...iba din naman yun impact sa mga bata if they grew up knowing their parents fights or stop caring,
loving each other.
Our childhood and past experiences will have a strong impact to our future love choices.
If you want your children to have the best chance to grow up in
a secure and intact home, I strongly suggest that you first work to
preserve and protect your marriage. Your children should not come
before your marital relationship.You will be a better parent if you
become a better spouse.
...I really don't think you should stay in an
unhappy marriage for the sake of the children.
Your personal
UNHAPPINESS will have much damaging effect on your children
than your
Divorce ever could.
Yet,You owe it to your children to work very hard on your marriage,and DO everything you CAN
to make it work.But if you come to the point where you realize that the marriage cannot work,
then you owe it to your children to separate from your partner,and FREE yourself to find
the Love you deserve,and the Relationship They CAN ONE DAY LOOK UP TO.
Children wants to see their parents HAPPY.They feel responsible for making their
parents happy,and believe me,they know when you aren't,NO MATTER HOW GOOD
YOU THINK YOU ARE HIDING THE TRUTH from them.If you stay in an unhappy marriage for the
sake of the children,I believe you will be causing them more HARM than if you divorced.
"I stayed for your sake"IS NO FAVOR. this put a tremendous pressure on a child.The bottom line is :
If your children see you being well loved,they will feel lovable and hopeful about having a
wonderful relationship.If your children see you being unloved,they will feel unlovable
and pessimistic about having a wonderful relationship.
Sadly,just like the song "cats in the cradle" child become exactly what,how he/she grow up with.
