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kronny20ph

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dunno what to do
« on: April 11, 2007, 05:51:07 pm »
Mga ka spy 1st time ko gumawa ng sarili ko post lagi lang ako reply... im seeking for advice and ive been thinking to much... nabasa ko yung thread ng LOVE... ako  since member ako, i wanna share something that u guys might help in making decission.....

nakilala ko gf ko way back 9 months ago and she wanted me to go home and settle down in pnas ive been in a foreign country for 5 years now and running my own business and working at the same time in a hospital. Its hard for me to give up those thing i build. Na encounter ko na kasi laitin ng tao dahil sa wala ako pera kaya minsan sabi ko sa knya il just get you and wait for a certain period of time. still what she wants yun pa rin ang masusunod.. sa akin kasi dami ko na pinag daanan para marating ito and just for 1 girl i have to give up, i think its not fare.... pag wala na ako dump nya ako as wee all know mga ka spy hirap ng buhay sa pinas.... and knowing that i have something here in this country.... why i have to loose... men ive spending to much money just to call her everyday... and waiting for her papers to be done, its a long process and its just the matter of waiting... but she cant wait.... the options is go home to be with her or dont go home and pursue what ive started without her....


IM CONFUSS ka spy ayoko mawala sya and ayoko din mawala lahat ng pinag hirapan ko......salamat b*; b*; b*; b*; psrulez::
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #1 on: April 11, 2007, 05:58:48 pm »
siguro para sakin dude... the best way is to meet half way!!! ibig ko sabihin is bumisita ka sa kanya sa pinas habang hindi pa naayos yung papers niya. bisita lang. siguro na miss lang niya yung company mo. kaya siya ganun! tapos pag dating ng time na naayos na yung papers niya edi sunduin mo. diba diba??
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kronny20ph

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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #2 on: April 11, 2007, 06:12:05 pm »
salamat bro dagdag ko lang ha... tol ndi ko pa sya nakasama and makita personal sa net and pic ko kita sya.... bro nawalan ako ng gf nung umalis ako ng pnas 5 yrs ago and this time i dont want to happen again and make a stupid decission..... salamat sa payo tol i might go back there.... were hopeless bro... worries ko lang kasi not my job my business i worry kaya hirap me mag decide.... b*; b*; b*;
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #3 on: April 11, 2007, 06:15:59 pm »
kaya nga mag vacation ka lang dun! if hindi mo pa siya nakikita maliban sa net lang edi the best time yun pag bumisita ka. at least pag mag kasama na kayo sa personal edi malalaman mo talaga if this is the right girl for you or not. and i guess kailangan mo din naman mag vacation kasi you working and running a business e. if ever man mag decide ka mag bakasyon sa pinas edi pabor pa sayo lahat yun!!! diba?
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #4 on: April 11, 2007, 07:33:20 pm »
sure k ba bro. na sya ung nakita mo sa pix? baka masyang lng ang oras mo. damay pa ang negosyo mo..xplain to her na hindi madali ang pumunta sa 'pinas dahil may trabaho ka at negosyo na kelangan atupagin..para sa inyung dalawa rin naman yang ginagawa mo dba? kung kau man ang magka-tuluyan.
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #5 on: April 11, 2007, 08:01:02 pm »
stay where you are and dyan ka na lang maghanap ng ibang gf...i dont think she's worth it...you worked hard to get where you are tapos i-give up mo lang sa isang girl na hindi mo pa naman nakikita...it's really not worth it...but if she's willing to wait till you can get her then stay with her...but if not...dump her big time... ;) ;) ;)
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #6 on: April 11, 2007, 08:40:17 pm »
Quote from: manoyihay on April 11, 2007, 07:33:20 pm
sure k ba bro. na sya ung nakita mo sa pix? baka masyang lng ang oras mo. damay pa ang negosyo mo..xplain to her na hindi madali ang pumunta sa 'pinas dahil may trabaho ka at negosyo na kelangan atupagin..para sa inyung dalawa rin naman yang ginagawa mo dba? kung kau man ang magka-tuluyan.

man, he's right. stupidity ung iwanan ang business and job for the sake ng isang girl na naging gf through net. haha. no offense man, but i think she has no right to demand from you. you don't even realy know the true personality of this girl. I agree too with King's reply. meet half way, visit here or stay with her in pins to know a bit of her trueself.

>>this are just my thoughts.
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #7 on: April 11, 2007, 10:36:56 pm »
stay there and be patient, mahirap talaga buhay dito sa pinas, specially tulad mo matagal na nawala dito how will you start all over, tulad ng sabi ng iba bakasyon ka nalang muna dito, or ask her to visit you para din makita nya benefits if maka settle kayo jan, then baka marealize nya na mas mabuti mag antay
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #8 on: April 11, 2007, 11:27:21 pm »
nde mo kasi talaga masasabi kung totoo ung mga pnapafeel niya sayo since you met her only sa net. just like what they said, bisitahin mo lang. mahirap na kasi baka peperhan ka lang niya.(no offense) pero maraming talagang ganyan d2. they would like to meet someone from outside the country. para lang makaalis d2 sa bansa. then pag dating sa labas e iiwan ka ere. so just a spy brotherly reminder to always be careful. same with others na nagreply, nanjan ang magandang buhay.. established ka na jan.. dont waste it. sa isang relationship, nde lang sa isang party ang dapat masunod. give and take dapat. swerte na nga sha sayo e na established ka na.
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #9 on: April 12, 2007, 02:08:13 am »
Bro jan ka na lang. Kung mahal ka niya, sundan ka niya jan. Inaasikaso mo na nga papers niya ang dami niya pa hinihingi. From what I gather, you don't know her that much.  Its too dangerous, not to mention stupid, to risk everything that you have there for someone who you barely know. Madaming babae jan bro pero sa Pilipinas, konti ang opportunity mo na maabot yung mga naabot mo jan. There's a reason why the brain is placed above the heart. Use reason not passion. Just my two cents worth bro.
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #10 on: April 12, 2007, 02:19:57 am »
bro.... kung pupunta ka ba rito sa pinas at pag nkita ka niya in person eh natitiyak mo bang magugustuhan ka rin niya???? ikaw na ang me sabi na hindi pa kayo nag memeet di ba???  halos karamihan ng girls dito eh naninigurado ..... pag alam na nasa abroad ka eh ang tignin nila eh yun na ang sagot sa kahirapan kaya ayun.... grab agad sila.....

make sure mo muna na siya na nga ang makakasama mo habambuhay..... kilalanin mo muna siyang maige.....

or puede ring uwi ka dito tpos bisita ka na rin sa mga relatives mo.... di ba ok rin yun??
at least kung dismayado ka man sa kniya pagdating mo rito eh nkita mo nman mga mahal mo sa buhay...

lahat ng aspeto ng buhay natin tol eh sugal..... siguraduhin mo lang na mananalo ka sa huli.....

advice lang.....   bnana bnana bnana bnana
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #11 on: April 14, 2009, 12:09:56 pm »
update naman dyan anu balita nag meet ba kau nag katuluyan ba kayo ...


san na anu na balita me baby na kau ?  smoking:: smoking::

up lang
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #12 on: April 14, 2009, 02:16:17 pm »
Quote from: chirazpatrick on April 14, 2009, 12:09:56 pm
update naman dyan anu balita nag meet ba kau nag katuluyan ba kayo ...


san na anu na balita me baby na kau ?  smoking:: smoking::

up lang
nya ka! binuhay mo eto after 2 years...panay pa isip ko ng ipapayo.  ;D

o sige na nga, to TS...nagkatuluyan ba kayo?  music::
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #13 on: April 14, 2009, 03:22:21 pm »
Quote from: brucewayne on April 14, 2009, 02:16:17 pm
nya ka! binuhay mo eto after 2 years...panay pa isip ko ng ipapayo.  ;D

o sige na nga, to TS...nagkatuluyan ba kayo?  music::


uu ng ano 2 years na pala toh.. baka nagoyo na :D
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #14 on: April 14, 2009, 04:02:30 pm »
ang heleg heleg maghukey ni patreck. lol.
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #15 on: April 14, 2009, 05:11:09 pm »
Kung mahaL ka nya, dapat willing siya maghintay para sa iyo.. Love is not measured by what you do, it is measured by time.. (shoot, wrong grammar ata ako sorry)
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #16 on: April 14, 2009, 06:02:14 pm »
ponyemas... nagiisip isip na ako ng maiaadvice dito...bandang kalagitnaan :D 2007 pa pala to ;D :D ;D :D wahahahahaha.... bnana



so sige nga smoking:: where's the TS now?! smoking::
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #17 on: April 21, 2009, 06:42:14 pm »
nilalambing ka lang niya at palagi ka niyang kukulitin at kokonsensyahin. tingin ko eh indirect lang to pero syempre she enjoys the drama...
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #18 on: May 01, 2009, 06:06:22 am »
peperahan ka lang niya you dont even know where did she spend all the money that you sent to her?Are you really sure that she use it in processing her papers abroad,I dont think so if you want since I have no job this time I could help you by making some investigation or interogation to trace her and some of her task daily to monitor that she really genuine in her feeling towards yo bE CAREFULL sometimes too much love can put you into dangeroues situation or very dangerous pa ingat na lang
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Re: dunno what to do
« Reply #19 on: May 03, 2009, 05:15:59 pm »
sabi nga ni  (SG) pwedi naman cguro dibah... 


wla lang na intriga lang ako ... ganda kc mga topic dati hndi ko lng na abutan ... so wla ako linabag sa rules kong meron pm nlng lols  ;D ;D ;D
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