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Espiya Lobby => ESPIYA Cafe => Catch a cheating Wife/Girlfriend => : Rockford November 01, 2008, 02:36:59 AM
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How to Handle a Cheating Girlfriend
By eHow Relationships & Family Editor
There is more to life than living out the lyrics of a country and western song. If her cheatin' heart is more than you can stand, it is time for you to change your tune or face the music.
Step1
Think about the source of your suspicion. If you "heard it from a friend who heard it from a friend who heard it from another she's been messin' around," look for more reliable information.
Step2
Make sure that jealousy and insecurity are not making you falsely accuse someone you care about.
Step3
Trust your instincts. If you think that your girlfriend is cheating on you, then ask her. If her answer is, "Oh, no honey. Of course not! How could you even ask such a thing? You know I love you and only you (kiss-kiss)," but you simply don't believe her, make sure your mistrust is based on something you witness or experience.
Step4
Noticing a change in your relationship or her behavior would make your suspicion reasonable. Seeing her with someone else, who looks clearly to be more than a friend, is pretty solid evidence.
Step5
Consider your physical health and emotional well-being. Could she be putting you at risk for sexually transmitted diseases? Can you deal with being one of many?
Step6
Think about what you would tell a sibling or a best friend to do in your situation. Is fear keeping you from following your own advice?
Step7
Discuss your feelings with your girlfriend. Tell her how her cheating is affecting you. Explain what you're looking for in this relationship.
Step8
Listen to what she has to say. Her response to your concerns should give you the information you need to do what is right for you.
Step9
Inform your girlfriend of your decision, whether it is to forgive her and start over, have a brief separation while you figure out what to do, or part ways.
Source:
http://www.ehow.com/how_7635_handle-cheating-girlfriend.html
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nangyari na sakin to!
ang sakit!
huhuhuhhu!
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Nako sana naman ay huwag sakin mangyari to breakan nalang ako kaysa ganyan mangyari smoking::
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actually ngagamit ko ito.. ahahacore
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HMM..MA TRY NGA..hehhehee toast::
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sken ang lupet as in grabe pag defend p nya sa lalaki >:(
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teka, bat ba naman tayo papayag na maunahan na magcheat. hahaha as early as suspicion palang ... unahan na natin para di masyadong masakit hahaha toast:: happy new year!!!
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ask ko lng may nakakuha n b ng scandal nito.. ito ung fster account nya?? familiar b?
http://profiles.friendster.com/5592153
http://profiles.friendster.com/85600257
or kahit pics?
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ask ko lng may nakakuha n b ng scandal nito.. ito ung fster account nya?? familiar b?
http://profiles.friendster.com/5592153
http://profiles.friendster.com/85600257
or kahit pics?
Dude, what are you talking about? Maling thread ka pa ata.
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May mga girls din pala na nagchicheat noh...
Bat ganun Pag ang girls nagcheat very big deal..
pero pag ang boys parang normal lang...tsk, tsk!
Unfair...
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May mga girls din pala na nagchicheat noh...
Bat ganun Pag ang girls nagcheat very big deal..
pero pag ang boys parang normal lang...tsk, tsk!
Unfair...
tama ka! i dunno why din. maybe it's unusual? pati nga sa constitution natin, sexist rin. maybe because lalaki ang gumawa ng laws. hayzz
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tama ka! i dunno why din. maybe it's unusual? pati nga sa constitution natin, sexist rin. maybe because lalaki ang gumawa ng laws. hayzz
lets face it the reason behind is that the intensity of morality issue is far more sensitive if the Girls do it!!
Guys are naturally promiscuous that even applies to lower kind of animals and girls are suppose to stick to one!
it's natures way of curbing the population! get's bagets?
toast:: toast:: toast:: toast::
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is this proven? ::investigate
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hindi naman.. malaking bagay rin yun pag nagcheat yung lalake
iba iba lang ng perception
kung nagmamahalan tlga parehong big deal yan mpa lalake o babae
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i got screwed also. :(
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me either!!!! hahaiz. . . . .imagine i caught her red handed!!! tsk!!!!
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hay nako... kakabadtrip talaga ang ganitong sitwasyon. sana meron ring katapat
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meron ba tayo ditong "anti-kabit" logo?
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lets face it the reason behind is that the intensity of morality issue is far more sensitive if the Girls do it!!
Guys are naturally promiscuous that even applies to lower kind of animals and girls are suppose to stick to one!
it's natures way of curbing the population! get's bagets?
toast:: toast:: toast:: toast::
sa insekto at sa ibang hayo,, parang mas sexually oriented ang babae..... ngayon sa mga western countries,, ang intensity ng morility ay parehas lang
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Nangyari na sa akin ito and take note sa ex pa niya. Inamin naman niya lahat lahat at tinangap ko siya ulit ng buong puso. Wala taung no choice kasi wala mga kapatid mahal na mahal ko. ::inlove
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Nangyari sakin ito sa ex ko na nag-last ng six years ang relasyon namin. Humingi ng space at pinagbigyan ko yon pala nakikipag-date na sa iba. Kinausap ko inexplain sa kanya yung mga nangyari samin, kung diba nya pinapahalagaan dahil ako ang naka-una sa kanya, tapos sagot sakin boring na daw ang relasyon namin. Kaya hinayaan ko sya at sinabihan ko na parang nasa giyera ako at wala ng bala so kailangan ko ng umatras. Tapos after a few month's tumatawag nakikipag-ayos kaso may mahal nakong iba which is sya ang napangasawa ko ngayon. Katwiran ko non nagawa mo na minsan maaring magawa mo pa ulit. Ayun balita ko chickboy ang napangasawa nya kaya laking hinayang nya at nakipag-hiwalay sya sakin. ::pampam
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This only means hindi lang ang mga lalake ang nangangaliwa... It is one thing to be suspicious it is another thing when you are presented with the facts...
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Proven naman talaga na madami ding babaeng cheater.....
.....Sobrang sakit lang, pag dumating sating mga lalake yung time na talagang mahal na mahal natin yung babae, tapos yun pa yung babaeng manloloko satin....Shempre mahal na mahal natin, kaya patatawarin natin and kakalimutan natin yung nagawa nila.
Anyway, mas maganda talaga most of the time yung instinct nating mga lalake yung gagamitin....
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it happened to me also, caught my girlfriend for almost 5 years having an affair with another man, sakit sobra pero dahil sa mahal ko talaga siya, ipinaglaban ko siya and accepted her again with open arms, mas masya na kami ngayun ::inlove
when I assessed the facts which led her to commit that, I find fault on my side.... may pagkukulang din tayo kaya nila nagagawa yun...
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If you're really in-love you won't cheat...
If you're full you won't ask one more meat...
It is simply as it is.
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mga pre ano ba sa tingin nyo to.
namomonitor ko kachat ng wife ko cousin nya sa us. then all of a sudden
medyo naging horny yung cousin nya telling my wife that he is imagining
he is pounding her. before they said goodbye sa chat nagreply wife ko
na na hohorny tuloy sya.
after ng chat nila niyaya ako ng wife ko na ilibre sya bayad nya ko
ng bj sabi ko e i want to hump her na lang. if i say pound her baka makahalata
sya. then that night i FUCK her.
naguguluhan ako sa tingin ko e nahohorny yung wife ko sa cousin nya.
PUTA
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mga pre ano ba sa tingin nyo to.
namomonitor ko kachat ng wife ko cousin nya sa us. then all of a sudden
medyo naging horny yung cousin nya telling my wife that he is imagining
he is pounding her. before they said goodbye sa chat nagreply wife ko
na na hohorny tuloy sya.
after ng chat nila niyaya ako ng wife ko na ilibre sya bayad nya ko
ng bj sabi ko e i want to hump her na lang. if i say pound her baka makahalata
sya. then that night i FUCK her.
naguguluhan ako sa tingin ko e nahohorny yung wife ko sa cousin nya.
PUTA
sa tingin ko yan ang pinaka ma sakit dre mismo kadugo nya pinag papantasyanhan? buti na lang at malayo sila sa isat isa.
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Love hurts.......................... gun:: gun:: bnana bnana bnana
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Napakasakit talaga sa ulo ng ganyan! Happened to me as well. Kami na pero sila pa pala ng ex nya for 7 years at my ka fubu pa na iba. WATDAPAK diba?! gun:: gun:: gun:: evil:: evil:: evil::
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Kung cheater ang gf nyo, i break na yan. If you think niloloko ka na, confront nyo na lang. Study body language and how to tell if someone is lying.
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mga pre ano ba sa tingin nyo to.
namomonitor ko kachat ng wife ko cousin nya sa us. then all of a sudden
medyo naging horny yung cousin nya telling my wife that he is imagining
he is pounding her. before they said goodbye sa chat nagreply wife ko
na na hohorny tuloy sya.
after ng chat nila niyaya ako ng wife ko na ilibre sya bayad nya ko
ng bj sabi ko e i want to hump her na lang. if i say pound her baka makahalata
sya. then that night i FUCK her.
naguguluhan ako sa tingin ko e nahohorny yung wife ko sa cousin nya.
PUTA
kung ganyan pre mukhang kailangan mo ng makeover, ayos at konting porma din siguro ng konti ;D
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Love hurts.......................... gun:: gun:: bnana bnana bnana
Tol, it's not the love. It's the people.
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kung ganyan pre mukhang kailangan mo ng makeover, ayos at konting porma din siguro ng konti ;D
Wala sa porma yan bro, bsa malinis ka ok na. Nasa diskarte mo din yan eh.
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Wala sa porma yan bro, bsa malinis ka ok na. Nasa diskarte mo din yan eh.
kahit gaano kalinis ka pero kung di ka marunong magdala, mukha kang engot sa porma na nakakahiya ka kasama wala na sa diskarte diyan. dami ako kilala metikoloso pa nga kaso parang walang kaayos ayos basta nakasuot lang ng damit na di naman kaya dalhin at siyempre nasa character din at behaviour din yan
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smoking::..simple...fuck his sister..or best friend... ::lmao
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smoking::..simple...fuck his sister..or best friend... ::lmao
::wagbastos
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a cheating girlfriend does not need handling. you need to let them go
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LEAVE HER!
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Ganun kaming mga babae.. Pag tinanong nyo kami.. Kahit yung hindi nyo gustong marinig sasabihin namin.. Unlike guys who'll try to sugar coat everything... You'll never hear a guy say outright that he doesn't love his girl anymore.. He'll wait for you to realize that yourself. Bakit nga ba mas masakit kapag babae ang nag cheat? Kasi double standard ang society natin... Kapag lalake gumawa pwede... Even the state believe that.. Di mo pwedeng idemanda ng adultery ang lalake. Pambabae lang yun... Mas masakit.. kasi.. you know why? What you guys can do.. we can too.. only BETTER. laffman::