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ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« on: August 26, 2009, 06:37:28 am »
SHARE ko lng mga kapatid baka kc masyado tau na adict sa porn na apectohan na pla yng real LIFE natin  ;)


 Porn Addiction (or Obsession or Compulsion) 
Videos about porn addiction, (or porn obsession/compulsion), and how it has harmed those addicted to/obsessed with pornography, as well as their families, loved ones, & others. (Of course that person's porn addiction has also harmed the people in the porn videos. This is because every time a porn video is being viewed and masturbated to, someone is taking pleasure in the objectification, exploitation and/or abuse of another person. This is a violation of someone's dignity & humanity.)

These videos and the below also include info about "sex addiction", and how to best overcome it &/or pornography addiction.

THE FIVE STAGES OF PORNOGRAPHY ADDICTION:







* EARLY EXPOSURE:

Most men or women who get addicted to porn start early. They see porn when they are very young & it gets its foot in the door.

* PORN ADDICTION:

You keep coming back to porn. It becomes a regular part of your life. You're hooked and can't quit.

* ESCALATION:

You start to look for more graphic pornography. You start using porn that disgusted you earlier. Now, it excites you.

* DESENSITIZATION:

You start to become numb to the images you see. Even the most graphic porn doesn't excite you any more. You become desperate to feel the same thrill again, but you can't find it.

* ACTING OUT SEXUALLY:

This is the point where men or women make a crucial jump and start acting out the images they have seen. Some move from the paper & plastic images of porn into the real world, with real people, in destructive ways.

Ref: InfoCounselingAssociates.com

**** NOTE TO PORN USERS:

If you wouldn't be comfortable with your own daughter, sister, wife, girlfriend, or mother, etc. being in porn, (and countless thousands of boys and men masturbating to objectifying and dehumanizing images of them on a regular basis), why would it be okay for you to masturbate to images of other peoples daughters, sisters, wives, girlfriends, or mothers, etc.? It is important to remember that every single girl or woman that you see in pornography IS indeed somebody's daughter. (And/or sister, or wife, or girlfriend, or mother.) And they are every bit as worthy of respect and being treated with dignity as YOUR daughter, or sister, or wife, or girlfriend, or mother.

Assuming you wouldn't be okay with your own daughter being in pornography, you can either continue to use pornography and choose hypocrisy, selfishness and indifference, OR you can choose to treat other people's daughters as you would want your OWN daughters to be treated, stop using porn, and thus choose to embrace empathy, kindness & compassion and be a better person and live with integrity. Just something to consider...

MORE INFO & HELP:

CompulsionSolutions.com
SexualRecovery.com
BeaconFMH.com
ThroughTheFlame.org
No-Porn.com


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Crime, Rape, Violence & Porn Connection
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Crime, Rape, Violence & Porn Connection 35 Videos
Videos on how porn has influenced crimes such as molestation, rape, incest, torture & murder.

More info:

"The Link Between Pornography and Violent Sex Crimes"
(Search title.)

"Pornography As a Cause of Rape"
Book excerpt from:
"Against Pornography: The Evidence of Harm"
Read at DianaRussell.com

'Could It Be That Pornography Prevents Rape?'
http://obscenitycrimes.org/noprevent.cfm

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS/COMMENTS:

1. WHY ARE YOU AGAINST PORN?

-- -- Because pornography degrades women, sex, & all humanity, including boys & men. Additionally pornography frequently glorifies & promotes sadism, masochism, rape, incest, pedophilia, misogyny, (woman hating), and violence against women & girls. It also creates demand for prostitution & international sex trafficking. Furthermore, it is a highly unregulated & abusive industry that frequently exploits vulnerable survivors of childhood sexual abuse.

2. ARE YOU IN FAVOR OF CENSORSHIP OR BANNING OF PORNOGRAPHY?

-- -- No. This channel is in favor of education of consumers of pornography & participants, and supports fair & reasonable regulation. Please read the article "The Adult Film Industry: Time to Regulate?" (First link at top left of this channel.) All of the regulations proposed in that article are supported.

3. BUT IF SOMEONE CHOOSES TO DO PORN, IT'S THEIR CHOICE & THEREFORE IT'S FINE & IT'S NOBODY'S BUSINESS.

-- -- Just because someone makes a choice that doesn't mean it's a healthy or good choice for them or for society in general. People frequently choose to use dangerous drugs or to inflict violence on others. That doesn't mean those choices are positive or ethical ones. If one cares about humanity it is important to speak up in order to encourage people to make healthier choices that will improve their lives & the overall condition of our society.

4. WHY DO YOU HAVE THOSE ANNOTATIONS ON YOUR VIDEOS? CAN'T WE JUST WATCH THE VIDEOS WITHOUT THEM?

-- -- Posting the videos without the annotations on them would be a copyright violation & would result in their removal. (That is what happened to someone else who posted them previously in their original form.) Permission was granted by the copyright owners to keep this channel's videos on YouTube in their Fair Use-like form WITH the pauses & the annotations that provide commentary, criticism, & response. So they will remain.

5. YOUR VIDEOS ARE BIASED. YOU SHOULD PRESENT BOTH SIDES OF THE ARGUMENT TO BE FAIR.

-- -- Being biased against an exploitative & sexist industry is something to be proud of, and there is no need to present the other side. If a person was fighting against racism, would you accuse them of being "biased", and insist that they present the views of racists as well so that they aren't being so "one-sided"? Of course not. However, it's easy to find out the views of people who are in favor of the sex industry, as the Internet is saturated with porn & web sites that vigorously promote, defend, & support the all aspects of the multibillion-dollar global sex industry.

6. WHO ARE YOU TO JUDGE PORNOGRAPHY, PROSTITUTION, OR THE CHOICES OF PEOPLE WHO USE THEM, PARTICIPATE IN THEM, OR SUPPORT THEM?

-- -- We all have a responsibility as members of society to either be part of the problem or part of the solution, and to make educated & fair judgments about what is right or wrong, and then to act on those judgments. Judgments about what is right or wrong, or good or harmful for society, make up our laws & judicial system. Without such judgments & the enforcement of them, no one would have any secure rights or freedoms, & society would be in a state of chaos.

7. IF YOU DON'T LIKE PORNOGRAPHY, JUST DON'T WATCH IT.

-- -- That would be irresponsible. Silence in the face of extreme sexism, abuse & dehumanization is complicity, and that's not an option for anyone with a conscience. Would you suggest the same in the face of other harms? Would you tell someone if they don't like racism or violence to just look the other way?

8. YOU SHOULDN'T BE FORCING YOUR OPINIONS ON OTHERS. THAT'S FASCISM!

-- -- Nobody is being "forced" by this channel to read or watch anything, & it's not "fascist" to provide educational information so that individuals can make informed choices about their consumption of pornography or their participation in the sex industry.

9. WHY ARE YOU AGAINST SEX? YOU MUST BE A PRUDE OR SEXUALLY REPRESSED BECAUSE OF RELIGION.

-- -- This channel is not faith-based, & it is NOT against sex, which is something that is natural & healthy. What IS being fought against is an abusive & highly unregulated multibillion-dollar industry that profits off of the exploitation & dehumanization of everyone involved, but most particularly young women.
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Note: If your question is not answered above, please review the rest of this channel page & the PLAYLISTS page. Many other FAQs will be answered by doing so. Please do not e-mail this channel without first doing this. Thanks! :-)



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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #1 on: August 26, 2009, 08:54:45 am »
porn addict nga ako at least hinde drugs! teka adik din pla ako sa drugs  ::lmao

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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #2 on: August 26, 2009, 10:42:21 am »
ako, hindi naman masyado...  ;D ;D ;D

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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #3 on: August 26, 2009, 10:44:36 am »
porn addict nga ako at least hinde drugs! teka adik din pla ako sa drugs  ::lmao

anong drugs? alaxan? bisolvon? hehehe

porn adik here!
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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #4 on: August 26, 2009, 11:00:57 am »
 :P
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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #5 on: August 26, 2009, 04:44:07 pm »
ako, hindi naman masyado...  ;D ;D ;D

oo bro hindi nga halata eh

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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #6 on: August 26, 2009, 08:17:20 pm »
Ako din PORN addict...minsan nagiging SEX addict! ;D
Iring-Iring ta beh...Pakambrasa ko beh meowwww...

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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #7 on: August 26, 2009, 08:43:20 pm »
oo bro hindi nga halata eh

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hehehe, e ikaw bro? addict ba?  ;D  laffman::



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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #8 on: August 26, 2009, 11:18:54 pm »
adik noon ..........................................hanggang ngayon    :D

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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #9 on: August 27, 2009, 12:15:30 am »
not into that... i always wanted to try something else.....hahah, anyway sex without love is not enjoyable..sex with love is the best...why? mas kakalasing ang sex na may love tatamaan ka talaga inside..talagang sagad sa buto, you nourish your physical need as well as your emotional need. tama ba ako????correct me ha peace ^_^V
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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #10 on: August 27, 2009, 01:19:34 am »
ako mahilig lng pero hindi adik.. jejejje.. minsan minsa lng ..

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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #11 on: August 27, 2009, 04:58:15 am »
adik din ako noon pero ngaun pinipilit kong hindi magbago!!!  ::lmao

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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #12 on: August 27, 2009, 06:18:11 am »
addict ako weh...wala kasi GF ko dito..ahahaha

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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #13 on: August 27, 2009, 06:23:04 am »
anong drugs? alaxan? bisolvon? hehehe

porn adik here!

kahit ano basta nakaka high parang porn din   :D

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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #14 on: August 27, 2009, 07:08:27 am »
sobrang addict ko sa porn sobra di mapigilan
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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #15 on: August 27, 2009, 07:42:23 am »
porn addict lang ako.. pero mas gusto ko yung asian porn kesa western.. hehe.. lalo na yung mga haponesa..  ::drool
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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #16 on: August 27, 2009, 07:43:20 am »
hehehe, e ikaw bro? addict ba?  ;D  laffman::




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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #17 on: August 27, 2009, 01:23:21 pm »
paminsan minsan umaabot na ako dun sa desensitization stage e. :( pero gusto ko na talaga tanggalin un out of my system.

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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #18 on: September 21, 2009, 09:13:36 am »
OO addict ako sa porn

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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #19 on: September 21, 2009, 11:42:20 am »
i admit adik ako sa porn... PROUD PA!!!  ::) ::) ::) ::)

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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #20 on: September 21, 2009, 01:29:53 pm »
gAndA kAya pAg sAbayin mo nanuod tsaka ginagawa.! toast::
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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #21 on: September 23, 2009, 03:50:20 pm »
ganito lang yan e..

kesa naman mag-drugs!  smoking::

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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #22 on: September 23, 2009, 05:11:52 pm »
not into that... i always wanted to try something else.....hahah, anyway sex without love is not enjoyable..sex with love is the best...why? mas kakalasing ang sex na may love tatamaan ka talaga inside..talagang sagad sa buto, you nourish your physical need as well as your emotional need. tama ba ako????correct me ha peace ^_^V


Cut the cheese.. sex with love is the best, i agree.. BUT sex without love is STILL enjoyable  ::lmao.. and sex is always better than no sex..  toast::

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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #23 on: September 23, 2009, 05:17:51 pm »
Ngayon hinde na. Maria Ozawa nalng ang mga pinanoud. HEhe

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Re: ADDICT kb sa PORN?
« Reply #24 on: September 23, 2009, 05:22:15 pm »
Occasionally na lang.. I preffer doing with it with someone.  :P