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weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« on: June 05, 2011, 08:10:17 pm »
Meron akong kaibigan since HS nagkaron siya ng depression problem nung college siya.. nag ssend siya ng mms about cockroaches na pinatay nya usually inaapakan nya she'll take pics and send it to us (her friends) mga 4 months nya to ginagawa pero nag usap usap na lang kami sa circle of friends namin na wag na lang patulan dahil nagkakaron siya ng problema at may suicidal tendency din siya. After all these years ginagawa nya nanaman pero disturbing na yung pag ssend niya ng MMS. Pag tumatae po siya tinitake nya ng picture yung tae nya at issend niya thru mms samin. kadiri db? yun ang sikreto ng kaibigan kong babae. Gusto ko na nga siya itakwil never ko na siya pinapansin hahaha pero di ko pa din pinapatulan dahil baka mabaliw.. may itsura pa naman siya kaso may toyo ata siya.  smoking::

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #1 on: June 05, 2011, 08:15:48 pm »
wow.. she's sick on the top.. she needs serious help.. na try na ba nya mag consult sa psychiatrist?

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #2 on: June 05, 2011, 08:34:35 pm »
Pakinpost pix nya bro :)

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #3 on: June 05, 2011, 08:36:31 pm »
Sinabihan nyo na ba sya na wag naman sya magsend ng mga ganung bagay?

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #4 on: June 05, 2011, 08:41:17 pm »
kapatid, palagay napapanahon na siya ay patingnan na sa espesyalista... alam ba ng parents nya ang mga pinag-gagagawa niya?

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #5 on: June 05, 2011, 08:55:49 pm »
Definitely something triggered this kaya naulit ulit.

Why dont you talk to her & see what you can do, malamang love problem, family or career yan. Need lang nyan ng makakausap or someone na makakapag iba ng focus nya.

You can try talking to her parents & refer her to a specialist pag lumala na talaga. Hopefully maging ok na siya. :)





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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #6 on: June 05, 2011, 09:37:47 pm »
Kung kaibigan nyo talaga sya...dpat kausapin nyo na lang sya para matulungan nyo rin kung may problema sya... ;)

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #7 on: June 05, 2011, 10:05:42 pm »
Pakinpost pix nya bro :)


ipapost ba naman yung pics?

dapat iadvice nyo magpatingin baka lumala pa ng lumala yan di ba alam ng family niya?

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #8 on: June 05, 2011, 10:18:39 pm »
ipapost ba naman yung pics?

dapat iadvice nyo magpatingin baka lumala pa ng lumala yan di ba alam ng family niya?


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@ topic: Tingin ko may problema sya na tinatago since pagkabata. Yung mga ganyan kasi for sure may malalim na dahilan yan.

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #9 on: June 05, 2011, 10:23:10 pm »
ipapost ba naman yung pics?

dapat iadvice nyo magpatingin baka lumala pa ng lumala yan di ba alam ng family niya?

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #10 on: June 05, 2011, 11:06:29 pm »
"So, is it wrong to post pictures of your poop on Facebook?  She also posted pictures of a stall undergoing work... they closed it off and I think she slipped under the stall door because she took photos of 4 day old poop that was falling apart.  She is almost 30, knew her since HS.  Should I defriend?  I kind of talk to her from time to time."

smell something familiar!!!

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #11 on: June 05, 2011, 11:28:33 pm »
You should indeed talk to your friend. Ask her kung ano yung reason nya kung bakit sya nagpapadala sa inyo ng ganung pix. Kapag sinabi nyang, "wala lang." Tell her it isn't nice and ask her kung ipinapadala ba nya ito sa iba pang tao. Kung sa inyo nya lang ito pinapadala, baka pinagtri-tripan nya lang kayong mga kaibigan nya and you should tell her that as her friends ay hindi nyo ito nagugustuhan. Tapos check mo kung gagawin pa nya ulit or kung anong reaction nya sa inyo.

As her friend, you need to talk to her about this issue but do it in private, yung kayong 2 lang (hindi sa loob ng kwarto ng motor hotel ha  ;D) para wag naman syang mapahiya sa iba pang tao, itama nyo sya kasi responsibilidad nyo yun bilang kaibigan.

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #12 on: June 06, 2011, 01:40:12 am »
may sayad na yan papi.... sana mali ako. sana.


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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #13 on: June 06, 2011, 02:11:47 am »
"So, is it wrong to post pictures of your poop on Facebook?  She also posted pictures of a stall undergoing work... they closed it off and I think she slipped under the stall door because she took photos of 4 day old poop that was falling apart.  She is almost 30, knew her since HS.  Should I defriend?  I kind of talk to her from time to time."

smell something familiar!!!

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http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/someone-just-took-pictures-of-their-poop-and-put-it-on-fb

either its a similar case or its the same case.. di ko alam kung sino ang barbero sa inyo..  laffman::

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #14 on: June 06, 2011, 04:29:51 am »

The best yang username mo.  laffman::


@ topic: Tingin ko may problema sya na tinatago since pagkabata. Yung mga ganyan kasi for sure may malalim na dahilan yan.

wag niyo ipagkalat na dito ako nakatambay sa espiya balita ko hinahanap na daw ako ng mga pulis eh

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #15 on: June 06, 2011, 04:38:41 am »
wag niyo ipagkalat na dito ako nakatambay sa espiya balita ko hinahanap na daw ako ng mga pulis eh


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Post mo naman dito yung mga tinatago mo pang scandal dyan. Balita ko meron daw kayo nung nanay.  laffman::

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #16 on: June 06, 2011, 04:44:03 am »

 ::lmao


Post mo naman dito yung mga tinatago mo pang scandal dyan. Balita ko meron daw kayo nung nanay.  laffman::


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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #17 on: June 06, 2011, 05:12:33 am »
"So, is it wrong to post pictures of your poop on Facebook?  She also posted pictures of a stall undergoing work... they closed it off and I think she slipped under the stall door because she took photos of 4 day old poop that was falling apart.  She is almost 30, knew her since HS.  Should I defriend?  I kind of talk to her from time to time."

smell something familiar!!!

source:

http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/someone-just-took-pictures-of-their-poop-and-put-it-on-fb

Something familiar but not literally same. Siguro for some these are psychological problem. Ayoko kausapin ayoko makielam baka mamaya madamay pa ko. coz I dontknow what she's capable of doing. Hinahayaan ko lang and besides nsa board tayo ng friend's secret diba? hind how to help my friend board.  toast::

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #18 on: June 06, 2011, 06:01:09 am »
meron din ako weird na dati kaibigan , sa tuwing niloloko siya ng boyfriend niya , umiinum ng shampoo take note vaseline pa ung brand , masarap ata. suicide na daw un sa kanya , tanga lang sasakit lang tiyan niya dun .
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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #19 on: June 06, 2011, 11:41:18 am »

 ::lmao


Post mo naman dito yung mga tinatago mo pang scandal dyan. Balita ko meron daw kayo nung nanay.  laffman::


baka ngkaganyan siya dahil sa scandal..  ::lmao ::lmao

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #20 on: June 06, 2011, 01:28:28 pm »
nakausap m na ba siya? if ever nakausap mo ba siya iba na ba ang ihip ng hangin or normal pa rin? kasi kung normal pa rin baka iba lang talaga trip niya at feeling proud siya dun

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #21 on: June 06, 2011, 01:32:21 pm »
mukang schizo yung kaibigan mo sir. it would be better if you guys could get help for her lalo na pag suicidal at may plano baka tutohanin nya yun.
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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #22 on: June 13, 2011, 05:38:45 am »
behavior is learned and can be unlearned, depende kung paano niyo iti treat yung behavior ng friend nyo, maaaring matanggal yang gawain nya, although success is not guaranteed. know the causes of this behavior. bakit nya ginagawa, is it fulfilling/rewarding in her behalf pag ginagawa niya eto? what if i-reverse psychology nyo or act as what ordinary people would do pag nakakita ng ganung images..

isa sa mga possibilities bat nya to inuulit is kasi hindi kayo nandidiri sa mga nakikita nyo, so she thinks 'OK LANG', then behavior goes on and on kasi she thinks nothing is wrong. and thus baka eto ang way niya into social acceptance. probably takot siyang ipakita yung sarili niya sa mundo dahil hindi niya alam kung papaano.

given na meron siyang suicidal thoughts, nasa pagdadala ng sagot yan para di siya masaktan o matrigger yung suicidal intentions niya. also do a background check. kilalanin nyo family and yung circle niya. ano ang mga phobia and philia niya..
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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #23 on: June 13, 2011, 05:53:07 am »
Something familiar but not literally same. Siguro for some these are psychological problem. Ayoko kausapin ayoko makielam baka mamaya madamay pa ko. coz I dontknow what she's capable of doing. Hinahayaan ko lang and besides nsa board tayo ng friend's secret diba? hind how to help my friend board.  toast::


pero hindi na secret pre... nababasa na namin eh... hehehehe

pre... kung concern ka talaga sa kaibigan mo... tulungan mo sya... bakit ka matatakot na madamay... ano ba talaga ginawa sa kanya na nagka ganyan sya...

kung ganyan yung pangyayari... alam ko na mayroon kang alam kung bakit sya nagkakaganun... dahil takot kang madamay...

baka ikaw ang makaktulong pre... bago pa man lumala...

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Re: weirdo ng kaibigan ko.
« Reply #24 on: June 13, 2011, 07:38:43 am »
well,like the hollywood axiom - No audience No show

Someone needs to tell her , that what she's doing is NOT fun.

Other wise she can find another circle of friends to accommodate her and her syett  :D