Why Women Fantasize About "Bad Boys" - 8 Things Your Can Do To Increase Your "Bad Boy" Sex Appeal What millions of women are attracted to is NOT the "bad" in the "bad boy" but the abundance of masculine energy that the "bad boy" oozes. So instead of complaining and insulting women for doing what is "natural" rave up your own masculine energy, it is possible to have the best of both worlds!!
1. Develop self-assured confidence - where you feel secure enough to just be yourself. Bad boys have that deep-seated confidence that comes from "I know who I am, and I like who I am". And many woman find a man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to express it very attractive.
2. Have a backbone – Bad boys are not easily manipulated. This may surprise many men, but women actually find a man who can say "no", "that’s enough", "later", "stop it" or "I want you now" really attractive. It’s not just the fact that he can say these things that makes him attractive it’s how he says them – with sensitivity, affection and with a backbone!
3. Get into the emotions – A bad boy can cry and not feel bad about it. After all he is already "bad" (translated: society doesn’t tell him how to be a man). Most men are afraid to show emotions because emotions are a whole other different world for them. If you do not have a deeper understanding of emotions, you’ll find yourself confusing logic with emotions. For example when she says "I FEEL you are being unfair, you’ll hear "I THINK you are being unfair" because you are so accustomed to "thinking" than feeling. The result is total confusion.
Emotions are real. They happen. You’ll’ never get far with women if you do not know how to touch their primal emotions – never!
4. Offer something that's different – There you have it, bad boys give women that extra something that most men can’t. if you want to keep her hooked, then give her something different - in the way you treat her, the way you look at her, the way you talk to her, the way you touch her, the way you smell, the you kiss, they way you make love, the way you do everything. That’s so sexy!
5. Be unpredictably engaging – Predictable and structured is a cardinal sin when it comes to attracting the opposite gender. Women want someone who injects passion, excitement, pleasure and meaning into their otherwise structured lifestyles.
6. Cultivate some degree of mystery – I’ve said it a zillion times before, mystery is an aphrodisiac. The only people who do not enjoy a certain degree of mystery are people who wake up in the morning, call up the psychic network, and call it a day. The very nature of the universe is that of mystery! And bad boys bring it with attitude!
7. Allow some level of vulnerability – This is where most bad boys beat other men, hands down. Rejection is part of their daily lives and they take it in stride. When they see a woman they are attracted to, they just go for it – and this can be a real turn on for a woman. So don’t be too afraid to approach women because you’ll be rejected or too afraid to love because you’ll be hurt. If she’s worthy it, she is worthy to be pursued!
8. Pursue your own personal growth - There was a time when women thought they’d find any man and change him but many of them are realizing that just doesn’t happen. So now they want a man who has done his own emotional work and self-growth. Be ahead of the game by doing your inner work rather than her telling you "you need to see a professional about that ..."
"Bad boys".....labas na kayo dyan!!!
