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How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« on: November 01, 2008, 02:36:59 am »
How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
By  eHow Relationships & Family Editor


There is more to life than living out the lyrics of a country and western song. If her cheatin' heart is more than you can stand, it is time for you to change your tune or face the music.

Step1
Think about the source of your suspicion. If you "heard it from a friend who heard it from a friend who heard it from another she's been messin' around," look for more reliable information.

Step2
Make sure that jealousy and insecurity are not making you falsely accuse someone you care about.

Step3
Trust your instincts. If you think that your girlfriend is cheating on you, then ask her. If her answer is, "Oh, no honey. Of course not! How could you even ask such a thing? You know I love you and only you (kiss-kiss)," but you simply don't believe her, make sure your mistrust is based on something you witness or experience.

Step4
Noticing a change in your relationship or her behavior would make your suspicion reasonable. Seeing her with someone else, who looks clearly to be more than a friend, is pretty solid evidence.

Step5
Consider your physical health and emotional well-being. Could she be putting you at risk for sexually transmitted diseases? Can you deal with being one of many?

Step6
Think about what you would tell a sibling or a best friend to do in your situation. Is fear keeping you from following your own advice?

Step7
Discuss your feelings with your girlfriend. Tell her how her cheating is affecting you. Explain what you're looking for in this relationship.

Step8
Listen to what she has to say. Her response to your concerns should give you the information you need to do what is right for you.

Step9
Inform your girlfriend of your decision, whether it is to forgive her and start over, have a brief separation while you figure out what to do, or part ways.

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #1 on: November 01, 2008, 02:49:13 am »
nangyari na sakin to!

ang sakit!

huhuhuhhu!

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #2 on: November 01, 2008, 03:35:22 am »
Nako sana naman ay huwag sakin mangyari to breakan nalang ako kaysa ganyan mangyari  smoking::
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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #3 on: November 03, 2008, 08:13:13 am »
actually ngagamit ko ito.. ahahacore

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #4 on: November 03, 2008, 08:18:20 am »
HMM..MA TRY NGA..hehhehee toast::


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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #5 on: November 03, 2008, 09:30:34 am »
sken ang lupet as in grabe pag defend p nya sa lalaki >:(


My post does'nt help? Well,Tengna mow!

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #6 on: December 31, 2008, 07:20:49 am »
teka, bat ba naman tayo papayag na maunahan na magcheat. hahaha  as early as suspicion palang ... unahan na natin para di masyadong masakit hahaha toast:: happy new year!!!

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #7 on: January 23, 2009, 04:00:50 pm »
ask ko lng may nakakuha n b ng scandal nito.. ito ung fster account nya?? familiar b?


http://profiles.friendster.com/5592153

http://profiles.friendster.com/85600257

or kahit pics?

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #8 on: January 26, 2009, 02:06:51 pm »
ask ko lng may nakakuha n b ng scandal nito.. ito ung fster account nya?? familiar b?


http://profiles.friendster.com/5592153

http://profiles.friendster.com/85600257

or kahit pics?


Dude, what are you talking about? Maling thread ka pa ata.

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #9 on: February 12, 2009, 05:44:19 pm »
May mga girls din pala na nagchicheat noh...

Bat ganun Pag ang girls nagcheat very big deal..

pero pag ang boys parang normal lang...tsk, tsk!

Unfair...
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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #10 on: March 15, 2009, 10:07:08 pm »
May mga girls din pala na nagchicheat noh...

Bat ganun Pag ang girls nagcheat very big deal..

pero pag ang boys parang normal lang...tsk, tsk!

Unfair...

tama ka! i dunno why din. maybe it's unusual? pati nga sa constitution natin, sexist rin. maybe because lalaki ang gumawa ng laws. hayzz

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #11 on: May 08, 2009, 12:08:00 pm »
tama ka! i dunno why din. maybe it's unusual? pati nga sa constitution natin, sexist rin. maybe because lalaki ang gumawa ng laws. hayzz

lets face it the reason behind is that the intensity of morality issue is far more sensitive if the Girls do it!!

Guys are naturally promiscuous that even applies to lower kind of animals and girls are suppose to stick to one!

it's natures way of curbing the population! get's bagets?

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #12 on: August 01, 2009, 11:35:16 pm »
is this proven?  ::investigate


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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #13 on: August 14, 2009, 09:02:10 am »
hindi naman.. malaking bagay rin yun pag nagcheat yung lalake
iba iba lang ng perception
kung nagmamahalan tlga parehong big deal yan mpa lalake o babae

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #14 on: September 14, 2009, 11:46:39 am »
i got screwed also. :(

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #15 on: October 02, 2009, 03:04:24 pm »
me either!!!! hahaiz. . . . .imagine i caught her red handed!!! tsk!!!!

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #16 on: October 02, 2009, 10:52:03 pm »
hay nako... kakabadtrip talaga ang ganitong sitwasyon. sana meron ring katapat

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #17 on: October 19, 2010, 02:41:24 am »
meron ba tayo ditong "anti-kabit" logo?
sablay:

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #18 on: June 18, 2011, 03:45:32 pm »
lets face it the reason behind is that the intensity of morality issue is far more sensitive if the Girls do it!!

Guys are naturally promiscuous that even applies to lower kind of animals and girls are suppose to stick to one!

it's natures way of curbing the population! get's bagets?

toast::  toast::      toast::  toast::                             


sa insekto at sa ibang hayo,, parang mas sexually oriented ang babae..... ngayon sa mga western countries,, ang intensity ng morility ay parehas lang

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #19 on: June 26, 2011, 07:33:49 am »
Nangyari na sa akin ito and take note sa ex pa niya. Inamin naman niya lahat lahat at tinangap ko siya ulit ng buong puso. Wala taung no choice kasi wala mga kapatid mahal na mahal ko.  ::inlove

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #20 on: July 07, 2011, 06:30:37 am »
Nangyari sakin ito sa ex ko na nag-last ng six years ang relasyon namin. Humingi ng space at pinagbigyan ko yon pala nakikipag-date na sa iba. Kinausap ko inexplain sa kanya yung mga nangyari samin, kung diba nya pinapahalagaan dahil ako ang naka-una sa kanya, tapos sagot sakin boring na daw ang relasyon namin. Kaya hinayaan ko sya at sinabihan ko na parang nasa giyera ako at wala ng bala so kailangan ko ng umatras. Tapos after a few month's tumatawag nakikipag-ayos kaso may mahal nakong iba which is sya ang napangasawa ko ngayon.  Katwiran ko non nagawa mo na minsan maaring magawa mo pa ulit. Ayun balita ko chickboy ang napangasawa nya kaya laking hinayang nya at nakipag-hiwalay sya sakin.  ::pampam

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #21 on: August 02, 2011, 01:47:27 pm »
This only means hindi lang ang mga lalake ang nangangaliwa... It is one thing to be suspicious it is another thing when you are presented with the facts...

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #22 on: August 16, 2011, 08:33:32 pm »
Proven naman talaga na madami ding babaeng cheater.....

.....Sobrang sakit lang, pag dumating sating mga lalake yung time na talagang mahal na mahal natin yung babae, tapos yun pa yung babaeng manloloko satin....Shempre mahal na mahal natin, kaya patatawarin natin and kakalimutan natin yung nagawa nila.


Anyway, mas maganda talaga most of the time yung instinct nating mga lalake yung gagamitin....

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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #23 on: September 06, 2011, 03:24:24 pm »
it happened to me also, caught my girlfriend for almost 5 years having an affair with another man, sakit sobra pero dahil sa mahal ko talaga siya, ipinaglaban ko siya and accepted her again with open arms, mas masya na kami ngayun  ::inlove

when I assessed the facts which led her to commit that, I find fault on my side.... may pagkukulang din tayo kaya nila nagagawa yun...
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Re: How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
« Reply #24 on: September 06, 2011, 07:27:57 pm »
If you're really in-love you won't cheat...
If you're full you won't ask one more meat...

It is simply as it is.