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karaso:
hi ms LheaDee12 if in case positive na preggy po kayo i firmly believe, it will NEVER NEVER be an option for abortion...
hindi po katapusan ng mundo nyo ni bf kung pregnant kayo instead this serve to test your INTEGRITY, to test your VALUE...

take my experience as one of the bases pra makapulot ng aral - my ex iniwan ako due to third party kaso ginawa lng syang parausan then nabuntis sya at yong mokong naduwag at yong mokong pa mismo ang nagdala at nag advice sa kanya ipa abort. ang ex ko naman at that time di pa ready at wlang confidante na malalapitan so napapayag ni mokong.
during my one on one talk w/ my ex (after sya nagpa abort tas iniwan ni mokong) sobrang sakit daw halos ikamatay during abortion at dahil sa konsensya (gumagamit kasi sya ng safeguard kaya malakas ang konsensya niya) she fall into depression mga ilang months din buti nakabawi rin.

sa case ko naman I admit nung nabuntis ko si gf (wifey ko na now) I was not ready financially that time - imagine ko 3K lng sweldo ko for 4months tapos naging 6K pagka 6 months pero at si gf that time pinatigil ko mag work kasi advice ng doktor maselan pagbubuntis nya dinudugo 1st trimester nya - kung may panindigan ka gagawin mo lahat na legal ways pra magkapera and that blessings will pour too (w/ the support of both of our families). NEVER pumasok sa isip ko ipa abort kasi kahit ginusto nyo yan or hindi ito lng masasabi ko "A BABY WILL ALWAYS BE A BLESSING..."

resorting to abortion? - unti unti kakainin ka ng konsensya mo hanggang sa umabot ang time di mo kilala sarili mo (compared to your previous self) at kakainin na pagkatao mo. once nawala na self-confidence at TRUST sa sarili mo - wla na saysay buhay at direction sa buhay mo at magka SELF PITY ka which is pinka worst mangyari..

long story short, I just laid the domino-after-effects if you will resort to abortion - wag naman sana.
nung pinanganak na panganay at 2nd son (6 yrs agwat) kinargo ko sa labas ng hospital para ma arawan early in the morning pra mawala paninilaw at di ko maipaliwanag bilang isang ama ang feeling holding my child, tinitingnan face nya, caressing his skin, at naka focus ang eyes sa akin kahit silhouette pa lng nakikita nila.
di ko napigilan tumulo luha ko questioning in my mind - how come pumasok sa isip nila ipa abort child nila? they will never experience that same feeling kung gagawin nila yon. after that precious moment something change in me - I live pra sa mga anak ko at sa pamilya ko, i can sacrifice everything for them dahil pra sa akin LOVE = SACRIFICE. kaya if incase preggy talaga, be willing to sacrifice your future TEMPORARILY for them at sure ako your future WILL BE PERMANENTLY SUCCESSFUL!

LheaDee12:
Nag usap kami maayos ni boyfie... he told me na ndi naman daw tlga sa loob.. pero nagtataka lang kami bat sobrang delay halos 6 days na... 22 expected na dating ng bisita.. 20 nag simula ma stress dahil sa acads... what u think guys?? Kasi hanggang ngayon naguguluhan parin kami e.. Help guys... dun sa mga expert pls help

naruto789544:
not that i'm shooting your hopes down but while stress maybe is a factor on the delay, it would never be more than a few days... better check yourself by buying a pregnancy kit.... also, withdrawal is not a good way of preventing unwanted pregnancy...

Jerald_207:
Cno nahihirapan mag buntis?? Pm moko isang putok ko lang yan heeheheh

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