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Is it fair to get upset at your partner over loud snoring?
« on: April 23, 2013, 04:43:29 pm »
Hi. chika - chika din pag may time  :D








Our significant others often have at least one or two subconscious habits that can drive us crazy. From tapping on tables with eating utensils to clicking their jaws whenever they chew, people are prone to have little ticks that may frustrate the ones who love them most. But has your partner ever had a tendency that drove you crazy enough to break up?

According to a new study by pharmaceutical brand Nytol for National Stop Snoring Week, 41% of snorers experience issues with their partners nightly. And the evenings aren't the only time relationships can suffer — 27% regularly feel grumpy in the morning while 21% are frequently exhausted, both of which can contribute to an unpleasant demeanor and a potentially bad day as a pair. Add up enough of those bad days and your relationship can truly suffer.



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Ako,naghihilik din ako e, lalu na pag pagod ...WALA pa naman partner na tomo-TOINKSSS sa akin while asleep or nagsabe na super loud me humilik ;D  tas If yun partner ko naman naghihilik, mabait din me  :D Even when I am feeling awful because can't sleep from the noise, I still feel guilty saying anything,  sometimes i record it instead!toinksss  In the morning will just humor telling about it ganun...If parehas lang naghihilik dapat lang mag kaunawaan and won't feel embarrassed  ;D

But pano kaya talaga If super duper loud loud loud maghilik si partner mo? Is it right to criticize and mock them for that habit? IMO,  if your significant other can't help the snoring, being mean or resentful about it won't do much to solve anything. Instead, try working on techniques together than could either solve the snoring itself or simply mask the sounds.( unahan mo matulog or put a bit of music just to drown the sounds of snoring )


E.Republic,how about you guys- How do you handle your partner's snoring?

Care to share your TIPS in the comment  ;)







...just don't snore & fart at once baby?Eh.








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Re: Is it fair to get upset at your partner over loud snoring?
« Reply #1 on: April 23, 2013, 04:57:02 pm »
kami din ng asawa ko nahilik lalo na pag pagod, wala naman problema saming dalawa, kasi nga pagod and we understand naman na pag nahilik is pagod lang talaga. not a big deal for us.  toast::

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Re: Is it fair to get upset at your partner over loud snoring?
« Reply #2 on: April 23, 2013, 05:43:02 pm »
ako aminado akong naghihilik ako. kaya ako yung huling matulog sa amin palagi. i let them sleep muna at kapag mahimbing na tulog nila saka naman ako matutulog.

nung bago lang kaming mag-asawa sinasabi nyang hirap syang matulog dahil sa hilik, now kahit manood pa kami ng action movie ng anak ko sa kwarto hindi na nagigising sa ingay, nasanay na  laffman::

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Re: Is it fair to get upset at your partner over loud snoring?
« Reply #3 on: April 24, 2013, 01:18:41 am »

solusyon

1. mauna matulog para di marinig yung hilik
2. mag-soundz para di marining
3. sa ibang kwarto matulog :))

seriously, pwedeng symptom yan ng heart problem
so it's better ipa-check sa doctor yung heart ng concerned person.

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Re: Is it fair to get upset at your partner over loud snoring?
« Reply #4 on: April 24, 2013, 03:46:11 am »

seriously, pwedeng symptom yan ng heart problem
so it's better ipa-check sa doctor yung heart ng concerned person.



yep. sabe nga din sa studies and to quote



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Dr Chris Idzikowski, director of the Edinburgh Sleep Centre, said: ‘Snoring can greatly impact sleep quality which may eventually lead to more serious health problems.

‘To ensure couples maintain the intimacy of their relationship and prevent snoring from getting in the way of a good night’s sleep, it is important that both the snorer and the partner work together to find a solution.

‘If you or your partner snore then there’s a variety of simple things you can do to manage the condition such as sleeping on your front or side, maintaining a healthy weight and avoiding alcohol late at night.

* ‘While there is no cure for snoring, it can be controlled so it may also be worth discussing options such as anti snoring sprays, humidifiers, mouth guards and nasal passage plasters.’




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Re: Is it fair to get upset at your partner over loud snoring?
« Reply #5 on: April 24, 2013, 04:08:51 am »
sometimes a problem with the nasal septum and it's operated on.. upsetting man, like what they all say-- till death do us part ;)

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Re: Is it fair to get upset at your partner over loud snoring?
« Reply #6 on: April 24, 2013, 04:20:49 am »
posted na ito, naalala ko lang bigla dahil sa thread na ito:

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Re: Is it fair to get upset at your partner over loud snoring?
« Reply #7 on: April 24, 2013, 04:29:59 am »
posted na ito, naalala ko lang bigla dahil sa thread na ito:




HEHE yan din naalala ko bro (really like their story)when am making the thread - a total kind of wabi sabi love/ seeing the beauty/fun behind & beyond your partner's imperfection  ::inlove

-thanks for posting it again  finger4u