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long distance relationship/online games
« on: April 19, 2009, 11:31:56 pm »
hi guys, ask lang po sana ako if,is it right ba na ma fall inlove ka thru online game?kasi po my bf po ako sa online games na nilalaro ko.ANg relationship namin sa game na un eh humantong na sa real life.He plan na pumunta n samin para to meet my fam.Kaya lg po medju malayo po yung place namin sa isat isa.Dapat po ba ako mag tiwala sa kanya?is it working ba talaga yung long distance relationship? ???help naman po jan..thanks po :-*





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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #1 on: April 19, 2009, 11:33:11 pm »
Anong game nilalaro mo? taga saan ka rin?  ;D


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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #2 on: April 19, 2009, 11:38:22 pm »
nagmeet na ba kayo personally? kung hindi, mas magandang magmeet muna kayong 2.

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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #3 on: April 19, 2009, 11:39:28 pm »
pero pag nag meet kayo make sure may chaperon ka...


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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #4 on: April 19, 2009, 11:43:23 pm »
hi guys, ask lang po sana ako if,is it right ba na ma fall inlove ka thru online game?kasi po my bf po ako sa online games na nilalaro ko.ANg relationship namin sa game na un eh humantong na sa real life.He plan na pumunta n samin para to meet my fam.Kaya lg po medju malayo po yung place namin sa isat isa.Dapat po ba ako mag tiwala sa kanya?is it working ba talaga yung long distance relationship? ???help naman po jan..thanks po :-*

mahirap yan..... di po kayo sure kung talagang match kayo....... tapos deretcho kagad to meet your parents...... parang ang bilis naman......

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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #5 on: April 19, 2009, 11:46:39 pm »
gaano ba kayo kalayo sa isa't-isa? kung malayo talaga at nakapunta sya dyan sa tingin ko sincere naman sya sayo.. di naman siguro sya mag eeffort bumyahe ng malayo kung di sya sincere..  ;)

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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #6 on: April 19, 2009, 11:50:32 pm »
opo nag met n kami thru ym at katxt ko rin lagi,ran online po nilalaro ko.CEbu po ako sya Manila ang layo dba? >:(
haist...di ko alam kung totoo ba sya talaga,We all know n marami manloloko ngayon pero infairness 1 year na kami magkakilala..bali 6 months kami in friendship at 4 months kami in relationship that makes it 1 year..isa pa pong problema may anak na sya biyudo po sya unlike me single,yun pa pinoproblema ko baka reject sya ng fam ko. >:(..thanks po sa reply ...aw,sorry po kung dito ko na postY_Y newbie po kasi ako dtio





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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #7 on: April 19, 2009, 11:56:17 pm »
based on exerience, mahirap i-set sa real life yung gnyan. tapos to think na may anak na siya. it may look sincere pero certain people go to certain lengths to get something.
sweet words make the deepest scars.
hindi naman sa sinasabi kong wag, what im saying is mahirap to prove ung sincerity nung guy unless lagi kayo mag-kasama, although magkasama kau lagi sa game.

just my thought though.

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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #8 on: April 20, 2009, 12:16:53 am »
hi guys, ask lang po sana ako if,is it right ba na ma fall inlove ka thru online game?kasi po my bf po ako sa online games na nilalaro ko.ANg relationship namin sa game na un eh humantong na sa real life.He plan na pumunta n samin para to meet my fam.Kaya lg po medju malayo po yung place namin sa isat isa.Dapat po ba ako mag tiwala sa kanya?is it working ba talaga yung long distance relationship? ???help naman po jan..thanks po :-*

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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #9 on: April 20, 2009, 12:35:42 am »
gaya ng advice sakin ni khaye, you should go meet the guys first.

"expected na yan sa LDR.Either positive or negative ang magiging outcome ng pagkikita niyo in person sana naging handa ka"

saka

"Mahirap ang LDR  and pag nagkita kayo, parang balewala ang mga panahong ginawa ninyo nung malayo pa kayo sa isa't isa, parang bagong panimula sa lahat ng bagay bagay."

tama yang mga yan at bago ka mag desisyon at i attach sarili mo sa kanya mas maganda mag meet muna kayo.

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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #10 on: April 20, 2009, 12:40:08 am »
gaya ng advice sakin ni khaye, you should go meet the guys first.

"expected na yan sa LDR.Either positive or negative ang magiging outcome ng pagkikita niyo in person sana naging handa ka"

saka

"Mahirap ang LDR  and pag nagkita kayo, parang balewala ang mga panahong ginawa ninyo nung malayo pa kayo sa isa't isa, parang bagong panimula sa lahat ng bagay bagay."

tama yang mga yan at bago ka mag desisyon at i attach sarili mo sa kanya mas maganda mag meet muna kayo.


hahaha.. talaga naman :D thanks dear! toast::

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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #11 on: April 20, 2009, 12:52:14 am »
yeah, di mo kasi syempre makikilala ng buo yung tao not unless makasama mo na talaga. and besides, kugn sa personal nga nakaakpambola na tayo eh sa chat pa kaya? hehe

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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #12 on: April 20, 2009, 01:10:03 am »
magingat ka lng.. may mga alter ego po kasi tayu pag online. minsan iba pinapakita mo online at yung personal na pagkikita..iba talaga pag magkasama kayu kasi dun mo xa makikilala. Sobrang bilis nya, medyo duda ako personally.
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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #13 on: April 20, 2009, 01:35:18 am »
delicado ka dyan  .. meron akong friend 45 rs old na na merong nobya 21 yrs taga quezon , siya nasa cebu ang pakilala nya sa babae e 28 yrs lang siya bali 1 year na  sila textmate at sa ym ... madaling mabola sa long distance relationship

ito gawin mo muna
1) bili ka ng web cam at ng magkita kayo habang na chat
2) kunin mo tunay na pangalan at ipa imbestiga natin sa mga ka spy ( ok ba mga sir )
3) maraming paraan on line to investigate hanap tayo   
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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #14 on: April 20, 2009, 01:46:07 am »
thanks guys its a big help talaga, :-*..minsan rin ngdududa rin ako sa sinasabi nya,nitong huli nga sabi nya pa sakin mahal nya daw ako higit pa sa buhay nya eh na isip ko di pa nga kami nagkikita eh bakit nya nasabi yun.HInayaan ko nalang,whew! ???anu naman gagawin ko?should i avoid him?thanks guys for helping me  ;D..sabagay po kua tlaurencet may point ka po...





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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #15 on: April 20, 2009, 02:06:13 am »
di ko naman ni rurule out na na inlove na talaga sya sayo, kasi pwede naman talaga yun like in my case. its just that, masyado mabilis, maganda nga mag webcam muna kayo, then usap usap. after that, meet up, magsama ka ng barkada mo para safe and secured ka. tapos sa mall para maraming tao. ;)


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« Reply #16 on: April 20, 2009, 02:20:39 am »
thanks po ate khaye





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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #17 on: April 20, 2009, 02:55:02 am »
opo nag met n kami thru ym at katxt ko rin lagi,ran online po nilalaro ko.CEbu po ako sya Manila ang layo dba? >:(
haist...di ko alam kung totoo ba sya talaga,We all know n marami manloloko ngayon pero infairness 1 year na kami magkakilala..bali 6 months kami in friendship at 4 months kami in relationship that makes it 1 year..isa pa pong problema may anak na sya biyudo po sya unlike me single,yun pa pinoproblema ko baka reject sya ng fam ko. >:(..thanks po sa reply ...aw,sorry po kung dito ko na postY_Y newbie po kasi ako dtio

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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #18 on: April 20, 2009, 03:24:17 am »
Ang layo ah! Cebu to Manila, mag babarko or eroplano sya, points na agad sa kanya yun kung talagang pupuntahan ka nya dyan or baka iba ang main reason kaya pupunta? hehe malay mo nag kataon lang taga Cebu ka tapos may iba pa syang gagawin dun, posible dba, tska, Parents naman agad!? imba! pumayag sya dun? parents mo agad meet nya or ikaw nalang, ok lang un? parents agad hehe

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« Reply #19 on: April 20, 2009, 03:37:14 am »
Lahat pwedeng mangyari online even on real w0rd..kaya nga hanggat kaya nating k0ntr0lin puso natin..g0!kasi once na nagpadala tay0 sa dal0y ng sitwasy0n,tay0 rin lang ang mahihirapan..hindi lahat ng nakikita at naririnig natin eh t0to0..kailangan ng ebidensya..pr0ofs bef0re anythingelse..

Napakaraming mga pervert,manggagamit,sinungaling at manl0l0ko lalo pa sa net!hindi gan0n kadaling ibigay ang tiwala at pagmamahal na gust0 mg ibang ta0..kn0w the pers0n first bef0re giving them y0ur wh0le l0ve and trust..

Lahat pede kang sabihan ng "mahal kita" the questi0n is...Do they really mean that?Do they kn0w the c0nsequences,pr0s and c0ns of an online relati0nship?Yan ang pr0blema sa atin..andali nating magbitaw ng salita pero hindi lahat kayang mapanindigan y0n..Una,hindi lang tay0 nabubuhay sa cyberw0rld,mer0n din tay0ng real w0rld na mas imp0rtant to face and live in.. etc

S0 in y0ur case dear,masanay ka na sa mga ta0ng ganyan kung magsalita online..

G0od luck!

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Re: long distance relationship/online games
« Reply #20 on: April 20, 2009, 04:45:43 am »
ganyan ba ako magsalita??

aru dyos ko..nanu ko ya man?? churi ^_~

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ive been into this how many times...

just learn to TRUST...control your emotions...wag masyadong POSSESIVE sa feelings nyo...Just enjoy each others company....

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« Reply #21 on: April 20, 2009, 04:49:49 am »
spydetergent, taga cebu rin ako. pwede rin isama mo kami pagnagmeet na kayo ng bf. pagalagala lang kasi ako sa cebu dahil sa work ko.

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« Reply #22 on: April 22, 2009, 01:16:19 am »
cebu rin ako .. dami natin dito ..... sabihin mo lang ano maitulong namin .... research, or ano ... willing and able kami 
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« Reply #23 on: August 29, 2009, 09:52:14 am »
naku magastos ang long distance relationship