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Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« on: July 08, 2011, 07:41:00 pm »
 :oI can't really believe that I was the third party. how would you react if you're in this situation? All you've ever known is that you were the only one but then he/she got a previous relationship that was not yet formally ended
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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #1 on: July 08, 2011, 07:43:03 pm »
patay ka ngayon..
basag ang muka mo..
me tinatapakan kang tao..

kung ako dyan..
hiwalayan ko agad ka relasyon..
sa una pa lang nagtatago na agad sya ng mga kung ano..
ano pa ba ineexpect mo kung maging asawa mo sya..

isip isip!  toast::

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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #2 on: July 08, 2011, 07:46:17 pm »
     Hello Ginger welcome s bahay natin!  ::flowers ::flowers ::flowers


Third party... Ouch! ang hirap naman nun lil sis. If I were in your shoe, I'd be very very upset. Nagmumukha ka nang tanga pero tapos na eh, nagnyari nah. Pray mo na lang at try to move on bit b bit.


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aanhin pa ang damo kung nagbabato na ang kabayo?

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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #3 on: July 08, 2011, 07:52:43 pm »
@ kuya Khim
 nahiwalayan ko na siya kuya  :( and sad to say may baby kami. kaya nga nung nalaman ko tungkol sa previos gf nya na naanakin rin hiniwalayan ko na siya at buntis pa ako nun sa baby ko.  :(
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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #4 on: July 08, 2011, 07:54:04 pm »
o sige next time mag iingat ka na ha, good luck meron ba akong maitutulong ?financially he he

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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #5 on: July 08, 2011, 07:56:33 pm »
@ olli

 thanks! i'm a newbie here.
oo nga eh.. nakakainis talaga. akala ko ako lang tapos meron palang tinatagong sekreto. i'm trying to move on now ate olli and hopefully maka move on na asap
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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #6 on: July 08, 2011, 07:58:24 pm »
@nmarc2001

 c kuya palabiro..hehe yup! super ingat na ako ngayon, and if possible, ayaw ko na mag-asawa. kontento na ako kay baby
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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #7 on: July 08, 2011, 08:00:25 pm »
hey loren, its me. i envited u here remember doraemon? hehe I'm not ur ate, i'm ur kuya hehe

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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #8 on: July 08, 2011, 08:01:08 pm »
pissed off me nyan ! buseettttt  ;D

But KNOW that you are not to Blame,so don't hemorrhage :)

You were lied to...

So,what's next...now that you KNOW,are you going to stay as a 3rd party?

If he's (gurl ka po ba? :) ) NOT gonna make things straight,stay away from him  >:(

Take the lesson and land to safety.

Don't settle for being someone's #1 when you are Worthy of being their ONLY one  ::flowers


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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #9 on: July 08, 2011, 08:06:13 pm »
@olli hehe i thot ur a girl :) hello dor !
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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #10 on: July 08, 2011, 08:07:05 pm »
laging may "karma" ;)

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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #11 on: July 08, 2011, 08:09:55 pm »
@FerminaDaza

 I'm a girl. I already broke up with him.
di ko kaya masikmura na pangalawa lang ako and i can see naman na mas nauna yung isa kaya give way na lang ako, kawawa kasi yung baby nila.
I also prefer to let my child grow up without a dad than let her witness the evil acts of her dad!
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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #12 on: July 08, 2011, 08:11:00 pm »
As a guy, wala sakin yun kung ako ang 3rd party. ma-eenjoy ko pa nga eh. kasi mas madaling makipagbreak kapag ganun.

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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #13 on: July 08, 2011, 08:18:48 pm »
Welcome ginger... makahanap ka rin ng taong worthy sa pagmamahal mo, sana ay hindi ito maging huli na ikaw ay iibig ulit.  Dito pa lng mamahalin ka namin ng lubos, we dont know baka dito mo rin matapuan ang tunay na Prince Charming mo.


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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #14 on: July 08, 2011, 08:28:58 pm »
@FerminaDaza

 I'm a girl. I already broke up with him.
di ko kaya masikmura na pangalawa lang ako and i can see naman na mas nauna yung isa kaya give way na lang ako, kawawa kasi yung baby nila.
I also prefer to let my child grow up without a dad than let her witness the evil acts of her dad!

  finger4u  good to hear that you're doing the Right thing sis  toast::

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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #15 on: July 08, 2011, 08:55:37 pm »
I feel you sis..

its very OUCH when you found out that you are the other woman..

after a year of being together....Made plans together, to settle down, marriage, Family, Kids, etc..

then suddenly malalaman mo kalokohan lang pala ang lahat...kamusta naman yun di ba?

Oh well..past is past and we have to move on...

Just be happy with your baby, thats the wonderful blessing you have..






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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #17 on: July 08, 2011, 11:29:56 pm »
duh!

Having a Relationship with UNAVAILABLE man is like climbing Everest w/your  flip-flops on.!!

Stop making the same mistake.


One of the reason Why men Cheat,is because there's always a woman who is willing

to cheat with him.   smoking::

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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #18 on: July 09, 2011, 02:35:07 am »
finger4u  good to hear that you're doing the Right thing sis  toast::

I admire women who stand up and never settle for less .

May Gods grace be with You and your child  ::flowers


How i wish lahat ng 3rd party ganyan ang pagiisip.

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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #19 on: July 09, 2011, 03:04:53 am »
:oI can't really believe that I was the third party. how would you react if you're in this situation? All you've ever known is that you were the only one but then he/she got a previous relationship that was not yet formally ended


ah i guess depende. Nung naexperience ko kasi to, alam kong ako ang third party, right from the beginning, kaya alang emotional attachment.
Pero in your case, medyo masakit yan dahil nagbigay ka ng lahat para dun sa partner mo tapos may kahati pala.

Makipag break ka na lang.  ::pampam

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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #20 on: July 09, 2011, 04:04:04 am »
Mabuti at hindi mo tinuloy ang pagiging 3rd party.
Some would continue that kind of relationship, proud pa nga sila na kabit sila dahil nalamangan daw nila yung wife or yung 1st girl nung lalaki.

Ingat na lang sa new guys na makikilala mo, lalo't single mom ka, may masamang maling pag iisip kasi ang most guys when it comes to single mom, lalo na sa particular case mo, kadalasan "easy" ang tingin ng guys sa mga single mom, yung tipong madaling madadala sa kama kasi may anak na at in your case ay naging mistress pa.

Take care of your kid and live a new life, you'll eventually find a man that is just for you alone at ikaw ang only one sa kanya syempre dapat tanggap din nya ang kid mo.

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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #21 on: July 10, 2011, 01:19:35 am »
@FerminaDaza

 I'm a girl. I already broke up with him.
di ko kaya masikmura na pangalawa lang ako and i can see naman na mas nauna yung isa kaya give way na lang ako, kawawa kasi yung baby nila.
I also prefer to let my child grow up without a dad than let her witness the evil acts of her dad!

 i admire kung paano mo na manage yan pero good luck, suerte ng magiging bf mo ambaet mo kasi e so next tym kilatisin mo mabuti yong mga manliligaw mo wag mo pansinin hanggat wala kang nakikitang kasing baet ko

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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #22 on: July 10, 2011, 07:18:43 am »
condolence.....

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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #23 on: July 10, 2011, 02:09:15 pm »
Welcome Ginger!  ;)

Anyway, bago to ah? Usually mga topic dito eh yung mga may nahuhuling third-party but in your case, ikaw yung nasa other end. Know what? If you didn't know that you're the "other" girl eh it's not your fault. Masakit oo pero the mere fact na he have other girls narin eh pretty much shows na hindi niya kayang maging faithful sayo come due time. Tama yan hiwalayan mo na!














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Re: Paano kung ikaw pala ang 3rd party?
« Reply #24 on: July 10, 2011, 05:29:39 pm »
Well, for now medyo naka move on na ako pero di naman talaga madali yun diba? esp. may baby kami kaya ang hirap coz everytime i look at my baby naaalala ko siya...but its ok, i dont need him anymore and kung bumalik man sya, wala na syang babalikan kahit sabihin nya pa na ako ang mhal nya. wish me luck!

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