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how to become a matured person..
« on: June 22, 2009, 04:44:21 am »
how to become a matured person.. sa pagiging lalaki at babae!

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #1 on: June 22, 2009, 05:05:54 am »
nood ka lang ng triple x na video! lol!

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #2 on: June 22, 2009, 05:14:28 am »
waaaaaaaaaaa, simpleng tanong pero mahirap sagutin...


para sakin, "UNDERSTANDING"= nung bata pa kase tayo madami tayong bagay na di maintindihan and if now, kaya mu ng intindihin ang mga bagay and kahit too complicated ay pinipilit mo pa rin intindihin... i think that means MATURED ka na...

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #3 on: June 22, 2009, 05:25:17 am »
Maturity comes with age, and learning experiences

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #4 on: June 22, 2009, 05:32:27 am »
learning experiences and putting what u learn in action.meron kasing mga tao mature ang pananaw pero isip bata kung mag asal..mistakes made us a better persons,and being better means growing and maturing.
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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #5 on: June 22, 2009, 06:42:17 am »

para saken..

matured ka na kung makakapag desisyon ka na ng para sa sarili mo at ipaglalaban mo yun.. mas ok din kung kapakanan na ng mas nakakarami ang inuuna mo bago ang pansarili mo..  ;)

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #6 on: June 22, 2009, 07:15:06 am »




accept the fact na tao ka.,, nagkakamali..and sa pagkakamali.. matuto..



(hehehe di ko pa naaabot ang maturity level)

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #7 on: June 22, 2009, 09:10:54 am »
basta accepting what`s presented infront of you and doing something to make it better..


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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #8 on: June 22, 2009, 09:29:40 am »
1st step - stop forcing yourself to be one. kung di ka mature e di nde, accept it. and then you're one step closer to maturity  ;)

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #9 on: June 22, 2009, 11:22:28 am »
Give up trying to force yourself to become mature and accept the fact na yan na ka na talga.


Accept yourself siguro.


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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #10 on: June 22, 2009, 12:37:29 pm »
understanding din skin.the best yun eh!

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #11 on: June 22, 2009, 01:12:59 pm »
when you learn how to accept mistakes ;)

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #12 on: June 22, 2009, 02:07:58 pm »
by being able to think, analyze and accept the truth many times over and over again without being emotionally affected.

another way of becoming a matured person is to be objective always.

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #13 on: June 22, 2009, 04:46:09 pm »
being mature is accepting and learning from the mistakes you have made.

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #14 on: June 22, 2009, 05:08:27 pm »
1. widened your understanding, your patience, and be more open-minded in everything you hear and do..

2. Before making a decision, always look 5 steps forward and think of the pro's and con's of will come up on your decision..

3. Be brave to face the pains and hardships of life..

4. Act on your age...
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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #15 on: June 22, 2009, 05:18:57 pm »
From where I stand maturity is indicated by deliberate action rather than acting on mere impulse. It is magnanimity in triumph and humility in defeat. Lastly it is "putting oneself in the other guy's shoes before passing him or her a judgment."
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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #16 on: June 22, 2009, 05:22:14 pm »
Kapag di ka na na-ooffend easily even if other people make you feel bad.
Kapag you can move on at wala ng galit at resentment sa puso mo sa mga taong nakasakit sayo.
Kapag you can be at peace with everybody even under the most trying circumstances.
Kapag you can control yourself to hit back or say something back sa mga taong walanghiya, rude, etc.
Kapag reason na ang ginagamit mo at hindi emosyon sa mga decisions mo..

then you are an emotionally mature person na.  ;)

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #17 on: June 22, 2009, 06:39:58 pm »
oi jabar parehas tayo ng sinabi hehehehehe

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #18 on: June 23, 2009, 02:24:38 am »
learn how to accept criticism. critics are there to make you a better.

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #19 on: June 23, 2009, 04:59:57 am »
no how to be questions...




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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #20 on: June 30, 2009, 07:24:24 pm »
when you learn to be responsible, and act freely.

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #21 on: July 15, 2009, 08:40:14 am »
I think nag mature ako after i moved out of my parent's house dun ko kasi nakita how hard it is to live by yourself magiging responsible ka talaga  ;)

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #22 on: August 27, 2009, 12:13:12 am »
bro sakin basta alam mo ang tama at mali matured ka na

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #23 on: August 27, 2009, 02:27:08 am »
There's no specific way to be a matured person, You just become one. It could be over time, due to experience. Basically to make mature decisions you have to be able to put yourself in the person's shoes (those who are affectd by your actions) and assess if that will leave either a positive or negative note, and for you to be able to assess that, you should be experienced enough to determine/know the outcome for every choice.

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Re: how to become a matured person..
« Reply #24 on: September 04, 2009, 10:13:28 am »
There is physical maturity and there is emotional maturity

emotional maturity comes when you learn to laugh about your mistakes, correct it, and never do it again 
emotional maturity comes when you accept responsibility of your actions and learns that you have to live in a community of men
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