Topic: A twisted attempt to get her bf back (don't do this)

[FerminaDaza]

http://blog.al.com/spotnews/2013/05/woman_found_in_pleasant_grove_2.html

Being dumped sucks. No one likes it. And yet we all experience it at least once. When it does happen, it's all up to us how we handle it. Some people go a little bonkers and begin stalking the dumper -- as if that will help matters. Others take it even further. Take Kayla Earl. The beautiful 19-year-old brunette says she's a model, and she's auditioning for America's Next Top Model. But beauty doesn't always mean you've got your head on straight -- and apparently Kayla doesn't. She was found by a sheriff's deputy passed out in a graveyard with a Walmart bag over her head. In the hospital, she said that a man had attacked her as she visited the grave of a friend. But it turns out the truth was even more sordid.

After cops reviewed cellphone records, watched surveillance video, and poked holes in Kayla's story -- she reportedly confessed the truth. She had made the whole thing up.

To get her ex-boyfriend back.

Said a detective on the case:

She even said she put the bag on her head to make it look like someone tried to suffocate her. She is going through some personal problems. Between that and wanting attention, it turns out none of this happened.






hayst...Am not gonna poke fun  to Kayla, obviously she's realllly having a hard time dealing with the pain of getting dumped...BUT...  If a man gets back together with you out of sympathy, how are you supposed to hang on to him? By creating episodes of victimhood all of the time? Many people use the victim card by doing everything from threatening suicide to faking injuries or attacks  to keep people bound to them through sympathy and guilt. Or merely for the attention .

It's not fair. It's not right. That's manipulation. And WHY  would you want to be with someone who is not with you freely, but out of some sense of obligation? That will only last for so long? And it's not real love. It's pity.

Anyhoo, hope Kayla, will  be able to welcome grieve and eventually accept. ACCEPTANCE IS MEDICINE. That way she will take her power back 


Remember -- if you need to make up stories, lie, manipulate, or use threats, then that is not the relationship for you. That is not what relationships should be built on.

btw, i guess it's much safer to indulge yourself for a few days post dumped , 
with ice cream, chocolates, pizzas, vodka or jose cuervo na lang!TOINKSSS

[kenji_kulet]

  I'am available i can comfort her needs

[Skrappy <3]

I can say this girl has some Psych Problems.

[warak2006]

one word.

run.

[hanrey]

a psycho girl like her, could kill somebody like you. better run..

[lady_spyngtondo]

(sigh) (sigh) (sigh) hirap lang siguro sya mabuhay ulit after da break up... im not saying tama pero cguro gumuho talaga mundo nya...

[BaTistAbomB]

oh shoot  girl's mentally ill
 

[Type_One]

i like girls with issues. Haha. Joke. I think it was vj Sid who said this

[geshpenst]

yan ang tinatawag na YANDERE. kaso hindi tayo sa anime world! 

[CHILO20]

yandere ba edi i netorare na yan hahaha
kawawang babae sayang naman

[theawesomepinky]

sad.. 

maybe she ws given so much affection ng ex nya nung sila pa.. and now he dumped her, di kinaya ni girl kase ang kinasanayan nya yung kung ano yung dati yung ex nya.. i mean anjan when she needed him... pero tama kayo, acceptance lang siguro... i can feel her pero i wont do that ))