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« Reply #50 on: August 09, 2013, 10:23:42 pm »
may kakilala ko na ganito ang kinahantungan ng kanyang ex-bf, naging super-stalker.  tipong kinausap lahat ng pamilya nung babae and convincing them that they should marry dahil may nangyari na raw sa kanila, etc.  as in masyado nang perwisyo at nakakasira na masyado kaya

pinaBLOTTER sa lugar nung babae (Pangasinan)
kinasuhan dito (Pangasinan)
hinuli doon sa lugar nung guy (Manila)
habang trasnport yung guy eh NAGKAPASA at NAGKASUGAT kasi naman NANLABAN  ;D

oh well you get the picture.  bottomline is nanahimik bigla yung lalake at binaling na niya paningin niya sa ibang babae. 

add ko lang na medyo BORDERING to obsession na yan kaya dapat you take immediate steps to at least let the authorities know what is really happening.  hirap na masama sa statistics tapos wala habol pamilya mo.   
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« Reply #51 on: August 09, 2013, 10:33:06 pm »
may kakilala ko na ganito ang kinahantungan ng kanyang ex-bf, naging super-stalker.  tipong kinausap lahat ng pamilya nung babae and convincing them that they should marry dahil may nangyari na raw sa kanila, etc.  as in masyado nang perwisyo at nakakasira na masyado kaya

pinaBLOTTER sa lugar nung babae (Pangasinan)
kinasuhan dito (Pangasinan)
hinuli doon sa lugar nung guy (Manila)
habang trasnport yung guy eh NAGKAPASA at NAGKASUGAT kasi naman NANLABAN  ;D

oh well you get the picture.  bottomline is nanahimik bigla yung lalake at binaling na niya paningin niya sa ibang babae. 

add ko lang na medyo BORDERING to obsession na yan kaya dapat you take immediate steps to at least let the authorities know what is really happening.  hirap na masama sa statistics tapos wala habol pamilya mo.   


I'll bring these issue to the authorities on Monday. Thank you for the thought Ryan.. :)
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« Reply #52 on: August 09, 2013, 11:18:36 pm »

I'll bring these issue to the authorities on Monday. Thank you for the thought Ryan.. :)

not a problem.  kindly keep the Espiya Republic posted as to your problem and I am sure a lot of those who volounteered their services for free are waiting for you to call on to them. 
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« Reply #53 on: August 09, 2013, 11:48:49 pm »
not a problem.  kindly keep the Espiya Republic posted as to your problem and I am sure a lot of those who volounteered their services for free are waiting for you to call on to them.

Really? Noted. :) Thank you.
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« Reply #54 on: August 10, 2013, 12:11:35 am »
I had an Ex-BF turned stalker, di nya matanggap na nakipaghiwalay na ako at sobra syang obsess sakin. After ng work ko nakaabang na yan sa labas biglang paparada sasakyan sa harap mo, sa dami ng tao sa building nakakahiya naman na di ka sasakay at bubuntot lang sayo. Kaya ang ginawa ko late na ako lumalabas ng office at sa kabilang exit ako dumadaan. Sa house naman lagi nakaabang sa labas ng gate bawal sya pumasok kasi bawal ousider. Lagi nya pinapatong kung nakauwi na ba ako, sinasabi ko na lang na pag may maghanap sakin sabihin wala pa ako. one morning pag labas ko ng house nandun sya nakaparada natutulog sa loob ng sasakyan nag aabang talaga. Ang ginawa ko lunipat ako ng bahay, sa work naman pagpapasok ako ng building or pag uwi tinitingnan ko muna paligid bago ako lalabas.. nakakaloka diba, hanggang nawala na sya ng tuluyan.
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« Reply #55 on: August 10, 2013, 12:34:14 am »
I had an Ex-BF turned stalker, di nya matanggap na nakipaghiwalay na ako at sobra syang obsess sakin. After ng work ko nakaabang na yan sa labas biglang paparada sasakyan sa harap mo, sa dami ng tao sa building nakakahiya naman na di ka sasakay at bubuntot lang sayo. Kaya ang ginawa ko late na ako lumalabas ng office at sa kabilang exit ako dumadaan. Sa house naman lagi nakaabang sa labas ng gate bawal sya pumasok kasi bawal ousider. Lagi nya pinapatong kung nakauwi na ba ako, sinasabi ko na lang na pag may maghanap sakin sabihin wala pa ako. one morning pag labas ko ng house nandun sya nakaparada natutulog sa loob ng sasakyan nag aabang talaga. Ang ginawa ko lunipat ako ng bahay, sa work naman pagpapasok ako ng building or pag uwi tinitingnan ko muna paligid bago ako lalabas.. nakakaloka diba, hanggang nawala na sya ng tuluyan.

Sana nga spy manawa na din... pero mga 1 1/2 years na syang ganyan... Kinapa ko nga din ang sarili ko kung matututunan ko din ba syang magustuhan man lang/ pero wala talaga eh... ;)
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« Reply #56 on: August 10, 2013, 12:43:44 am »
Wow grabe 1.5 years ang tagal na di pa rin sya nagsawa, iba na nga yan. Better pablotter mo yan sis, katakot na yung ganyan lagi may nag aabang sayo. Buti na lang ako dati lumipat ako ng bahay at umiwas na talaga ako para di na nya ako makita.
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« Reply #57 on: August 10, 2013, 01:05:16 am »
I'll do that sis.. on Monday.. Thank you.. mwah!
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« Reply #58 on: August 10, 2013, 11:16:49 pm »
I had an Ex-BF turned stalker, di nya matanggap na nakipaghiwalay na ako at sobra syang obsess sakin. After ng work ko nakaabang na yan sa labas biglang paparada sasakyan sa harap mo, sa dami ng tao sa building nakakahiya naman na di ka sasakay at bubuntot lang sayo. Kaya ang ginawa ko late na ako lumalabas ng office at sa kabilang exit ako dumadaan. Sa house naman lagi nakaabang sa labas ng gate bawal sya pumasok kasi bawal ousider. Lagi nya pinapatong kung nakauwi na ba ako, sinasabi ko na lang na pag may maghanap sakin sabihin wala pa ako. one morning pag labas ko ng house nandun sya nakaparada natutulog sa loob ng sasakyan nag aabang talaga. Ang ginawa ko lunipat ako ng bahay, sa work naman pagpapasok ako ng building or pag uwi tinitingnan ko muna paligid bago ako lalabas.. nakakaloka diba, hanggang nawala na sya ng tuluyan.

LIKAS lang sigurong mahaba ang HAIR mo Ms.SpyDrew, kaya nagkalat ang mga taga-hanga mo.  :P

but make sure stalker talaga yan ha.  iba kasi ang dinig ko.  baka naman kasi nakalimutan mo bayaran yung inutang mo na payong dun sa bumbay, tapos ang alam mo eh stalker mo yung sumusunod.  eh maniningil lang pala yung kawawang bombay ng kanyang mga pautang.  ayaw mo lang magbayad eh sinasabi mo pa na stalker mo yung tao.  pagkatapos mo pakinabangan yung PAYONG mo ng ilang taon eh sinunog mo na, lumipat ka ng bahay tapos nagpalit ka pa ng number.  kawawa naman yung mama, hindi na nakatulog kakaisip sa utang mo.  tapos ngayon eh sasabihin mo na stalker mo lang at may balak ka pang kumuha ng protection order galing sa korte.  eh di raymart - claudine na ang kinabagsakan ninyo.  MAGBAYAD KA NA KASI NG UTANG MO SA BOMBAY!   ;D  laffman::   

sorry TS for hijackign yours.  nililinaw ko lang ang sitwasyon ni MsSpyDrew at kawawa naman yung Bombay. 
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« Reply #59 on: August 11, 2013, 03:57:44 am »
EX ko nga po yun, hindi po Bumbay.... That was long time ago po
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« Reply #60 on: August 11, 2013, 08:01:09 am »
sis nabasa mo naba yung thread ni ang batanghamog regarding sa orasyon :D baka makatulong eh .. :D

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« Reply #61 on: August 11, 2013, 08:07:02 am »
sis nabasa mo naba yung thread ni ang batanghamog regarding sa orasyon :D baka makatulong eh .. :D

ngahaha.. orasyon talaga?  :) sige.. last resort ko yan..
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« Reply #62 on: August 11, 2013, 08:12:39 am »
ngahaha.. orasyon talaga?  :) sige.. last resort ko yan..

ok .. eto ang link http://espiya.net/forum/index.php/topic,156299.0.html wag masyado mag laro ng brain teaser makaka apekto ng memory sa orasyon yan  ::lmao

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« Reply #63 on: August 11, 2013, 08:20:15 am »
nyahaha! ganun?! PMPL.. Thank you... interesting yan ha? :)
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« Reply #64 on: August 13, 2013, 11:05:33 pm »
How do you tell off a guy ( a persistent suitor turned stalker)... nicely?

Kilala mo po ba ang ugali at personality ng guy?

Mahirap din kase yan...  A solicited advice could backfire against you...

May mga lalaki kase na pag sinabihan mo ng maayos na "friends lang tayo", "hindi kita type" and etc.:

1. Mas na-chachallenge sila, they tend to be more aggressive and more annoying to your part...
2. From a stalker, they turn to become more OBSESSED with you, meaning mas nakakatakot yun...
3. They accept it stratightforwardly but tend to commit suicide...

Extreme po ba?  Hehehehe!

Nakakatakot din pag aggresive mode ang dating mo, yung tipong babastusin mo or sisigawan mo (yung walang tao sa paligid ha)...

Hehehe!

Try mo yung pa-epek style... yung pang high school...

Request your male cousin, brother or any kamag-anak na halos sing-edad mo that you would act like "mag-syota" para at least pag nakita nya, TURN OFF na agad sa kanya, so siya na mismo ang lalayo sa iyo...


Yun nga lang depende talaga sa personality ng lalaking yan...
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« Reply #65 on: August 13, 2013, 11:19:55 pm »
Kilala mo po ba ang ugali at personality ng guy?

Mahirap din kase yan...  A solicited advice could backfire against you...

May mga lalaki kase na pag sinabihan mo ng maayos na "friends lang tayo", "hindi kita type" and etc.:

1. Mas na-chachallenge sila, they tend to be more aggressive and more annoying to your part...
2. From a stalker, they turn to become more OBSESSED with you, meaning mas nakakatakot yun...
3. They accept it stratightforwardly but tend to commit suicide...

Extreme po ba?  Hehehehe!

Nakakatakot din pag aggresive mode ang dating mo, yung tipong babastusin mo or sisigawan mo (yung walang tao sa paligid ha)...

Hehehe!

Try mo yung pa-epek style... yung pang high school...

Request your male cousin, brother or any kamag-anak na halos sing-edad mo that you would act like "mag-syota" para at least pag nakita nya, TURN OFF na agad sa kanya, so siya na mismo ang lalayo sa iyo...


Yun nga lang depende talaga sa personality ng lalaking yan...

depende talaga yan sa personality nung tao.  it all depends to TS, what she feels and thinks is proper given the situation.  basta be safe and let people around you what is really happening po.  better that people know what is really happening para if something comes up they know how to react accordingly.
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« Reply #66 on: August 13, 2013, 11:42:40 pm »
obsessed/stalker guy has different mentality..be careful...kahit magsama ka guy friend/pretend bf...it will not do you good...mahirap pa balikan yung kaibigan mo...

it's really creepy right?...standing in the dark..standing in the corner....paglabas mo opisina..pagbyahe mo nasa likod mo...pag gala mo sa mall, nasa paligid-ligid....and not knowing his next action would be?...that is really scary...

tapos pag may kasamang kang guy, a friend/pretend bf/suitor....bigla na lang lalabas...sasalubunin kayo..tapos sisikuhin yung guy friend mo..at worst bigla na lang sasaktan kasama mo....it will really freak you out..BE CAREFUL!

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« Reply #67 on: August 14, 2013, 01:24:02 am »
obsessed/stalker guy has different mentality..be careful...kahit magsama ka guy friend/pretend bf...it will not do you good...mahirap pa balikan yung kaibigan mo...

it's really creepy right?...standing in the dark..standing in the corner....paglabas mo opisina..pagbyahe mo nasa likod mo...pag gala mo sa mall, nasa paligid-ligid....and not knowing his next action would be?...that is really scary...

tapos pag may kasamang kang guy, a friend/pretend bf/suitor....bigla na lang lalabas...sasalubunin kayo..tapos sisikuhin yung guy friend mo..at worst bigla na lang sasaktan kasama mo....it will really freak you out..BE CAREFUL!

yeah, really creepy.  makes use do a double take on people who we let in our lives.  hey TS, how was your stalker before he became a stalker?  i mean where did you meet, etc, and when did he turn from friend to stalker?
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« Reply #68 on: August 14, 2013, 01:50:36 am »
ay.... ::) lalake ka pala? anyways, nagawa ko na din yan... I had a boy friend that pretended to be my bf... wala pa din. Kahit daw dalawa sila payag sya!

WTF ginamitan mo ba ng gayuma yan? laffman:: -- ano ba naging ayaw mo sa kanya? alisin na natin yung pagiging stalker muna niya? wala ba siyang trait na talagang maganda?

basta never make a move na pwede niyang gawin dahilan na gawan ka niya ng masama na something aggressive or offensive masyado sa kanya like na ipahiya siya. maging handa ka lang rin kung kinakailangan mo ng taser or pepper spray bumili ka na haha the ipablotter mo habang maaga ;D

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« Reply #69 on: August 14, 2013, 01:58:45 am »
WTF ginamitan mo ba ng gayuma yan? laffman:: -- ano ba naging ayaw mo sa kanya? alisin na natin yung pagiging stalker muna niya? wala ba siyang trait na talagang maganda?

basta never make a move na pwede niyang gawin dahilan na gawan ka niya ng masama na something aggressive or offensive masyado sa kanya like na ipahiya siya. maging handa ka lang rin kung kinakailangan mo ng taser or pepper spray bumili ka na haha the ipablotter mo habang maaga ;D

baka kulangin sa pepper spray / taser!  pagka-deploy ng pepper spray / taser, sundan mo ng saksak ng isang mongol no 1 pencil sabay bali sa loob!  ewan ko lang pag bumalik pa yan sa pagiging stalker mo!  seriously, wala ka bang pinsan, kaibigan lalake na in a position to help you?  yung tipong malaki katawan tapos marami tropang ganun din ang dating. 
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« Reply #70 on: August 14, 2013, 02:09:22 am »
TS, ipa-"DIGONG" mo na lang kaya yan!  At nang ma-"human rights"...  Hehehe!  Sensya na, taga Davao kase...
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« Reply #71 on: August 14, 2013, 02:25:17 am »
TS, ipa-"DIGONG" mo na lang kaya yan!  At nang ma-"human rights"...  Hehehe!  Sensya na, taga Davao kase...

ha ha ha, Digong talaga eh.  huwag naman, masyadong drastic pag Digong agad.  pwede namang pitikin lang ng banayad at nang malaman niya na medyo sumosobra na siya sa kanyang mga ginagawa.  pag medyo nag-level-up na ulit pagkatapos na mapitik eh di may dahilan na para i-upgrade na rin ang approach sa kanya. 

for sure, marami nang mga human rights advocates ang aalma sa mga pinagsasabi ko.  tatahimik na lang mga yan pag nangyari ang ganyan sa isang kapamilya nila.     
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« Reply #72 on: August 14, 2013, 02:41:42 am »
boyfriend-ed mo na lang...then magpakita ka masamang ugali....no touch, no kiss, no s3x, no date, no watching of movies, walang dalaw sa gabi...umotot at mangulangot ka sa harap nya...turn-off attitude talaga....hehehe...wala lang.....pero ingat-ingat lang po...

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« Reply #73 on: August 14, 2013, 03:48:47 am »
@ ka-batch praeto_RYAN

Hahaha!  Nag-level up na kase, from manliligaw to stalker... Delikado na pag nag level up pa ng isa to "OBSSESSED FAN", nakow...  Hahaha!
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« Reply #74 on: August 14, 2013, 06:23:19 am »
obsessed/stalker guy has different mentality..be careful...kahit magsama ka guy friend/pretend bf...it will not do you good...mahirap pa balikan yung kaibigan mo...

it's really creepy right?...standing in the dark..standing in the corner....paglabas mo opisina..pagbyahe mo nasa likod mo...pag gala mo sa mall, nasa paligid-ligid....and not knowing his next action would be?...that is really scary...

tapos pag may kasamang kang guy, a friend/pretend bf/suitor....bigla na lang lalabas...sasalubunin kayo..tapos sisikuhin yung guy friend mo..at worst bigla na lang sasaktan kasama mo....it will really freak you out..BE CAREFUL!

Nakaka praning talaga sya.. :)
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