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What makes you a man?
« on: August 01, 2014, 07:07:03 am »
BuzzFeed has released a new video in which several men were asked, “What makes a man?”

They come from different backgrounds and were brought up with different expectations of what it means to be a man.

They have different ideas of what masculinity is. They know that people will judge them by different standards.




[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R_MlHvif0tk&sns=em[/youtube]






What do you think a man should be? (ladies,gentlemen)

Comments welcome.Keep calm.Keep it civil.No balderdash. :D












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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #1 on: August 01, 2014, 08:32:45 am »
this:

Night gathers, and now my watch begins. It shall not end until my death. I shall take no (other) wife, hold no lands, father no (other)children. I shall wear no crowns and win no glory. I shall live and die at my post(husband). I am the sword in the darkness. I am the watcher on the walls. I am the fire that burns against the cold, the light that brings the dawn, the horn that wakes the sleepers, the shield that guards the realms of men. I pledge my life and honor to the Night's Watch, for this night and all the nights to come.

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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #2 on: August 01, 2014, 10:04:49 am »
this:

Night gathers, and now my watch begins. It shall not end until my death. I shall take no (other) wife, hold no lands, father no (other)children. I shall wear no crowns and win no glory. I shall live and die at my post(husband). I am the sword in the darkness. I am the watcher on the walls. I am the fire that burns against the cold, the light that brings the dawn, the horn that wakes the sleepers, the shield that guards the realms of men. I pledge my life and honor to the Night's Watch, for this night and all the nights to come.


that:




Mr.Night Watcher , I thought you know nothing baby?  ;D toinksss!


@Topic: I'm not a man but I guess what makes you a man

A: Be reliable (Do what you say)
B. Someone who gets that ''Feminine energy needs attention ALL THE TIME. HAHA

to be continued...








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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #3 on: August 01, 2014, 10:16:39 am »

Mr.Night Watcher , I thought you know nothing baby?  ;D toinksss!


I know a lot of things Milady. :) ::pampam

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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #4 on: August 02, 2014, 03:30:55 am »
I know a lot of things Milady. :) ::pampam

hmm ayaw ni Kelly Clarkson nyan "Mr.Know it all"  :D


and as for my dear dear friend who send me this message:






 ;D totally (you should had said it here -na-finger pa kita) HAHA joke!

Don't tell me you are a "lothario"?  :P


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THE OPPOSITE OF A REAL MAN IS A BOY. 






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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #5 on: September 08, 2014, 11:19:05 am »
Pretty simple:

"what a woman can't do, shall be filled by a man".. just the opposite of "what makes you a woman?"

at saying says "a boy blinds you from the choice so you would settle for the option but a man opens your eyes to the option and make you realize that he is the choice."

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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #6 on: September 08, 2014, 08:11:36 pm »
Gentleness is the key.

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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #7 on: September 09, 2014, 11:26:39 am »
thanks for sharing vtearer & jpesa  8)


Pretty simple:

"what a woman can't do, shall be filled by a man".. just the opposite of "what makes you a woman?"

aha...that is why it's still good to be in a relationship coz 'you don't have to do it alone' :D

at saying says "a boy blinds you from the choice so you would settle for the option but a man opens your eyes to the option and make you realize that he is the choice."


Nice. I like the way you said it "choice" (choice is powerful) there's no way to control anyone *to make* them do what you want...they have to *choose*

Then as Steve Harvey put it:Boys shack. Men build homes. ;D



Gentleness is the key.

This.

Calm ,collected, gracious or the nice guy with the *balls  ;D


OK. Onto-

To any Mars & Venus that would be interested: The latest study about Men & Women aren't wired differently. It seems like we have a lot in common than we think (possibly,Men are from Venus too)  :D



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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #8 on: September 09, 2014, 09:15:21 pm »
What man is a man who does not make the world better? ( applies to women din i guess ).

pero in my opinion, ang tunay na lalake ay nageextra rice at saka hindi pinapabayaan ang kanyang mga responsibilidad sa buhay at may isang salita! lol.

may mga nameet na kasi akong walang isang salita. sa personal at sa online. dito rin sa espiya. yung tipong kunyari e magbibitaw ng salita na kapag mali sya ay may gagawin syang bagay, pero nung napag alamang mali sya ay hindi nya tinupad ang kanyang mga sinabi.

lol. araguy!




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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #9 on: September 10, 2014, 04:05:42 am »
@gardov, mag name drop na,who are they?  TOINKSSS  ;D

anyha,Men reveal themselves in their ACTIONS.Their words don't mean a thing.Talk is cheap/whatever it take s to get laid kinda talk  :D

Ladies, remember you don't have to do anything. Just see what he *does. If he doesn't do anything,you have your answer (that's the best BS radar tool Or the easiest way to eliminate jerks)






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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #10 on: January 01, 2015, 11:13:24 pm »
possible lang maging pure perfect man ka kung may perfect female din.

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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #11 on: January 02, 2015, 12:33:07 am »
words into action... regardless if its good or bad

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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #12 on: January 03, 2015, 04:42:32 am »
possible lang maging pure perfect man ka kung may perfect female din.

sabe ng TrueFaith melon  ;D joke!



The guy who's smart...Isn't always funny.

The guy who's funny...Isn't always successful.

The guy who's successful...Isn't always emotionally available.

The guy who's exciting...Isn't always consistent.

The guy who's consistent...Isn't always challenging.

And so on...who's perfect anyways!


Find someone who complement you instead. You don't need a clone or marry someone exactly like you, that would be super boring. In a good working relationship we need *polarization/presence of opposite energies.










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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #13 on: January 03, 2015, 12:41:19 pm »
What makes a man is his ability to establish his own values and live with them. Normally, you don't suddenly become a man at a certain age and it takes more than a pair of balls.

Anyone can tell he is a man when he thinks he is and said so. Here are some points which in my own opinion I consider what really makes a man.

1. honest to accept defeat when failure comes

2. mature and responsible to understand what his role

3. speaks with purpose and knowing that action speaks louder than words

4. handles life with virtue even if success is out of reach

5. respect others even they don't respect him

6. love unconditionally even if it means letting go

In the end, you're the man... bnana bnana bnana
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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #14 on: January 03, 2015, 01:07:53 pm »
Grow a penis.

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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #15 on: January 05, 2015, 04:04:15 am »
Grow a penis.

Nice ;D

But then don't be a dick...Others have more dicks on their personalities than their own dicks   ;D


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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #16 on: January 05, 2015, 05:55:14 am »
you have to make the right decisions, provide your loved ones with safety and security and other aspects of life(social, financial, spiritual

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Re: What makes you a man?
« Reply #17 on: January 05, 2015, 01:30:24 pm »
One can--as a character in a sci-fi novel put it--talk blarney like an angel and act all flash but it's this motto from a B-movie that really tells the men from the boys (and the women from the girls, one might say):

Custodite fideliter quod quae credita est fideliter ad vos.