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Men! Help!
« on: August 09, 2013, 02:18:38 am »
How do you tell off a guy ( a persistent suitor turned stalker)... nicely?
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #1 on: August 09, 2013, 02:28:20 am »
Quote from: Schandelah on August 09, 2013, 02:18:38 am
How do you tell off a guy ( a persistent suitor turned stalker)... nicely?


Real man, knows his limit.
Real man, knows his place and standing.
Real man, accepts defeat and upfront confrontation.


"We" prefer you say to us directly, right in our face whats the real score. Straight, direct, honest and for sure we will understand.

That is how real man should be.
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #2 on: August 09, 2013, 02:30:39 am »
Well I guessed then Dave he's not a real man.. ang kulit kasi... pa blotter ko na kaya? :)
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #3 on: August 09, 2013, 02:39:32 am »
Quote from: Schandelah on August 09, 2013, 02:30:39 am
Well I guessed then Dave he's not a real man.. ang kulit kasi... pa blotter ko na kaya? :)

Awzt! If its invading your privacy and its getting annoying na and its making you uncomfortable then its not good, it might develop  into obsession (I think parang ganun na ata?). Mahirap na yan... Hehehe


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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #4 on: August 09, 2013, 02:44:24 am »
Yeah.. One night umuwi ako from gimik.. nandun sa dilim sa 3rd floor ng building where I live... Nakakatakot... nakiusap na ko sa kanya.. pero gosh! ang kulit.. Gusto ko na nga barilin eh! Ahaha
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #5 on: August 09, 2013, 02:44:51 am »
there is no nice way to tell off such a guy. throw all that tact out the window and tell it like it is.
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #6 on: August 09, 2013, 02:47:10 am »
Quote from: Schandelah on August 09, 2013, 02:44:24 am
Yeah.. One night umuwi ako from gimik.. nandun sa dilim sa 3rd floor ng building where I live... Nakakatakot... nakiusap na ko sa kanya.. pero gosh! ang kulit.. Gusto ko na nga barilin eh! Ahaha

wow! kakaiba siya. tell him by slapping him with a restraining order! hahaha
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #7 on: August 09, 2013, 02:50:45 am »
What kind of level of stalking ba?  Or is it stalking na ba, or you're just being uncomfortable when he's around. Just dump him, don't see the point why dumping should be turn out nicely.  No offense but some women think much just like when they tend to exaggerate how bad their relationships are. :D Just make it clear you are not interested, explain if he persists you will take it further ie. the law.
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #8 on: August 09, 2013, 02:53:32 am »
Quote from: bleep on August 09, 2013, 02:47:10 am
wow! kakaiba siya. tell him by slapping him with a restraining order! hahaha

haha! I like that bleep!
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #9 on: August 09, 2013, 02:55:14 am »
This is getting really interesting and scary for you! Hehehehe....

Baka need mu back up na Espiya Boys dyan?
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #10 on: August 09, 2013, 02:58:06 am »
Quote from: leightot on August 09, 2013, 02:50:45 am
What kind of level of stalking ba?  Or is it stalking na ba, or you're just being uncomfortable when he's around. Just dump him, don't see the point why dumping should be turn out nicely.  No offense but some women think much just like when they tend to exaggerate how bad their relationships are. :D Just make it clear you are not interested, explain if he persists you will take it further ie. the law.

Very annoying na leigh... One time I got sick... wasn't able to go to work for three days... He was at my front door the following morning.. asking if I am okay.. He's worried daw kasi di nya ko nakitang pumasok... It turned out na.. he'll use different cars and see kung pumasok ako sa umaga and see again kung anong oras ako umuwi? diba nakaka praning yun? and sa FB he'll use different accounts just to look at my pictures.. susme.. Many times... lahat na ng approach ginawa ko... malumay.. diplomatic... mataray... nakiki-usap.. wala pa rin!
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #11 on: August 09, 2013, 03:00:56 am »
Quote from: DjDaveTrance on August 09, 2013, 02:55:14 am
This is getting really interesting and scary for you! Hehehehe....

Baka need mu back up na Espiya Boys dyan?
Dami available for body guard for free. 

Hehehe....

Magagaling ba yan Dave? Padala na dito yan! :)
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #12 on: August 09, 2013, 03:13:02 am »
Quote from: DjDaveTrance on August 09, 2013, 02:55:14 am
This is getting really interesting and scary for you! Hehehehe....

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Hehehe....

Im in sir dave...count me in. Basta For our espiya sis
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #13 on: August 09, 2013, 03:14:44 am »
pa blotter mo sa barangay ate baka sa susunod may gawin na talaga yan na masama sayo
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #14 on: August 09, 2013, 03:16:42 am »
Quote from: raberdaki on August 09, 2013, 03:14:44 am
pa blotter mo sa barangay ate baka sa susunod may gawin na talaga yan na masama sayo

I'm seriously thinking about that raberdaki... Thank you.. :)
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« Reply #15 on: August 09, 2013, 03:20:54 am »
Quote from: Schandelah on August 09, 2013, 02:58:06 am
Very annoying na leigh... One time I got sick... wasn't able to go to work for three days... He was at my front door the following morning.. asking if I am okay.. He's worried daw kasi di nya ko nakitang pumasok... It turned out na.. he'll use different cars and see kung pumasok ako sa umaga and see again kung anong oras ako umuwi? diba nakaka praning yun? and sa FB he'll use different accounts just to look at my pictures.. susme.. Many times... lahat na ng approach ginawa ko... malumay.. diplomatic... mataray... nakiki-usap.. wala pa rin!

I see, ask someone to pretend your bf IE. leightot  laffman:: you'll see the progress lalayo din yan if he knows you have someone else. Tara lets hold our hands while entering your place haha kidding. Anyway just take it to the authority na lang for peace of mind na din.
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #16 on: August 09, 2013, 03:24:54 am »
Quote from: Schandelah on August 09, 2013, 02:18:38 am
How do you tell off a guy ( a persistent suitor turned stalker)... nicely?

Just tell him you're in love with someone else, or you're looking for a specific trait in a guy.. Sabihin mo gusto mo ng billionaire.. If he really likes you, and he strives to be a billionaire, sagutin mo na.. laffman::
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #17 on: August 09, 2013, 03:36:35 am »
ate payo lang sayo wag mo pagselosin ang ganyang klaseng mga tao wag mong ipamukha sa kanya na may BF kana kasi lalo yang maghahabol at susunod sayo basta wag kang gagawa ng kahit na ano makakasakit sa damdamnin niya....
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« Reply #18 on: August 09, 2013, 03:37:57 am »
Quote from: leightot on August 09, 2013, 03:20:54 am
I see, ask someone to pretend your bf IE. leightot  laffman:: you'll see the progress lalayo din yan if he knows you have someone else. Tara lets hold our hands while entering your place haha kidding. Anyway just take it to the authority na lang for peace of mind na din.
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« Reply #19 on: August 09, 2013, 03:40:56 am »
Quote from: Master Dave on August 09, 2013, 03:24:54 am
Just tell him you're in love with someone else, or you're looking for a specific trait in a guy.. Sabihin mo gusto mo ng billionaire.. If he really likes you, and he strives to be a billionaire, sagutin mo na.. laffman::

Ayan pala si MD. Use him as your temporary bf. Bachelor na bachelor yan. Macho papa pa. Hahaha!  :P
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« Reply #20 on: August 09, 2013, 03:44:08 am »
Quote from: Schandelah on August 09, 2013, 02:58:06 am
Very annoying na leigh... One time I got sick... wasn't able to go to work for three days... He was at my front door the following morning.. asking if I am okay.. He's worried daw kasi di nya ko nakitang pumasok... It turned out na.. he'll use different cars and see kung pumasok ako sa umaga and see again kung anong oras ako umuwi? diba nakaka praning yun? and sa FB he'll use different accounts just to look at my pictures.. susme.. Many times... lahat na ng approach ginawa ko... malumay.. diplomatic... mataray... nakiki-usap.. wala pa rin!
oh my ...
nahilo ako.  laffman::
kung ganyan na ang level ng "obsession" niya ... I think hindi na tama yung ginagawa niya if nanliligaw siya.
especially na naiirita kayo sa presence niya.
turning him down shouldn't be done "nicely". dapat yung tagos hanggang likod niya. yung magtatanda talaga sya.
ang harsh ko, 'no?  laffman::
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« Reply #21 on: August 09, 2013, 04:18:46 am »
my gf wanted to get rid of persistent suitors. she kept telling them off but wouldnt stop even if she already had a bf. i had to face these asses and tell them to back off.

again, there is no nice way. if you dont like him, why find a nice way to tell him?

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« Reply #22 on: August 09, 2013, 06:11:21 am »
Quote from: leightot on August 09, 2013, 03:20:54 am
I see, ask someone to pretend your bf IE. leightot  laffman:: you'll see the progress lalayo din yan if he knows you have someone else. Tara lets hold our hands while entering your place haha kidding. Anyway just take it to the authority na lang for peace of mind na din.

ay.... ::) lalake ka pala? anyways, nagawa ko na din yan... I had a boy friend that pretended to be my bf... wala pa din. Kahit daw dalawa sila payag sya!
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« Reply #23 on: August 09, 2013, 06:13:16 am »
Quote from: Master Dave on August 09, 2013, 03:24:54 am
Just tell him you're in love with someone else, or you're looking for a specific trait in a guy.. Sabihin mo gusto mo ng billionaire.. If he really likes you, and he strives to be a billionaire, sagutin mo na.. laffman::

He is actually from a well off family.. Ewan ko ba anung nakita nun sa kin? Masakit na talaga ang bangs ko sa kanya. :)
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« Reply #24 on: August 09, 2013, 06:15:15 am »
Quote from: Pierro7 on August 09, 2013, 03:44:08 am
oh my ...
nahilo ako.  laffman::
kung ganyan na ang level ng "obsession" niya ... I think hindi na tama yung ginagawa niya if nanliligaw siya.
especially na naiirita kayo sa presence niya.
turning him down shouldn't be done "nicely". dapat yung tagos hanggang likod niya. yung magtatanda talaga sya.
ang harsh ko, 'no?  laffman::

Di kaya maging chop chop lady ako nyan? :)
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