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Women's Top 20 Sexual Turn Offs... eeuuw^
« on: August 15, 2011, 11:32:04 am »
Hey guys,Are you ready  for this   music:: ::pampam  :D

Women's Top 20 Sexual Turn-Offs xoxo

1. Men who are unfamiliar with a woman's body.
He does the wrong things to the wrong places so confidently that you wonder
who taught him this stuff. Does he really think that feels good?

2. Men who mishandle breasts.
If men love breasts so much, why do they grab, squeeze and jiggle them?
We women want to be caressed, stroked, teased, tickled and gently rubbed.

3. Men who have NO  nipple etiquette - Ouch!
Nipples are not radio knobs to be tuned to the right frequency.  ::)
Neither do they dispense beer, cappuccinos or milkshakes if sucked ferociously.
Worst of all are nipple-flickers - men who think they're playing tiddlywinks. Stop it!

4. Men who have sloppy sex.
Sloppy sex Sloppy lovers are messy, insensitive, self-indulgent and revolting.
The irony is they think they're wonderful in the sack - free-flowing, uninhibited, wild.
He's having such a good time he won't notice the look of horror on your face as he writhes
around on top of you.

5. Men who are bad kissers.
Kissing can be so romantic, so magical, so sexy, so... disgusting!
There's only one thing worse than a bad kisser, and that's a man who has sex with you but
doesn't kiss you at all.  :(

6. Men who are too rough.
Men can equate being rough with being passionate.
It's true that women enjoy a firm touch and that a too-gentle caress may barely register,
but we don't like being manhandled.

7. Men who have Poor Hygiene.
Poor hygiene Dirty nails, calloused hands, sweaty armpits, dirty feet, bad breath...
Us girls notice these things. We get turned on in our heads and hearts first.
And that includes our eyes and noses.  :)

8. Men who are obsessed with how a woman looks .
The men who are most obsessed with having their woman look perfect are usually
the ones who look pretty bad themselves. Take a look in the mirror first, boys.  :P

9. Men who judge a woman by her orgasms .
Some men fixate on making sure their partner always orgasms.
The female orgasm is complicated enough without this kind of added pressure.
Men should never ask a woman if she's come yet.
If the question needs to be asked, you know the answer.

10. Men who are pushy about wanting oral sex
If a man wants oral sex it pays him to keep his privates clean and not to force the issue.

Important : # ladies,Don't ever submit to oral sex because a man pressures you to,or
because you think you should.In spite of everything you've just read.
If you don't feel comfortable doing it,DON'T! It's your body,and you should have
control over what happens to you.

11. Men who are obsessed with their performance.
He's writhing around, he's moaning, he's doing all kinds of things to you.
Still, you can't help but notice that he's more interested in what a great job
he's doing than in pleasing you. >:(

12. Men who have sex with the tv on.D
during sex It's rude, it's insensitive and it makes a woman feel secondary to their own sexual experience.
Turn it off. please !

13. Men who need to have sex when they're drunk OR high.
Let's see. Do you want to make love to a man who is incoherent, saying and doing stupid things,
talking too loudly, laughing at nothing, numb to his feelings and about to vomit? euuw!Didn't think so.
Women want to know a man is feeling good because he's making love to them.
Not because he drank a bottle of wine first.

14. Men who don't take time to get a woman properly aroused.
It's a biological fact that women's bodies take longer than men's do to respond.
One of the reasons many women claim they prefer all other parts of lovemaking to intercourse
is that men can be too quick to go there. So the message is, guys, nice and easy does it every time. ;)

15. Men who check out emotionally right after having sex.
Men can think nothing of rolling off and grabbing the remote, or jumping out of bed to get a snack.
If only they knew how grateful we are when they take a minute to hug us, kiss us and
tell us we are wonderful... It's not too much to ask, is it?  :-*


16. Men with Gross personal habits.
Burping, farting, picking teeth, eating like a slob, talking with a mouthful, living in a messy house,
throwing fingernail and toenail cuttings on the floor... It's hard to get romantic about a man like this. >:(

17. Men who are obsessed with their own bodies .
He stares at himself in the mirror incessantly, turning from side to side to get a good view of his hair,
his biceps, his bum. Something about this kind of behavior gives us the creeps.  ???

18. Men who don't like giving women oral sex.
When a man enjoys giving a woman oral sex many of his other shortcomings can be forgiven.  ;D
And the chances are the favor will be readily returned.  ::flowers

19. Men who treat other people badly.
A man who is angry and mad at the world, whose communication involves swearing, insults and
biting sarcasm, isn't attractive to a woman. You think anger is macho, guys? It's not.Really.Not.

20. Men who don't love us.
If women can't feel their man loves them, they won't want him touching them either.
So don't shut down or put up emotional barriers. If you won't let her into your heart,
why should she let you into her body?  :P




How's that ? ...Am just reporting po !  ;D

All credit goes to Barbara De Angelis ,those listed above are an excerpts from her book
'What Women want Men to Know'  ::flowers


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Women’s Top Twenty Sexual Turn–Ons

    Men who make love slowly

    Men who talk to a woman in bed

    Men who are good kissers – all over

    Men who show a woman they love her with their eyes

    Men who take the time to undress a woman slowly

    Men who know how to tease with their touch

    Men who touch a woman’s hair

    Men who love giving a woman oral sex

    Men who let a woman know they want her in and out of bed

    Men who understand how to please the female body

    Men who know how to draw a woman out sexually

    Men who prepare themselves physically for lovemaking

    Men who make a woman feel she is beautiful

    Men who love to give a woman a massage

    Men who caress and hold a woman’s hands during lovemaking

    Men who love to cuddle

    Men who treat their partner as they did when they first met

    Men who make a woman feel she’s the only one for them

    Men who believe being loved by their partner makes everything else worthwhile

    Men who love us

Excerpted from What Women Want Men to Know by Barabara DeAngelis.



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Re: Women's Top 20 Sexual Turn Offs... eeuuw^
« Reply #1 on: August 15, 2011, 02:00:41 pm »
sapul ako sa # 13 ;D

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Re: Women's Top 20 Sexual Turn Offs... eeuuw^
« Reply #2 on: August 15, 2011, 03:13:59 pm »
wow! thanks sa information. helpful to :applause :applause :applause
 

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Re: Women's Top 20 Sexual Turn Offs... eeuuw^
« Reply #3 on: August 15, 2011, 04:45:50 pm »
Counterpart ng Men's Top 20 Sexual Turn Offs!  thanks sa info! finger4u
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« Reply #4 on: August 15, 2011, 06:34:48 pm »
great scott!! tinamaan ako sa 9 and 12..

#9, i didn't know that it was wrong until now..shooot...(gusto lang naman malaman kun nasatisfy ko xa eh)
#12, i did that to prolong my boner dude, but i think it true, it is wrong..

thanks for this..

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Re: Women's Top 20 Sexual Turn Offs... eeuuw^
« Reply #5 on: August 15, 2011, 09:15:57 pm »
guilty of #12 but opposite of #18.. ;D

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« Reply #6 on: August 16, 2011, 12:49:58 am »
natawa ako sa #9, "When a man enjoys giving a woman oral sex many of his other shortcomings can be forgiven." ::lmao ::lmao

Great post mam. The best talaga mga post mo. finger4u finger4u
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Re: Women's Top 20 Sexual Turn Offs... eeuuw^
« Reply #7 on: August 16, 2011, 01:00:30 am »
para sa guys, ito yung mahalaga. thanks mademoiselle!!!  :applause

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Re: Women's Top 20 Sexual Turn Offs... eeuuw^
« Reply #8 on: August 16, 2011, 05:09:51 am »
sapul ako sa 12 at 13.. ngayon ko lang nalaman yun a.. TO ba talaga yun? e kung buhay lang tv pero hindi naman nanonood? tsaka kung parehas naman kayong nakainom?

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Re: Women's Top 20 Sexual Turn Offs... eeuuw^
« Reply #9 on: August 18, 2011, 12:43:18 am »
Check!
Check!
Check!
lahat na.. lol..

lalo na pag dugyutin.. yayks..XD

huway dito may turn ons? sa kabilang thread waley? hehehe.. :P
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« Reply #10 on: August 18, 2011, 01:06:22 am »
Check!
Check!
Check!
lahat na.. lol..

lalo na pag dugyutin.. yayks..XD

huway dito may turn ons? sa kabilang thread waley? hehehe.. :P

ha ha teka lang,kasi naman daw madali naman silang i-turn on-alam mo na  laffman::
later sis,mag post din me about that.
Nga pala,dumating na ba ang prinsipeng hinihintay mo?asan na yun-miele!!  ;D


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Re: Women's Top 20 Sexual Turn Offs... eeuuw^
« Reply #11 on: September 26, 2011, 05:51:06 am »
geh.. although some women enjoys rough sex.
 this one is the most common to all of us women.
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Re: Women's Top 20 Sexual Turn Offs... eeuuw^
« Reply #12 on: September 03, 2013, 05:12:07 am »

Women's Top 20 Sexual Turn-Offs xoxo

1. Men who are unfamiliar with a woman's body.
He does the wrong things to the wrong places so confidently that you wonder
who taught him this stuff. Does he really think that feels good?

2. Men who mishandle breasts.
If men love breasts so much, why do they grab, squeeze and jiggle them?
We women want to be caressed, stroked, teased, tickled and gently rubbed.

3. Men who have NO  nipple etiquette - Ouch!
Nipples are not radio knobs to be tuned to the right frequency.  ::)
Neither do they dispense beer, cappuccinos or milkshakes if sucked ferociously.
Worst of all are nipple-flickers - men who think they're playing tiddlywinks. Stop it!

4. Men who have sloppy sex.
Sloppy sex Sloppy lovers are messy, insensitive, self-indulgent and revolting.
The irony is they think they're wonderful in the sack - free-flowing, uninhibited, wild.
He's having such a good time he won't notice the look of horror on your face as he writhes
around on top of you.

5. Men who are bad kissers.
Kissing can be so romantic, so magical, so sexy, so... disgusting!
There's only one thing worse than a bad kisser, and that's a man who has sex with you but
doesn't kiss you at all.  :(

6. Men who are too rough.
Men can equate being rough with being passionate.
It's true that women enjoy a firm touch and that a too-gentle caress may barely register,
but we don't like being manhandled.

7. Men who have Poor Hygiene.
Poor hygiene Dirty nails, calloused hands, sweaty armpits, dirty feet, bad breath...
Us girls notice these things. We get turned on in our heads and hearts first.
And that includes our eyes and noses.  :)

8. Men who are obsessed with how a woman looks .
The men who are most obsessed with having their woman look perfect are usually
the ones who look pretty bad themselves. Take a look in the mirror first, boys.  :P

9. Men who judge a woman by her orgasms .
Some men fixate on making sure their partner always orgasms.
The female orgasm is complicated enough without this kind of added pressure.
Men should never ask a woman if she's come yet.
If the question needs to be asked, you know the answer.

10. Men who are pushy about wanting oral sex
If a man wants oral sex it pays him to keep his privates clean and not to force the issue.

Important : # ladies,Don't ever submit to oral sex because a man pressures you to,or
because you think you should.In spite of everything you've just read.
If you don't feel comfortable doing it,DON'T! It's your body,and you should have
control over what happens to you.

11. Men who are obsessed with their performance.
He's writhing around, he's moaning, he's doing all kinds of things to you.
Still, you can't help but notice that he's more interested in what a great job
he's doing than in pleasing you. >:(

12. Men who have sex with the tv on.D
during sex It's rude, it's insensitive and it makes a woman feel secondary to their own sexual experience.
Turn it off. please !

13. Men who need to have sex when they're drunk OR high.
Let's see. Do you want to make love to a man who is incoherent, saying and doing stupid things,
talking too loudly, laughing at nothing, numb to his feelings and about to vomit? euuw!Didn't think so.
Women want to know a man is feeling good because he's making love to them.
Not because he drank a bottle of wine first.

14. Men who don't take time to get a woman properly aroused.
It's a biological fact that women's bodies take longer than men's do to respond.
One of the reasons many women claim they prefer all other parts of lovemaking to intercourse
is that men can be too quick to go there. So the message is, guys, nice and easy does it every time. ;)

15. Men who check out emotionally right after having sex.
Men can think nothing of rolling off and grabbing the remote, or jumping out of bed to get a snack.
If only they knew how grateful we are when they take a minute to hug us, kiss us and
tell us we are wonderful... It's not too much to ask, is it?  :-*


16. Men with Gross personal habits.
Burping, farting, picking teeth, eating like a slob, talking with a mouthful, living in a messy house,
throwing fingernail and toenail cuttings on the floor... It's hard to get romantic about a man like this. >:(

17. Men who are obsessed with their own bodies .
He stares at himself in the mirror incessantly, turning from side to side to get a good view of his hair,
his biceps, his bum. Something about this kind of behavior gives us the creeps.  ???

18. Men who don't like giving women oral sex.
When a man enjoys giving a woman oral sex many of his other shortcomings can be forgiven.  ;D
And the chances are the favor will be readily returned.  ::flowers

19. Men who treat other people badly.
A man who is angry and mad at the world, whose communication involves swearing, insults and
biting sarcasm, isn't attractive to a woman. You think anger is macho, guys? It's not.Really.Not.

20. Men who don't love us.
If women can't feel their man loves them, they won't want him touching them either.
So don't shut down or put up emotional barriers. If you won't let her into your heart,
why should she let you into her body?  :P



Just found this. hahaha


This is really interesting! Kahit luma na I paid much attention reading.
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Re: Women's Top 20 Sexual Turn Offs... eeuuw^
« Reply #13 on: September 03, 2013, 05:22:46 am »
For Real!

O/20 ako sa Above!

Galing! Hehehe!

Hahahah! May na alala lang ako! Heheeh

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« Reply #14 on: September 03, 2013, 05:26:13 am »
For Real!

O/20 ako sa Above!

Galing! Hehehe!

Hahahah! May na alala lang ako! Heheeh

Share mo nga sir! hahaha
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« Reply #15 on: September 03, 2013, 05:29:55 am »
Ay nabuhay ulit to! Haha! Sana maging aware lahat ng guys dito.

Yung number 14 sobrang TO. Hahaha!!
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« Reply #16 on: September 03, 2013, 05:31:05 am »
Share mo nga sir! hahaha

Hahaha wag na! Hehehe! Mahirap na maging part nang F4. Hhaha

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« Reply #17 on: September 03, 2013, 05:35:05 am »
Hahaha wag na! Hehehe! Mahirap na maging part nang F4. Hhaha

Hahaha! Di yan!  ::lmao Kwento dali!

Ay nabuhay ulit to! Haha! Sana maging aware lahat ng guys dito.

Yung number 14 sobrang TO. Hahaha!!


TO ang number 10 saken.  ::lmao
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« Reply #18 on: September 03, 2013, 05:39:15 am »
Hahaha! Di yan!  ::lmao Kwento dali!


TO ang number 10 saken.  ::lmao





Kay current hunny bunch ba yan or in general? :D   

mine are 14 and 15. kakainis! :(
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« Reply #19 on: September 03, 2013, 05:43:25 am »

Kay current hunny bunch ba yan or in general? :D   

mine are 14 and 15. kakainis! :(


Oh sorry! That's in general. Hahaha

It's almost like rape kasi, I think.


Is that 14 and 15 a current problem? If you don't mind me asking.
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« Reply #20 on: September 03, 2013, 05:48:41 am »

Oh sorry! That's in general. Hahaha

It's almost like rape kasi, I think.


Is that 14 and 15 a current problem? If you don't mind me asking.


Oh I see.. Oo nga. Salamat naman hindi pa ako nakaka encounter ng ganun na guy. Hahaha!


Oo, problema nga yun. Haha! Minsan na nga lang ganun pa. waley lol
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« Reply #21 on: September 03, 2013, 06:44:28 am »

Oh I see.. Oo nga. Salamat naman hindi pa ako nakaka encounter ng ganun na guy. Hahaha!


Oo, problema nga yun. Haha! Minsan na nga lang ganun pa. waley lol


Amp hahaha you should prolly tell your lovie about it.
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