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Questions Every Woman Should ASK before She Gets In Too Deep :*If you are NOT playing games,and want to be on a Relationships that Rocks !
1.
What Do You THINK about Me?If you've been out on a couple of dates or more and you've had a lot of conversations,you know
something about him,but what's more important,you want to know what he is thinking about you.
of course he just doesn't walked over there just to be walking,He was attracted to something.
He may like your hair,your legs,your outfit...but beyond the initial attraction,MEN PRETTY MUCH KNOW
IF YOU'RE KIND OF A WOMAN THEY'RE GOING TO SLEEP WITH OR IF THEY'RE GOING TO STICK
AROUND AND SEE IF THEY WANT MORE.THIS YOU WILL BE ABLE TO TELL BY HIS ANSWERS.
LISTEN TO HIS ANSWER CLOSELY.
SURE THIS ARE WHAT (MEN) WILL ANSWER ," I THINK YOU ARE GREAT,I THINK YOU'D MAKE GREAT GF,
YOU'RE FUN,KIND,YOU'RE REALLY BEAUTIFUL,YOU TURN ME ON,YOU'RE SMART ETC ETC .ALL
GENERIC STUFF MEN KNOW WOMEN WANT TO HEAR.
STILL,THIS IS NOT THE ANSWERS YOU SHOULD BE LOOKING FOR.YOU WANT SPECIFICS
YOU WANT TO KNOW THAT HE'S REALLY THOUGHT ABOUT YOU BEYOND THE SURFACE.
SO,DO THE FOLLOW-UPS. " OH YOU THINK I'M KIND? WHAT MAKES YOU THINK I'M KIND?
THEN SIT BACK AND LISTEN.IF HE CAN'T GIVE YOU A CONCRETE ANSWER ABOUT YOUR KINDNESS
THIS JERK IS NOT THINKING ABOUT YOU BEYOND THE SURFACE.
BUT,IF HE SAYS," YOU REMEMBER WHEN WE ARE SO AND SO AND SO,THAT WAS REALLY NICE...
HE WILL FIND MORE CHARACTERISTIC HE ATTRIBUTES TO YOU.
IF HE CAN GIVE YOU SPECIFICS,IT MEANS HE'S BEEN LISTENING AND ADDING IT UP-HE'S DETERMINING
IF HE'S GOING TO KEEP YOU.AND THAT COULD MEAN THAT HE'S NOT A JERK AND AT LEAST
ON THE SAME PAGE WITH YOU2.
How do you Feel about Me?Foxy ladies,don't confused with what do you "THINK" about me ~ "think" and "FEEL" are two
wholly different things.
If a man cannot Tell you How he feels about you after several dates or more than a month of
dating,IT'S BECAUSE HE DOESN'T FEEL ANYTHING FOR YOU ~ AND HE'S GOING TO GET
CONFUSED AND NERVOUS: " I TOLD YOU BEFORE ~ I THINK YOU'RE..."HE BEGINS.
YOU CUT HIM RIGHT OFF AND SAY " NO,I WANT TO KNOW HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT ME."
He might end up scratching his head or what,he will be thinking of what answer you wanna hear
But still you'll have to get him to answer it. don't get upset if he doesn't answer right away :
HE'S GOT TO GO INTO THE PART OF HIMSELF THAT HE DOESN'T LIKE TO GO AND THAT'S
THE EMOTIONAL PART. WHOA! MEN DO NOT DO EMOTION WELL,EXPRESSING IT DOESN'T COME
EASY.HE CAN ANSWER QUESTIONS ABOUT GOD ,HIS MOM,BUT ASKING A MAN HOW HE FEELS
ABOUT YOU IS LIKE ASKING HIM TO LOOK INTO HIS SOUL.
IF HE ANSWER YOU THIS : "WELL,WHEN I DON'T SEE YOU,I MISS TALKING TO YOU,I JUST FEEL BETTER
WHEN YOU'RE AROUND,YOU'RE THE TYPE OF GIRL I'VE BEEN TRYING TO FIND
IN OTHER WORDS,HIS ANSWER HAS TO MAKE YOU FEEL W-O-N-D-E-R-F-U-L.
EVEN IF HE DOESN'T SAY HE'S IN LOVE WITH YOU JUST YET,AT LEAST HE WILL SHOW
HE'S CRAZY ABOUT YOU AND WILL EXPLORE A LONG TERM COMMITMENT TO BE WITH YOU.3.
What are your short - term goals?4.
What are your long - term goals?5.
what are your views on Relationships?~ just NOT to make my blah blah long and make you all fall to sleep
try ko na i-sum up
yun last 3 questions.
The long and short term goals will enable you to know his vision for where he wants to see himself
now and the future .A MAN ALWAYS HAVE A PLAN.IF HE DOESN'T HAVE A PLAN WHY DO
YOU WANT HIM TO STICK AROUND,ANYWAY! [don't be that jerk gurl]
IF HE HAS A PLAN ,WELL GREAT.MEN LIKE TO TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES.
ACT LIKE YOU ARE SUPERINTERESTED AND ASK,BE ENTHUSIASTIC DETECTIVE AS YOU ARE
THE POINT IS,IF HE HAVE A PLAN,HE'S TRYING TO BE A MAN HE WANTS TO BE-THE KIND OF MAN
WOMEN CAN CONSIDER AND CAN FIT WITH WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING IN A GOOD,SOLID MATE.
LADIES,,,DO NOT TIE YOUR LIFE WITH A MAN WHO DOESN'T HAVE PLAN,BECAUSE YOU'LL
FIND OUT HE DOESN'T HAVE ANY LIFE AND HE WILL GONNA TAKE IT FROM YOU.AWTZ!
SOONER OR LATER YOU'LL BE STUCK,TOO.
His views of Relationships?-know his relationships with his parents especially his MOM.the first woman he has a relationship with.
if he has a great relationship with his MOM,has a good track record w/ her,THEN CHANCES ARE
HE KNOWS HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN W/ RESPECT AND HAVE SOME IDEA ON HOW TO PROFESS,
PROVIDE AND PROTECT.
-know his relationship with his dad.if their OK,sure he got those CORE VALUES of a Man.
-*his relationship with GOD [Must be on your Top standard list]
IF YOU MEET A MAN WHO DOESN'T HAVE A RELATIONSHIP W/GOD,HAS NO BELIEF SYSTEM TO
POINT HIM AS A GUIDING FORCE IN HIS LIFE,THEN IT'S A PROBLEM.AFTER ALL WHAT MORAL
BAROMETER DOES HE ANSWER TO IF NOT TO GOD? WHAT'S GOING TO MAKE HIM EVEN CONSIDER
BEING LOYAL TO YOU? WHAT'S GOING TO MAKE HIM TO DO THE RIGHT THING?
WHAT'S MAKE HIM FEEL WHOLE? A FAITHFUL MAN WILL ALWAYS HAVE FAITH Again For all of us foxy ladies , ASK QUESTIONS.
REMEMBER: NO FEAR.IF HE'S NOT WILLING TO ANSWER THEM,WELL WE KNOW FROM THE GATE HE'S NOT THE
ONE.