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@ topic , What Wrecks Oral Sex?
Performance anxiety and fear of being judged are chief among the pleasure killers.
"What if they don't like what I'm doing?" "What if I get tired and need to stop before they've had an orgasm?"
"What if I can't bring them to orgasm?" And for those who are hip to all the orgasm-faking going on:
"What if they're just pretending to like it?" You may be surprised just how many people let thoughts like
these crash their oral sex party.
There are some steps, before, during, and after your rendezvous that can help you to better relax
and enjoy yourself. Being comfortable and happy make almost anything you do better, and this goes double
for oral sex. In order to devote yourself fully to giving and receiving pleasure, you need to be as deep
in the pleasure groove as you can get.
Problem to address during Oral S3x :
- Lockjaw. Your jaw is gripped by tension, set in one position, so your tongue is allowed no free play.
- The Tooth Monster. Lack of jaw control can mean that your teeth get in the way, snagging on things that they
shouldn't and making what should be a tender, erotic moment seem like an operation without anesthetic.
- The Drowning Pool. You produce too much saliva, which gets in the way of your breathing properly and
keeping up a steady, even, controlled stroke.
- The Tongue Depressive. Your tongue is sluggish, lazy. You can't flick it lightly to catch those sensitive spots
at the right time and with the right pressure.
- Flabby Tongue. Your tongue is bulbous, large and flaccid, with no flexibility and no tonal quality.
- The Big Gag. You don't know exactly why, but you're gagging.
Oral S3x Technique :
- Jaw Control. So you can open your mouth as wide as necessary, without straining.
- Proper Breathing. Learning how to breathe in and out through your nose, so you don't run out of breath
while your mouth is busy. You'll eliminate one more distraction, and make it that much easier to concentrate
on the magic that's passing between you and your lover.
- Easing the Tension. Oral sex involves more than just your mouth. Learning how to relax your neck and
shoulders, your knees, your fingers, your whole body, will contribute greatly to your being able to focus
all your enthusiasm on the matter at hand.
- Swallowing. Using your whole throat to swallow releases the constrictions in everything that's above it—
tongue, sinuses, nasal passages.
- Tonguemanship. This is probably the most sensitive, sensuous part of your body.
But you have to know how to use it—and you have to get it into shape.
"No member needs so great a number of muscles as the tongue; this exceeds all the rest
in the number of its movements."-LEONARDO DA VINCI
