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Letting Go
« on: October 18, 2010, 09:51:44 am »
this is one of the nicest articles ive read. naitago ko ito for 8 years. and now i think i have to share it to my spymates. maybe nabasa nyo na to dati, but oh well. here goes

Letting go...

It's over. You're gone.
 
Why do we have to part while the love is still there?
Why  do we have to experience life's misery?
Why do I hav to shed tears when somebody bids goodbye?
Why do we have beginnings, only to meet end?
Why do we tend to fall for someone, only to lose and get hurt in the long run?

There are these questions left unanswered, words left unsaid, letters left unread, poems left undone, songs left unsung, love left unexpressed and promises left unfulfilled.

 In life, one of the craziest things to do is to bid goodbye and let go. It is as hard as breaking your most precious jewelry because you'll never know when will you be able to pick up the pieces again if it is still worth it to put up together. More often than not, they who go feel not the pain of parting. It is they who stay behind that suffers, because they are left with memories of a love that was once meant to be.
Unfair as it may seem, but that's how love goes. Follow its twists and turns, ride with its tricky world, but journey with your destiny.

That's the scenario, the bitter sweet risk of falling in love.
After all nothing is steadfast, but change.
We might not notice that as time passes by,
 end will eventually come without us knowing when or how or without us knowing why...
And little by little we forget; not because we want to, but we have to.
I dont have any idea if "Letting go" is worth calling an art...
But at any rate... it entails special skills glittered with a considerable space and time.
as we all know,

time heals all wounds, but it takes a little perseverance and acceptance.

Not all dreams come true. Not all wishes are forever granted. Not all stories end with
"...and they lived happily ever after."
Pain begets pain. Tears are drops of heaven; they are born to slide on your cheeks and die on your lips. It's the time when you realize that love didn't exist after all.
It's the time when you'll face one tomorrow, that all you felt within the shared love was only a deeper affection of friendship.
It's a new beginning. Sometimes we have to part because of circumstances beyond our control. We have to bear the consequences if it would mean happiness to others. We have to cry temporarily to let go of the heartaches that are kept deep inside. Every beginning has it's end like every dawn has it's dusk. It's something we cant control, something we have to live up.
It's over. You're gone. But life has to move on. Goodbye doesn't always mean forever.
There's still a remaining piece-FRIENDSHIP.

There will always be a place and time where-
 questions will be answered, words will be spoken, letters will be interpreted, poems will be uttered, somgs will be sung in harmony, love will be expressed in solitude and promises be fulfilled.
Give a man a fish and he'll be able to live for a day. Teach a man how to fish and he'll become a fisherman.

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Re: Letting Go
« Reply #1 on: October 18, 2010, 10:16:56 am »


Nainspire ako sa message ... naalala ko tuloy past ko .. amf... :(  finger4u
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Re: Letting Go
« Reply #2 on: October 18, 2010, 10:22:11 am »

Nainspire ako sa message ... naalala ko tuloy past ko .. amf... :(  finger4u

aww thanks... ganyan talaga. sabi nga "we forget not because we want to, but we have to"

this one's actually my eye opener to a more mature look into love and separation
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Re: Letting Go
« Reply #3 on: October 18, 2010, 10:27:37 am »
Nice & inspiring...

Resistance is Futile!

Change is inevitable,so Stop resisting & surrender to life's flow...

In fact,often it is what makes us most uncomfortable that sereves us the most.(they come with being alive.)

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Re: Letting Go
« Reply #4 on: October 30, 2010, 06:33:37 am »
ang galing  toast:: toast:: toast::
You are stronger than you seem, smarter than you think...

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Re: Letting Go
« Reply #5 on: October 30, 2010, 12:41:01 pm »
sir pahiram naman nito..  ;D

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Re: Letting Go
« Reply #6 on: December 04, 2010, 05:44:54 am »
nice post! toast::

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Re: Letting Go
« Reply #7 on: December 04, 2010, 08:59:11 am »
ouch.... Sapul sir!

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Re: Letting Go
« Reply #8 on: December 05, 2010, 07:46:51 am »
" Follow its twists and turns, ride with its tricky world, but journey with your destiny."

nice words but the most painful to do in a relationship ...... I love the piece sir .... 
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Re: Letting Go
« Reply #9 on: December 05, 2010, 09:10:26 am »
I have a different take to that...surrender is never an option...Love if it is Love should be fought with ferocious intensity..no matter what the odds are...no matter what the cost is...no matter what the pain it entails...

Even it means a losing battle...even it means defeat...even it means a lifetime of pain...

Because if we treat romantic love in a pragmatic way...then...

Romeo and Juliet...Shah Jahan and Mumtaz majal...Launcelot and Guinevere...Oddyseus and Penelope....Paris and Helen...
will be just that...empty literature...failing to inspire us...and our soul will be heartless...dark...and empty...

And all consequences are worth it..not because of they...but because of Love...

The only surrender should be in love not to its constraints...

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Re: Letting Go
« Reply #10 on: December 05, 2010, 12:31:53 pm »
pahiran ng word..

may brainwash lng ako!>.



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Re: Letting Go
« Reply #11 on: December 05, 2010, 10:09:58 pm »
 finger4u Eto sayo!

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Re: Letting Go
« Reply #12 on: December 06, 2010, 01:07:05 am »
olrayt! thanks mga sir at maam! ayan pampalubag loob po para sa mga SMP (samahan ng maiinit ang pasko)

the best line para sa akin dito eh yung "tears are drops of heaven, they are born to slide from your cheeks and die on your lips."

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"letting go is like breaking your most precious jewelry"

@magister418 nice one! "The only surrender should be in love not to its constraints..." galing ng word play :)
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Re: Letting Go
« Reply #13 on: January 14, 2011, 06:20:32 am »
 sayasaya:: nice one nakaka tibag damdamin  ;D finger4u
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