But cmon, there must be a reason for keeping it. Everyone will feel awkward seeing themselves do that on video. For me, there's really no need to keep those for a long time. I dont think there's a lot of peeps who watch the same BETAMAX, VHS, VCD or DVD day in and out. If the other person was your BF/GF then much the more. But if twas just some lousy/or good f*ck, then the only reason i could think of keeping it is for proof and bragging....
Woah! Many guys do that, brag about their "conquests"?
For some men, making a sex video with their girlfriends/wives/partners is equivalent to ranch hands branding cattle: that way, the woman always knows her place and to whom she belongs.
Woah (again)! Now this one is even more ... uhm... creepy? sickening? scary? I mean, for us women. But I think it can also be the same for men.
Thank you for your insights, guys. You know naman na a lot of women believe that trust, love, emotion, passion, etc and a lot of other mushy stuff, are big deals before sleeping with anyone. Of course it's hurtful to find out na yung mga considered as intimate and passionate (read: giving all churvaness of the girl) moments with this guy is being videoed for ... what? bragging and branding...?
A few months ago, there was a news report of a kolehiyala from a Cebu university whose sex video with her BF leaked on the internet. Graduating student siya and maaari raw na hindi siya maka-graduate.
Siguro, for whatever purpose ang pag-video, kailangan lang mag-ingat ang parehong parties - mapalalaki o babae. Kung magbi-video during intercourse, pinaka-mainam kung with consent. Kung with consent, dapat ipaka-tago-tago ito kung gustong itago at tiyakin na hindi ito mapapasakamay ng mga taong maaaring pagkakitaan ito o gagamit laban sa iyo o ikasisira ng pananaw ng ibang tao sa iyo. O kaya, idelete agad ito.
Para sa mga ladies (marami talagang "sex scandal", babae ang featured at gusto pang ipinapakita sa video ang mga mukha nila), mag-ingat rin dapat sa mga magiging partner niyo. Mas lalo na kung casual intercourse lang.
Or kahit pa nga siguro sa mga mot-mot or kung saan man kayo abutin ng pagkadarang eh. Check nyo siguro ang mga mirrors (kung two-way ito) or ang fire alarm or kung may security camera. Kasi, kahit hindi si partner ang nagbi-video, maaaring may iba pang mga tao na nag-iipon ng sex videos para ibenta sa tabi-tabi.
Hindi naman siguro paranoia ito ano? Pag-iingat lang lagi. After all, it's your lives, it's your futures that might get affected.