Topic: 25 Things Men Wish Women Knew visavis 25 Things Women Wish Men Knew

[FerminaDaza]

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Women, well, we think we have it all figured out. Men are simple creatures. They want a couple of things and that's it ... right?

Not so much.

Turns out that men — they have a lot of things they'd like us to know. And they are more than willing to share. (So as not to leave the men out high and dry — you can see -- and agree or disagree to the list of 25 Things Women Wish Men Knew.)


What men really want us to know. Well, most men anyway ...


1) Being a provider for the family (or at least feeling like that is our job) can be hard on us.

2) We get insecure, too.

3) We like romance, but think we're probably not good at it.

4) Yes, we look at other women. But it's nothing more than a look — we promise.

5) We really want our wives to look good — and want them to want to look good.

6) We like it when you stand up for yourself — even if you're wrong.

7) Don't play hard to get — this isn't high school.

8 ) Surprise — we don't like to shop!

9) I'm okay with you telling me to screw up. Once. Don't need my face rubbed in it.

10) No, really, it's you I want. Not the chick up the block or our waitress. YOU.

11) Yeah, we like sex a lot. Mostly because we want to feel like you want us.

12) It's good that I have dude friends. Don't mess with that.

13) We like you better without all that makeup. Really.

14) We like sex more than we like masturbation. But hey, self love is a good thing, too.

15) Believe it or not, we love to hold hands and cuddle, too.

16) We love, love, love to hear you have fun in bed.

17) Did we mention that we love it?

18) We don't want to hear you complain about our families — even if we're doing it.

19) Um. We know when you're faking it.

20) I'm not great at picking out your clothes for you.

21) If you call me at work to see how my day is going, I'm probably not listening to you because — I'm working.

22) We dig girls who can hang with the guys.

23) We're just as nervous as you are the first time in bed.

24) A sense of humor is WAY hot.

25) We're programmed to want to solve your problems, but If you do it instead — WAY hot.


It's your turn Spy men,feel free to share — what else do men want women to know?

 


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Women can be complicated, I know. I'm a woman and I barely understand myself most days. I like to think that adds some allure, but I'm not so sure.

Anyway, I've done my fair share of dating (and mating!) and, with the help of a bunch of girlfriends, have Agreed up with 25 things women want men to know. Feel free to add yours in the comments, since we all know a list of 25 is just the tip of the iceberg!




1) I may love my mother, but I'm scared shitless I'm going to become her.

2) Saying "I love you" during, before or after sex doesn't count.

3) Don't lie to us. We CAN handle the truth. "Strongly Agree!" no chickened out-

4) We love it when you hug us from behind and kiss our neck.

5) When we ask how we look, "Fine" is never an appropriate answer. Fine = ugly, in our head.

6) For a couple of days before my period, I'm irrationally POSITIVE that I'm pregnant.

7) Not calling when you say you will is a cardinal sin.

8 ) Sometimes, we really DO have a headache.

9) We don't mind being kissed on the first date — we usually like it.

10) Okay, we're independent-minded women, but we still like it when you pull out chairs for us.

11) Sometimes, we just need to talk about it.

12) We don't expect you to pay for everything all of the time.

13) We don't always need our problems solved by you.

14) Don't talk smack about our mothers — even if we are.

15) The word "cute" can mean everything from adorable to handsome.

16) Skinny jeans are never okay for you to wear. Ditto leather pants.

17) Porn is hot. Having porn sex? Not hot. Please don't practice what you see in porn. tomo!


18) Don't play stupid games.

19) Bad hygiene is a turn-off. Brush your teeth, manscape, take care of yourself.

20) Never, ever, tell us we're "overreacting."

21) Compliment us. And not by using the word "fine."

22) We like it when you get emotional. Just don't start weeping at Lifetime Movie of the Week previews.

23) Take control in the bedroom.

24) We know you're visual creatures. Just don't be open about ogling that hot waitress.

25) It's the little things that matter. Honestly.



Anything more #ladies - What can you add to this list?



 

[arabton]

26. We also Learn from your point side of view to prevent conflict.

[marshmallow]

i like #4.hehe

[JiangCai]

Women are so greedy, they want all things from one man.
Men are so simple, they want one thing from all women. 

[manicdepp]

Men are easy really, the 25 list up there are what women THINK men want. Speaking as a man, here are my TOP 5 needs, if the get met, I'm a happy fucking camper.


1.)Feed Me
2.)Give me Beer
3.)Give some alone time(friends, hobbies)
4.)Have fun with me
5.)Fuck me


Thats about it.