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Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« on: May 06, 2013, 06:35:45 pm »

Yan minsan ang tanung ko mga Co spy..  Kasi hetu ang sitwasyun!

I am in mid 30's na ngayun may kinakasama but most of the time sa Singapore siya, she is 25,we have a 7 year old child so 18 siya na preggy! GF ko siya when she is 14 ako by that time 25. B ut I have a GF din noon na 17 YO kasabay niya. No issue There.
During napunta siya sa Singapore her parents live there napunta naman ako sa ibang bansa I have a relationship na naman I am 28 and the girl is 16 (half Caucasian) he rlast name Vo. That didn't last long kasi umuwi rin ako dito sa Iloilo. now medyo hetu ang problema I am having a Friend with benefit or that is how I see it sa relationship namin guess how old... 15! Hindi po ako ang namimilit sa sitwasyun parang kusang dumadating.. I promise Hindi talaga!

malas nga ba o swerte, My view is do we create or destiny or destiny comes to you?

Mga Co Spy.. sana  ::dontflame

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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #1 on: May 06, 2013, 07:35:32 pm »
Pre hindi ko masyadong naintindihan yung story mo pero yung part na may Friend with benefits ka and parang pinapalabas mo na wala kang magawa para umiwas don ay isang malaking "B*LL SH*T".

You can always say NO, "mas pinili" mo lang talagang pumasok sa sitwasyon na yan kaya wag kang parang bata na hindi kayang panindigan ang actions mo at sisise sa destiny or kung ano ano.

And dude what the heck 15yrs old yung friend with benefit mo? ikaw mid 30's? well kanya kanyang fetish siguro yan... smoking::

and yes no flaming, sorry if harsh or offensive, pero that's what I have to say. 

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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #2 on: May 06, 2013, 07:48:52 pm »
kawawa ka naman walang Espiya sa selda...

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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #3 on: May 06, 2013, 07:52:41 pm »
Pre hindi ko masyadong naintindihan yung story mo pero yung part na may Friend with benefits ka and parang pinapalabas mo na wala kang magawa para umiwas don ay isang malaking "B*LL SH*T".

You can always say NO, "mas pinili" mo lang talagang pumasok sa sitwasyon na yan kaya wag kang parang bata na hindi kayang panindigan ang actions mo at sisise sa destiny or kung ano ano.

And dude what the heck 15yrs old yung friend with benefit mo? ikaw mid 30's? well kanya kanyang fetish siguro yan... smoking::

and yes no flaming, sorry if harsh or offensive, pero that's what I have to say. 

sa unag part bro is that it happen to me before.. noong nakilala ko kinakasama ko ngayun she is also 11 years younger than me..

accepted but for me I only took what is there. Iniwasan ko yan as in iniwasan ko pero may dumadating talaga

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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #4 on: May 06, 2013, 07:57:13 pm »
sa unag part bro is that it happen to me before.. noong nakilala ko kinakasama ko ngayun she is also 11 years younger than me..

accepted but for me I only took what is there. Iniwasan ko yan as in iniwasan ko pero may dumadating talaga

Hindi ako naniniwala sa may dumating na term. Ano yung kusang sinabi ng girl sayo na "Manong Friends with Benefit tayo!"
Ikaw pa rin ang unang gumawa ng move kaya hindi mo masasabing dumating. Ang sabihin mo hindi mo lang mapigilan.

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« Reply #5 on: May 06, 2013, 08:00:18 pm »
Okay na sana eh, iniwasan mo kamo sabi mo dba, nandun na yung tama eh, hindi mo ngalang tinapos, bumigay ka din sa huli.

2 lang yan for me, its either hindi ka nag iisip, hindi mo naisip ang mga possible mang yare sa pinag gagawa mo, hindi mo naisip na mali yan kaya ginawa mo pa rin, OR talagang hindi ganung kahalaga sayo ang pamilya mo para gumawa ng bagay na sigurado akong alam mo makakasira dito.

And please, sobrang nakaka irita lang grabe na sinisisi mo sa destiny or wala kang choice sa mga pinag gagawa mo. Parang hindi ka 30+ yrs old.

Good luck, alam ko pwede mo pa maayos yan, KUNG PIPILIIN MO LANG NA AYUSIN.

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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #6 on: May 06, 2013, 08:01:18 pm »
Hindi ako naniniwala sa may dumating na term. Ano yung kusang sinabi ng girl sayo na "Manong Friends with Benefit tayo!"
Ikaw pa rin ang unang gumawa ng move kaya hindi mo masasabing dumating. Ang sabihin mo hindi mo lang mapigilan.

 ;D Brader Telesforo... bakit naman "Manong"

Brad ang payo ko... baka ma "Mang Kanor" Part 2 ka... if you can have it with a "legal" aged woman... why do it "KAMIKAZE" sa 15 year old...

Kung ikaw ang tatay ng 15 year old... would you be happy...


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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #7 on: May 06, 2013, 08:04:32 pm »
;D Brader Telesforo... bakit naman "Manong"

Brad ang payo ko... baka ma "Mang Kanor" Part 2 ka... if you can have it with a "legal" aged woman... why do it "KAMIKAZE" sa 15 year old...

Kung ikaw ang tatay ng 15 year old... would you be happy...

Brad alangan naman Kuya ang itawag nya sa halos tatay na nya. Dapat lang Manong. Ang term na kuya pang "slim" na pagitan lang na edad. Hehehe.


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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #8 on: May 06, 2013, 08:10:15 pm »
;D Brader Telesforo... bakit naman "Manong"

Brad ang payo ko... baka ma "Mang Kanor" Part 2 ka... if you can have it with a "legal" aged woman... why do it "KAMIKAZE" sa 15 year old...

Kung ikaw ang tatay ng 15 year old... would you be happy...



Kung akot tatay magagalit siyempre..

 ::dontflame

Yun nga mga Bro  and sis nagtatanung nga..

Hindi ko siya pinpilit dumdaan sa bahay pa minsan minsan Since l work homebase nagpapakita ng motives ako naman eh kumagat na lang..

Yes Manong tawag sakin that's how we call it here nakakahiya?..... yes

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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #9 on: May 06, 2013, 08:18:48 pm »
bakas simo meg ba.just do what is right bro.


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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #10 on: May 06, 2013, 08:27:05 pm »
 ??? wait did i read it right? your 30 and your banging a 15 year old?

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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #11 on: May 06, 2013, 08:30:32 pm »
Kung akot tatay magagalit siyempre..

 ::dontflame

Yun nga mga Bro  and sis nagtatanung nga..

Hindi ko siya pinpilit dumdaan sa bahay pa minsan minsan Since l work homebase nagpapakita ng motives ako naman eh kumagat na lang..

Yes Manong tawag sakin that's how we call it here nakakahiya?..... yes

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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #12 on: May 06, 2013, 08:33:26 pm »
Okay na sana eh, iniwasan mo kamo sabi mo dba, nandun na yung tama eh, hindi mo ngalang tinapos, bumigay ka din sa huli.

Eto sang-ayun ako sa sinabi ng kapatid natin dito. So sa madaling salita, kasalanan mo pa din. Ikaw gumagawa ng action eh, kung iiwas ka or kung itutuloy mo.

Now with regards to your question kung Malas nga ba or Buenas... Well for me Malas. Malas yung mga nakaka-relation mo Sir... Kasi kahit sabihin na natin na sila ang may gusto nun, pwede mo naman sana silang iwasan and much better bigyan pa ng advise. Kaso bumibigay ka nga eh.

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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #13 on: May 06, 2013, 08:37:49 pm »
Yan minsan ang tanung ko mga Co spy..  Kasi hetu ang sitwasyun!

I am in mid 30's na ngayun may kinakasama but most of the time sa Singapore siya, she is 25,we have a 7 year old child so 18 siya na preggy! GF ko siya when she is 14 ako by that time 25. B ut I have a GF din noon na 17 YO kasabay niya. No issue There.
During napunta siya sa Singapore her parents live there napunta naman ako sa ibang bansa I have a relationship na naman I am 28 and the girl is 16 (half Caucasian) he rlast name Vo. That didn't last long kasi umuwi rin ako dito sa Iloilo. now medyo hetu ang problema I am having a Friend with benefit or that is how I see it sa relationship namin guess how old... 15! Hindi po ako ang namimilit sa sitwasyun parang kusang dumadating.. I promise Hindi talaga!

malas nga ba o swerte, My view is do we create or destiny or destiny comes to you?

Mga Co Spy.. sana  ::dontflame


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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #14 on: May 06, 2013, 08:56:13 pm »
Kung akot tatay magagalit siyempre..

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kung ako tatay niyang mga yan, at you had them when they are vulnerable, you better pray and you better hide.

jailbait, had my fair share of admiration from such age group back then, however, the "BOOST" to one's ego is not that much for me to pursue such situation.  most of the time kasi is they just miss their father's love and if you just play right, you could have them.  the keywords there are "miss a father's love" and "you play it right you could have them".  just like what someone above said, you saw and exploited the situation, hence you are majorly responsible for the situations you are creating. 
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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #15 on: May 06, 2013, 09:01:31 pm »
Malas yan! 100% Pag nag kataon na natorete ang utak ng Girl kalaboso ka dyan Brod. Menor de edad yan!

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« Reply #16 on: May 06, 2013, 09:18:53 pm »
so you like them really young pareng ilongo?

i don't think na may kinalaman ang luck sa sitwasyon mo. Either ginusto mo or hinde. at sa kwento mo, mukhang gustong gusto mo.

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« Reply #17 on: May 06, 2013, 09:21:40 pm »
brad..parang anak mo na yun..can you imagine your child?at isa pa minor brad..hirap nyan brad when you say quit baka mag drama at gumawa eksena..habang maga pa make a move to quit..

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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #18 on: May 06, 2013, 09:48:44 pm »
Kung akot tatay magagalit siyempre..

 ::dontflame

Yun nga mga Bro  and sis nagtatanung nga..

Hindi ko siya pinpilit dumdaan sa bahay pa minsan minsan Since l work homebase nagpapakita ng motives ako naman eh kumagat na lang..

Yes Manong tawag sakin that's how we call it here nakakahiya?..... yes

Seigneur, with all due respect, the statement you made above pretty much verifies that you chose to enter into a relationship with a fifteen-year-old. I doubt if you can chalk it up to some cosmic "what-was-meant-to-be" (as an American sports writer likes to say).
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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #19 on: May 06, 2013, 10:08:49 pm »
tama. .wag mo sabihin na swerte. .its your decision to make, about sa mga bagay na dumadamting sa life mo. .sa tingin ko pare wala kang conscience. .are you visiting the church? or are you a muslim. nevertheless yung definition mo nang swerte nasa pagiisip mo na din. .swerte sa kamanyakan? alam mo naman na mali yung ginagawa mo eh. It feel so much better kapag alam mo na nageenjoy ka sa buhay nang walang ginagawang mali. ,you can still look cool naman kahit walang mga chikababes nasa pagdadala mo nalang.

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« Reply #20 on: May 06, 2013, 10:20:05 pm »
tama. .wag mo sabihin na swerte. .its your decision to make, about sa mga bagay na dumadamting sa life mo. .sa tingin ko pare wala kang conscience. .are you visiting the church?
I am not saying maswerte that is why may option, is it wrong I say maybe or mali. Yan nga eh humihingi ng opinion.
I am not saying its cool factor dahil I am retired na sa cool.. Sa akin lang is it is a consenting action walng pinilit or money involve

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« Reply #21 on: May 06, 2013, 10:27:23 pm »
I am not saying maswerte that is why may option, is it wrong I say maybe or mali. Yan nga eh humihingi ng opinion.
I am not saying its cool factor dahil I am retired na sa cool.. Sa akin lang is it is a consenting action walng pinilit or money involve

In my opinion Mali.

Pero malaki ka na at may edad na...sila mga underage. yun na lang isiipn mo pareng ilongo.

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« Reply #22 on: May 06, 2013, 10:36:37 pm »
kahit pa sabihin mong walang money involved, ang point dito isa ka rin sa dahilan kaya nagkakaroon ka ng mga ganyang ka relasyon. pansinin mo bakit lahat ng past na relationship mo puro ganyan? dahil sayo. wala nang iba pang dahilan para diyan.

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« Reply #23 on: May 06, 2013, 10:49:47 pm »
I am not saying maswerte that is why may option, is it wrong I say maybe or mali. Yan nga eh humihingi ng opinion.
I am not saying its cool factor dahil I am retired na sa cool.. Sa akin lang is it is a consenting action walng pinilit or money involve

based on your above post, you should have titled your topic, "is it right or wrong", or something similar.  however, your topic is denoting of, well, subtle bragging.  am i lucky or am i lucky.  am i lucky or unfortunate.  if your point is to ask for advice if what you are doing, and what you are in, is right, then you should have chosen a better title.  and you should have rephrased your whole post.  i don't see any hint of you asking for advice on whether it is right or wrong.  all you are asking is if espiya thinks you are LUCKY with your current situation.  your topic title is "Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?"  where in your title, or even your introductory post sa topic ang hint na you are asking for advice if right or wrong ang ginagawa mo?  you even said (and I quote) "Hindi po ako ang namimilit sa sitwasyun parang kusang dumadating.. I promise Hindi talaga!"  that to me is subtle bragging.  or you can enlighten me more if i have indeed "skipped" an important detail in your post. 
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Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
« Reply #24 on: May 06, 2013, 10:50:36 pm »
ang masasabi ko lang sayo TS eh parang stick ng Sigarilyo yang situation mo dyan sa menor na yan. Oo habang tumatagal sumasarap pero mas lumiliit naman ang chance mo na makaiwas, baka sa bandang huli bad KARMA abutin mo.