this maybe is a result of your subconscious hatred/lack of respect or closeness to your parents dude
studies show that gay men is usually raised in broken homes where the father is either a drunkard/gambler or just a complete failure.
When those boys grow to have no father to look up to..they usually have a hard time discerning their emotions when they finally see
other attractive guys and their masculinity as they grow
While boys that are inherently brought up by a good father usually have an automatic defense mechanism . since they respect and idolize their fathers.
their minds automatically perceive every other man's masculinities they meet/see as they do respect/idolize their fathers masculinity.
That respect built between the father and son in those early years
is critical in building the boys right subconcious responses to other mans masculinity
in short . your father is a man... piolo pascual is a man. and the resemblance in their masculinity should be enough to automatically put you off from having any GAY(CRUSH) on piolo pascual, or any other man out there.... because any real man you see would remind you of your father .. also a real man that you respect and idolize,,
Anything that resembles or remind you of your father will automatically put your sexual gears off...even without thinking .. your subconscious, those small resemblances wil alwaysl remind you of your respect and idolization of your father
However . if your father had never shown you a positive character early on to look up to . then those BONDS of RESPECT would never form to begin with...
and seeing anything that reminds you of your father would never trigger any sort of defense mechanism..
so in the end,,beeing attracted and even having sex with other men looks normal to Homosexuals (gay)
because nothing is holding them back
Exactly what is happening to your feelings to your sister, a splitting image of your mother and father should be enough to put you off.
Any resemblance of your sister to your mother/father (eyes,nose,ear.jawline,voice.etc) should subconsciously and automatically be a a turn off
So it only means early on. you somehow failed to form those BONDS of RESPECT with your parents during childhood.
Whether they are abusive or even super nice/caring/loving/protective parents.
Whether they were able to give you all the luxury growing up in those school years or not
Those are not the real discerning factors for forming those Bonds of RESPECT
its just when you were a child Your parents somehow failed to show you something that will impress you.. something that will make you look up to them.
Something that will earn your respect. something worth idolizing that will remind you of something great whenever see someone/something that looks like them
Or sometimes we are just too selfish on our younger years that we just failed to see our parent's good/heroic parts.