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Secrets Revealed => Personal Secrets => : Ginger July 08, 2011, 07:41:00 PM
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:oI can't really believe that I was the third party. how would you react if you're in this situation? All you've ever known is that you were the only one but then he/she got a previous relationship that was not yet formally ended
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patay ka ngayon..
basag ang muka mo..
me tinatapakan kang tao..
kung ako dyan..
hiwalayan ko agad ka relasyon..
sa una pa lang nagtatago na agad sya ng mga kung ano..
ano pa ba ineexpect mo kung maging asawa mo sya..
isip isip! toast::
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Hello Ginger welcome s bahay natin! ::flowers ::flowers ::flowers
Third party... Ouch! ang hirap naman nun lil sis. If I were in your shoe, I'd be very very upset. Nagmumukha ka nang tanga pero tapos na eh, nagnyari nah. Pray mo na lang at try to move on bit b bit.
-dora
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@ kuya Khim
nahiwalayan ko na siya kuya :( and sad to say may baby kami. kaya nga nung nalaman ko tungkol sa previos gf nya na naanakin rin hiniwalayan ko na siya at buntis pa ako nun sa baby ko. :(
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o sige next time mag iingat ka na ha, good luck meron ba akong maitutulong ?financially he he
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@ olli
thanks! i'm a newbie here.
oo nga eh.. nakakainis talaga. akala ko ako lang tapos meron palang tinatagong sekreto. i'm trying to move on now ate olli and hopefully maka move on na asap
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@nmarc2001
c kuya palabiro..hehe yup! super ingat na ako ngayon, and if possible, ayaw ko na mag-asawa. kontento na ako kay baby
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hey loren, its me. i envited u here remember doraemon? hehe I'm not ur ate, i'm ur kuya hehe
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pissed off me nyan ! buseettttt ;D
But KNOW that you are not to Blame,so don't hemorrhage :)
You were lied to...
So,what's next...now that you KNOW,are you going to stay as a 3rd party?
If he's (gurl ka po ba? :) ) NOT gonna make things straight,stay away from him >:(
Take the lesson and land to safety.
Don't settle for being someone's #1 when you are Worthy of being their ONLY one ::flowers
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@olli hehe i thot ur a girl :) hello dor !
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laging may "karma" ;)
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@FerminaDaza
I'm a girl. I already broke up with him.
di ko kaya masikmura na pangalawa lang ako and i can see naman na mas nauna yung isa kaya give way na lang ako, kawawa kasi yung baby nila.
I also prefer to let my child grow up without a dad than let her witness the evil acts of her dad!
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As a guy, wala sakin yun kung ako ang 3rd party. ma-eenjoy ko pa nga eh. kasi mas madaling makipagbreak kapag ganun.
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Welcome ginger... makahanap ka rin ng taong worthy sa pagmamahal mo, sana ay hindi ito maging huli na ikaw ay iibig ulit. Dito pa lng mamahalin ka namin ng lubos, we dont know baka dito mo rin matapuan ang tunay na Prince Charming mo.
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@FerminaDaza
I'm a girl. I already broke up with him.
di ko kaya masikmura na pangalawa lang ako and i can see naman na mas nauna yung isa kaya give way na lang ako, kawawa kasi yung baby nila.
I also prefer to let my child grow up without a dad than let her witness the evil acts of her dad!
finger4u good to hear that you're doing the Right thing sis toast::
I admire women who stand up and never settle for less .
May Gods grace be with You and your child ::flowers
the pain reminds you that you're real, and it reminds you that it's time to move on, and it reminds you to let go of the something or the someone that no longer needs you. Their part in the story is through...the curtain has closed...the screen has faded to black...but when you look closer, you will see that underneath it all is a glimmer of hope, and love, and truth, and happiness…just waiting to be discovered.
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I feel you sis..
its very OUCH when you found out that you are the other woman..
after a year of being together....Made plans together, to settle down, marriage, Family, Kids, etc..
then suddenly malalaman mo kalokohan lang pala ang lahat...kamusta naman yun di ba?
Oh well..past is past and we have to move on...
Just be happy with your baby, thats the wonderful blessing you have..
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duh!
Having a Relationship with UNAVAILABLE man is like climbing Everest w/your flip-flops on.!!
Stop making the same mistake.
One of the reason Why men Cheat,is because there's always a woman who is willing
to cheat with him. smoking::
"Never borrow someone else's man.If he cheated with you,he'll-cheat on you"
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finger4u good to hear that you're doing the Right thing sis toast::
I admire women who stand up and never settle for less .
May Gods grace be with You and your child ::flowers
How i wish lahat ng 3rd party ganyan ang pagiisip.
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:oI can't really believe that I was the third party. how would you react if you're in this situation? All you've ever known is that you were the only one but then he/she got a previous relationship that was not yet formally ended
ah i guess depende. Nung naexperience ko kasi to, alam kong ako ang third party, right from the beginning, kaya alang emotional attachment.
Pero in your case, medyo masakit yan dahil nagbigay ka ng lahat para dun sa partner mo tapos may kahati pala.
Makipag break ka na lang. ::pampam
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Mabuti at hindi mo tinuloy ang pagiging 3rd party.
Some would continue that kind of relationship, proud pa nga sila na kabit sila dahil nalamangan daw nila yung wife or yung 1st girl nung lalaki.
Ingat na lang sa new guys na makikilala mo, lalo't single mom ka, may masamang maling pag iisip kasi ang most guys when it comes to single mom, lalo na sa particular case mo, kadalasan "easy" ang tingin ng guys sa mga single mom, yung tipong madaling madadala sa kama kasi may anak na at in your case ay naging mistress pa.
Take care of your kid and live a new life, you'll eventually find a man that is just for you alone at ikaw ang only one sa kanya syempre dapat tanggap din nya ang kid mo.
finger4u
For getting up and moving forward. ;D
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@FerminaDaza
I'm a girl. I already broke up with him.
di ko kaya masikmura na pangalawa lang ako and i can see naman na mas nauna yung isa kaya give way na lang ako, kawawa kasi yung baby nila.
I also prefer to let my child grow up without a dad than let her witness the evil acts of her dad!
i admire kung paano mo na manage yan pero good luck, suerte ng magiging bf mo ambaet mo kasi e so next tym kilatisin mo mabuti yong mga manliligaw mo wag mo pansinin hanggat wala kang nakikitang kasing baet ko
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condolence.....
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Welcome Ginger! ;)
Anyway, bago to ah? Usually mga topic dito eh yung mga may nahuhuling third-party but in your case, ikaw yung nasa other end. Know what? If you didn't know that you're the "other" girl eh it's not your fault. Masakit oo pero the mere fact na he have other girls narin eh pretty much shows na hindi niya kayang maging faithful sayo come due time. Tama yan hiwalayan mo na!
Nandito naman ako? Este kame ;)
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Well, for now medyo naka move on na ako pero di naman talaga madali yun diba? esp. may baby kami kaya ang hirap coz everytime i look at my baby naaalala ko siya...but its ok, i dont need him anymore and kung bumalik man sya, wala na syang babalikan kahit sabihin nya pa na ako ang mhal nya. wish me luck!
If he did it once, for sure he would do it all over again
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Well, for now medyo naka move on na ako pero di naman talaga madali yun diba? esp. may baby kami kaya ang hirap coz everytime i look at my baby naaalala ko siya...but its ok, i dont need him anymore and kung bumalik man sya, wala na syang babalikan kahit sabihin nya pa na ako ang mhal nya. wish me luck!
If he did it once, for sure he would do it all over again
I couldnt agree you more.. You are strong enough now and had moved on. Good for you sis toast::
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Taken at its face, yun title ng thread ay generic - pwede male or female ang nagtatanong. Being single myself, enjoy pa nga ako na third party ako. Yun mga gf ko eh mga wives - at hindi mga single mom or sep. Some would say dangerous yun pero yun nga ang challenge, dba. Anyway, tinigilan ko na ganun lifestyle.
For a lady, it is one of those things na nararanasan when passing this earthly existence. Ang importante lang dyan ay to get the lesson from the experience. You learn the lessons of life and become more street smart. Kaya masakit sa yo yun kasi inakala mo na binata si guy so you felt betrayed. Napakasakit ang betrayal at yang betrayal na yan ay marami ng sinirang buhay. At betrayal din ang nagpaikot ng kasaysayan ng mundo. Hence, pag gusto mo na ikaw lang, do your homework also and not be blinded by the color of the bulaklak or the brand of the chocolates or the model of his car - check on the guy surreptitiously before plunging further.
Kaya sa mga lalaki naman, pag kukuha naman kasi kayo ng another gf aside from the wife/gf, ipagtapat nyo agad sa "target" na may asawa kayo or in a relationship. Kun gusto kayo ni "target" maski may sabit eh di tuloy lang ang ligaya. Note that it always takes two to tango. So long as mutual consent naman eh so be it, let the good times roll as long as alam ng bawat isa ang rules of the game.
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unfair naman un na hiniwalayan mo kaagad.. ang sabi mo, nalaman mo lng na may nauna at naanakan rin nya.. pero di mo sinabi na ang relasyon nila ay tuloy parin.. ala ka naman sanang proof na on going pa ang relasyon pa cla..dapat sana inalam mo lahat ng sides.. hirap kc lumaki ang anak mo na alang ama.. tsaka malay mo totoo na siya sayo at ikaw na nga ang para sa kanya..
kng di ako nagkakamali nagdesisyon ka agad at inisip mo 3rd party ka..
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If he did it once, for sure he would do it all over again
Hindi naman ako agree dito, i believe in 2nd chances. Even a jerk like me can change.haha... Back to topic, masakit talaga pag ganyan pero kung mahal mo sya at yang anak mo ipinaglaban mo sana. I mean you should have ask him and let him choose, baka ikaw piliin nya. Sabi mo nga may nauna syang naanakan so I guess hindi pa nya asawa so yun may laban ka pa. But you said you already moved on so good luck na lang sayo. And makinig ka sa mga words of wisdom ni olli, magaling sya magbigay ng payo. toast::
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@nmarc2001
c kuya palabiro..hehe yup! super ingat na ako ngayon, and if possible, ayaw ko na mag-asawa. kontento na ako kay baby
tyama po yan mag concentrate ka nalang sa baby mo magkakatagpo ka rin ng magmamahal sayo ng tunay.., :-*
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lahat naman cguro oi may second chance. lahat naman nagkakamali... kng iisipin lng mabuti, nakamali lng sya noun at malay mo ikaw na ang tama para sa kanya ngayon... marami naman sanang palatandaan na true na sya sayo... kng iisipin mo lng ang future ng anak mo na lalaking walang ama, dapat tiningnan mo lahat ng sides ng estorya.. im sure di lng ikaw ang nasaktan.. ang sakit kaya paglinayo sayo anak mo at ang babaing pinakamamahal mo.. dpat ka magreflect sis... di yan just an overnight decision. kahit years pa yan di yan maghihilom kng lolokohin mo lng ang sarili mo.. di kc MOVING ON ang tawag dyan sa status mo.. ang tawag dyan RUNNING.. no one is perfect sis..
tanong ko lng.. pano mo nalaman na may anak sya.? kc if sya nagsabi, meaning nyan mahal ka nya talaga..
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Well, for now medyo naka move on na ako pero di naman talaga madali yun diba? esp. may baby kami kaya ang hirap coz everytime i look at my baby naaalala ko siya...but its ok, i dont need him anymore and kung bumalik man sya, wala na syang babalikan kahit sabihin nya pa na ako ang mhal nya. wish me luck!
If he did it once, for sure he would do it all over again
korek!!! uulit-ulitin nya uli iyan.. gudluck sa iyo at sa iyong baby! (boyor girl)
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Hi ate Ginger. Gusto ko sanang sabihing "ok lang yan" para you'll feel better, pero syempre it's not ok kasi nga may anak kayo. Pero it'll eventually be ok, time lang ang katapat nyan. What I mean is, lilipas din ang lahat ng yan. :D
I understand how you feel. Katawan at pera lang kasi ang habol sa akin ng mga babae. (charing!) hehe
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OK lang basta alam mo kung pano lalabas sa pinasukan mong problema. Sa una, I avoid myself not to fall inlove with her, katwiran ko asawa nga nya niloko nya ako pa na nakikisingit lang. PERO masakit pala na tanggapin sa sarili na nahulog na ang loob mo sa kanya at dumating sa point na sya na yung gumagawa ng paraan para iwanan ka.. Sakit talaga, minsan iniisip ko na panakip ka lang sa pagkukulang ng tunay na partner nya... huhuhuh >:( >:( :( :( :( :( :(
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unfair naman un na hiniwalayan mo kaagad.. ang sabi mo, nalaman mo lng na may nauna at naanakan rin nya.. pero di mo sinabi na ang relasyon nila ay tuloy parin.. ala ka naman sanang proof na on going pa ang relasyon pa cla..dapat sana inalam mo lahat ng sides.. hirap kc lumaki ang anak mo na alang ama.. tsaka malay mo totoo na siya sayo at ikaw na nga ang para sa kanya..
kng di ako nagkakamali nagdesisyon ka agad at inisip mo 3rd party ka..
Agree ako dito... finger4u
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sana naging ok na cla.. iniisip ko ung bata..
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haay nako.. masarap kc ang bawal..
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@ kuya Khim
nahiwalayan ko na siya kuya :( and sad to say may baby kami. kaya nga nung nalaman ko tungkol sa previos gf nya na naanakin rin hiniwalayan ko na siya at buntis pa ako nun sa baby ko. :(
auis na hiwalayan mu na ituon mu nalang sa baby mo pagmamahal mo pag inisip mo pa sya mababaliw ka lang madami pa dyan katulad ko pwede pa ;D