As Seigneur MCCXXIâ„¢ opined in the other thread:
Palagay ko may gusto ka sakanya (dun sa officemate mo), ayaw mo nga lang siguro aminin sa sarili mo kasi sabi mo may GF ka at mahal mo talaga sya (sabi mo yun). Suggestion ko lang, pag ganun nakikita mo syang niyayaya ng iba, ituon mo yung attention mo sa iba. Tawag ka kay GF, kumustahin mo yung araw nya at makipag kwentuhan ka sandali.
May gusto ka sa ka-officemate mo TS. Otherwise, di ka sana maaapektuhan.
And as you remarked, Esquire kimagure:
Opo sir, Mahal ko talaga GF ko ayaw ko magkahiwalay kami. yun nga lang sa araw araw na pangungulit o biruan nung officemate ko ayun nga nasasanay ako. baka nga nagkakagusto ako pero mali. kaya di dapat magtuloy. Alam ko din naman na wala ako karapatan para manghimasok o mainis sa tuwing meron mag aaya sa kanya siguro nga dapat makapag hanap pa ko ng ibang pwede ko pag tuunan ng pansin kaysa maapektuhan na ko ng sobra sa tuwing meron na lang sa kanya mag aaya..
It does appear that you've become smitten with the demoiselle
to the point where you're acting like a spurned lover whenever she turns her attention towards other people. Nothing wrong with that; it happens to the best of us at some point.
I can't help but wonder, however, what the implications of your feelings towards the demoiselle
mean for your relationship with your girlfriend. What is it that she says or does that your girlfriend doesn't? Is there something that she's able to provide you that your girlfriend can't? On the other side of things, what is it that you see in the demoiselle
that you don't see in your girlfriend? What do you feel for her that you don't for your girlfriend?
Mind you, I'm not blaming your girlfriend for causing you to stray a little but I think it would be helpful if the two of you took a look at your relationship to find out if something went wrong that neither of you noticed and set things right together, if it's possible. Then maybe--just maybe
--you'll come to realize to whom your heart really belongs.