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I overheard Blake Lively confessed she Played By "The Rules"

to catch Leonardo De Carpio  ::) hmm,I red that book too, though...

It's a dating advice book published by 2 women in 1995 Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider.

Personally,I don't agree to all of those stated rules  :D having to had live on this generation.

The premise behind the book is that all men like “the chase,” so women need to make them work for it.

..SO,What's in it ? What are the rules? Again,It’s a dating advice book published by two women in 1995

that prescribed 35 different “rules” for alluring, snagging, and domesticating the male species.




The Rules

    1.Be a “Creature” Unlike Any Other
    2. Don't Talk to a Man First (and Don't Ask Him to Dance)
    3.Don't Stare at Men or Talk Too Much
    4.Don't Meet Him Halfway or Go Dutch on a Date
    5.Don't Call Him & Rarely Return His Calls
    6.Always End Phone Calls and dates First
    7.Don't Accept a Saturday Night Date after Wednesday.
    8.Fill Up Your Time before the Date
    9.How to Act on Dates 1,2, and 3
    10.How to Act on Dates 4 through Commitment Time
    11.ALWAYS end the date first
    12.Stop Dating Him if He Doesn't Buy You a Romantic Gift for Your Birthday or Valentine's Day
    13.Don’t See Him More than Once or Twice a Week
    14.No More than Casual Kissing on the First Date
    15.15.Don't Rush into Sex, Wait at Least Three Dates
    16.Don't Tell Him What to Do
    17.Let Him Take the Lead
    18.Don't Expect a Man to Change or Try to Change Him
    19.Don’t Open Up Too Fast
    20.Be Honest but Mysterious
    21.Accentuate the Positive & Other Rules for Personal Ads
    22.Don’t Live with a Man (or Leave Your Things in His Apartment)
    23.Don't Date a Married Man
    24.Slowly Involve Him in Your Family & Other Rules for Women with Children
    25.Practice, Practice, Practice! (or, Getting Good at The Rules)
    26.Even if You're Engaged or Married, You Still Need The Rules
    27.26.Do The Rules, Even when Your Friends & Parents Think It's Nuts
    28.Be Smart and Other Rules for Dating in High School
    29.Take Care of Yourself and Other Rules for Dating in College
    30.NEXT! & Other Rules for Dealing with Rejection
    31.Don't Discuss The Rules with Your Therapist.
    32.Don't Break The Rules!
    33.Do The Rules and You’ll Live Happily Ever After!
    34.Love Only Those Who Love You
   35. Be Easy to Live With


http://www.cleo.com.au/blake-played-by-ithe-rulesi-to-nab-leo.htm


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Rules



So, how did Blake use The Rules to supposedly snag her man?

“Blake loves the dating book The Rules and has been following it to the letter,” a “celebrity insider”
 told Now magazine. “She knew Leo could have any girl he wanted and she figured she had to
stand out from the crowd. ... She’s making him work for it — and he’s fallen hard for her.”
Blake snagged Leo by “acting busy and not calling [him] straight back.”
She also refused to date him before he broke up with his ex-girlfriend, Bar Rafaeli.


Anyways,we are still individuals,what works with others doesn't mean will work on you.
You can have your own standard and make that your Rules.

As for me, I hate to manipulate someone to love me.
It's me being hard to get and NOT PLAY hard to get...and duh!that's why I didn't cath Leonardo! TOINKS!!


...any thoughts Espiya Republic ...



Many Thanks Espiya.net  ::flowers



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Re: The Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right???
« Reply #1 on: August 10, 2011, 11:03:23 am »
panahon pa ni kupon2x yan.. agreee ako sayo Fermin.. toast::
Let'z d0 tHe DeaTh DancE!!!

Goidz iN ThE HaUz!!..



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Re: The Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right???
« Reply #2 on: August 10, 2011, 02:57:55 pm »
Ayos! Di na ako basta2x makukuha ng mga girls  :applause

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Re: The Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right???
« Reply #3 on: August 10, 2011, 04:18:26 pm »
nice 1.. noted ko na..... now di na nila me matatawag na easy guy....
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