Author Topic: normal bang maging kuntentong single  (Read 3940 times)

deadblushe

normal bang maging kuntentong single
« on: September 11, 2016, 04:22:48 pm »
normal bang maging kuntentong single? Well idk, bigla lang pumasok sa isip ko... napapansin ko lang kasi, im getting used to it. at first, i hate it. then as time pass by, i learn to adapt from it... any thoughts?

bancamitch

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #1 on: September 11, 2016, 04:49:28 pm »
Para sakin, depende sa tao yan. Merong lalake/babae na hindi mapakali na walang relasyon, yung tipong kakabreak lang sa isa eh gusto na agad palitan, pero kapag nasa relasyon kana at wala ng thrill yun, saka niyo naman aasamin na sana single na lang ulit ako. Mas maganda siguro kung single ka pero may pinagkakakitaan ka o mapera ka, kasi pede kanaman mang chix na lang eh.

Maganda yan TS kung naeenjoy mo na pagiging single mo, dadating at dadating din naman yung right time talaga na ka-match mo, wag kana lang magmadali, maaaring kung magmadali ka eh yun pa yung dahilan para magsisi ka sa huli.

LyDoh

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #2 on: September 12, 2016, 10:07:09 am »
oo normal lang yan. as long as gusto mong maging single. then go...
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naruto789544

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #3 on: September 12, 2016, 01:16:37 pm »
it's your preferences actually ts... but honestly, it is better to grow old with someone at your side... :)

wildgang_10

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #4 on: September 13, 2016, 12:32:40 am »
Being single is a matter of Personal choice!

not because na pangit ka kaya walang mag kagusto sau particularly sa mga lalaki

maganda pagiging single lalo na kung  may pera ka na panggastos or maganda ang financial status mo mas ma eenjoy mo talaga.

Freeman ka its easy to do things or buy the things you want without someone interfering you compare mo as to having a family or kids may mga commitments /priorities ka na dapat mong gawin..

pero in the long run maganda pa rin yung may family ka na uuwian, may mag aasikaso sau, mag aalaga sau pag nagkasakit ka, pag matanda  ka na may mga anak ka na tutulong sayo.

kasi if your living with your parents right now soon they will die and iiwan ka rin nila mga siblings kapatid mo may mga families na rin and may sariling buhay rin sila.

maniac2999

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #5 on: September 13, 2016, 02:38:03 am »
pag matanda  ka na may mga anak ka na tutulong sayo.


One of the most cringe-worthy ideas na perpetuated by the RCC.. one characteristic of first world countries e early independence ng kabataan, pag may ganyang notion that you raise children to be your milking cows, e ewan ko na lang.

Back to topic, TS, hindi okay maging single, at the very least may support group kang babalingan i.e. singles for christ hehehe

skin27

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #6 on: September 13, 2016, 03:43:51 am »
Mahirap maging single lalo Na pag tumanda Ka Na.. Mahirap mag Isa lalo Na pag nagkasakit Ka..may Tito Ako mayaman pero single nakikita ko Talaga Na kahit mayaman siya eh may kulang pa rin..Lagi Na Lang siya dinadalaw ng Isa Kong Tito(kapatid niya) Na may Pamilya Na rin..Siguro mana Lang Ang Habol Kasi wala naman Kasi taga pag mana yung Tito ko Na yun Kasi single walang anak..

wildgang_10

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #7 on: September 13, 2016, 06:43:44 am »
One of the most cringe-worthy ideas na perpetuated by the RCC.. one characteristic of first world countries e early independence ng kabataan, pag may ganyang notion that you raise children to be your milking cows, e ewan ko na lang.

Back to topic, TS, hindi okay maging single, at the very least may support group kang babalingan i.e. singles for christ hehehe

nangyayari iyan kung financially wala rin talaga ipon or pag may sakit ang magulang of course moral obligation rin naman ng mga anak to help their parents financially pero kung may savings ang magulang never na manghihingi iyan sa mga anak nila.


lawrencium

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #8 on: September 14, 2016, 07:04:08 am »
iba iba mindset ng tao dyan merong pag nalaman nilang 25 kana wala kapang asawa parang abnormal ang dating nila sayo kase sila naglandi,nabuntis ng menor de edad pa lang, as if epitome  yung maagang paglalandi nila, meron naman late na nagkaka bg/gf/married, i think there's no reason for you to be less happier than those who managed to establish a family.ako nasa late 20's nako pero wala parin akong asawa, ni ka m.u wala at marami akong nakikitang single na nasa 40's na na sobrang masaya at kuntento sa buhay nila, nasa pananaw lang ng tao yan kung pano nya dadalhin. pag gusto kong makakita ng baby linalaro ko pamangkin kong 1 year old.

Redaxel

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #9 on: September 14, 2016, 08:16:58 pm »
ilang taon ka na ts?

deadblushe

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #10 on: September 15, 2016, 09:32:00 am »
ilang taon ka na ts?

turning 29 this Dec 2016. why?

back to topic, thanks for the thoughts from all of u. im not saying I choose to be single. Cguro pwdeng masabing na trauma ko from my past relationship. I do have a stable income before but now may kailangan lang akong tapusin sa academics since plano kong mag abroad to support my parents in the future since solong anak lang ako... my Dad is an OFW parang gusto ko lang din i try though mukhang kaya ko naman d2 sa pinas. Teka lumalayo yata.... hmm... im not 100% sure but parang nasa pagitan ako ng situation kung saan naiisip o nararamdaman kong pwde naman palang wala kung sino man sya...

franksterling

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #11 on: September 15, 2016, 10:34:44 am »
ayos lang naman ts, as long as you won't stop growing, tulad ng sinabi mo may tatapusin ka sa academics which I think is a good one. Enrich yourself, both personally and financially para kung dumating yung panahon na magdedesisyon ka na magkapamilya handa ka na and if not, with whatever you will have in the future makakatulong ka sa ibang tao, magiging makabuluhan pa rin buhay mo.

naruto789544

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #12 on: September 15, 2016, 11:17:07 am »
at the end of the day, it will still be your decision ts... i'm not saying either is right or wrong... it is your to decide...

sab1k

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #13 on: September 15, 2016, 09:25:28 pm »
Mabigat sa buhay ang pag-aasawa, imbes na bilhin mo ang gusto mo eh gagastosin mo pa sa asawa at anak mo.Wala mag-aalaga sa pagtanda? Kalokohan yan. Ang kelangan mo lang eh mag-ipon ng pera. Dalawa uncle ko may mga anak pero ayaw siya alagaan kaya ngayon tumanda na sila at wala pera eh yun pinupuntahan nila at inaasahan eh mga kapatid nila dahil parehas wala pera magulang at anak.

dweizz

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #14 on: September 15, 2016, 11:03:40 pm »
fuck them... dont let them control you... at the end of the day yung responsibilities ng pagiging married ay sayo mapupunta at h indi sa ibang tao... kung napilitan ka lang mag asawa dahil sa pressure , kulang na agad motivation mo na alagaan ito at isalba...

skin27

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #15 on: September 18, 2016, 01:45:52 am »
Iba pa rin pag may kasama ka pagtanda mo..hehehe

FerminaDaza

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #16 on: September 18, 2016, 09:31:07 am »
Happy, Hopeful & Free!

Mas abnormal yun nasa relationship ka yet you feel so alone...

Actually TS, while you may feel contented just by your own company, know that this also can be the best time to be in a relationship if you will to :) Coz once you realized that you don't need someone to complete you, you can have a healthy relationship that is base on sharing. You are there to share & not just to take take take as oppose to those people who's too delusional...thinks that to have a bf/gf is the solution to all their life problems.#bs

Anyway, whatever makes you happy :) Yet still, life can be sad at times and cuddles,smooches are all fun too! What am saying is , there's no reason to be alone if you don't want to ;)

You have the right to change your mind, of course :)





naruto789544

Re: normal bang maging kuntentong single
« Reply #17 on: September 18, 2016, 09:43:19 am »
Happy, Hopeful & Free!

Mas abnormal yun nasa relationship ka yet you feel so alone...

Actually TS, while you may feel contented just by your own company, know that this also can be the best time to be in a relationship if you will to :) Coz once you realized that you don't need someone to complete you, you can have a healthy relationship that is base on sharing. You are there to share & not just to take take take as oppose to those people who's too delusional...thinks that to have a bf/gf is the solution to all their life problems.#bs

Anyway, whatever makes you happy :) Yet still, life can be sad at times and cuddles,smooches are all fun too! What am saying is , there's no reason to be alone if you don't want to ;)

You have the right to change your mind, of course :)


nice advice mam... whatever will be your decision ts, just be sure it is the one that will make you happy...