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My Rules on Life [actually,His^_~]
« on: July 08, 2011, 05:43:31 pm »

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1. No matter how far down the wrong road you’ve traveled, always turn back.
People hate to lose time “invested” in a task they have miscalculated on.
Time is the most scarce resource of life, yet its taken for granted by those who are too proud
to admit they made a mistake.

2. Comfort is dangerous.
Unless you are of old age and already a scholar of the world, your main focus should be growth.
f you are comfortable with what you are doing, there is a good chance you are not stretching
yourself to the limits of your ability.

3. You learn the most when things go wrong.
It’s hard to learn about yourself if everything goes right: there is no need for introspection or analysis.
But when things go wrong, your body is put through stress and your mind is called up to perform.
You are forced to break things down to come up with solutions, trying things you’ve never tried.
This is the only time you really grow as a person.

4. Always stand up for yourself.
Don’t take bull**** from anyone, whether it be from your boss, lover, or friend.
No one in this world is more important than you are.

5. Know when to move on.
After you’ve hit the point of diminishing return, the energy you put in is much less
than what you get out, whether it be from jobs, relationships, friendships, or hobbies.
Don’t wait until things get stale; by then you’ve waited too long.

6. Respect your health and body by exercising and eating right.
There is no reason to treat yourself like a science experiment,
wondering what will happen to your body after decades of neglect or abuse.

7. Have a project.
Always be working towards a near-term goal. It’s nice to have one large purpose in life,
but pick some smaller goals that you can accomplish is a few years or less: buying a house,
learning a second language, running a marathon, eliminating credit card debt
(through simpler living), traveling the world, etc. The project should be your passion… for a while.

8. Don’t nag, complain, or whine.
No one wants to hear it, and it makes you look like a miserable person.
Negative energy is contagious; bad people and bad events always follow.

9. Be like water, flowing effortlessly through your environment.
A weak person is easily affected by the daily problems of life.
Instead of fighting things that are sure to come up, adapt to them and solve them rationally.
Things won’t always go your way.

10. Treat money as a means to an end.
Money should not be your final goal.
There may be comfort in a pile of cash but there is little lasting happiness.
Instead, treat money as a means to providing you with experiences that have meaning and pleasure.

11. Read.
A million books and a million different perspectives.
Until you can learn from first-hand experience, learn from the experience of others.
Absorb their ideas and see how they fit into your view of the world.

12. Have no expectations.
When you enter situations with expectations, you limit your behavior and thinking.
Having an idealized outcome in your mind beforehand closes yourself off to new experiences.

13. Be very picky when choosing friends.
It’s our friendships that create the spontaneous happiness in our lives, experienced most
with people who match our personality.
By spending time with the right people, we eliminate the drama that comes from more superficial friendships.

14. Rehearse.
It is not a good idea to experiment in critical situations.
Practice when it doesn’t matter so that you are prepared for the real deal.
If you can’t get real-world practice, at least run the situation in your head.




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Re: My Rules on Life [actually,His^_~]
« Reply #1 on: July 08, 2011, 09:06:56 pm »
Nice find miss ferminadaza. This truly speaks well of my perspective in life.  finger4u

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« Reply #2 on: July 08, 2011, 09:09:51 pm »
Nice find miss ferminadaza. This truly speaks well of my perspective in life.  finger4u

thanks for reading  bro :-*

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Re: My Rules on Life [actually,His^_~]
« Reply #3 on: July 08, 2011, 09:11:20 pm »

.. ang gandang Post, salamat po !



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Re: My Rules on Life [actually,His^_~]
« Reply #4 on: July 08, 2011, 09:15:09 pm »
Been reading your posts and replies for some time and I find them highly informative. I also appreciate your naughty but witty remarks. Keep it up sis. Peace.

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« Reply #5 on: July 08, 2011, 09:17:44 pm »
thanks mga bros  toast::

sometimes,it really makes me happy when somebody validates how i think,

how i feel ...thanks to you all  finger4u

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Re: My Rules on Life [actually,His^_~]
« Reply #6 on: July 09, 2011, 03:06:33 am »
kwan, duda ako sa have no expectations. cuz ever since natututunan ko sa silva mind control system na pwede kang mag-expect, nagkakatotoo 70% of the time. parking space, tsiks na naka skirt, speedy transactions.

mga nagsabing expect what you want (i-google nyo for more info):

1. Jose Silva
2. Wayne Dyer
3. David DeAngelo
4. Rhonda Byrne (author, THE SECRET)

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Re: My Rules on Life [actually,His^_~]
« Reply #7 on: July 09, 2011, 05:05:55 am »
kwan, duda ako sa have no expectations. cuz ever since natututunan ko sa silva mind control system na pwede kang mag-expect, nagkakatotoo 70% of the time. parking space, tsiks na naka skirt, speedy transactions.

mga nagsabing expect what you want (i-google nyo for more info):

1. Jose Silva
2. Wayne Dyer
3. David DeAngelo
4. Rhonda Byrne (author, THE SECRET)

 smoking::

@geshpenst: hijo, i've connected with the minds of these people long ago. they are all SCAMS. Sorry, pero yun ang nakikita ko. they will tell you to read some bits of their articles and guess what? they will convince you to buy their books, dvds, cds, and other s**t they have. Look at the bigger picture, what FD's telling us is to have a positive thinking in life, basahin mo mabuti yung article na share nya. it's all about positivism. you have to start into knowing yourself, to find you inner you.

hindi mo sila kailangan.

cheers!
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Re: My Rules on Life [actually,His^_~]
« Reply #8 on: July 09, 2011, 05:11:58 am »
@geshpenst: hijo, i've connected with the minds of these people long ago. they are all SCAMS. Sorry, pero yun ang nakikita ko. they will tell you to read some bits of their articles and guess what? they will convince you to buy their books, dvds, cds, and other s**t they have. Look at the bigger picture, what FD's telling us is to have a positive thinking in life, basahin mo mabuti yung article na share nya. it's all about positivism. you have to start into knowing yourself, to find you inner you.

hindi mo sila kailangan.

cheers!

cheers! mishue sir bugoy  ;D

Negativity never enters a trained mind.



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Re: My Rules on Life [actually,His^_~]
« Reply #9 on: July 09, 2011, 05:24:36 am »
miss you too... dearie. :)

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Re: My Rules on Life [actually,His^_~]
« Reply #10 on: July 15, 2011, 04:57:35 pm »
thanks for sharing ma'am  ::flowers