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Secrets Revealed => Personal Secrets => : Ilonggo-by-blood May 06, 2013, 06:35:45 PM

: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: Ilonggo-by-blood May 06, 2013, 06:35:45 PM

Yan minsan ang tanung ko mga Co spy..  Kasi hetu ang sitwasyun!

I am in mid 30's na ngayun may kinakasama but most of the time sa Singapore siya, she is 25,we have a 7 year old child so 18 siya na preggy! GF ko siya when she is 14 ako by that time 25. B ut I have a GF din noon na 17 YO kasabay niya. No issue There.
During napunta siya sa Singapore her parents live there napunta naman ako sa ibang bansa I have a relationship na naman I am 28 and the girl is 16 (half Caucasian) he rlast name Vo. That didn't last long kasi umuwi rin ako dito sa Iloilo. now medyo hetu ang problema I am having a Friend with benefit or that is how I see it sa relationship namin guess how old... 15! Hindi po ako ang namimilit sa sitwasyun parang kusang dumadating.. I promise Hindi talaga!

malas nga ba o swerte, My view is do we create or destiny or destiny comes to you?

Mga Co Spy.. sana  ::dontflame
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: Asinta-do May 06, 2013, 07:35:32 PM
Pre hindi ko masyadong naintindihan yung story mo pero yung part na may Friend with benefits ka and parang pinapalabas mo na wala kang magawa para umiwas don ay isang malaking "B*LL SH*T".

You can always say NO, "mas pinili" mo lang talagang pumasok sa sitwasyon na yan kaya wag kang parang bata na hindi kayang panindigan ang actions mo at sisise sa destiny or kung ano ano.

And dude what the heck 15yrs old yung friend with benefit mo? ikaw mid 30's? well kanya kanyang fetish siguro yan... smoking::

and yes no flaming, sorry if harsh or offensive, pero that's what I have to say. 
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: synchrocyclotron May 06, 2013, 07:48:52 PM
kawawa ka naman walang Espiya sa selda...
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: Ilonggo-by-blood May 06, 2013, 07:52:41 PM
Pre hindi ko masyadong naintindihan yung story mo pero yung part na may Friend with benefits ka and parang pinapalabas mo na wala kang magawa para umiwas don ay isang malaking "B*LL SH*T".

You can always say NO, "mas pinili" mo lang talagang pumasok sa sitwasyon na yan kaya wag kang parang bata na hindi kayang panindigan ang actions mo at sisise sa destiny or kung ano ano.

And dude what the heck 15yrs old yung friend with benefit mo? ikaw mid 30's? well kanya kanyang fetish siguro yan... smoking::

and yes no flaming, sorry if harsh or offensive, pero that's what I have to say. 

sa unag part bro is that it happen to me before.. noong nakilala ko kinakasama ko ngayun she is also 11 years younger than me..

accepted but for me I only took what is there. Iniwasan ko yan as in iniwasan ko pero may dumadating talaga
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: Telesforo May 06, 2013, 07:57:13 PM
sa unag part bro is that it happen to me before.. noong nakilala ko kinakasama ko ngayun she is also 11 years younger than me..

accepted but for me I only took what is there. Iniwasan ko yan as in iniwasan ko pero may dumadating talaga

Hindi ako naniniwala sa may dumating na term. Ano yung kusang sinabi ng girl sayo na "Manong Friends with Benefit tayo!"
Ikaw pa rin ang unang gumawa ng move kaya hindi mo masasabing dumating. Ang sabihin mo hindi mo lang mapigilan.
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: Asinta-do May 06, 2013, 08:00:18 PM
Okay na sana eh, iniwasan mo kamo sabi mo dba, nandun na yung tama eh, hindi mo ngalang tinapos, bumigay ka din sa huli.

2 lang yan for me, its either hindi ka nag iisip, hindi mo naisip ang mga possible mang yare sa pinag gagawa mo, hindi mo naisip na mali yan kaya ginawa mo pa rin, OR talagang hindi ganung kahalaga sayo ang pamilya mo para gumawa ng bagay na sigurado akong alam mo makakasira dito.

And please, sobrang nakaka irita lang grabe na sinisisi mo sa destiny or wala kang choice sa mga pinag gagawa mo. Parang hindi ka 30+ yrs old.

Good luck, alam ko pwede mo pa maayos yan, KUNG PIPILIIN MO LANG NA AYUSIN.
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: khaliwally May 06, 2013, 08:01:18 PM
Hindi ako naniniwala sa may dumating na term. Ano yung kusang sinabi ng girl sayo na "Manong Friends with Benefit tayo!"
Ikaw pa rin ang unang gumawa ng move kaya hindi mo masasabing dumating. Ang sabihin mo hindi mo lang mapigilan.

 ;D Brader Telesforo... bakit naman "Manong"

Brad ang payo ko... baka ma "Mang Kanor" Part 2 ka... if you can have it with a "legal" aged woman... why do it "KAMIKAZE" sa 15 year old...

Kung ikaw ang tatay ng 15 year old... would you be happy...

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: Telesforo May 06, 2013, 08:04:32 PM
;D Brader Telesforo... bakit naman "Manong"

Brad ang payo ko... baka ma "Mang Kanor" Part 2 ka... if you can have it with a "legal" aged woman... why do it "KAMIKAZE" sa 15 year old...

Kung ikaw ang tatay ng 15 year old... would you be happy...

Brad alangan naman Kuya ang itawag nya sa halos tatay na nya. Dapat lang Manong. Ang term na kuya pang "slim" na pagitan lang na edad. Hehehe.

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: Ilonggo-by-blood May 06, 2013, 08:10:15 PM
;D Brader Telesforo... bakit naman "Manong"

Brad ang payo ko... baka ma "Mang Kanor" Part 2 ka... if you can have it with a "legal" aged woman... why do it "KAMIKAZE" sa 15 year old...

Kung ikaw ang tatay ng 15 year old... would you be happy...



Kung akot tatay magagalit siyempre..

 ::dontflame

Yun nga mga Bro  and sis nagtatanung nga..

Hindi ko siya pinpilit dumdaan sa bahay pa minsan minsan Since l work homebase nagpapakita ng motives ako naman eh kumagat na lang..

Yes Manong tawag sakin that's how we call it here nakakahiya?..... yes
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: remark May 06, 2013, 08:18:48 PM
bakas simo meg ba.just do what is right bro.
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: kenji_kulet May 06, 2013, 08:27:05 PM
 ??? wait did i read it right? your 30 and your banging a 15 year old?
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: khaliwally May 06, 2013, 08:30:32 PM
Kung akot tatay magagalit siyempre..

 ::dontflame

Yun nga mga Bro  and sis nagtatanung nga..

Hindi ko siya pinpilit dumdaan sa bahay pa minsan minsan Since l work homebase nagpapakita ng motives ako naman eh kumagat na lang..

Yes Manong tawag sakin that's how we call it here nakakahiya?..... yes

Bords, just giving straight thru advice... no pun intended...  toast::
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: Twentiwan May 06, 2013, 08:33:26 PM
Okay na sana eh, iniwasan mo kamo sabi mo dba, nandun na yung tama eh, hindi mo ngalang tinapos, bumigay ka din sa huli.

Eto sang-ayun ako sa sinabi ng kapatid natin dito. So sa madaling salita, kasalanan mo pa din. Ikaw gumagawa ng action eh, kung iiwas ka or kung itutuloy mo.

Now with regards to your question kung Malas nga ba or Buenas... Well for me Malas. Malas yung mga nakaka-relation mo Sir... Kasi kahit sabihin na natin na sila ang may gusto nun, pwede mo naman sana silang iwasan and much better bigyan pa ng advise. Kaso bumibigay ka nga eh.
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: marteniko May 06, 2013, 08:37:49 PM
Yan minsan ang tanung ko mga Co spy..  Kasi hetu ang sitwasyun!

I am in mid 30's na ngayun may kinakasama but most of the time sa Singapore siya, she is 25,we have a 7 year old child so 18 siya na preggy! GF ko siya when she is 14 ako by that time 25. B ut I have a GF din noon na 17 YO kasabay niya. No issue There.
During napunta siya sa Singapore her parents live there napunta naman ako sa ibang bansa I have a relationship na naman I am 28 and the girl is 16 (half Caucasian) he rlast name Vo. That didn't last long kasi umuwi rin ako dito sa Iloilo. now medyo hetu ang problema I am having a Friend with benefit or that is how I see it sa relationship namin guess how old... 15! Hindi po ako ang namimilit sa sitwasyun parang kusang dumadating.. I promise Hindi talaga!

malas nga ba o swerte, My view is do we create or destiny or destiny comes to you?

Mga Co Spy.. sana  ::dontflame


Kow...... YABANG!  ;D
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: praeto_RYAN May 06, 2013, 08:56:13 PM
Kung akot tatay magagalit siyempre..

 ::dontflame

kung ako tatay niyang mga yan, at you had them when they are vulnerable, you better pray and you better hide.

jailbait, had my fair share of admiration from such age group back then, however, the "BOOST" to one's ego is not that much for me to pursue such situation.  most of the time kasi is they just miss their father's love and if you just play right, you could have them.  the keywords there are "miss a father's love" and "you play it right you could have them".  just like what someone above said, you saw and exploited the situation, hence you are majorly responsible for the situations you are creating. 
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: dejavu13 May 06, 2013, 09:01:31 PM
Malas yan! 100% Pag nag kataon na natorete ang utak ng Girl kalaboso ka dyan Brod. Menor de edad yan!
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: gardov May 06, 2013, 09:18:53 PM
so you like them really young pareng ilongo?

i don't think na may kinalaman ang luck sa sitwasyon mo. Either ginusto mo or hinde. at sa kwento mo, mukhang gustong gusto mo.
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: Kik0y_Dakila May 06, 2013, 09:21:40 PM
brad..parang anak mo na yun..can you imagine your child?at isa pa minor brad..hirap nyan brad when you say quit baka mag drama at gumawa eksena..habang maga pa make a move to quit..
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: BlueAlphaZero May 06, 2013, 09:48:44 PM
Kung akot tatay magagalit siyempre..

 ::dontflame

Yun nga mga Bro  and sis nagtatanung nga..

Hindi ko siya pinpilit dumdaan sa bahay pa minsan minsan Since l work homebase nagpapakita ng motives ako naman eh kumagat na lang..

Yes Manong tawag sakin that's how we call it here nakakahiya?..... yes

Seigneur, with all due respect, the statement you made above pretty much verifies that you chose to enter into a relationship with a fifteen-year-old. I doubt if you can chalk it up to some cosmic "what-was-meant-to-be" (as an American sports writer likes to say).
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: CHILO20 May 06, 2013, 10:08:49 PM
tama. .wag mo sabihin na swerte. .its your decision to make, about sa mga bagay na dumadamting sa life mo. .sa tingin ko pare wala kang conscience. .are you visiting the church? or are you a muslim. nevertheless yung definition mo nang swerte nasa pagiisip mo na din. .swerte sa kamanyakan? alam mo naman na mali yung ginagawa mo eh. It feel so much better kapag alam mo na nageenjoy ka sa buhay nang walang ginagawang mali. ,you can still look cool naman kahit walang mga chikababes nasa pagdadala mo nalang.
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: Ilonggo-by-blood May 06, 2013, 10:20:05 PM
tama. .wag mo sabihin na swerte. .its your decision to make, about sa mga bagay na dumadamting sa life mo. .sa tingin ko pare wala kang conscience. .are you visiting the church?
I am not saying maswerte that is why may option, is it wrong I say maybe or mali. Yan nga eh humihingi ng opinion.
I am not saying its cool factor dahil I am retired na sa cool.. Sa akin lang is it is a consenting action walng pinilit or money involve
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: gardov May 06, 2013, 10:27:23 PM
I am not saying maswerte that is why may option, is it wrong I say maybe or mali. Yan nga eh humihingi ng opinion.
I am not saying its cool factor dahil I am retired na sa cool.. Sa akin lang is it is a consenting action walng pinilit or money involve

In my opinion Mali.

Pero malaki ka na at may edad na...sila mga underage. yun na lang isiipn mo pareng ilongo.
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: Dairycow May 06, 2013, 10:36:37 PM
kahit pa sabihin mong walang money involved, ang point dito isa ka rin sa dahilan kaya nagkakaroon ka ng mga ganyang ka relasyon. pansinin mo bakit lahat ng past na relationship mo puro ganyan? dahil sayo. wala nang iba pang dahilan para diyan.
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: praeto_RYAN May 06, 2013, 10:49:47 PM
I am not saying maswerte that is why may option, is it wrong I say maybe or mali. Yan nga eh humihingi ng opinion.
I am not saying its cool factor dahil I am retired na sa cool.. Sa akin lang is it is a consenting action walng pinilit or money involve

based on your above post, you should have titled your topic, "is it right or wrong", or something similar.  however, your topic is denoting of, well, subtle bragging.  am i lucky or am i lucky.  am i lucky or unfortunate.  if your point is to ask for advice if what you are doing, and what you are in, is right, then you should have chosen a better title.  and you should have rephrased your whole post.  i don't see any hint of you asking for advice on whether it is right or wrong.  all you are asking is if espiya thinks you are LUCKY with your current situation.  your topic title is "Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?"  where in your title, or even your introductory post sa topic ang hint na you are asking for advice if right or wrong ang ginagawa mo?  you even said (and I quote) "Hindi po ako ang namimilit sa sitwasyun parang kusang dumadating.. I promise Hindi talaga!"  that to me is subtle bragging.  or you can enlighten me more if i have indeed "skipped" an important detail in your post. 
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: Breath May 06, 2013, 10:50:36 PM
ang masasabi ko lang sayo TS eh parang stick ng Sigarilyo yang situation mo dyan sa menor na yan. Oo habang tumatagal sumasarap pero mas lumiliit naman ang chance mo na makaiwas, baka sa bandang huli bad KARMA abutin mo.
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: dh3n May 06, 2013, 11:22:23 PM
Mang kanor kaw ba yan?  ::lmao ::lmao
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: FerminaDaza May 07, 2013, 12:26:47 AM
EH. manong este bro , YOU are the *common denominator* sa lahat ng situation po./You are the one thing they have in common. Take responsibility, break the pattern po. Be much more *self aware* there's nothing that happend to you that you're mind *didn't* create. The QUESTION you asked yourself *determines* your DESTINY.(it is your decision not condition that determines your destiny- sabe nga) This might sound deep but try to search inside you, Kasi,  Your situation is about assessing your own needs, and, frankly, that’s not something that anyone else in the world can do for you. Hope you'll be able to acknowledge that It will need some changes on your part po.

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: Ilonggo-by-blood May 07, 2013, 01:29:22 AM
EH. manong este bro , YOU are the *common denominator* sa lahat ng situation po./You are the one thing they have in common. Take responsibility, break the pattern po. Be much more *self aware* there's nothing that happend to you that you're mind *didn't* create. The QUESTION you asked yourself *determines* your DESTINY.(it is your decision not condition that determines your destiny- sabe nga) This might sound deep but try to search inside you, Kasi,  Your situation is about assessing your own needs, and, frankly, that’s not something that anyone else in the world can do for you. Hope you'll be able to acknowledge that It will need some changes on your part po.


sa mga sinabi noy lahat yata ng Burden on my shoulder... The relationship was consenting nga eh! Ganyan talaga pag hindi ka mayaman it has moral obligation pero si Chavit Singson during the interview kay Kris Aquino the latest wife and the last na daw, was 27 YO and they have a 13 YO son

which means she got preggy at 15 walang problema

here is the clip
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MS8Hkjl7o58[/youtube]
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: gardov May 07, 2013, 01:47:15 AM
sa mga sinabi noy lahat yata ng Burden on my shoulder... The relationship was consenting nga eh! Ganyan talaga pag hindi ka mayaman it has moral obligation pero si Chavit Singson during the interview kay Kris Aquino the latest wife and the last na daw, was 27 YO and they have a 13 YO son



ahm. wala naman yan sa posisyon mo sa buhay. hindi naman porke may  pera sya tama na yung ginawa nya. also, hindi si chavit ang topic po mang ilongo. ikaw at ang desisyon mong pumatol sa mga underage.

hindi naman porke consenting din yung babae, pwede nang patulan. Isipin mo pa rin na ikaw ang nasa tamang edad o may matured na pagiisip... at sila ay yung underage.

kaya, hindi yan swerte. hinayaan mo lang din mangyari at hindi ka naman tumanggi. syempre tawag ng laman din, mahirap hindian.

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: NAPAKAPANGET May 07, 2013, 02:11:54 AM
Child abuse ::pampam
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: hanrey May 07, 2013, 02:28:38 AM
Hindi yata halata na mahilig sa teenager or let us say sa mga bata si TS.  :applause
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: praeto_RYAN May 07, 2013, 02:44:20 AM
sa mga sinabi noy lahat yata ng Burden on my shoulder... The relationship was consenting nga eh! Ganyan talaga pag hindi ka mayaman it has moral obligation pero si Chavit Singson during the interview kay Kris Aquino the latest wife and the last na daw, was 27 YO and they have a 13 YO son

which means she got preggy at 15 walang problema

the point of the advices given is that, even if it is consenting, a minor is considered not yet capable of making decisions, and as such getting involved with a minor is considered a criminal offense.  minor yan, may consent man o wala.  at pag may nagkaso sa iyo, paktay ka.  

likewise, i still cant see any "desire" or "willingness" to "solicit" advice, much more accept the advices given you.  and piece of advice again, ingat-ingat din, hindi dahil baka mabuking yang relasyon mo sa mga minor de edad, since if that is my line, it is like i am "tolerating" you.  ingat-ingat at baka makatapat ka sa babaeng menor de edad na may tatay or tito na kayang "ipakain" sa iyo ang mga pinaggagawa mo in the form of 5.56 or 7.62!

personally, hindi ako nagmamalinis.  manyak nga ako eh, aminado ako dun.  at lagi ko ipinagsisigawan yan dito.  alam yan ng espiya na ubod ako ng manyak!  likewise, i have done things in my life that i am not very proud of.  but i draw the line clearly, and i wouldn't get involved with a minor.  PERIOD!  at huwag mo sasabihin na wala pumatol or wala pumapatol sa akin, or things to that effect, dahil wala ka nga alam sa kung meron man or wala - but trust me, meron.  lets just say i am sensible enough to either let it pass, or let everything wait till she is already of legal age.  okay lang sana kung same age kayo pero if you are matured enough - way, way matured and she is way, way minor, then, you entering into a relationship with her, with consent or not, is still tantamount to you exploiting her naive mind!  you can't blame our fellow espiyas here, if they'd call you Mang Kanor.    
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: FerminaDaza May 07, 2013, 03:20:01 AM
sa mga sinabi noy lahat yata ng Burden on my shoulder... The relationship was consenting nga eh! Ganyan talaga pag hindi ka mayaman it has moral obligation pero si Chavit Singson during the interview kay Kris Aquino the latest wife and the last na daw, was 27 YO and they have a 13 YO son

which means she got preggy at 15 walang problema





aww, sarrreeeehhh if you feel that way bro! i just tried to answer 'bout yun question mo po 'bout destiny. now, what am getting IS, you want * justification*  po having much or getting involved with someone way younger than yours KASI, some ppl are doin it too. ochigue po, perception is REALITY. I guess there's nothing much to say din po, what you *believe* that's your reality. unless you gonna wake up one day and decide to change that *belief* NAMASTE!


P.p.s

i don't know Mr.Chavit personally, but i think he's a CAZZO.

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: Idiot May 07, 2013, 03:20:29 AM
hindi sa pinagtatangol ko si TS base sa observation

may certain taong attracted sayo kase na-experience ko din yan

may classmate akong babae puro nangligaw sa kanya Either Security Guard, Pulis or Sundalo

honestly speaking i'm 30 years old napagkakamalan akong highschool or college undergraduate they always asked me saan ako nag-aaral to the point it is very annoying pero di ko sila pinatulan dahil alam ko ang batas mahirap makulong. May Instances binibigyan ka pa ng points very annoying

to TS swerte sya to the point nakakantot sya ng bata
morally, psychologically and legally speaking mali sya at huwag lang syang mamalasin at sana huwag syang mag-progress na maging PEDOBEAR
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: beaverjohn2006 May 07, 2013, 03:31:42 AM
Kung akot tatay magagalit siyempre..

 ::dontflame

Yun nga mga Bro  and sis nagtatanung nga..

Hindi ko siya pinpilit dumdaan sa bahay pa minsan minsan Since l work homebase nagpapakita ng motives ako naman eh kumagat na lang..

Yes Manong tawag sakin that's how we call it here nakakahiya?..... yes

What if anak mo kagatin ng iba.... sinadya mo man o hindi pangangatwiran mo.... iisa lang masabi ko...

GUSTO MO TALAGA ANG NANGYAYARI... dahil kung hindi mo gusto yan dapat UMIIWAS ka.

hanap ka nalang PSP tutal may pera ka naman dun ka magsugal ng hilig mo....

ok lang sana kung 18 up yung girl, at marunong magdala ng sarili niya, Aba eh! sa edad ng Bata na iyan nag-eexplore pa lang yan sila ng DAPAT I-EXPLORE... gets?

Better na Iwasan mo na iyan. Wala ka paring lusot just in case may makakaalam ng ginagawa niyo diyan sa lugar niyo. ;)
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: thebreed May 07, 2013, 04:27:52 AM

Sir Ilonggo-by-blood ask ko lang anu mararamdaman mo if kapatid mo yung menor de edad, sa ganun edad eh my partner din siya ka edad mo?

 
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: Ilonggo-by-blood May 07, 2013, 04:46:45 AM
Sir Ilonggo-by-blood ask ko lang anu mararamdaman mo if kapatid mo yung menor de edad, sa ganun edad eh my partner din siya ka edad mo?

 

ewan..



aww, sarrreeeehhh if you feel that way bro! i just tried to answer 'bout yun question mo po 'bout destiny. now, what am getting IS, you want * justification*  po having much or getting involved with someone way younger than yours KASI, some ppl are doin it too. ochigue po, perception is REALITY. I guess there's nothing much to say din po, what you *believe* that's your reality. unless you gonna wake up one day and decide to change that *belief* NAMASTE!


P.p.s

i don't know Mr.Chavit personally, but i think he's a CAZZO.



 Yan nga eh. Society would tend to say ah its a bad thing mali yan.. anu ang feeling mo kung mangyari sa anak mo blah blah..yan sinasabi nila dahil mahirap to average income ako! But If that happens to rich and super  people na Ka cancel out ang Moral obligation.

sometimes the world is unfair!

Kung super sikat ka and super mayaman they would say ah such a nice couple ah grabe swerte niya.

If it happens sa mga Aeta  may magsasabi ah its their culture
but if it happesn to normal people average people they people would judge you according sa "kuno" tama.

But what is Tama? where do we draw the line?
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: praeto_RYAN May 07, 2013, 04:49:19 AM
Sir Ilonggo-by-blood ask ko lang anu mararamdaman mo if kapatid mo yung menor de edad, sa ganun edad eh my partner din siya ka edad mo?

the probable answer by TS will be it will be ok with him.  either that or he'd say that he would feel bad about such but he can't "really" do anything since it is and will always be his sister's (sister ni TS sa theoretical question mo) decision.  however, the "gravity" of such situation will only sink in deep, true and hard for TS, if it did happens to a family member of his.  but until that happens, TS will be oblivious to all our so called "advices" and "jabs" to knock him to his senses.  such acts of us will be futile since TS is so "engrossed" and very much in "deep" with all his "MINOR" catches.
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: codered May 07, 2013, 05:23:20 AM
Hindi ako naniniwala dyan hanggat walang picture o video na may handsign hahaha

Brod. hindi ka naman magiging masaya ng pangmatagalan o panghabambuhay sa mga kinukuha mong girls. Lipat ka ng tambayan, o mga lugar na pinupuntahan, o magpalit ka ng mga kaibigan. Kailangan mo ng change para mabago din mga klase ng babaeng dadating sa buhay mo.
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: FerminaDaza May 07, 2013, 05:29:54 AM
Yan nga eh. Society would tend to say ah its a bad thing mali yan.. anu ang feeling mo kung mangyari sa anak mo blah blah..yan sinasabi nila dahil mahirap to average income ako! But If that happens to rich and super  people na Ka cancel out ang Moral obligation.

sometimes the world is unfair!

Kung super sikat ka and super mayaman they would say ah such a nice couple ah grabe swerte niya.

If it happens sa mga Aeta  may magsasabi ah its their culture
but if it happesn to normal people average people they people would judge you according sa "kuno" tama.

But what is Tama? where do we draw the line?




:) clear ko lang bro ko, no judgment here, huggy po! sabe din ni bro idiot & as i knew some stories din na "it happens" naman po. At since na mention mo nman po yun situation mo, na may anak ka & may gf naman po-- and seems you're CONFUSED ( which still a good sign that somehow you wanted to seek ) See, I don't judge you either way, but that doesn't mean that there isn't an ethical path out of your situation. Objective reality is messy and grey and fraught with danger. What's right for you is not necessarily what's right for her. What's right for her is not necessarily what's right for you. So, what if idrop din natin choosing between right or wroooong po? How about knowing what's EFFECTIVE & not  naman po? Kasama naman or wired naman as Men having a male brain ,they do prefer *younger* women ( obviously not wrinkled ) and younger women they don't necessarily *like* OLDER MEN becoz of their age! eh eh eh NAH, all they see to older Men are * wisdom OR stability * and that CHANGES as they mature ( older women prefers younger men naman! YEAH, you are so right ,LIFE IS UNFAIR.)  but back to what is EFFECTIVE-- If you can think or be much focus to what you already have, kid and a partner- in exchange for a much younger one- can you see po what you can lose? ( sabe nga ni Tiger Woods, if alam nya or nag isip sya ng lubos if anu mawawala sa kanya after he was caught cheating, He probably choose better and keep his integrity, family, lot of endorsement INTACT. ) Now, i'm stating the Rules :) oh well, there's always an exception and You may choose to claim it. Again, no judgment and not gonna be able to change your own perception bro, & am no Psychologist , but i know if we CAN'T change reality but sure we CAN ALTER our perception and choose to act *responsibly* po.

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: voyager_ May 07, 2013, 06:27:31 AM

Kow...... YABANG!  ;D

manong.... usapan to ng mga mid 30's pababa.... hindi mid 60's  ;)
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: pspyrock May 07, 2013, 07:00:53 AM
Kaya mo bang i-provide yung financial / material needs nung bata o ng posibleng maging anak nyo?

Sa case ni Chavit, mayaman yun, kaya nyang magprovide kahit sa 5 o higit pa sigurong babae o minor. Hindi magiging kawawa yung mga bata nya. Mali pa din ito base sa lipunan natin pero ang consolation part dito ay hindi magugutom yung mga batang ito.

Sa case ng mga katutubo, kultura nila yung nagdidikta sa buhay nila, maaaring kakaiba ito sa kultura ng nasa lungsod kaya iba din yung pagtingin natin dito. Kadalasan sa kultura ay nagiging medyo malabo yung kung ano ang tama at mali dahil iba-iba nga ang kultura na kinagisnan natin. Example: Mali kumain ng aso pero pinapayagan ito sa ilang mga katutubo dahil parte ito ng kultura nila. Wala ka namang makikitang naka bahag sa lungsod o sa isang office sa Makati kahit na hindi naman ito mali sa mga katutubo pero dahil nga sa may sinusunod tayong gawi sa isang lipunan ay hindi ito ginagawa ng mga katutubo na naghahanap ng trabaho dito sa lungsod.

Hindi ka si Chavit at hindi ka rin isang katutubo, kabilang ka sa isang lipunan na may sinusunod na sariling pamantayan sa pakikipagrelasyon ng naaayon sa kung ano ang nakasanayan na at tanggap ng lipunan na ito.

If you can provide for this minor and her possible offspring, do what you intend to do with her but do it discreetly or else you will feel the harsh reality that our society frowns upon this type of relationship.

Ano ba ang balak mo sa kanya, kung sex lang, yan yung punto kung bakit hindi ito tanggap sa lipunan natin. Sa mga katutubo kasi, nagagawa nilang magkaroon ng relasyon sa mga bata dahil ito yung mga future mothers ng kanilang angkan, para maipagpatuloy yung lahi nila, hindi nila ginagawa yun para lang makatikim ng bata ng dahil sa libog.

Isipin mo yung intentions mo dun sa bata at sa pakikipagrelasyon dito at kung saan ito papunta, kung sex lang ang habol mo without taking into consideration her future, sigurado akong mali yung ginagawa mo.


I hope you do the right thing.
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: PenPusher May 07, 2013, 07:03:02 AM
Buenas ka pa kasi nakapagpost ka pa dito sa espiya.net.Ibig sabihin wala ka pa sa loob ng kulungan. Pero pag nagreklamo sa hukuman mga magulang o kamag-anak ng mga menor de edad na babae na nakakarelasyon mo mamalasin ka. It's good to learn from one's own mistakes. It's even better to learn from the mistakes of others. Learn from the mistakes of then congressman Romeo Jalosjos. The sooner you do this the better. You never know when lightning strikes. Statutory rape and acts of lasciviousness are no trivial matter.
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: Asiong Salonga May 07, 2013, 07:07:54 AM
Ikaw ay hindi malas, hindi din swerte. Ikaw ay hambog hahahaha ::lmao
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: tobey_parker May 07, 2013, 08:05:24 AM
Hahaha..brader, you create your own destiny. You always have a choice. Yan lang ang masasabi ko sa'yo. Tama nga yung iba, medyo may pagkamayabang ang dating mo. Medyo lang.  ;D
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: UrAnus May 07, 2013, 09:01:56 AM
jailbait ya.  pwede ka ma blackmail for rape. Buenas ngayun malas sa huli.
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: CHILO20 May 07, 2013, 09:36:36 AM
alam mo naman na mali si chavit idol mo ba sya? di ka pa din tinamaan sa mga sinabi ng spies?
ganyan ba katigas yung batuta mo este utak mo?
okay lang sa girl? okay ka lang ba sir?

tibay mo
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: rodeo May 07, 2013, 11:09:05 AM
Bro... kung swerte at swerte lang ang pag uusapan sabihin na natin na swerte ka kasi lapitan ka, ego booster yun...
pero ibang issue kasi kung pumatol ka sa minor at meron kang GF/ Kinakasama.

Kung siguro nainlove ka lang sa bata at wala kang kinakasama sabihin na lang natin in love kasi eh,,, pagdating ng 18 pakasalan..

Pero ang talagang issue is may kinakasama ka na, niloloko mo na at minor pa siya...

One at the time lang siguro kung minor as long as walang carnal thing bakit hindi....
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: beaverjohn2006 May 07, 2013, 11:28:59 AM
Ikaw ay hindi malas, hindi din swerte. Ikaw ay hambog hahahaha ::lmao

Asiong STRIKES AGAIN!!!!!!   :applause :applause :applause
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: kingston May 07, 2013, 04:17:24 PM
Manong ilonggo...

Ang tanong masaya ka ba sa ginagawa mo?... if yes then WTF... DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY... Dont mind what ever rules exists out there... You create your own rule and specially your own happiness...

But...

Then again you are 34 right?... that's 19 years gap... its like banging a 6 y/o while your 25... damnn.... a grade one student and ur a working class... come on manong... you could do better than that... Lets say your lucky kasi you have a gift na younger aged girls are attracted to you... pero atleast set some limits... 5-10 years gap maybe... Maawa ka naman sa bata... she's at a learning stage... Wag naman sana IKAW yung taong sisira sa kinabukasan nung bata...

Well anyways...

DO what you think is right for you... if it makes you happy go ahead... if it gives you guilt feelings then make the possible corrections... matanda ka na... hindi ka na dapat pinagsasabihan ng mga bagay bagay na "dapat" or "hindi dapat" gawin... You create your own destiny... your destiny is in your own hands... somewhat overused na ang mga quotes na yan... BUT beware... kasi mapaglaro ang tadhana... maaaring masarap ngaun pero hindi natin alam bukas... Utak ang gamitin wag puro libog... Oo nga naman napakasarap makagalaw ng mga teenager pero hello... its up to manong... Always DO what is RIGHT and you will NEVER GO WRONG...

peace...  ;D

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: kervey_82 May 07, 2013, 04:48:00 PM
Brader manong... I understand on how you feel.. As the saying goes, older carabao eat young grasses..  ::secret  Besides of being a minor and the consequences therein, try to think about the future of the girl.. sana naiisp mo yun..  You've got a family..  you're the subject in here so don't compare yourself to others.. try to be mature dude..
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: xeoxander01 May 07, 2013, 11:51:51 PM
ampogi mo dre...  smoking::
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: budotukmol May 09, 2013, 03:09:15 AM
tikal to!!!!!
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: MrKanor May 09, 2013, 03:19:55 AM
certified mang kanor ka
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: Pall-Eren-Mnr May 09, 2013, 05:20:38 AM
minor ang kapartner mo dito. di destiny or fate yan, decision mo yan lalo na't legally, emotionally and mentally incapable of sound decision ang isang minor.
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: toksis May 10, 2013, 12:20:56 AM
Diba rape yan? report!
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: Ilonggo-by-blood May 11, 2013, 09:08:29 AM
akala ko pa naman age is just a number sasabihin niyo..


anyway sa mga nagsasabing mayabang hambog please read the whole sentence..  and I quote "nasa poor to average income ako" hambog ba yun?  ::) hindi ko sinabing payat ako na may abs at gwapo hindi ko naman sinabing maganda siya at mukhang artista FacT: Hindi ako gwapo macho it happens and it can happen to any one of you of us..

The question sana is you think it does matter? Now a days significant pa ba yun?  ::dontflame
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: Pall-Eren-Mnr May 11, 2013, 10:06:10 AM
akala ko pa naman age is just a number sasabihin niyo..

ang problema, ilonggo, the other person is just too young. mahirap sabihin yan lalo pa't di emotionally mature ang mga bata sa ganyang edad. pwede mong sabihin na yun bata is mature for her age but then legal impendiment appears.
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: Ilonggo-by-blood May 11, 2013, 11:00:20 AM
ang problema, ilonggo, the other person is just too young. mahirap sabihin yan lalo pa't di emotionally mature ang mga bata sa ganyang edad. pwede mong sabihin na yun bata is mature for her age but then legal impendiment appears.

hetu ang situation, her friends which is around 14 15 16 already had sex sa mga BF nila which is around 20's or same age.

I know that kasi dito sila tumatambay sa maliit na store namin which we serve beer (Gold Eagle pa yan uso dito eh)

so what's the difference kasi she would eventually do it anyway.

Alam ko siguro naiingit rin siya dahil minsan her friends talk about sex sa mga BF nila then wala siyang ma share. Minsan pag nalasing they would talk sinu magaling mag BJ babae ba or bakla so feeling ko ayaw mapag iwanan sa mga peers.
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: Fossilized May 11, 2013, 11:34:44 AM
hindi yan bibigay kung hindi mo diniskartehan.. wag mong diskartehan.

wag ka magpakita ng pera.
wag mo ilibre.
wag mo bigyan ng kahit ano.

tingnan nga naten.

kaso yan brad. illegal sa batas. illegal sa bibliya. san ka lulugar? alam na.
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: Fossilized May 11, 2013, 11:35:53 AM
nga pala.. hindi yan swerte. nakinig ka lang talaga sa demonyo. at ang demonyo binibigay sau
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: budotukmol May 11, 2013, 11:47:52 AM
tira to!!!!!!!!

daw bag o ka karenew sang tikal?

te, grabe sang power!!!!!!
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: Ilonggo-by-blood May 11, 2013, 10:04:45 PM
hindi yan bibigay kung hindi mo diniskartehan.. wag mong diskartehan.

wag ka magpakita ng pera.
wag mo ilibre.
wag mo bigyan ng kahit ano.

tingnan nga naten.

kaso yan brad. illegal sa batas. illegal sa bibliya. san ka lulugar? alam na.

wag ka magpakita ng pera.           Wala ankung Pera ipakita
wag mo ilibre.                            Wala akung Pera ipang libre
wag mo bigyan ng kahit ano.        Wala akung kayang ibigay wala nga akung binibigay sa sarili ko eh


tira to!!!!!!!!
daw bag o ka karenew sang tikal?
te, grabe sang power!!!!!!

Grow up!
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: budotukmol May 11, 2013, 11:59:14 PM
theres something wrong with you bro.
you can only convince a minor girl and by the time they get mature iiwanan ka rin.

at hindi mo na rin pwedeng matawag na may kinakasama ka na nasa singapore at ikaw ay nasa pilipinasa dahil lang sa may anak kayo.

sa tingin ko ikaw dapat ang mag grow up.
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: gardov May 12, 2013, 12:10:36 AM


Grow up!

shouldn't you be the one heeding this advice?

kasi you are the one hooking up with young girls.
sa totoo lang, i'm in my 30's and i've had teen girls din na nakikipagflirt pero i try to stay away from them dahil it is not right to take advantage of them.

the youngest i have hooked up with was an 18 years old chick when i was 30 years old at nagka bf na sya kaya we stayed friends na lang.
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: Pall-Eren-Mnr May 12, 2013, 12:23:31 AM
hetu ang situation, her friends which is around 14 15 16 already had sex sa mga BF nila which is around 20's or same age.

I know that kasi dito sila tumatambay sa maliit na store namin which we serve beer (Gold Eagle pa yan uso dito eh)

so what's the difference kasi she would eventually do it anyway.

Alam ko siguro naiingit rin siya dahil minsan her friends talk about sex sa mga BF nila then wala siyang ma share. Minsan pag nalasing they would talk sinu magaling mag BJ babae ba or bakla so feeling ko ayaw mapag iwanan sa mga peers.

the point still stands. minors should never be a staple part of an adult's sexual or romantic life because of their immaturity and legality. it also distorts an adult's view in life because said minor can never match-up with an adult's POV, whether sexual or romance. while you choose to teach her things, your penchant for minors says otherwise.

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: abujuguluy May 12, 2013, 02:07:31 AM
kawawa ka naman walang Espiya sa selda...

i agree.
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: Ilonggo-by-blood May 12, 2013, 05:18:45 AM
theres something wrong with you bro.
you can only convince a minor girl and by the time they get mature iiwanan ka rin.

at hindi mo na rin pwedeng matawag na may kinakasama ka na nasa singapore at ikaw ay nasa pilipinasa dahil lang sa may anak kayo.

sa tingin ko ikaw dapat ang mag grow up.

I don't expect her to stay, She knows my kids. She doesn't expect to stay. Sakin is that I am in a situation I took advantage sa ignorance nila. Pero HINDI ako ang mag provoke sa situation. Sa kanila trip trip lang ok sa akin same same lang peace lang tayu. She will eventually do it with someone at her age ako I just fill up the position mali ba yun?

Kung taga Iloilo ka Taga Molo City High ang mga chicks. Diri sa ga ilinum sa tyangge ko.

Ok in general sa Co Espiya they think mali I would think other wise pero collectively sa inyo mali NOTED po yun. 
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: CHILO20 May 12, 2013, 05:27:49 AM
I don't expect her to stay, She knows my kids. She doesn't expect to stay. Sakin is that I am in a situation I took advantage sa ignorance nila. Pero HINDI ako ang mag provoke sa situation. Sa kanila trip trip lang ok sa akin same same lang peace lang tayu. She will eventually do it with someone at her age ako I just fill up the position mali ba yun?

Kung taga Iloilo ka Taga Molo City High ang mga chicks. Diri sa ga ilinum sa tyangge ko.

Ok in general sa Co Espiya they think mali I would think other wise pero collectively sa inyo mali NOTED po yun. 

there is really something wrong with your MORALS, VALUES, and RELIGION dude. .

your talking made you look like a STUPID TRASH.

. .you cant understand and i think you refuse to understand DEEPLY yung mga payo at mga sinasabi sa iyo. .

imbis na ikaw ang mag PAYO at lumayo sinisisi mo pa yung KABATAAN na PRINOVOKE ka . .your no close to HUMAN who can make a GOOD/RIGHT decision. .
isa kang ANIMAL sa theory ni Charles Darwin na Survivor of the Fittest. tirahin mo na nang tirahin lahat nang makita mo gusto mo kumuha ka nang mangga hiwaan mo tapos tirahin mo din sabihin mo prinovoke ka. .
wala na kong paki sayo  ::lmao
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: Ilonggo-by-blood May 12, 2013, 06:12:38 AM
there is really something wrong with your MORALS, VALUES, and RELIGION dude. .

your talking made you look like a STUPID TRASH.

. .you cant understand and i think you refuse to understand DEEPLY yung mga payo at mga sinasabi sa iyo. .

imbis na ikaw ang mag PAYO at lumayo sinisisi mo pa yung KABATAAN na PRINOVOKE ka . .your no close to HUMAN who can make a GOOD/RIGHT decision. .
isa kang ANIMAL sa theory ni Charles Darwin na Survivor of the Fittest. tirahin mo na nang tirahin lahat nang makita mo gusto mo kumuha ka nang mangga hiwaan mo tapos tirahin mo din sabihin mo prinovoke ka. .
wala na kong paki sayo  ::lmao

I would love to hear from a self righteous zealot.

Magaling ka humusga agad Hijo. To tell you sa isang Psychiatric case ng patient you need to have a intensive History of Patient. Ikaw may evolution na at may conclusion pa by reading few paragraph. wow iba ka. Kung ikaw sa situation ko you would gladly say yes. Sinasabi ko to dahil alam ko  na may honest person na magsasabi. Yes I am weak I would do the same. Just being male HUMAN being with Normal level of testosterone.  who will be attracted to a female who is also attractive.
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: 2fear! May 12, 2013, 06:27:15 AM
Abaw linti gid... Kalami gid...
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: Zagatho May 12, 2013, 06:38:19 AM
akala ko pa naman age is just a number sasabihin niyo..


anyway sa mga nagsasabing mayabang hambog please read the whole sentence..  and I quote "nasa poor to average income ako" hambog ba yun?  ::) hindi ko sinabing payat ako na may abs at gwapo hindi ko naman sinabing maganda siya at mukhang artista FacT: Hindi ako gwapo macho it happens and it can happen to any one of you of us..

The question sana is you think it does matter? Now a days significant pa ba yun?  ::dontflame

Ofcourse dre it matters. Yung sinasabi mo na "age is just a number" it's for those who are of legal age. Minor kasi yan. It doesn't matter if she is consenting or not because she is not of legal age. Pwede ka makasuhan ng statutory rape nyan.
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: Pall-Eren-Mnr May 12, 2013, 06:40:00 AM
I don't expect her to stay, She knows my kids. She doesn't expect to stay. Sakin is that I am in a situation I took advantage sa ignorance nila. Pero HINDI ako ang mag provoke sa situation. Sa kanila trip trip lang ok sa akin same same lang peace lang tayu. She will eventually do it with someone at her age ako I just fill up the position mali ba yun?

Kung taga Iloilo ka Taga Molo City High ang mga chicks. Diri sa ga ilinum sa tyangge ko.

Ok in general sa Co Espiya they think mali I would think other wise pero collectively sa inyo mali NOTED po yun. 

whether you provoked the situation or not won't matter, they are still minors and when "something" comes up (which i hope that won't happen to you) you cannot get out of that situation because they are minors. that's the potential legal part of your situation.

while it might be wrong to you on what we have said, do remember that adults will always be held responsible on actions they have done.
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: beaverjohn2006 May 12, 2013, 07:23:32 AM
Abaw linti gid... Kalami gid...

Koreksyon pareng 2Fear....  KANAMIT GID.... laffman::
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: Ilonggo-by-blood May 12, 2013, 09:05:00 AM
Koreksyon pareng 2Fear....  KANAMIT GID.... laffman::

Tama Kalami is Cebu

KANAMIT is Iloilo.

Sa Tpoic: Noted na mga Co spy majority wins.
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: beaverjohn2006 May 12, 2013, 06:01:26 PM
Abaw linti gid... Kalami gid...

2fear tumpak talata mo sa ezekiel 23:21, nyahahaha....

@ TS yan ngayon sitwasyon ng vatamvata mo na inaawang mo o nagang-aaswang sayo....
para yan sa kaniya.

"...hinayaan mong ang iyong bango at himas-himasin ang iyong mga suso." ezekiel 23:21   ;D ;D ;D
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: praeto_RYAN May 12, 2013, 06:11:24 PM
akala ko pa naman age is just a number sasabihin niyo..


anyway sa mga nagsasabing mayabang hambog please read the whole sentence..  and I quote "nasa poor to average income ako" hambog ba yun?  ::) hindi ko sinabing payat ako na may abs at gwapo hindi ko naman sinabing maganda siya at mukhang artista FacT: Hindi ako gwapo macho it happens and it can happen to any one of you of us..

The question sana is you think it does matter? Now a days significant pa ba yun?  ::dontflame

the wind that some of us (especially me) were all referring to is that in your first post here, we can't see any point of you asking or seeking advice.  if there was really some sort of solicitation, however, you really shun away from really accepting such.  likewise, as what i have said earlier, even your title (which should reflect the gist of your post, however, it was constructed rather far from what you are insisting now.  for comparison, i have edited the title of such topic in this particular post for your to reflect on it.  if you are happy or feeling lucky with what you are having now, i have no objection about such.  my point is DANGER lurks since others can make your life miserable via what you are having now (child abuse / corruption of minor, or something like that).
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: Ilonggo-by-blood May 13, 2013, 08:53:31 AM
the wind that some of us (especially me) were all referring to is that in your first post here, we can't see any point of you asking or seeking advice.  if there was really some sort of solicitation, however, you really shun away from really accepting such.  likewise, as what i have said earlier, even your title (which should reflect the gist of your post, however, it was constructed rather far from what you are insisting now.  for comparison, i have edited the title of such topic in this particular post for your to reflect on it.  if you are happy or feeling lucky with what you are having now, i have no objection about such.  my point is DANGER lurks since others can make your life miserable via what you are having now (child abuse / corruption of minor, or something like that).

I did not say I am lucky maswerte in any paragraph or sentence. I am asking "kung" maswerte or malas. I am asking not an advice but a point of view. Because I will base my actions on each point of view. I am not close to any advice but I am screening it base on my specific situation. Minsan kasi yung view ng iba is very self righteous parang sinong Santo sila. But if they are in my shoe they would likely do the same thing. Or even worse baka maka dalawa or tatlo pa sila because dito they express their rebellion they share their thoughts without any hesitations. They would explore their sexuality without any concerns.
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: beaverjohn2006 May 13, 2013, 09:07:48 AM
eto mahirap i-DENY....

"KAHIT ANONG POINT OF VIEW MO O ADVICE KUNG DI KA NAMAN IIWAS O U<IWAS SA GANIYANG BAGAY.... USELESS...."

Tapos na usapan etc..etc.... laffman::
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: FerminaDaza May 13, 2013, 10:05:51 AM
Minsan kasi yung view ng iba is very self righteous parang sinong Santo sila. But if they are in my shoe they would likely do the same thing. Or even worse baka maka dalawa or tatlo pa sila because dito they express their rebellion they share their thoughts without any hesitations. They would explore their sexuality without any concerns.


huwell, am quite relieve na it ' seems' na wala ng iba pang spy na nasa katulad mo po situation  ;D and sadsies sa mga young girls sa lugar nyu-- am gonna shoot myself if by the age of 15 ,my daughter will be foolish & be on that kind of rebellion? but thank God i been giving much love & training lil fd ' bout self- love ,that for sure she won't crave any attention or happiness outside & goes as stray.

My fervent hope TS, as mas nakakatanda ka at nakaka alam po, try to lead na lang those lost young girls into the light kesa yun mag take advantage ka pa po. REAL MEN PROTECTS.   



(http://i40.tinypic.com/2zf4ck2.jpg)
 please guys, let's make this world a better ,safer place  ::flowers;)





: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: CHILO20 May 13, 2013, 10:13:45 AM
tama pa si praeto_RYAN mahangin ka. humingi ka pa nang advice. .galing naman ng testosterone levels mo. .inexplain mo pa talaga.
mahirap makipagusap sayo manong prang nakikipagusap sa bao nang niyog.
kung gusto mo ikaw ang magaling. .ikaw nang magaling. .

tinatawag mo ko na hijo baka magparamihan tayo nang nabayo baka di ka ba umabot nang isang sako
puro bata pa tinitira mo ano ka pedophile ::lmao
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: Ilonggo-by-blood May 13, 2013, 11:03:57 AM
tama pa si praeto_RYAN mahangin ka. humingi ka pa nang advice. .galing naman ng testosterone levels mo. .inexplain mo pa talaga.
mahirap makipagusap sayo manong prang nakikipagusap sa bao nang niyog.
kung gusto mo ikaw ang magaling. .ikaw nang magaling. .

tinatawag mo ko na hijo baka magparamihan tayo nang nabayo baka di ka ba umabot nang isang sako
puro bata pa tinitira mo ano ka pedophile ::lmao

naka druga ka ba... Hindi ko naman sinasabing mali ka eh. May sinabi ba ako ha Hijo?

uulitin ko pa ba sinabi ko na I am gathering info base sa sinasabi nila  and I once again Hijo, said na collectively tama sinabi niyo.


huwell, am quite relieve na it ' seems' na wala ng iba pang spy na nasa katulad mo po situation  ;D and sadsies sa mga young girls sa lugar nyu-- am gonna shoot myself if by the age of 15 ,my daughter will be foolish & be on that kind of rebellion? but thank God i been giving much love & training lil fd ' bout self- love ,that for sure she won't crave any attention or happiness outside & goes as stray.

My fervent hope TS, as mas nakakatanda ka at nakaka alam po, try to lead na lang those lost young girls into the light kesa yun mag take advantage ka pa po. REAL MEN PROTECTS.  


 please guys, let's make this world a better ,safer place  ::flowers;)[/center]

Sis I am just saying na TAMA nga kayu. Its just in reality some co spy or just people would do the same kahinaan lang naman namin to eh.
Once AGAIN I am saying tama advice at VIEW niyo. No ego involve I am accepting the fact na medyo mali or mali talaga.

I am just justifying kung bakit ko nagawa. At I am saying hetu ang view ko noon but after awhile I have read the collective views I would say yes its TRUE. It was my bad. Sana clear






: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: CHILO20 May 13, 2013, 11:09:41 AM
yan dapat i admit mo na laffman::
ikaw din manong eh prang kang uminom nang tide tapos nagkakatol.
pa rehab kana
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: Ilonggo-by-blood May 13, 2013, 08:38:16 PM
yan dapat i admit mo na laffman::
ikaw din manong eh prang kang uminom nang tide tapos nagkakatol.
pa rehab kana

Hindi ko maintindihan bat ka nandito wala ka namang sinabing matino  ::)
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: CHILO20 May 14, 2013, 12:31:57 AM
backread ka nalang. may iba ka kasing kausap sa mga nauna mong post eh. .
basta ako nag cocomment lang ako, ni hindi mo naman pinapansin mga ibang comment. nandito ako kasi epiya ako.
hindi ako lurker.
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: flipblood May 18, 2013, 07:29:15 AM
sarap naman nyan may first class pla dyan sa ilo-ilo smoking::



TS kamukha mo cguro si koko ;D
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: jarod_tracer May 18, 2013, 12:26:50 PM
siguro to answer you directly.

malas oo.
dahil pag may nakaalam nyan eh malinaw pa sa sikat ng araw makukulong ka. im guessing secret nyo yan dahil laya ka pa din. once na meron nag complain, or nag chismis man lang nyan. womens desk sa police station ang magkakaso sayo. kahit walang complainant.
reason = rape with consent. kahit hindi mo sya ginahasa.
reason = a minor cannot distinguish love and lust. and you being an elder, should have advised the girl that what she is feeling is not love. and you are just horny.

swerte oo
dahil hindi ka pa din nakakulong.
reason = wala pa nakakaalam or hindi pa nagiinarte ung bata.
reason = its either nasisilaw pa sya on what she may think is love. or masaya pa sya.

iwasan mo na lang magka toyo ung bata. pag may nakausap na nakatatanda yan at naikwento nya. = kalaboso ka

di kita bibigyan ng advise. alam mo naman dapat mo gawin eh. ayaw mo lang gawin kasi nasasarapan ka pa.
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: filth_15 May 18, 2013, 07:25:05 PM
malas yan brader..himas rehas ang katapay niyan kapag nagkataon.
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: budotukmol May 19, 2013, 12:31:32 AM
hindi pa pala to nakukulong?


sa..........



mental.
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: Ilonggo-by-blood May 19, 2013, 12:34:59 AM
who wants Pics?
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: beaverjohn2006 May 19, 2013, 12:42:06 AM
who wants Pics?

Me! Post na pics now na!

para di na humaba ang usapan guys, ang tinatanong ni TS.... eh MALAS o BUENAS...

means VOTE:   no explanation nalang para alang gulo....

my vote is :  MALAS

so i demand POst the pics " at nang makilatis. " ;D
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: CHILO20 May 19, 2013, 10:28:14 AM
abang mode
 ::lmao
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: ericjohn1986 May 19, 2013, 09:39:17 PM
basta mga ilonggo gid damo gud ya sang mga chicks :)  toast:: toast::  finger4u

share your pics kapatid  toast:: toast::
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: shaft May 21, 2013, 08:28:57 PM
brad, let it go, sisirain mo lang buhay nya....


post pics muna para di wentong barbero to :) gun::
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: spyngtondo May 21, 2013, 09:19:37 PM
hindi ka malas o maswerte brad...............oportunista ka....
act your age .......

ikaw ba yan Mang Kanor
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: kenji_kulet May 21, 2013, 09:47:48 PM
who wants Pics?

 :applause ilabas na yan tagal ko ng naka abang sa tread na to  ::lmao
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: zed May 23, 2013, 07:53:56 PM
iyut mo! kupalon! diputa nga kupal kag! artista xang ilo2 ang feeling? ng ka gago mo!
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: beaverjohn2006 May 23, 2013, 10:32:41 PM
iyut mo! kupalon! diputa nga kupal kag! artista xang ilo2 ang feeling? ng ka gago mo!

Araguy Gyud..... Durog.... ;D
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: FerminaDaza May 24, 2013, 03:35:49 PM
just wanted to share- off the hook na si TS naman :) but for the sake of the topic about significant age difference.


Amy Dickinson is the advice column for the Chatham, Ontario, paper Chatham Daily News. The other day she received the following letter from a “divorced dad”


DEAR AMY: I've been divorced for four years. My daughter chose to stay with me. Her friends and her school were here; she is also closer to me than her mother. She is 18 now and away at college.

She has had a close friend for three years. This friend attends college here in town. Her friend and I enjoy each other's company. The girl just turned 18 too. My daughter suggested that I ask her friend out and said that her friend would say yes.

I said, "You're my daughter, and she's your friend. Wouldn't that be weird for you?" My daughter laughed and said that she can handle it. She is mature for her age.

I'm 44 years old. I like the girl, and I certainly find her attractive. Is she off-limits? -- Divorced Dad

DEAR DAD: Yes, she is off-limits. Now that your daughter is in college, you and she should develop separate orbits where you can each grow and change and have differentiated private lives.

In addition to the yuck factor built into this cozy triangle, I believe that every 18-year-old should be off-limits to dating a 44-year-old. But that's me. (I can't imagine dating someone who thinks Mark Wahlberg is just another old guy.)

When Woody Allen dated a 17-year-old in the movie Manhattan, he mused about his situation: "I'm dating a girl wherein I could beat up her father." (Allen's own personal relationship choices created terminal problems in his own family). The extreme age difference isn't necessarily morally wrong -- it's just terminally dumb.


http://www.chathamdailynews.ca/2013/05/23/divorced-dad-contemplates-dating-teenage-daughters-friend

: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: Ilonggo-by-blood May 26, 2013, 02:34:24 AM
just wanted to share- off the hook na si TS naman :) but for the sake of the topic about significant age difference.



I considered that, indeed tama ka nga sis
iyut mo! kupalon! diputa nga kupal kag! artista xang ilo2 ang feeling? ng ka gago mo!

Thank You same to you Gago ka man.. nag hambal ko artista ko haw naghambal ko gwapo ko haw kay mango kaw sasali ka dito tapus hindi ka nagbabasa ng whole stroy may tanga pala dito sa Iloilo


















: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: zed May 28, 2013, 03:21:39 AM

I considered that, indeed tama ka nga sis
Thank You same to you Gago ka man.. nag hambal ko artista ko haw naghambal ko gwapo ko haw kay mango kaw sasali ka dito tapus hindi ka nagbabasa ng whole stroy may tanga pala dito sa Iloilo

nugay sagi pasikat na gago ka! pota man palag ka d xa barrio? kd2 d para mbal.an mo na tikalon ka! yut feeling gwapo ampota! kung may tanga s ilo2 wag mo hanapin dahil tingin sa salamin alam mo na kung sino! puro ka hambal! ang istorya mo drawing! pic. pa kno pakita nya! ISTORYAHE ATI XA PLAZA!

















: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: Ilonggo-by-blood May 28, 2013, 10:18:25 AM


Hoy Gago na anu kaw Insecure kaw? or Mango ka lang gid ah indi ...Insecure kaw kag gago na anu ka imu ya makadtu ka sang thread sang iban kag mag reklamo anu ka? agi?

Kung pangit ka problema mo yan gago
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: beaverjohn2006 May 28, 2013, 10:33:07 AM
makasali nga....

"sa diin na atong picture ng vavaye? pakipost para matapos na at nang mahatulan kung MALAS or SUWERTE." ;D
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: CHILO20 May 28, 2013, 10:38:29 AM
makasali nga....

"sa diin na atong picture ng vavaye? pakipost para matapos na at nang mahatulan kung MALAS or SUWERTE." ;D

oo nga tagal ko na din nagaabang. para mas lalong detalyado Kwento mo
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: Ilonggo-by-blood May 28, 2013, 11:35:44 AM
ang gago na zed mag pi PM lang naman sabay sabi lalaban ka ha suntukan tayu hahahahha

yan ang tunay na isip bata

makasali nga....

"sa diin na atong picture ng vavaye? pakipost para matapos na at nang mahatulan kung MALAS or SUWERTE." ;D

I was about to put pic kasu daming kontra eh
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: gardov May 28, 2013, 11:44:48 AM
ang gago na zed mag pi PM lang naman sabay sabi lalaban ka ha suntukan tayu hahahahha

yan ang tunay na isip bata

I was about to put pic kasu daming kontra eh


I dont think that you should post the pic preng illongo. Di ba sabi mo minor? Kala ko bawal pics ng minor dito. Also kung may nangyari sa inyo hindi ba at medyo sarili mo din ipapahamak mo sa pagpost ng pic? Pero kung taypmo talagang ipagyabang na nakajekwat ka ng bata eh by all means post away.
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: Ilonggo-by-blood May 28, 2013, 11:52:14 AM
I dont think that you should post the pic preng illongo. Di ba sabi mo minor? Kala ko bawal pics ng minor dito. Also kung may nangyari sa inyo hindi ba at medyo sarili mo din ipapahamak mo sa pagpost ng pic? Pero kung taypmo talagang ipagyabang na nakajekwat ka ng bata eh by all means post away.

I know bro hindi naman ako subrang careless.. I was just trying to see sinu ang mga hypocrite. Grabe mag sabi na mali tapus nag expect pala ng pic..  ;)
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: budotukmol May 29, 2013, 06:20:36 AM
way man gakontra para mag post ka sang picture. damo naman gani gapamangkot, malas ba o bwenas?
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: zed May 29, 2013, 10:45:13 AM
kita man cguro cno ang kwentong barbers ah! ngita nda mau pic. nga medyo patihan na minor ha! hahaha! p0ta nga kupal imo dordz! ok ka lang? anghit lng na xang lawas mo nga wala makuha! lugod gs2 mo? hahaha..bata gamay kay akat tapungulay? hadlok ka aw? nag bahag ikog mo? p0ta puro ka hambal! set ta ah! kaw pili lugar kag oras nga tapungulay ta kung isog ka gdman na kupal ka!  ::lmao
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: beaverjohn2006 May 29, 2013, 10:53:28 AM
ayan na, nangakig na talaga si ZED....

paki PM nalang ng pics ah! para mahatulan ta gid if malas nga or swerte? ;D
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: Ilonggo-by-blood May 29, 2013, 10:59:54 AM
kita man cguro cno ang kwentong barbers ah! ngita nda mau pic. nga medyo patihan na minor ha! hahaha! p0ta nga kupal imo dordz! ok ka lang? anghit lng na xang lawas mo nga wala makuha! lugod gs2 mo? hahaha..bata gamay kay akat tapungulay? hadlok ka aw? nag bahag ikog mo? p0ta puro ka hambal! set ta ah! kaw pili lugar kag oras nga tapungulay ta kung isog ka gdman na kupal ka!  ::lmao

pupunta ng Thread tapus magpapakita ng tapang kundi GAGO!!! Kulang sa pansin naghahanap ng kalinga ng magulang sa balay niyo kadtuan ta ka.

sala ko na bala kay gago kaw ga pangita kaw attention? wala ka gina sapak sa balay niyo?
Yan ang mga taong kulang sa pansin ng magulang naghahanap ng pansin sa labas
kawawa ka bata
: Re: Malas nga ba or Buenas (maswerte )?
: zed June 04, 2013, 09:41:46 AM
picture? evidence? mahiya naman..cno ba gumawa ng thread para mapag usapan? hayahay ang buhay! alam na