...tell me! don't tell me about it Men's Top 20 Sexual Turn-Offs-xoxo
1. Women who acts as If they don't like sex. #ladies,we may have several reasons why we act like that but know this:
Myth: Men don't respect women who like sex.
Fact : Emotionally healthy men want a partner who enjoy sex.
- give yourself permission to relax and be the sensual woman you truly are .
2. Women who never Initiate Sex.#ladies,same as of Turn-off #1: Go after that man of yours and let him know you're in the mood
for some loving!Make him feel that you want him as much as he wants you & that turns him on.
3. Women who act unfamiliar with a man's body.I was with a woman who touched my penis like it was some ancient artifact.
She was so timid to just hold it or rub it,as if she'd never seen one before---it totally turned me off.
#ladies,
Ok,then don't just grab a man's cock
noted.Men identify so closely with their penis that they interpret how you treat it as how you
feel about them. So,make Friends with your partner's PENIS!
4. A woman who makes a man responsible for her Orgasms.# ladies,Love yourself enough to ask a man for what you want & need.
Guiding a man to stimulate us to 'O' means admitting that we aren't naturally sexual goddesses
who can come at the drop of a hat.
5. Women who are Sexual Traffic Cops in Bed. - this is a woman who has to be in control of the lovemaking.She gives a lot of instructions
and tries to get her partner to fit into her ideas of perfect lovemaking.
#ladies,give your man a chance to get to know your body & learn how to love it the way you
want to be loved.
6. The Sexual Corpse-women who are Unresponsive in bed.#ladies,when you don't respond,either physically or verbally to your man's lovemaking,he feels
like a failure.
7. The Sexual Blabbermouth: Women who talk too much in bed.- it distracts him from experiencing pleasure.
When you talk a lot in bed,your man will feel obligated to talk as well.
8. Women who don't take care of themselves. Ask yourself this question:If you were a man,would you be attracted to you?
You'll never be physically perfect,but you can make yourself aesthetically pleasing to taste,
smell,and touch,since that was sex is all about.
Why should you expect a man to put his mouth on something you think is disgusting? If you don't like the way you smell,or the way you taste,he probably won't either!
9. Women who don't like their own bodies & put themselves down.#ladies,learn to love your body as the beautiful feminine expression that it is.
Stop putting yourself down in front of your partner.
If you don't like something about yourself, Change it.Otherwise don't talk about it.
And when your partner tells you that you look beautiful,say,"thank you!"10. Women who are too concerned with their appearance.#ladies,Men appreciate your ability to enhance your natural beauty,but they also need to know
you can be comfortable Just As You Are .Practice being beautiful from the inside out.
11. Women who don't like receiving oral sex.Myth: Men are selfish in bed,thinking about their own pleasure & not about yours.
Fact : men love giving pleasure to women---it's one of their biggest turn-ons.
12. Women who are sloppy kissers.Why this turns men off? For the same reason it turns women off-It has no
subtlety;
it has no
sensitivity;and it can give you a chapped face!
13. Women who are too serious.Women who are too serious remind men of schoolteachers,mothers,& other scary
female authority figures. #ladies,learn to laugh @ yourself,both in & out of bed.
14. Women who are excessively needy and clingy.weak,wimpy,whiny women turn me off-Mario
#ladies ,the more needy & clingy you appear,the more a man feels responsible to rescue you.
He become,the child,and sexual desire disappears.
15. Stupid,Superficial Women.Men need to feel proud of the woman they love.
Remember #ladies:
Smart is Sexy16. Women who care Only about a man's financial status.Men hate feeling used OR evaluated for the amount of money they have.
#ladies,if you want men to love you for what's inside you & not just what they see
on the outside,you must be willing to do the same for them.
17. Women who use their sexuality to manipulate man.Men aren't stupid,they know when a woman is manipulating them w/her sexuality.
#ladies,If you don't want to be treated like a sex object,don't act like one,and don't
treat men like one.
18. Women who talk about former lovers..................blah!
19. Women who aren't sexually spontaneous.The power of
quickie.He wants you now!#ladies don't take forever in the bathroom.
20. Women who wear UGLY UNDERWEAR.When I undress a woman,and notice that she is wearing ugly underwear
it makes me feel 3things:one,that she must not care that much about herself if she can actually
wear that stuff; tow,that she must not care that much about me to let me see her wearing
with that stuff;and three,she must not care that much about sex,because she couldn't
possibly feel sexy wearing that stuff!
#ladies ,even if you're single,wear underwear that makes you feel sexy.after all,you never
know where or when you will meet the right person.I say,be prepared @ all times!
That's it - Hope you enjoyed reading.
All credit goes to Barbara de Angelis Author of Secrets about Men Every Woman should Know
Many thanks Espiya.net