Espiya

Secrets Revealed => Personal Secrets => : gardongapoy April 13, 2013, 05:09:01 AM

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: gardongapoy April 13, 2013, 05:09:01 AM
i meet a girl sa isang online chatting room,then naging kami only sa internet,when i came back home in the philippines to meet her naging kami na for good,we had sex in my house in her house and to other places...pero nung nag tagal inamin nya sa akin na may asawa na sya at ang asawa nya ay nasa abroad,i dont know what to do...should i continue sa relationship namin or kailangan na putulin ko na?kasi one time when i tried to call it quits,nagbanta sya sa akin na mag sui suicide pag iniwan ko daw sya
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: synchrocyclotron April 13, 2013, 05:19:17 AM
you'll never know if she really will commit suicide hahaha.... try leaving her... you will never be together with her...kaya ng tinawag na married yung babae eh.
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: thebreed April 13, 2013, 05:23:46 AM
d yan mag papakamatay sir,, nag hahanap lang ng kausap       smoking::
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: spinach April 13, 2013, 06:12:55 AM
we had sex in my house in her house and to other places

Sir, nung ginagawa nyo ba mag sex sa place nila wala ka bang nakitang wedding picture nilang mag asawa and buti di sya natsismis ng mga kapit bahay nya. But if incase nga di ka aware na may asawa sya at ginawa nyo yun sa place nila sure yan matsitsismis kayo alam mo naman ugali ng mga pinoy. At 100% makakarating yan sa asawa nya kaya ngayon pa lang habang may panahon pa..... Takbo na!
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: slime April 13, 2013, 07:27:06 AM
wag na patagalin pa iwan mo na yan tol...
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: BaTistAbomB April 13, 2013, 07:52:58 AM
get out, get out quick man, she's playing you. may sabit pala  ???
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: rodeo April 13, 2013, 08:25:21 AM
wag na patagalin. imagine mo nalang pag ikaw naman nag abroad uli , matatahimik ka kaya knowing pwedeng gawin ng girlfriend mo na ipagpalit ka din sa iba.

In theory daw mas mapagbanta ng suicide ang girl pero mas konti ang nagtutuloy...
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: icer April 13, 2013, 08:26:17 AM
Baka mabuntis mo yan? Mas malaking problema pa yan.
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: zetroc April 13, 2013, 08:40:49 AM
dito pumapasok ung konsepto ng want versus need!

from what i see, the girl needed you more than she wanted you. naging kelangan ka niya sa mga oras na pangangailangan at pangungulila.

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: junex29 April 13, 2013, 08:52:19 AM
Patay ka malamang buntis yan sa iba at ikaw ang gagawing ama... toast::
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: meteor freak April 13, 2013, 09:02:02 AM
May anak na ba sya TS? kawawang asawa nagpapakahirap sa ibang bansa habang yung babae nagpapasarap sayo. iwanan mo na yan sir habang maaga pa habang hindi pa tuluyang lumalalim ang pagsasama nyo, kung hindi mo siya hihiwalayan baka mapatay din sya ng asawa nya kapag nalaman at baka pati ikaw mapatay. Malabo magpakamatay yan lalo na kung may anak sya.
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: rjelstyx April 13, 2013, 09:22:28 AM
wag pumatol sa may asawa. Bad yan  toast::
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: FerminaDaza April 13, 2013, 09:38:30 AM
...should i continue sa relationship namin or kailangan na putulin ko na?kasi one time when i tried to call it quits,nagbanta sya sa akin na mag sui suicide pag iniwan ko daw sya


tnx fb...lage may notification from spys from espiya,hang gara .TOINKSSS  ;D

...how do you feel TS about all those DECEPTIONS? that should alarm you of course. Red flag parachute to safety my dear  :D

About her and her attempt of "emotional blackmail" the first thing to realize  is that the blackmailer needs your agreement for something, otherwise they would not be asking for you to allow them to do whatever is they'd like to do. In reality,therefore, IT's YOU WHO HAS THE UPPER HAND.WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT,THE BLACKMAILER FEELS POWERLESS. THE ONLY WAY TO LOSE YOUR POWER IS TO SHOW WEAKNESS. DON't Plead with her. Don't give in. Don't yield. Tell her, "sorry if you choose to feel that way, but this is what is true to me- i care about you but i don't want to continue our relationship ( just be brief and direct ) usually blackmailers are like kids having tantrums, everytime a parent give in to a tantrum , they are sowing the seeds of emotional blackmailer.

PPL WILL ALWAYS TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU ALLOW THEM TO TREAT YOU. IF YOU ARE A VICTIM , IT'S BECAUSE YOU ALLOWED IT.


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: hiddenfiles April 13, 2013, 10:25:28 AM
get out before your mind.,life,and whole being get sick.

imagine she is your wife. you want that to happen to you?..

remember she is not worth for you.. its that simple//

anything free is dangerous
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: sky69 April 13, 2013, 11:51:25 AM
ipamahagi na rin yan sa ka espiya....makati kasi...
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: swaaat April 13, 2013, 01:33:13 PM
leave her. not worth it.
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: kenji_kulet April 13, 2013, 03:50:28 PM
that 'I'll commit suicide' line is so over rated  smoking:: ilang ex ko na gumamit nyang line na yan and still buhay pa naman sila yung iba may baby na  ::lmao
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: Mr.Ivan April 13, 2013, 08:08:12 PM
blackmail lang yan, iwanan mo na brad
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: hapi April 13, 2013, 10:13:39 PM
Ang tanong ko lang . .  nagbibigay ka ba ng pera sa kanya . .  Kasi feel ko lang kuwarta lang ang gusto nyan . .  Malamang maluho yan . . . kung kaya nya yaehan sa ulo asawa niya . . Ikaw pa kaya . .  Di magpapakamatay yan . . Pineperahan ka lang . . 
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: fatalerror April 14, 2013, 08:30:00 AM
mali ang ginagawa mo tol tsaka ihinto mo na yan baka sa bandang huli maipit ka pa sa gulo.

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: zravimn April 14, 2013, 10:55:34 AM
leave her tigang lang yan. laffman:: laffman:: laffman::

hayaan mo siya magpakamatay. di niya gagawin yon kung may pension siyang naghihintay sa abroad.
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: agency99 April 14, 2013, 11:04:30 AM
dude wag ka matakot sa banta nya na mag suicide siya mas matakot ka pag nalaman ng asawa nya at ikaw ang yariin  ;D
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: kesso013 April 14, 2013, 08:04:36 PM
i meet a girl sa isang online chatting room,then naging kami only sa internet,when i came back home in the philippines to meet her naging kami na for good,we had sex in my house in her house and to other places...pero nung nag tagal inamin nya sa akin na may asawa na sya at ang asawa nya ay nasa abroad,i dont know what to do...should i continue sa relationship namin or kailangan na putulin ko na?kasi one time when i tried to call it quits,nagbanta sya sa akin na mag sui suicide pag iniwan ko daw sya

1) you've probably already ruined a marriage. In all fairness to you, you didn't know. Ang alam ko lang, do unto other what you want other to do unto you. :)
2) anong number nya? :p (joke lang)
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: angelNdevil April 14, 2013, 09:17:12 PM
ahmmm   ok lang yan go lang ng gooo   tutal single ka naman advantage yan sayo.hehe hanap ka rin ng ibang chix tapos ung my asawa na wag mong iwan.incase of emargency hinda ka ma zero whahaha na try ko na yan.pero alam ko dati pa na my asawa na syang armicanfrag.
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: ☺☻JDC™ April 15, 2013, 03:25:03 AM
cheap mo kapatid pagtinuloy mo pa yan... smoking::
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: assasin April 15, 2013, 06:01:16 AM
 smoking::...performer ba?...kung tirik mata mo sa sarap...wag mo iwan kasi mukhang nasarapan sa yo...kaya aywa kang pakawalan..pero ingat ka pag yan nabuntis patay ka either dedbol ka o kulong ka smoking::
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: HeLL_Vhoy April 15, 2013, 12:12:49 PM
Pre iwan mo na while there still chance baka pagtumagal kaw mismo matakot sa sarili mong multo also take my advice kung mag aalaga ka ng baboy wag yun isang buo pwede naman por kilo yan hope you get my point
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: gen_tigas April 15, 2013, 02:28:25 PM
iwan mo na yan TS habang may time pa, dami jan walang sabit. post mo dito yung photo niyan para maiwasan ng mga ka espiya naten.  toast::