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icecoldchiq

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How Do You Cope?
« on: September 13, 2013, 05:46:00 pm »
I hate that I do this here, but there's nowhere else I could go. I hate to say it here but I have to admit that I am drowning in sorrow and I need comfort.

He was that man that I heard all about yet I knew so little. He was this one person I always admired for his iron will and principles. I loved him as a kid and more as I grew up, whether he was here or abroad. But now, it feels like it doesn't matter. Like nothing does anymore. At first, I am like in this trance not knowing if it's really happening, but the reality smacked me head on when I kissed my grandpa's cold forehead goodbye. I cannot describe how bad I feel right now...

How do you cope with this much pain and sadness and loss?
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Re: How Do You Cope?
« Reply #1 on: September 13, 2013, 10:33:07 pm »
i guess by accepting that's how life is. dyan din naman punta nating lahat. nauna lang si lolo mo. my deepest condolonces sis. 
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Re: How Do You Cope?
« Reply #2 on: September 14, 2013, 12:27:07 am »
condolence sis ICC   ::flowers

You will cope.It will happen eventually. Moving pass GRIEF is a *process,that the only way out is THROUGH.PERMIT /Allow yourself to FEEL a certain way rather than masking or avoiding the pain...Again it's a process, UNDERSTAND that it will need TIME til the moment that you remember your LOLO with a sweet smile on your face- that's the best stage of grief Acceptance. (Any form of emotional pain signals that we are still holding on to what is no longer there. So take courage & willed yourself to reach acceptance stage)

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Re: How Do You Cope?
« Reply #3 on: September 14, 2013, 12:38:41 am »
condolence... everything will be fine. :(


just read:
http://espiya.net/forum/index.php/topic,158254.0.html

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Re: How Do You Cope?
« Reply #4 on: September 14, 2013, 02:18:00 am »
condolence miss ICC  ::flowers
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Re: How Do You Cope?
« Reply #5 on: September 14, 2013, 09:14:50 pm »
Condolence po.  ::flowers
I was at the same situation before and as I was looking down to him and told him what my mom wanted me to tell him, he looked like his face was at peace.  No more suffering and you're strong ICC. You'll get through this. Just remember that he's in the safe place now.
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Re: How Do You Cope?
« Reply #6 on: September 14, 2013, 10:26:25 pm »
Condolence sis...  ::flowers
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Re: How Do You Cope?
« Reply #7 on: September 19, 2013, 05:37:45 pm »
Thanks every one. Nailibing na namin si lolo. Salamat po.
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Re: How Do You Cope?
« Reply #8 on: September 21, 2013, 08:49:51 am »
Condolence Ms Icecold. :(
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