kenji, its such an envy that you live near such a shooting range. Would love to shoot my rifles more often.
BAZ, you really cant generalize as to what caliber, firearm type one should try out based on frame. Ive seen women handle a full-size 45 and shoot great shots. Ive seen women shoot 9mm and lower calibers and still shoot poorly. Id say go to a firing range that offer rental guns for her to try out the different flavors. At a minumum, she should have a proper grip with the gun she should try to shoot. As to the caliber, let her experience them first, and decide later.