Author Topic: I need Support... (Read 5649 times)

hindichinese · « **on:** March 02, 2006, 03:43:39 am »

Ako po ay anak sa pagkadalaga ng nanay ko...
Ung tatay ko daw po kasi ay sobrang pogi kaya mga chix malapit sa kanya kaya inipit daw cya nung napangasawa niya ngaun....

Now Brgy. Captain na cya ngaun sa aming lugar ung mga anak niya nakapag skul sa private schools,pero ako hindi kasi naghihirap kami ng nanay ko...

San po ba ako makahingi ng tulong tungkol sa sustento???

Please help.....

speedaddict · « **Reply #1 on:** March 02, 2006, 04:28:05 am »

kung kinikilala ka ng father mo, pwede mo siyang kausapin para matulungan lalo na reasonable naman ang hihilingin mo sa kanya, like sa pagaaral mo, or humingi ka ng advise sa mga nakakaintindi ng ganyang problema. alam ko may karapatan ka na sustentohan ka ayon sa batas natin.

ugat · « **Reply #2 on:** March 02, 2006, 06:16:28 am »

hindichinese, some NGO offers scholarship programs just make sure an assurance na you can finish your studies dude, abt naman sa father mo he's you biological father dude you have the right to ask finacial support dont you na ang "illegitimate child" ang mas maraming rights according sa Law iyun kung sa tingin mo illegitimate child ka

the best thing is study HARD! success is there if You Will!

good luck!

ZR · « **Reply #3 on:** March 02, 2006, 10:12:12 am »

tama si sir ugat hindichinese... biological father mo sya..may right ka nahihingi ng tulng sa kanya o kaya ehhh karapatan nya supurtahan ang mga anak nya kahit kanino mang babae to galing... express your right pre...

King CARLOS I · « **Reply #4 on:** March 02, 2006, 12:51:01 pm »

n kng kaw ang panganay na anak nya....u rily hav the right to ask for it....if he rily is a respnsible father, he has to giv support to you n ur mom....

sa studies oonga, tama cla, apply ka for scolarship, ay pagbutihen mo, para pag umangat kyo, mkita ng tatay mo kng sino ang pamilyang kinalimutan nya.....

supotahan ka namin....

SpyTamers · « **Reply #5 on:** March 02, 2006, 09:26:26 pm »

Don't hesitate to ask help from your father bro. Lalo pa't para sa pag-aaral mo yong hingin mo sa kanya and I am sure hindi ka niya bibiguin... kasi blood is thicker than water. Lagi mo yan tandaan bro. Nag-aantay lang siguro yong ama mo ng isang approach from you....

hindichinese · « **Reply #6 on:** March 02, 2006, 11:30:59 pm »

TY po sa lahat ng suporta niyo mg bro...

hayaan niyo tutuparin ko lahat sinabi niyo....

pero next week kasi naka sched na ung processing ng papers ko para sa sustento ng tatay ko para sakin humingi na ako ng tulong dun sa mga tatay ng kabarkada ko...

kasi naman mabait tayo kung minsan kaya natutulongan din ng iba.... ^_^

TY parin sa inyo.....

TigerClaw · « **Reply #7 on:** March 03, 2006, 01:10:58 am »

Agree ako sa mga cnabi nila kaibigan...wag kang mtakot lumpit sa ama mo para sa pag-aaral mo...dhil may karapatan ka para sa sustento nia..

mark walliceberg · « **Reply #8 on:** March 03, 2006, 02:24:44 am »

bro, under the law even illegitimate children have the right to support from their parents. In your case, if you were concieved and born during the time when your parents have no legal impediment to marry (meaning both of them were still single at that time).

Than you still are a legitimate child of your father. What is important is for you and your mother to establish and provide proof of filliation (proof that indeed he is your father, which may either come in the form of pictures, letters or documents like your baptismal records).

You than can file in the appropriate courts a case for support!

Anyway, pm mo na lang me bro baka me ma-iitulong tayo diyan(",)

bodieph · « **Reply #9 on:** March 03, 2006, 08:47:48 am »

ayaw ko na magdiscuss ng law provisions dito

eto lang masasabi ko, exert all efforts to resolve the conflict extra judicially first before you go to court. going to court more often than not, causes more conflict (i will cite the popular case of manny pacquiao)

ewol · « **Reply #10 on:** March 03, 2006, 08:59:34 am »

kapatid,may karapatan kang humingi ng sustento sa tatay mo nasa FAMILY CODE daw yan...

King CARLOS I · « **Reply #11 on:** March 03, 2006, 12:13:40 pm »

yep....khet anu man sbhen ng law....tatay mo paren sha n anak ka nya....

jaguar-m23 · « **Reply #12 on:** March 06, 2006, 09:54:15 pm »

go for it bro.....PS is here for you....kung ano man kalalabasan nyan...cguradong nandito lng kami at mga posts na cguradong magpapasaya sayo herhehe

Warhog · « **Reply #13 on:** March 11, 2006, 06:50:44 am »

Every child has the right to ask for support from his or her parents especially basic necessities like good education, food and shelter. You have all the right to approach your father and ask for financial support for your education since it is responsibility as your father, even though he has his own family now.

And I agree with boss Bod that you settle this matter out of court because it may complicate the matter and besides it would take time and cost you money.

Good luck to you and study hard!!!

mayumi · « **Reply #14 on:** March 12, 2006, 03:50:49 am »

I'm also a mother. Yung father ng baby ko walang pakialam sa akin but it's ok since I'm already married. Hindi kami humihingi ng sustento. But in your case, you have the right to do so. But then again, kelangan the father should accept you as his own child. Kung di nya kayang gawin yun, mas lalo namang mahirap if you file a case against him $:-\$

I know it's hard to do but you have to work for your own good too. Pakita mo sa tatay mo na kaya nyong mabuhay without his help. Maraming pwedeng pasukan na trabaho dyan..yung malinis at mapagmamalaki mo. I'm sure makakaipon ka if you really have the determination for it

lord_CyRuS · « **Reply #15 on:** March 12, 2006, 10:06:43 pm »

hindi chinese------ we support you..

kinikilala ka ba ng biological tatay mo?
kung hindi... ipag-laban mo mo karapatan mo...
marami paran para makumbinsi mo sya na sya biological tatay mo...
kahit na pa mag DNA testing pa kayo para pananagutan nya paglabas mo sa mundong ito...
di ba nya alam na wala kang kasalanan... di mo ginustong lumabas...
dapat magpakalalaki sya...
ahhh, tubig tubig... na ca carried away ako sa emosyon ko.

idle_wild · « **Reply #16 on:** March 17, 2006, 06:59:37 am »

it best to talk to your father first.. and let him know how you are and your mom. maybe you'd get sympathy. don't put the maybe-you-don't-love-me line yet when he's hesitant. let him understand what you want and it's not mainly luho. it's necessity. we all want to live right? and if this doesn't work, maybe you should consult a professional..

lord_CyRuS · « **Reply #17 on:** March 28, 2006, 11:40:14 pm »

Quote from: idle_wild on March 17, 2006, 06:59:37 am

it best to talk to your father first.. and let him know how you are and your mom. maybe you'd get sympathy. don't put the maybe-you-don't-love-me line yet when he's hesitant. let him understand what you want and it's not mainly luho. it's necessity. we all want to live right? and if this doesn't work, maybe you should consult a professional..

ang galing mo idle_wild.......
napalamig mo ako...

?SPyDeRMaN?? · « **Reply #18 on:** May 20, 2006, 03:06:12 pm »

talk to ur dad personally ... kung di ka nya ikakaila, u have the right to ask the sustento that u need ...
kung ikakaila ka nya .. lapit ka sa mga Non-Gov Org .. dami gustong tumulong nyan sayo ..
gudluck sayo ...

"Phoenix" · « **Reply #19 on:** June 07, 2006, 01:31:49 am »

According to law......you the right for it!!! The first thing to do is......makipag-usap ka ng maayos sa father mo. And then, explain your side!!! And if refuse to help you....and thats the time to ask help for the government.

greenjoseph · « **Reply #20 on:** June 12, 2006, 12:48:04 am »

Tama, its good to prove to him na kaya mong mabuhay without his financial support pero kung gusto mo talaga ng sustento nya, go ahead, make the first move, its your right.

f1stbench · « **Reply #21 on:** August 19, 2006, 05:43:10 am »

Quote from: phoenix on June 07, 2006, 01:31:49 am

According to law......you the right for it!!! The first thing to do is......makipag-usap ka ng maayos sa father mo. And then, explain your side!!! And if refuse to help you....and thats the time to ask help for the government.

ok, good...go with the context my friend...cheers!

critchfield99 · « **Reply #22 on:** December 05, 2006, 01:06:10 pm »

Fight for your right....

s3xy_LadY · « **Reply #23 on:** December 08, 2006, 05:15:57 am »

if you have a legal paper to proof that he is really your father and he signed at the back of your birth certificate that he acknowledged you as his daughter,(if their not married) why not go to a legal counsel (attorney),bring you birth certificate and ask your legality.. i guess they will advice to file an affidavit and stated that you need a financial support from your father signed by you, your mom and the attorney...
goodluck!

excon · « **Reply #24 on:** December 08, 2006, 04:28:47 pm »

pareho lang tayo.. my real father left us when i was about to come out (yun sabi nung nanay ko) then pareho rin tayong mahirap.. ang pinagkaiba lang natin e marunong yung nanay kong bumangon at itinaguyod nya ako.. and now ako na ang bumubuhay sa kanya.. bukod kasi sa paghihirap nya, sinabayan ko naman iyon ng sipag at syempre inayos ko yung pag-aaral ko, pumasok ako sa mga work like, delivery boy, counter sa store, spotter sa bilyaran, waiter, janitor, at mejo marami pa... pero di ko naman masasabi na successful ako ngayon.. meron lang akong magandang trabaho at regular na ako dito..

di mo na kailangan manghingi sa tatay mo.. magsikap ka at dagdagan mo ng konting sikap.. pag ok na kayo ng nanay mo.. lapitan mo na lang yung tatay mo para sabihin na "tatay, salamat po.. kung hindi nyo kami iniwan, hindi ako matututo" ganun lang.. buti ka nga malapit lang sayo tatay mo atleast madali mo yon masasabi.. ako di ko na sya nakita eversince..

kaya mo yan.. goodluck sa life mo!

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