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Sex Videos...?
« on: September 06, 2013, 08:51:33 pm »
Huli siguro ako sa balita, pero ngayon ko lang napagtuunan ng pansin ang "sex video scandal" ni Wally Bayola at ng isang EB babe, and even of Chito Miranda and his GF.

Nakakalungkot isipin na ang mga intimate moments ay bigla na lang pagpipiyestahan ng taumbayan. Mas nakakalungkot isipin dahil sa case ni Wally, maikukunsiderang indiscretion ito at pagtataksil sa asawa niya.

Maraming mga artista, even mga pangkaraniwang mamamayan ang nasasangkot sa eskandalo ng mga sex video.

Why would they make videos, or allow themselves to be videoed, while having sex in the first place?

Kung gagawa ka ng indiscretion, why keep a record/evidence of it?

If they did (for personal and kinky reasons whatsoever), why would they keep it in a device that can be easily stolen from them? Kesyo, ninakaw ang cellphone or laptop, etc.

Siguro it's different kung hindi alam ng isa sa kanila na kunukunan sila ng video or pics. Usually mga babae ang apektado at nabibiktima dito.

My hubby and I made a sex video once. Just for fun. But we deleted it immediately. We preferred doing it again than just watching ourselves doing it anyway.

How about you, ladies and gents (specially for the ladies)? Would you make your own sex video, that even if it's for your own viewing pleasure, there's a risk that it will go out to the public?

If you will make your own sex video, where will you keep it?





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Re: Sex Videos...?
« Reply #1 on: September 06, 2013, 10:44:11 pm »
I haven't tried this really.... But who knows one day? :)

Pero I think Ill delete it right away...
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« Reply #2 on: September 06, 2013, 10:47:31 pm »
I keep all our sex videos and pics mostly in the forums  ::lmao


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« Reply #3 on: September 07, 2013, 05:42:35 am »
I still don't it why film it in the first place. (wow, "film" ... full-length? ahaha).
pang-reminisce ba ang reason? :D

Not really in-favor of that idea.
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« Reply #4 on: September 07, 2013, 05:46:44 am »
I still don't get it why they film it in the first place. (wow, "film" ... full-length?  laffman::).
pang-reminisce ba ang reason? :D

Not really in-favor of that idea.

onting correction lang po. :D
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« Reply #5 on: September 07, 2013, 05:49:20 am »
Big no from us..respeto nalang sa relationship namin..

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« Reply #6 on: September 07, 2013, 06:32:22 am »
After you embrace, ERASE.

gaya nga ng sabe may mga dahilan why ppl ,a man & a woman end up recording their sexual act...mainly because it's add to the thrill and a step to kind of sexual fantasy. Even experts suggest that sa mga *couples to re ignite passion or bedroom intimacy.

But sa mga mag 'syuta o sa mga kaganunan lang' na mode,at lalu na babae ka, the best is WAK na lang magkaron ng sex video.

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Usually babae ang apektado at nabibiktima dito

tomo! the media or public would be unfair: the guy would be a hero, the girl is a slut.sadsies.


So, when ko pwede ipost dito yun performance ko? TOINKSSS






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« Reply #7 on: September 07, 2013, 06:33:57 am »
di naman kaya sinadya nilang ilabas yung video para magkaroon din ng pangalan si yosh kagaya ni maricar reyes who knows diba???   ::laffman ::laffman ::laffman

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« Reply #8 on: September 07, 2013, 08:04:35 am »
 ::lmao awkward pag nakita mo sarili mo

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« Reply #9 on: September 07, 2013, 08:46:15 am »
I haven't tried this really.... But who knows one day? :)

Pero I think Ill delete it right away...

It exciting din. Minsan. You get to feel like a porn star  laffman:: Pero yeah, delete din right away. Baka gamitin pa pang-blackmail laban sa iyo

I keep all our sex videos and pics mostly in the forums  ::lmao

Ayos yan! Pero to hide your identity from your boss na puwedeng maging grounds ng termination or whatever, put a black strip to cover your eyes haha!

onting correction lang po. :D

Haha! "Film" Old school! :)

Big no from us..respeto nalang sa relationship namin..

Nice! Siyempre if you want to keep your relationship, mahirap na kapag nag-leak ito. Pero paano kung ka-partner mo ang may gusto?

After you embrace, ERASE.

gaya nga ng sabe may mga dahilan why ppl ,a man & a woman end up recording their sexual act...mainly because it's add to the thrill and a step to kind of sexual fantasy. Even experts suggest that sa mga *couples to re ignite passion or bedroom intimacy.

Well, if sexual fantasies... why not try bondage, sex toys/furniture, other-somes (3-somes, 4-somes, orgies), chocolates, honey, different food and desserts, doing it outside where there's danger that you can get caught, etc. Different strokes for different folks. Pero yeah, must they "film" it?

di naman kaya sinadya nilang ilabas yung video para magkaroon din ng pangalan si yosh kagaya ni maricar reyes who knows diba???   ::laffman ::laffman ::laffman

Puwede rin haha! Pero marami ring mga scandal sa mga video hosting sites na mga estudyante, employees, etc.

::lmao awkward pag nakita mo sarili mo

Awkward nga. I didn't look like a pornstar at all when I tried it haha!  ::lmao

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« Reply #10 on: September 07, 2013, 09:18:11 am »
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Well, if sexual fantasies... why not try bondage, sex toys/furniture, other-somes (3-somes, 4-somes, orgies), chocolates, honey, different food and desserts, doing it outside where there's danger that you can get caught, etc. Different strokes for different folks. Pero yeah, must they "film" it?



According to DR.LAURA BERMAN of Chicago's Berman Center which is dedicated to Women Sexual Health: covered kasi ng sex video ng COUPLES ang exhibitionism at voyeurism which add to their playfulness -its long chapter to discuss.

well,they do encourage also to be extra careful nga at di naman sila porn stars to keep the vid ,so they can quickly delete it after watchin it and they can film again and delete.






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« Reply #11 on: September 07, 2013, 09:41:05 am »
Ayos yan! Pero to hide your identity from your boss na puwedeng maging grounds ng termination or whatever, put a black strip to cover your eyes haha!

Oh well..not only back strips. careful din talaga sa pagkuha, as much as possible wag include ang face..
Haven't you seen our pics and Videos here?  ::lmao

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« Reply #12 on: September 07, 2013, 10:25:36 am »
Oh well..not only back strips. careful din talaga sa pagkuha, as much as possible wag include ang face..
Haven't you seen our pics and Videos here?  ::lmao

Don't tempt me! Haha! Baka magkasalubong tayo somewhere, magpa-autograph ako  ::lmao
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« Reply #13 on: September 07, 2013, 11:41:13 am »
 ::lmao exactly kaya binubura kagad una para di kumalat pangalawa kasi di tayo born na may mala porn star na katawan at itsura

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« Reply #14 on: September 07, 2013, 11:59:57 am »
::lmao pangalawa kasi di tayo born na may mala porn star na katawan at itsura

So true!  ::lmao
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« Reply #15 on: September 07, 2013, 01:15:33 pm »
Don't tempt me! Haha! Baka magkasalubong tayo somewhere, magpa-autograph ako  ::lmao

haha as if naman makikilala mo kami.. eh di sana marami na nagpa autograph samin  ::lmao

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« Reply #16 on: September 07, 2013, 02:05:07 pm »
i bet a lot of guys here wished that they were pornstars even just for a second, other that wanting to be a doctor, soldier or pilot. But cmon, there must be a reason for keeping it. Everyone will feel awkward seeing themselves do that on video. For me, there's really no need to keep those for a long time. I dont think there's a lot of peeps who watch the same BETAMAX, VHS, VCD or DVD day in and out. If the other person was your BF/GF then much the more. But if twas just some lousy/or good f*ck, then the only reason i could think of keeping it is for proof and bragging....
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« Reply #17 on: September 07, 2013, 02:15:05 pm »
for me ah...
why not savor the moment? mag-e-effort pa magvideo.  laffman::

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« Reply #18 on: September 07, 2013, 03:19:31 pm »
i bet a lot of guys here wished that they were pornstars even just for a second, other that wanting to be a doctor, soldier or pilot. But cmon, there must be a reason for keeping it. Everyone will feel awkward seeing themselves do that on video. For me, there's really no need to keep those for a long time. I dont think there's a lot of peeps who watch the same BETAMAX, VHS, VCD or DVD day in and out. If the other person was your BF/GF then much the more. But if twas just some lousy/or good f*ck, then the only reason i could think of keeping it is for proof and bragging....

 ::lmao dream ko dati maging porn star

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« Reply #19 on: September 07, 2013, 04:34:24 pm »
i bet a lot of guys here wished that they were pornstars even just for a second, other that wanting to be a doctor, soldier or pilot. But cmon, there must be a reason for keeping it. Everyone will feel awkward seeing themselves do that on video. For me, there's really no need to keep those for a long time. I dont think there's a lot of peeps who watch the same BETAMAX, VHS, VCD or DVD day in and out. If the other person was your BF/GF then much the more. But if twas just some lousy/or good f*ck, then the only reason i could think of keeping it is for proof and bragging....

For some men,  making a sex video with their girlfriends/wives/partners is equivalent to ranch hands branding cattle: that way, the woman always knows her place and to whom she belongs.
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« Reply #20 on: September 07, 2013, 10:13:21 pm »
But cmon, there must be a reason for keeping it. Everyone will feel awkward seeing themselves do that on video. For me, there's really no need to keep those for a long time. I dont think there's a lot of peeps who watch the same BETAMAX, VHS, VCD or DVD day in and out. If the other person was your BF/GF then much the more. But if twas just some lousy/or good f*ck, then the only reason i could think of keeping it is for proof and bragging....

Woah! Many guys do that, brag about their "conquests"?

For some men,  making a sex video with their girlfriends/wives/partners is equivalent to ranch hands branding cattle: that way, the woman always knows her place and to whom she belongs.

Woah (again)! Now this one is even more ... uhm... creepy? sickening? scary? I mean, for us women. But I think it can also be the same for men.

Thank you for your insights, guys.  You know naman na a lot of women believe that trust, love, emotion, passion, etc and a lot of other mushy stuff, are big deals before sleeping with anyone. Of course it's hurtful to find out na yung mga considered as intimate and passionate (read: giving all churvaness of the girl) moments with this guy is being videoed for ... what? bragging and branding...?

A few months ago, there was a news report of a kolehiyala from a Cebu university whose sex video with her BF leaked on the internet.  Graduating student siya and maaari raw na hindi siya maka-graduate.

Siguro, for whatever purpose ang pag-video, kailangan lang mag-ingat ang parehong parties - mapalalaki o babae. Kung magbi-video during intercourse, pinaka-mainam kung with consent. Kung with consent, dapat ipaka-tago-tago ito kung gustong itago at tiyakin na hindi ito mapapasakamay ng mga  taong maaaring pagkakitaan ito o gagamit laban sa iyo o ikasisira ng pananaw ng ibang tao sa iyo. O kaya, idelete agad ito.

Para sa mga ladies (marami talagang "sex scandal", babae ang featured at gusto pang ipinapakita sa video ang mga mukha nila), mag-ingat rin dapat sa mga magiging partner niyo. Mas lalo na kung casual intercourse lang.

Or kahit pa nga siguro sa mga mot-mot or kung saan man kayo abutin ng pagkadarang eh. Check nyo siguro ang mga mirrors (kung two-way ito) or ang fire alarm or kung may security camera. Kasi, kahit hindi si partner ang nagbi-video, maaaring may iba pang mga tao na nag-iipon ng sex videos para ibenta sa tabi-tabi.

Hindi naman siguro paranoia ito ano? Pag-iingat lang lagi. After all, it's your lives, it's your futures that might get affected.

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« Reply #21 on: September 07, 2013, 10:23:54 pm »
For some men,  making a sex video with their girlfriends/wives/partners is equivalent to ranch hands branding cattle: that way, the woman always knows her place and to whom she belongs.

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« Reply #22 on: September 07, 2013, 10:41:54 pm »
Pwede naman siguro...pero ako, sa floppy disk ko na lang ilalagay. Tignan ko lang kung may mangangahas na magnakaw. laffman::

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« Reply #23 on: September 07, 2013, 11:54:24 pm »
I dont see the point here, that situation is about the two person. It's not about who's right and who's wrong, it's about how both feel in regards to the situation. Both may have different opinions in filming themselves, and either one of them needs to concede to the other's desires. Personally I keep one for myself edit it and blur my ex's face so just in case it spread out, it would always be me. Why im keeping it? coz I always wanted to be the ALPHA! hahahahahaha!

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« Reply #24 on: September 08, 2013, 12:17:57 am »
I dont see the point here, that situation is about the two person. It's not about who's right and who's wrong, it's about how both feel in regards to the situation. Both may have different opinions in filming themselves, and either one of them needs to concede to the other's desires. Personally I keep one for myself edit it and blur my ex's face so just in case it spread out, it would always be me. Why im keeping it? coz I always wanted to be the ALPHA! hahahahahaha!

That's very considerate of you.  :-*

I will assume that you have already blurred my face  laffman:: just kidding. :)
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