @ all times!  ;)



That's it - Hope you enjoyed reading.
All credit goes to Barbara de Angelis Author of Secrets about Men Every Woman should Know  ::flowers


Many thanks Espiya.net  sayasaya::






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Re: Men's Top 20 Sexual Turn-Offs *_*
« Reply #1 on: August 14, 2011, 12:41:46 pm »
21. madaldal
22. madaldal na, BAD BREATH PA
23. putok
24. ALMURANAS (goodbye dogstyle!)

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Re: Men's Top 20 Sexual Turn-Offs *_*
« Reply #2 on: August 14, 2011, 01:48:59 pm »
tama lahat, galing ng gumawa nito. up to the last yung ugly underwear. especially the granny underwear hehehe.

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« Reply #3 on: August 14, 2011, 03:41:20 pm »
nice one TS...  ;D

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« Reply #4 on: August 14, 2011, 04:14:55 pm »
 :D :D galing naman, sapul lahat...ipapabasa ko nga to sa gf ko... ;D ;D


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« Reply #5 on: August 14, 2011, 06:57:15 pm »
 toast::
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« Reply #6 on: August 14, 2011, 10:16:23 pm »
salamat po sa pagbasa at comments mga brads  toast:: *root beer*

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ang tipid naman  ;D,paalala na din po bawal and icon / smiley lang po.

21. madaldal
22. madaldal na, BAD BREATH PA
23. putok
24. ALMURANAS (goodbye dogstyle!)


ha ha, anyways,about sa 'almuranas' married women usually suffer on having
that because of child bearing or during giving birth---I suggest #ladies find a good treatment
and avoid activities that making it worst...and sa mga hubby---consider spooning position  :D



tama lahat, galing ng gumawa nito. up to the last yung ugly underwear. especially the granny underwear hehehe.

;D ...and guys if you know naman na branded/laced ang undies & bras ni partner e
wak naman mag'Conan the Barbarian' and can't wait mode and tore it ha!  :P


Again,thanks for the time !




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Re: Men's Top 20 Sexual Turn-Offs *_*
« Reply #7 on: August 14, 2011, 11:07:14 pm »
granny panties! LOL   eh big sis pano pag hindi parin naturn off? hahaha.. thanks for sharing..  ::inlove ::flowers
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« Reply #8 on: August 14, 2011, 11:22:09 pm »
maarte na wala sa lugar
selosa
madaldal & tsismosa
paimportante
pacute
malandi
masarap tumulong sa kapwa... lahing oragon ngunit pinanganak & lumaki dito sa maynila he he he

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« Reply #9 on: August 15, 2011, 12:41:04 am »
granny panties! LOL   eh big sis pano pag hindi parin naturn off? hahaha.. thanks for sharing..  ::inlove ::flowers

...sabe nga nila 'wala din panting ganit sa t*t*ng galit! TOINKS  laffman::
   howdy lis sis  ::flowers :-*
...wait mo yun part 2 nito Women's Top 20 T.O's ! the payback  evil::



maarte na wala sa lugar
selosa
madaldal & tsismosa
paimportante
pacute
malandi


jake! hmm, ganda ng sexperiencesess ah !joke! (((hugs)))


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« Reply #10 on: August 15, 2011, 01:32:10 am »
salamat po sa pagbasa at comments mga brads  toast:: *root beer*
 ang tipid naman  ;D,paalala na din po bawal and icon / smiley lang po.

Ay sorry. oo nga pala. :)  Anyway, i realyy love the post.  Very informative.  More sana ma'am! :)

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« Reply #11 on: August 15, 2011, 01:34:59 am »
;D ...and guys if you know naman na branded/laced ang undies & bras ni partner e
wak naman mag'Conan the Barbarian' and can't wait mode and tore it ha!  :P


Again,thanks for the time !




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Oo nga.. tama. Magagalit partner mo pag dahil sa kasabikan mo eh pinunit mo yung undies nya.. tapos victorias secret pala yun!
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« Reply #12 on: August 15, 2011, 02:14:29 am »


hmmm... kaya pala   ::)

T.O pala yun   laffman::
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« Reply #13 on: August 15, 2011, 02:25:02 am »
A very nice post. Very informative.   toast:: I'll wait for the next volume! The payback one..hehe

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« Reply #14 on: August 15, 2011, 02:30:04 am »
dagdagan pa natin.

25. may kachichas tapos makikipag footsy sayo! kadire!  ::lmao

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« Reply #15 on: August 15, 2011, 02:37:40 am »
yung iba pwedeng maging turn on e.. like yung 3 (innocent effect)at 5 (dominatrix)..  ;D

ok lang yung granny panties.. just take it off already.. wag nang mag mang tease na suot yun.. laffman::

pero yung 8 15 16 17.. ay nako turn off talaga..


isa pa yung nagyoyosi after the deed.. mukhang prostitute ang dating e.. IMO lang naman..


nice thread ate je.. abangan ko yung next.. at malamang may dapat ako baguhin.. finger4u

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« Reply #16 on: August 15, 2011, 03:08:01 am »

hmmm... kaya pala   ::)

T.O pala yun   laffman::

hala! sis alin po dun,yun granny undies din ba?TOINKS  ;D  ::flowers ::flowers ::flowers

...anyways,suggest ko lang #ladies,if wala naman din kyung allergy sa lace po ,mas OK po sya
and medyo smooth during intimate moments , madali syang i-glide or halayin-i mean alisin  :D
for spontaneity during sex  !hmm
[pa-istoryahe na din : laki me sa hirap so dati if ang nanay ko pa ang nabili ng panty namin like
so-en na talagang makapit ang garter ba at as ngmamark sya sa skin pa ;D
but thank God now,I do work and can buy on my own but kuripot pa din  :P hanggang la senza,
topshop,la perla and bench
but fave ko talaga at swak sa skin yun undies ng la senza - classy
but cheap .I like those undies na cotton sya but yun sa hips/waist band nya e lace sya
like these hipster undies that i just get for 50dhs lang x5pcs kasi buy 2 get 1 e! ;D
comfortable and fit sa aking "pata!" laffman::


...but anyways,I still believe naman mas lamang pa din yun emotional connection that can
really sets our moods for sex  ;)

...hang on guys, later kami naman sa Women's Top 20 Sexual T.O's

salamat po ulit sa pagbasa at comments  finger4u


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« Reply #17 on: August 15, 2011, 04:09:24 am »
sexual turn off pero na turn on ako dun sa pic mo with matching pata Ms. FM,  ::inlove

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« Reply #18 on: August 15, 2011, 05:58:21 am »
ang cute nung nakabukakang bat girl na shirt..   toast::






OT na pla ako..  ;D

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« Reply #19 on: August 15, 2011, 06:04:13 am »
astig yung collection ni FerminaDaza! finger4u
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« Reply #20 on: August 15, 2011, 06:35:09 am »
oo nga. dun ako naturn on sa undies collection and the legs shot. ;) isa pang turn off sakin yung tinuturo pa kung san, paano at gaano kabilis dapat ang pagkalikot sa kanyang clit. experienced one like this. ayoko na umulit. :P

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« Reply #21 on: August 15, 2011, 08:45:30 pm »
Bigla ko tuloy namiss gf ko  ;D. Anyway, nice post mam.  finger4u
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« Reply #22 on: August 18, 2011, 12:32:17 am »
We have the same taste pala big sissy..  toast::
I'll go check na our T.O's! XD
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