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Good Spy:
hi guys.. anyone experience this sa workplace.. ? sirang-sira na buhay ko dahil ditto..  Depressed na nga ako before this.. tapos ginawa pa sakin to... sensya na guys wala lang mapagsabihan.

naruto789544:
how can you say this technique is being used against you ts? more details would be greatly appreciated for us to give you better advice....

morpheus90:
hugas kamay lang mga tao dyan...don't be so hard on yourself...goodluck

Good Spy:

--- Quote from: naruto789544 on October 09, 2017, 12:12:28 pm ---how can you say this technique is being used against you ts? more details would be greatly appreciated for us to give you better advice....

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Tbe honest di ko na talga masyadong maalala... stress din ako during that time.. ang naalala ko lang is...  nung umpisa ng training day ay nagpakilala kami sa isat.isa..  so confident ako during that time.. ganda ng mga spiels ko at with accent talaga.  then the following day nag mock call kami ( call center training session) sabi ng trainer ko na amaze daw siya sakin kasi di raw sya maka paniwala na ganun ako mag handle ng calls kasi napatahimik ko daw..  Then he ask me na pwedi ko daw ba turuan ang isa naming kasama kung papaano mag handle ng calls ( mag mock call daw kami)..  gusto rin nya daw tulong ko dahil gusto niya daw ma challenge yung ibang kasama ko..  then the following day nagulat nlang ako everytime sa training day ako lageh pinupunterya nya, he asked mi question tapos pag sinagot ko mali ako, tapos tatanungin nya mga kasama ko ( ok Grace how will you answer this in a normal way) gulong.gulo talga ako nun..  marami talagang beses na pag sumagot ako mali daw yung sagot ko, tapos tatawag agad yung trainer ko ng ibang kasama ko, taposa sasagot yung kasama ko na parehas lang ng sagot ko... di ako makapalag kasi nangunguna takot ko.. di ako makapagsalita.. gustoko sabihin ng mga time na yun na ( how come I was wrong.. Dwight answered the same way that I do)... ilang beses talga nangyari ang ganitong eksena...   feeling ko nagalit yata trainer ko sakin kasi parang nalamangan ko siya..  kasi nung fisrt day nagpakitang gilas ako.. I introduce myself, at nung time na yun nandun ang supervisor nya... nung time na yun ang dami nyang tinanong na question about me na nasagot ko nag walang kahirap hirap at confidently.. para bang sinagot ko sya na mag ka level lang kami...
yun  yata ang rasun.. my trainer is a psycologist.. and he knows that I'm suffering from depression... pero believe me kahit depress ako.. nasa katinuan parin ako...

Good Spy:

--- Quote from: morpheus90 on October 09, 2017, 02:24:52 pm ---hugas kamay lang mga tao dyan...don't be so hard on yourself...goodluck

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what do you mean? enlighten me please

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