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Always Communicate Your Love...
« on: November 01, 2010, 04:23:40 pm »

The Following story serves as a reminder of How Important it is to communicate from the Heart @ all times  ::flowers



                                            Please Locked/delete if posted-many thanks po!



A husband & wife,both in their late seventies,decide that,after 55years of marriage,it was high time

they got a divorce.

When their counsellor asked them why,the wife issued a catalogue of reasons.

'He never asks if I'm happy,'said the wife.' I assumed you were,'said the husband

'He never says he loves me,'said the wife.' 'I thought you knew I loved you,'said the husband.

'The wife continued,'He never says I'm beautiful.' the husband replied, 'I look @ you everyday and

admire your beauty.'

'We rarely talk,'said the wife. 'I know you like to read a lot,'said the husband.

'I read because we don't talk,'said the wife. There was a pause. 'And we never go out,'said the wife.

'I thought you like to stay in,'said the husband. 'I only stay in because I'm waiting to go out,'said the

wife.

The counselor continue to take notes. 'He's also very mean to me,'said the wife.

'In what way?'asked the counselor. 'Well,@ breakfast,3x a week for 55years,he always serves

me the crust of the loaf,and I hate the bread-crust!'

'The husband was distraught, 'I give you the crust,my dear,because that is my favourite

part of the loaf.'   ::inlove





Did you know that the word "assume" can make an 'ass' out of 'u' and 'me';D

Love should not be suppressed and hidden...what could be more sad than not having to tell someone
you love them?

How many relationship have appeared to die because no one could quite bring themselves to say 'I Love You'?


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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #1 on: November 01, 2010, 06:48:20 pm »
I love the lesson here..thanks for posting.finger4u

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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #2 on: November 01, 2010, 10:29:57 pm »
Thats cute and lovely, Ms. Daza. 

Corollary to that, we should also always tell our parents how much we love them.  Di naman mahirap sabihin na MAMA, I LOVE YOU or DADDY, I LOVE YOU.  Pag wala na sila, wala ng halaga ang mga luha dahil di na nila mararamdaman or maririnig ang pagmamahal natin sa kanila. Sa mga matatanda, more than the material things we can shower them, mas mahalaga sa kanila na maramdaman nila ang ating presence or pagmamahal sa kanila.

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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #3 on: November 01, 2010, 11:00:45 pm »
Reklamadorang babae  ;D   Peace...  toast::
Timing is Everything!

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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #4 on: November 02, 2010, 03:47:41 am »
ganda ng message para sa mga mag asawa at mag aasawa palang!  :applause



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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #5 on: November 02, 2010, 05:44:36 am »
Quote from:  link=topic=124146.msg981735#msg981735 date=1288666845
Reklamadorang babae  ;D   Peace...  toast::

Peace  toast::  ;D

ganun lang po kami talaga,for us (women) that's not complaining po...we just like to say it in Details!!  ;D


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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #6 on: November 04, 2010, 08:15:00 pm »
may nabasa akong ganito..kaso, hindi bread ang kinakain nila...
isda. at ulo ng isda ang binibigay ng husband sa wife.

Did you know that the word "assume" can make an 'ass' out of 'u' and 'me';D
very well said.  :applause
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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #7 on: November 04, 2010, 10:53:22 pm »
Peace  toast::  ;D

ganun lang po kami talaga,for us (women) that's not complaining po...we just like to say it in Details!!  ;D


How about the guy? did the wife considered what her husband thinks?  Peace  toast::
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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #8 on: November 05, 2010, 12:09:57 am »
Quote from:  link=topic=124146.msg983252#msg983252 date=1288925602
Peace  toast::  ;D

ganun lang po kami talaga,for us (women) that's not complaining po...we just like to say it in Details!!  ;D


How about the guy? did the wife considered what her husband thinks?  Peace  toast::

abay,malay ko po  :P ;D joke!!

seriously,yun na nga po dahil pareho silang nag-aasume @ di na-iexpress ang kanilang side ,their lack of
communication end up in resentment @ magdidivorce pa nga  ;D

maybe po si guy / husband feel nya under appreciated din po sya.

kaya nga po sa relationship it is vital to talk,talk,talk...(that makes us human,different from amoeba,fungus etc ;D)

@ women,,,am sure none of us have that mental telepathy / really can read other peoples mind So so so
don't think that the guy / your husband will really get your needs & offer it @ your feet.  ::)
make it easy,have a regular conversation & a life w/ a man is a constant show & tell po.

@ guys / husbands ,,,i know coming back @ work you really need to chillax & the last thing you want is a
nagging wife  ;D  but please push yourself to make your 'hello' kay wifey as caring & sweeter before you
hit the couch & watch tv!  ;)


For two people to agree there must be two people.
For two people to love one another there must be two people.
For two people to comfort each other there must be two people.


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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #9 on: November 05, 2010, 11:31:42 pm »
For two people to agree there must be two people.
For two people to love one another there must be two people.
For two people to comfort each other there must be two people.


Makes sense to me  toast::  finger4u
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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #10 on: November 06, 2010, 04:17:25 am »
Quote from:  link=topic=124146.msg983721#msg983721 date=1289014302
For two people to agree there must be two people.
For two people to love one another there must be two people.
For two people to comfort each other there must be two people.


Makes sense to me  toast::  finger4u

am really happy bro nakaka-relate ka po  :-*  ;)  ;D  toast::

"MEN THRIVE FOR APPRECIATION AND WOMEN THRIVE FOR COMMUNICATION."




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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #11 on: November 06, 2010, 09:32:49 am »
tama to the max! :D :applause

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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #12 on: November 08, 2010, 10:27:40 am »
ahh cge ieexpress ko na..love you mam FerminaDaza!! mwahh..hehehe.. what a lovely and eye opening story..cheers toast::

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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #13 on: November 08, 2010, 10:44:26 am »
@doc,parang magpapalpitate na ko nyan!LOLZ

Always feels Good to have you around po ;)

Miss you & I Love you din po & kisses to Devon!!
 

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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #14 on: November 08, 2010, 10:52:52 am »
@doc,parang magpapalpitate na ko nyan!LOLZ

Always feels Good to have you around po ;)

Miss you & I Love you din po & kisses to Devon!!
 

hehehe pag nagpalpitate ka mam e hingi ka sa pharmacy ng beta blockers..hi din daw sabi ni Devon ;D toast::

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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #15 on: January 14, 2011, 06:33:47 am »
awwwe ang cute naman ng story... laffman:: nakaka tats  ::lmao finger4u
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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #16 on: January 14, 2011, 10:19:46 am »
pa UP...

You gotta keep talking.When there's trouble afoot it's talking that will get us out of it.

When we are going through bad patches,it is talking that will see us through.

When we are optimistic & excited it is talking that will help our partner share it.

if we aren't talking there is something wrong.

If we aren't talking what are we doing?

Talking help us understand,listen,Communicate.

There is obviously a time & a place for silences BUT Talking is healthy,productive,companionable,

friendly,loving,kind & fun.Silences can be Boring,Unhelpful,destructive & threatening.

Talking helps resolve problems,silence only amplifies them.

TALKING KEEPS YOU TOGETHER-it's what you used to do when you first fall in love,REMEMBER? ;)


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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #17 on: January 21, 2011, 02:59:29 am »
Communication is indeed a big factor in a relationship between a husband and a wife... both binded by the law of God and the law of man, they must share each and every seconds of their respective lives... every problem must be opened up, knowing each other's opinion to solve it...

that is a very important part of a relationship, regardless of the distances they are apart...
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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #18 on: January 21, 2011, 03:42:49 am »
Communication is indeed a big factor in a relationship between a husband and a wife... both binded by the law of God and the law of man, they must share each and every seconds of their respective lives... every problem must be opened up, knowing each other's opinion to solve it...

that is a very important part of a relationship, regardless of the distances they are apart...

PRECISELY.

Sa case ng mga naka- LDR [long distance relationship] they tend to fade away [daw] kasi :

"out of sight out of mind" so sana sana sana Keep your Communication line open.

and hey ,there's a a machine that transmits voice waves over wires and comes in different styles,

like cordless, cellular, hand held, and rotary, but the truth is, the phone has officially reached a new high

in relationship symbolism. Is a phone call just a phone call, or is it really the almighty representation of

how much he really cares about you? Probably somewhere in the middle. And a good man will know that

and use this handy telecommunication device accordingly. E-mails need not apply. :P

Never be too busy for loved ones.The more we put into our relationships,the more

we get out of them  ;)



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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #19 on: January 21, 2011, 03:48:58 am »
hehe

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Re: Always Communicate Your Love...
« Reply #20 on: January 21, 2011, 03:54:42 am »
hehe

he he lang?  ;D hmm,naka-ilag sya,di tinamaan ! joke  :-*


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