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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #25 on: January 03, 2009, 01:02:38 am »
ako... approve kay "waldoh"... kung ganyan na wala kang love sa misis mo kahit hiwalay pa kayo sa babae mo hahanap ka naman ng bagong "kabit"

bigyan mo kaya ng panahon pamilya mo pag talagang wala ... hiwalayan mo na basta huwag lang kalimutan ang obligasyon mo , huwag mo nang gawin dahilan yong isang babae...

opinyon ko lang yan.. peace
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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #26 on: January 03, 2009, 02:18:37 am »
Nangyari na sa akin yan bro.. Plan ko din mag-file ng annulment noon para makasama ko yung gurl na nakilala ko at naging gf ko.. pero nung time na magulo ang isip ko at humiga ako, biglang tumabi sa akin ang little gurl ko (anak ko) at sabay sabi sa akin ng "i love you papa".. naluha na lang ako and nag-decide ako na makipag-hiwalay na lang dun sa gf ko.. kc napakahirap ng magiging apekto ng ganyan sa anak.. ang anak ay anak, dugo at laman mo yan..
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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #27 on: January 03, 2009, 03:08:04 am »
you have the right love at the wrong time bro.....

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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #28 on: January 03, 2009, 05:11:19 am »
salamat sa lahat ng ng reply...

kasi kami ng misis ko from the start wala na talaga involve na love sa amin..lalo na sa akin...hmmm..alam na den ng misis ko na meron ako gf dito..matigas kasi ulo nya mga pare...sinubukan ko ng makig ayos sa kanya pero..dahil katigasan ng ulo nya gusto niya ang sa kanya ang masunod which is...labag sa kalooban ko..matagal tagal ko na rin tong pinag-isipan lalo na sa baby ko...i love my baby so much...maiintindihann rin naman ng baby ko itong desisyon sa bandang araw..mahirap makisama sa taong di mo mahal mga pare kugn alam nyo lang yon..sa 1 year naming kasal mga 2-3 months lang cguro kaming ng sasama..nahihirapan akong makisama sa kanya pg-uuwi na ako..i know i love this new gurl and i know she love me too..pinakilala na nya ako sa parents nya at nasa ibang stage na ang relasyon namin..she knows about my daughter and she accept her also...she knows about my wife...

di pa namin napag.usapan ng misis ko about annulment...pero she knows na gusto ko ng makipaghiwalay sa kanya...she knows the fact nah from the start wala ako love sa kanya...dahil lang sa baby namin..kaya nangyari yon...
ask ko lang mga bro f magkano ba ang mg pa annul ngayon???...

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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #29 on: January 03, 2009, 05:39:50 am »
mahal ang annulment dahil sa haba ng proseso..

kung ganyan din ang relsyon nyo I think mas mabuti na rin ang hiwalay.. hindi sa sinasabi kong maganda yun kaso kahit sabihin na natin dahil sa bata pero kung paglaki ng bata puro away it's useless din.. mas mabuti pang maghiwalay tapos ipaintindi na lang sa bata kesa makita ng bata na puro na lang kayo away at yun na yung kinalikihan baka magrebelda pa..pero dapat kung maghihiwalay kayo dapat wag ka sanang maging iresponsable sa anak mo.. iparamdam mo sa kanya yung pagiging tatay para hindi naman isipin ng bata na wala kng kwenta kaya hiniwalayan ka ng nanay..

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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #30 on: January 03, 2009, 05:57:45 am »
Brod, Psychological incapacity talaga. Yan ang secret weapon sa annulment kapag walang ibang ground. Huwag kang papayag sa legal separation, bed and board lang yun, and will not capacitate you to remarry. May isang far-fetched solution, hehe. If your wife will become a citizen of a foreign country, ACTUALLY REMARRIES another man in said state, and the laws of the foreign state capacitate her to remarry, thereby making her subsequent marriage valid, you will be scott free and shall be allowed by Philippine law to marry again. Kaya paligawan mo na yang misis mo sa foreigner. hahaha.   

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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #31 on: January 03, 2009, 06:12:55 am »
Brod, Psychological incapacity talaga. Yan ang secret weapon sa annulment kapag walang ibang ground. Huwag kang papayag sa legal separation, bed and board lang yun, and will not capacitate you to remarry. May isang far-fetched solution, hehe. If your wife will become a citizen of a foreign country, ACTUALLY REMARRIES another man in said state, and the laws of the foreign state capacitate her to remarry, thereby making her subsequent marriage valid, you will be scott free and shall be allowed by Philippine law to marry again. Kaya paligawan mo na yang misis mo sa foreigner. hahaha.   

hmm you give me idea bro ty...

actually bago kami nakasal ng misis ko...may plan talaga ang autie nya na naka pangasawa ng kano na hanapan cya ng papangasawa na kano toh...hmmmm...ty nito bro..this is nice....

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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #32 on: January 03, 2009, 06:47:58 am »
There is a catch though, hindi yan automatic. You must first have have the ABSOLUTE (not relative) divorce acquired by your wife, recognized by philippine court. Otherwise, you will still be susceptible to charges of bigamy, which is a criminal offense. Hindi mo masasabi, baka biglang hindi pala valid marriage nila or ma-prove niya na you purposely manipulated her to marry the foreigner to enable you to get married and balikan ka. Kulong ka na may damages pa na babayaran sa kanya, in addition, magkakaproblema pa kayo sa division of properties. 'Yan ang bagong rule, judicial recognition of separation before the subsequent marriage.


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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #33 on: January 03, 2009, 07:07:55 am »
di ko alam ang price range ng annulment but I heard (kung di ako nagkakamali) umaabot talaga ng millions. Tsaka normally meron na yang mga ready made papers/documents na pangalan niyo nalang ang ilalagay at kung magkakakilala o magkakafrat brods ang judge at lawyer mabilis ang proseso. sadyang papaabutin ng 1 year ba yun or more yung case para di halata.

you're in a sucky situation & totoo na selfish ka with what you're doing & alam kong mahirap na pilitin i-work out ang marriage mo with someone you never loved in the 1st place. sorry to say pero siguro karma yan & it's something you have to live & deal with. goodluck to the both of you though kung ano man ang plano niyong dalawa ng asawa mo.

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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #34 on: January 03, 2009, 07:22:06 am »
sadyang papaabutin ng 1 year ba yun or more yung case para di halata.

Tama 'to dahil may mandatory 6 months cooling off period, bago pa man dinigin ang kaso. Medyo matagal nga.

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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #35 on: January 03, 2009, 06:33:23 pm »
maglabas ka na ng minimum of 100k bro..

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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #36 on: January 04, 2009, 12:00:12 am »
 ::redalert

Advice ko rin bro - research mo ito bago mabasa ng wife mo at sa ngayon delikado lagay mo.

One last thing - i've been in your place except that I have more kids with my first and while i will never go back to my first, my second partner, after 3 years turned out to be much much worse than the first. And believe me, i was so so so so in love with her, todo post ako sa ibang forum and even with friends na puro love and bukang bibig ko. Ganun talaga lalo na kung uhaw ka sa affection. I was married for 8 years and was engaged for more that 10 years to my first wife so isip ka mabuti..... Ako eto, biglang tinamaan ng reality, Remember, no matter how seemingly perfect it is, sometime you will have to come back to down to earth and deal with reality that it will NEVER be perfect......

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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #37 on: March 28, 2009, 02:56:23 pm »
tol, halos same pala nangyari sa atin i got married with this girl even w/o love coz i got her preggy and that time super gulo ng buhay ko dahil sa past relationship ko... ndi rin halos kami nagsama, (same din tau ng work bro nasa sales din ako) i tot matutuhan ko rin cya mahalin dahil may anak kami and  mahal na mahal nya ako eventhough alam nya mahal ko pa rin ex-gf ko (that time) pero d talaga pwede turuan ang puso... kaya i decided na maghiwalay na lang kami at 1st iniisip ko ung kapakanan ng anak namin pero tiningin ko mas magiging malala at kawawa ang bata if we continue na magsasama... going bad na kc ung relation kaya to prevent it from happening much better maghiwalay... i know i hurt her so much pero mas lalo ko cya masasaktan if we continue na magsama... nasa akin ang problema n alam namin pareho un... iv tried to love her naman para maging ok family namin but then wala tlga...ndi nya rin ako tinulongan para mag work ung relation instead lagi nya ko inaaway thinking na kaya nya ko controllin dahil may ALAS cya (ung baby namin) mas lalo ko nakita na d tlga pala kami magkasundo/compatible... biggest decission/mistake iv done in my life ung magpakasal ako dahil sa awa or dahil buntis ang girl...ndi pala solution instead creating another problem lang pala... pero im very thankful i have a beautiful daughter un ang d ko pinagsisihan n never in my mind na sumagi na ipalaglag cya... my daughter is 5 yrs old now n almost 5 yrs na rin kami hiwalay pero were in good terms w/ my ex-wife (shall i say) nagtutulongan kami for the future of our daughter... ok naman ex-wife ko she understands lahat-lahat n she hd forgiven me na daw n she admitted may kasalanan din cya... probz ko now is my present gf actually 3 yrs na rin kami matagal ko na gusto cya makasama un nga lang mahal n mahirap magpa annul pero ok na man ex-wife ko un nga lang ako daw gumastos lahat willing daw cya makipag cooperate naman.... nasa ipon process pa ako now...sana ma-hit ko na ung target budget para masimulan na... wat is important lang naman  mahal namin isat isa ng gf ko n naiintindihan nya ako n shes willing to wait at all cost... pero minsan nakakahiya na pero dyan pumapasok ung LOVE n SACRIFICE... advise ko sa u tol gawin mo ung tama...ituwid mo ung dating mali mong nagawa... magkasundo kau para sa bata or be a parent to ur kid... sa partner mo ngayon dyan mo makikita if shes truly loves u... work it out para maayos na lahat unahin mo ex-wife mo para wala na maging probs if u decided na magpa annul na... hope guyz uv learned a lesson from our mistakes...  gudluck sa atin pareho bro!!!

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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #38 on: March 28, 2009, 06:58:15 pm »
 >:( if u have secret then keep it alone...don't share to us...it's not a secret anymore dude...

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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #39 on: June 02, 2011, 11:59:53 pm »
you made a wrong decision before and dont ever try to make a bad decision again, Ika nga hindi maiitatama ang isang pagkakamali sa isang mali pang gawain. Try to solve your problems with your wife right now, talk to her. Walang mangyayari satin buhay kung palagi natin iniisip ang atin sarili. I think, you should think 1 millionX before doing a decision again.  toast::

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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #40 on: June 03, 2011, 12:57:07 am »
konting hintay na lang tol..ipanalangin mo na maipasa yun divorce bill haha toast:: toast:: toast:: toast::

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Re: i wanna share my secret...
« Reply #41 on: June 03, 2011, 01:36:10 am »
minsan, hindi kung ano ang gusto mo ang tama.
isipin mo nalang may anak ka may asawa. sa tingin mo ok lang sa asawa mo at lalo na sa nak mo yung sustento lang? pera? lagi kayo hindi magkasundo? why not try kahit isang araw na kung ano lang gusto nya gawin mo?
di na mahilig makipagsex? uhh...?



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