and why updating your facebook relationship status is such a big deal?!?
Hurt is there but the learning comes next if you know the reason.
Was the cat polite to her throughout the entire time that the relationship was in effect? Because if the cat was being polite and well-mannered at all times but she was being rude towards it, then that is kind of a turn-off. laffman::
2 and 4 sounds legit, the others is personality na nang girl which he should learn to accept.
So if the girl has more than 3 sexual partner unacceptable but if a guy has more than 5 that would be COOL? hmmm... Chauvinist Pig.
okay so i have a friend na may same dilemma. yung current GF nya kasi eh may madilim na past. nagkaroon yung GF nya ng affair sa bestfriend nyang boy. naging sila although merong gf si boy that time. they had a sexual relationship. then bigla silang nag break dahil na realize ni GF na mali ang ginagawa nila. so stay friends pa din naman sila. ang di matanggap ng kaibigan ko eh nag uusap pa din sila minsan. kesyo may tinatanong si boy ng kung anu ano even though magkasama sila ng GF nya. and the fact that they had sexual affair before is a big TURN OFF sa friend ko. anyway sabi ko naman eh wag sanang aabot sa puntong pag nag away sila eh sumbatan ng nakaraan ang mangyare. medyo conservative kasi yung friend ko when it comes to that kind of matter. your thoughts, spies?
Y'know in relationships its vital to TALK TALK TALK. Be honest at all times. "medyo conservative" Ya, it's sad when you start to sacrifice your own *belief/s or individuality just to keep the relationship. That's why its good to TALK. If you notice those we withheld from our partner is the very reason/s leading to relationship becoming glacial and eventually leads to break ups.
If your friend is really bothered by his gf still talking to her ex ,he should bring it to light and talk about it (politely and non-judgmental) He can start by expressing that he trust her and want to keep her and the relationship. Then that He would like to know and understand there might be a 'good reason' she's talking to her ex bf. He can humor it and say "maybe I'm jealous coz I don't want to lose you" then still say "honestly i'm not cool with it, with you still fond of your ex bf."
If she do CARES about your friends feelings- she won't sound defensive and will say/do something positive or sympathetic or supportive. She might start to realize and put her ex where he belongs--to the past...But If she start to lash back and start to accused your friend blah blah blah ,Welll your friend should start listening to what he's gut telling him. Perhaps,those two exe's still deserve each other.Let them screw their brains out forever! Let your friend find someone who won't screw his best friend ever.He deserve only the best! (tell him that) ;)
okay so i have a friend na may same dilemma. yung current GF nya kasi eh may madilim na past. nagkaroon yung GF nya ng affair sa bestfriend nyang boy. naging sila although merong gf si boy that time. they had a sexual relationship. then bigla silang nag break dahil na realize ni GF na mali ang ginagawa nila. so stay friends pa din naman sila. ang di matanggap ng kaibigan ko eh nag uusap pa din sila minsan. kesyo may tinatanong si boy ng kung anu ano even though magkasama sila ng GF nya. and the fact that they had sexual affair before is a big TURN OFF sa friend ko. anyway sabi ko naman eh wag sanang aabot sa puntong pag nag away sila eh sumbatan ng nakaraan ang mangyare. medyo conservative kasi yung friend ko when it comes to that kind of matter. your thoughts, spies?
A question, if I may, Seigneur Adonai: is your friend conservative about his girlfriend being on speaking terms with her ex on general principles or is he conservative about his girlfriend being on speaking terms with her ex specifically because they had a sexual relationship?