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deskjet40

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insecure at ingitero. lack of self confidence.
« on: July 11, 2011, 07:00:51 pm »
paano ko ba maaalis yung mga insecurities ko at ang pagiging mainggitin ko?
paano ko iboboost ang self confidence ko?

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Re: insecure at ingitero. lack of self confidence.
« Reply #1 on: July 11, 2011, 07:04:18 pm »
magkaroon ng social life ;)

lalawak pangunawa mo at magboboost self confidence mo

alam mo hindi naman masama mainggit eh kaso depende kung paano mo siya gagamitin, it's either gamitin mo sarili mo para umangat ka or sisiraan mo yung taong kinaiingitan mo (crab mentality)

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Re: insecure at ingitero. lack of self confidence.
« Reply #2 on: July 11, 2011, 07:53:52 pm »
embrace your insecurities. love what you have and be proud of it.

never compare yourself to others.

turn your envy to a goal. for example, one has a car and you don't. make it achievable for you, in time you'll find yourself working very hard and confident reaching your target.
It's not a new world I found. It's a new Perspective.

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Re: insecure at ingitero. lack of self confidence.
« Reply #3 on: July 11, 2011, 08:57:11 pm »
sabe nga po nila Self-worth cannot be verified by others ,

If you wait for others  to accept you it will be Other-worth.

First YOU have to accept & love yourself for who you are.

YOU need to start having a higher opinion of yourself and not put yourself down all the time.

The most important thing is for YOU to start feeling good inside about the person YOU are.

And I believe once YOU accept and give value most to yourself,you will manage your insecurities.

And be kind to yourself,you know, most of us here have been there at one time.

(You pull confidence from yourself and your experiences too.)

I personally boost my Confidence by FEEEEELLLIIINNNGGG GOOD INSIDE!

Knowing that I'm the ONLY person with the most power to affect my life~Self-love.


And I believe you CAN do that too deskjet  ;)

Give all your best for what you've got and the BEST will happen to YOU-guaranteed.

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