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Espiya Lobby => Ladies Room => : Schandelah August 09, 2013, 02:18:38 AM
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How do you tell off a guy ( a persistent suitor turned stalker)... nicely?
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How do you tell off a guy ( a persistent suitor turned stalker)... nicely?
Real man, knows his limit.
Real man, knows his place and standing.
Real man, accepts defeat and upfront confrontation.
"We" prefer you say to us directly, right in our face whats the real score. Straight, direct, honest and for sure we will understand.
That is how real man should be.
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Well I guessed then Dave he's not a real man.. ang kulit kasi... pa blotter ko na kaya? :)
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Well I guessed then Dave he's not a real man.. ang kulit kasi... pa blotter ko na kaya? :)
Awzt! If its invading your privacy and its getting annoying na and its making you uncomfortable then its not good, it might develop into obsession (I think parang ganun na ata?). Mahirap na yan... Hehehe
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Yeah.. One night umuwi ako from gimik.. nandun sa dilim sa 3rd floor ng building where I live... Nakakatakot... nakiusap na ko sa kanya.. pero gosh! ang kulit.. Gusto ko na nga barilin eh! Ahaha
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there is no nice way to tell off such a guy. throw all that tact out the window and tell it like it is.
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Yeah.. One night umuwi ako from gimik.. nandun sa dilim sa 3rd floor ng building where I live... Nakakatakot... nakiusap na ko sa kanya.. pero gosh! ang kulit.. Gusto ko na nga barilin eh! Ahaha
wow! kakaiba siya. tell him by slapping him with a restraining order! hahaha
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What kind of level of stalking ba? Or is it stalking na ba, or you're just being uncomfortable when he's around. Just dump him, don't see the point why dumping should be turn out nicely. No offense but some women think much just like when they tend to exaggerate how bad their relationships are. :D Just make it clear you are not interested, explain if he persists you will take it further ie. the law.
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wow! kakaiba siya. tell him by slapping him with a restraining order! hahaha
haha! I like that bleep!
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This is getting really interesting and scary for you! Hehehehe....
Baka need mu back up na Espiya Boys dyan?
Dami available for body guard for free.
Hehehe....
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What kind of level of stalking ba? Or is it stalking na ba, or you're just being uncomfortable when he's around. Just dump him, don't see the point why dumping should be turn out nicely. No offense but some women think much just like when they tend to exaggerate how bad their relationships are. :D Just make it clear you are not interested, explain if he persists you will take it further ie. the law.
Very annoying na leigh... One time I got sick... wasn't able to go to work for three days... He was at my front door the following morning.. asking if I am okay.. He's worried daw kasi di nya ko nakitang pumasok... It turned out na.. he'll use different cars and see kung pumasok ako sa umaga and see again kung anong oras ako umuwi? diba nakaka praning yun? and sa FB he'll use different accounts just to look at my pictures.. susme.. Many times... lahat na ng approach ginawa ko... malumay.. diplomatic... mataray... nakiki-usap.. wala pa rin!
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This is getting really interesting and scary for you! Hehehehe....
Baka need mu back up na Espiya Boys dyan?
Dami available for body guard for free.
Hehehe....
Magagaling ba yan Dave? Padala na dito yan! :)
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This is getting really interesting and scary for you! Hehehehe....
Baka need mu back up na Espiya Boys dyan?
Dami available for body guard for free.
Hehehe....
Im in sir dave...count me in. Basta For our espiya sis
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pa blotter mo sa barangay ate baka sa susunod may gawin na talaga yan na masama sayo
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pa blotter mo sa barangay ate baka sa susunod may gawin na talaga yan na masama sayo
I'm seriously thinking about that raberdaki... Thank you.. :)
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Very annoying na leigh... One time I got sick... wasn't able to go to work for three days... He was at my front door the following morning.. asking if I am okay.. He's worried daw kasi di nya ko nakitang pumasok... It turned out na.. he'll use different cars and see kung pumasok ako sa umaga and see again kung anong oras ako umuwi? diba nakaka praning yun? and sa FB he'll use different accounts just to look at my pictures.. susme.. Many times... lahat na ng approach ginawa ko... malumay.. diplomatic... mataray... nakiki-usap.. wala pa rin!
I see, ask someone to pretend your bf IE. leightot laffman:: you'll see the progress lalayo din yan if he knows you have someone else. Tara lets hold our hands while entering your place haha kidding. Anyway just take it to the authority na lang for peace of mind na din.
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How do you tell off a guy ( a persistent suitor turned stalker)... nicely?
Just tell him you're in love with someone else, or you're looking for a specific trait in a guy.. Sabihin mo gusto mo ng billionaire.. If he really likes you, and he strives to be a billionaire, sagutin mo na.. laffman::
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ate payo lang sayo wag mo pagselosin ang ganyang klaseng mga tao wag mong ipamukha sa kanya na may BF kana kasi lalo yang maghahabol at susunod sayo basta wag kang gagawa ng kahit na ano makakasakit sa damdamnin niya....
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I see, ask someone to pretend your bf IE. leightot laffman:: you'll see the progress lalayo din yan if he knows you have someone else. Tara lets hold our hands while entering your place haha kidding. Anyway just take it to the authority na lang for peace of mind na din.
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Hahaha! Bakod Mode Activated! Hehe
Parang gusto sumali sa Love Team Pre ahh Hehehehe...
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Just tell him you're in love with someone else, or you're looking for a specific trait in a guy.. Sabihin mo gusto mo ng billionaire.. If he really likes you, and he strives to be a billionaire, sagutin mo na.. laffman::
Ayan pala si MD. Use him as your temporary bf. Bachelor na bachelor yan. Macho papa pa. Hahaha! :P
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Very annoying na leigh... One time I got sick... wasn't able to go to work for three days... He was at my front door the following morning.. asking if I am okay.. He's worried daw kasi di nya ko nakitang pumasok... It turned out na.. he'll use different cars and see kung pumasok ako sa umaga and see again kung anong oras ako umuwi? diba nakaka praning yun? and sa FB he'll use different accounts just to look at my pictures.. susme.. Many times... lahat na ng approach ginawa ko... malumay.. diplomatic... mataray... nakiki-usap.. wala pa rin!
oh my ...
nahilo ako. laffman::
kung ganyan na ang level ng "obsession" niya ... I think hindi na tama yung ginagawa niya if nanliligaw siya.
especially na naiirita kayo sa presence niya.
turning him down shouldn't be done "nicely". dapat yung tagos hanggang likod niya. yung magtatanda talaga sya.
ang harsh ko, 'no? laffman::
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my gf wanted to get rid of persistent suitors. she kept telling them off but wouldnt stop even if she already had a bf. i had to face these asses and tell them to back off.
again, there is no nice way. if you dont like him, why find a nice way to tell him?
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I see, ask someone to pretend your bf IE. leightot laffman:: you'll see the progress lalayo din yan if he knows you have someone else. Tara lets hold our hands while entering your place haha kidding. Anyway just take it to the authority na lang for peace of mind na din.
ay.... ::) lalake ka pala? anyways, nagawa ko na din yan... I had a boy friend that pretended to be my bf... wala pa din. Kahit daw dalawa sila payag sya!
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Just tell him you're in love with someone else, or you're looking for a specific trait in a guy.. Sabihin mo gusto mo ng billionaire.. If he really likes you, and he strives to be a billionaire, sagutin mo na.. laffman::
He is actually from a well off family.. Ewan ko ba anung nakita nun sa kin? Masakit na talaga ang bangs ko sa kanya. :)
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oh my ...
nahilo ako. laffman::
kung ganyan na ang level ng "obsession" niya ... I think hindi na tama yung ginagawa niya if nanliligaw siya.
especially na naiirita kayo sa presence niya.
turning him down shouldn't be done "nicely". dapat yung tagos hanggang likod niya. yung magtatanda talaga sya.
ang harsh ko, 'no? laffman::
Di kaya maging chop chop lady ako nyan? :)
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;D try the siga effect
yung papatakot mo sa mga barkada mo na lalake , hahabulin ng upan , papaluin ng yantok sa ulo yung stalker mo
pag ayaw parin smoking:: tawag ng mamang pulis
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;D try the siga effect
yung papatakot mo sa mga barkada mo na lalake , hahabulin ng upan , papaluin ng yantok sa ulo yung stalker mo
pag ayaw parin smoking:: tawag ng mamang pulis
Ah.. Yan di ko pa na try yan... :)
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ay.... ::) lalake ka pala? anyways, nagawa ko na din yan... I had a boy friend that pretended to be my bf... wala pa din. Kahit daw dalawa sila payag sya!
Yes po, lalaking lalake po, at your service. :D well you almost seems did everything na to get rid of him. Lumipat ka na lang ng bahay. the best yun haha.
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Yes po, lalaking lalake po, at your service. :D well you almost seems did everything na to get rid of him. Lumipat ka na lang ng bahay. the best yun haha.
Are you sure? Just kidding... ;) parang mahirap gawin yun.. Matapos ko pagandahin ang bahay ko... Hintayin ko na lang siguro next appearance nya.. Magsisisigaw na lang ako at tatawag ng pulis!
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Madali lang yan. ate:
1st of all, siguro naman nasabi nya sayo kung anu ang nagustuhan nya sayo.
2nd gumawa ka ng mga bagay na makakapag turn off sa kanya.
3rd if 2nd didn't work, pabugbug mo na sa mga koya mo o sa tatay mo.
titiklop din tuhod nyan kapag nakatikim yan.
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Madali lang yan. ate:
1st of all, siguro naman nasabi nya sayo kung anu ang nagustuhan nya sayo.
2nd gumawa ka ng mga bagay na makakapag turn off sa kanya.
3rd if 2nd didn't work, pabugbug mo na sa mga koya mo o sa tatay mo.
titiklop din tuhod nyan kapag nakatikim yan.
Hi.. Nagawa ko na lahat actually... Pwera yang daanin sya dahas.. :) Wala akong kuya eh.. My dad is too old for that... Wala ding BF now... Kaw kaya mo ba? Just kidding...
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Di kaya maging chop chop lady ako nyan? :)
no, I didn't mean it literally. laffman::
iba talaga level ng obsession niya.
kahit siguro sampalin mo siya sa inis, hindi matitinag.
try mo na lang din mga payo ng ibang ka-espiya.
if all else fails,
pabugbug mo na sa mga koya mo o sa tatay mo.
titiklop din tuhod nyan kapag nakatikim yan.
ang daming lalake dito sa espiya. ahahah
legally, I think, pwede kasuhan yung stalker.
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no, I didn't mean it literally. laffman::
iba talaga level ng obsession niya.
kahit siguro sampalin mo siya sa inis, hindi matitinag.
try mo na lang din mga payo ng ibang ka-espiya.
if all else fails,ang daming lalake dito sa espiya. ahahah
legally, I think, pwede kasuhan yung stalker.
If all else fails... Papahugot ko na lang ipababaon ng buhay! haha! Bad me!
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If all else fails... Papahugot ko na lang ipababaon ng buhay! haha! Bad me!
hindi maiwasan maging masamang tao eh.
everyone has their limits.
ahiihiihiiihiiiii!
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hindi maiwasan maging masamang tao eh.
everyone has their limits.
ahiihiihiiihiiiii!
I'm basically good.. But when I can't help being bad.. I make sure I.m damn good at it... smoking::
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sabihin mo lesbian ka.... joke.
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sabihin mo lesbian ka.... joke.
ahaha.. naku baka lalo na.. Baka naman sabihan nya... "Mas maganda, gagawin kitang tunay na babae..." nyahaha. :o
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request a TRO po. if you feel na nate-threaten ka na with him being around that much, file one para magtanda.
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request a TRO po. if you feel na nate-threaten ka na with him being around that much, file one para magtanda.
I'd do that on Monday swaat.. Thank you for the thought... :)
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no problem. baka kailangan mo rin ng tempo security guard, pwede ako! :P
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no problem. baka kailangan mo rin ng tempo security guard, pwede ako! :P
Ahaha.. basta hindi lang batuta ang dala mo ha? :P dapat baril...
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batuta..? hahaha ::lmao
kalbong guard..? career change na to! :P
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batuta..? hahaha ::lmao
kalbong guard..? career change na to! :P
Ahaha... Good night swaat! beauty rest muna ko... ;)
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yeah, take a rest na po. doubt you'll need the "beauty" part kasi bet you're already one na :P
sleep well :D
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kung kilala mo ang pamilya kausapin mo na patigilin si guy
pag hindi pa din sumunod blotter mo.
pag ayaw pa rin tumigil gantihan mo, magbayad ka ng bading na magstalked naman sa kanya araw gabi para maranasan nya ang hirap na dinaranas mo....
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Just tell him na iwasan ka niya kasi natatakot ka na sa ginagawa niya. Tapos mas maganda may dala ka na may kapangyarihan (like Iron Man, JOKE!) pulis or barangay tanod. Just tell him sincerely na kaya ko kasama yung barangay tanod kasi medyo di na tama yung ginagawa niya. Tapos sabay turo sa brgy tanod or pulis. Tapos do some threatening na pag di siya nagtigil baka sa susunod kasuhan mo na siya. toast::
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kung kilala mo ang pamilya kausapin mo na patigilin si guy
pag hindi pa din sumunod blotter mo.
pag ayaw pa rin tumigil gantihan mo, magbayad ka ng bading na magstalked naman sa kanya araw gabi para maranasan nya ang hirap na dinaranas mo....
know what? di ko kilala pamilya nya eh... and would you believe he'd been stalking me all the way from Pasig? Tyaga noh?
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Just tell him na iwasan ka niya kasi natatakot ka na sa ginagawa niya. Tapos mas maganda may dala ka na may kapangyarihan (like Iron Man, JOKE!) pulis or barangay tanod. Just tell him sincerely na kaya ko kasama yung barangay tanod kasi medyo di na tama yung ginagawa niya. Tapos sabay turo sa brgy tanod or pulis. Tapos do some threatening na pag di siya nagtigil baka sa susunod kasuhan mo na siya. toast::
I told him that already.. Bakit daw ako matatakot eh wala naman daw syang ginagawang masama... he's just genuinely concern lang daw.. duh! Sarap pektusan! :)
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kung ako sayo mag aalaga ako ng pitbull den lagi ko kasama .. ewan ko lang kung lumapit pa sayo yan
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kung ako sayo mag aalaga ako ng pitbull den lagi ko kasama .. ewan ko lang kung lumapit pa sayo yan
That is a hilarious idea.. but unfortunately... di sya allowed where I live.. :)
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may kakilala ko na ganito ang kinahantungan ng kanyang ex-bf, naging super-stalker. tipong kinausap lahat ng pamilya nung babae and convincing them that they should marry dahil may nangyari na raw sa kanila, etc. as in masyado nang perwisyo at nakakasira na masyado kaya
pinaBLOTTER sa lugar nung babae (Pangasinan)
kinasuhan dito (Pangasinan)
hinuli doon sa lugar nung guy (Manila)
habang trasnport yung guy eh NAGKAPASA at NAGKASUGAT kasi naman NANLABAN ;D
oh well you get the picture. bottomline is nanahimik bigla yung lalake at binaling na niya paningin niya sa ibang babae.
add ko lang na medyo BORDERING to obsession na yan kaya dapat you take immediate steps to at least let the authorities know what is really happening. hirap na masama sa statistics tapos wala habol pamilya mo.
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may kakilala ko na ganito ang kinahantungan ng kanyang ex-bf, naging super-stalker. tipong kinausap lahat ng pamilya nung babae and convincing them that they should marry dahil may nangyari na raw sa kanila, etc. as in masyado nang perwisyo at nakakasira na masyado kaya
pinaBLOTTER sa lugar nung babae (Pangasinan)
kinasuhan dito (Pangasinan)
hinuli doon sa lugar nung guy (Manila)
habang trasnport yung guy eh NAGKAPASA at NAGKASUGAT kasi naman NANLABAN ;D
oh well you get the picture. bottomline is nanahimik bigla yung lalake at binaling na niya paningin niya sa ibang babae.
add ko lang na medyo BORDERING to obsession na yan kaya dapat you take immediate steps to at least let the authorities know what is really happening. hirap na masama sa statistics tapos wala habol pamilya mo.
I'll bring these issue to the authorities on Monday. Thank you for the thought Ryan.. :)
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I'll bring these issue to the authorities on Monday. Thank you for the thought Ryan.. :)
not a problem. kindly keep the Espiya Republic posted as to your problem and I am sure a lot of those who volounteered their services for free are waiting for you to call on to them.
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not a problem. kindly keep the Espiya Republic posted as to your problem and I am sure a lot of those who volounteered their services for free are waiting for you to call on to them.
Really? Noted. :) Thank you.
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I had an Ex-BF turned stalker, di nya matanggap na nakipaghiwalay na ako at sobra syang obsess sakin. After ng work ko nakaabang na yan sa labas biglang paparada sasakyan sa harap mo, sa dami ng tao sa building nakakahiya naman na di ka sasakay at bubuntot lang sayo. Kaya ang ginawa ko late na ako lumalabas ng office at sa kabilang exit ako dumadaan. Sa house naman lagi nakaabang sa labas ng gate bawal sya pumasok kasi bawal ousider. Lagi nya pinapatong kung nakauwi na ba ako, sinasabi ko na lang na pag may maghanap sakin sabihin wala pa ako. one morning pag labas ko ng house nandun sya nakaparada natutulog sa loob ng sasakyan nag aabang talaga. Ang ginawa ko lunipat ako ng bahay, sa work naman pagpapasok ako ng building or pag uwi tinitingnan ko muna paligid bago ako lalabas.. nakakaloka diba, hanggang nawala na sya ng tuluyan.
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I had an Ex-BF turned stalker, di nya matanggap na nakipaghiwalay na ako at sobra syang obsess sakin. After ng work ko nakaabang na yan sa labas biglang paparada sasakyan sa harap mo, sa dami ng tao sa building nakakahiya naman na di ka sasakay at bubuntot lang sayo. Kaya ang ginawa ko late na ako lumalabas ng office at sa kabilang exit ako dumadaan. Sa house naman lagi nakaabang sa labas ng gate bawal sya pumasok kasi bawal ousider. Lagi nya pinapatong kung nakauwi na ba ako, sinasabi ko na lang na pag may maghanap sakin sabihin wala pa ako. one morning pag labas ko ng house nandun sya nakaparada natutulog sa loob ng sasakyan nag aabang talaga. Ang ginawa ko lunipat ako ng bahay, sa work naman pagpapasok ako ng building or pag uwi tinitingnan ko muna paligid bago ako lalabas.. nakakaloka diba, hanggang nawala na sya ng tuluyan.
Sana nga spy manawa na din... pero mga 1 1/2 years na syang ganyan... Kinapa ko nga din ang sarili ko kung matututunan ko din ba syang magustuhan man lang/ pero wala talaga eh... ;)
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Wow grabe 1.5 years ang tagal na di pa rin sya nagsawa, iba na nga yan. Better pablotter mo yan sis, katakot na yung ganyan lagi may nag aabang sayo. Buti na lang ako dati lumipat ako ng bahay at umiwas na talaga ako para di na nya ako makita.
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I'll do that sis.. on Monday.. Thank you.. mwah!
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I had an Ex-BF turned stalker, di nya matanggap na nakipaghiwalay na ako at sobra syang obsess sakin. After ng work ko nakaabang na yan sa labas biglang paparada sasakyan sa harap mo, sa dami ng tao sa building nakakahiya naman na di ka sasakay at bubuntot lang sayo. Kaya ang ginawa ko late na ako lumalabas ng office at sa kabilang exit ako dumadaan. Sa house naman lagi nakaabang sa labas ng gate bawal sya pumasok kasi bawal ousider. Lagi nya pinapatong kung nakauwi na ba ako, sinasabi ko na lang na pag may maghanap sakin sabihin wala pa ako. one morning pag labas ko ng house nandun sya nakaparada natutulog sa loob ng sasakyan nag aabang talaga. Ang ginawa ko lunipat ako ng bahay, sa work naman pagpapasok ako ng building or pag uwi tinitingnan ko muna paligid bago ako lalabas.. nakakaloka diba, hanggang nawala na sya ng tuluyan.
LIKAS lang sigurong mahaba ang HAIR mo Ms.SpyDrew, kaya nagkalat ang mga taga-hanga mo. :P
but make sure stalker talaga yan ha. iba kasi ang dinig ko. baka naman kasi nakalimutan mo bayaran yung inutang mo na payong dun sa bumbay, tapos ang alam mo eh stalker mo yung sumusunod. eh maniningil lang pala yung kawawang bombay ng kanyang mga pautang. ayaw mo lang magbayad eh sinasabi mo pa na stalker mo yung tao. pagkatapos mo pakinabangan yung PAYONG mo ng ilang taon eh sinunog mo na, lumipat ka ng bahay tapos nagpalit ka pa ng number. kawawa naman yung mama, hindi na nakatulog kakaisip sa utang mo. tapos ngayon eh sasabihin mo na stalker mo lang at may balak ka pang kumuha ng protection order galing sa korte. eh di raymart - claudine na ang kinabagsakan ninyo. MAGBAYAD KA NA KASI NG UTANG MO SA BOMBAY! ;D laffman::
sorry TS for hijackign yours. nililinaw ko lang ang sitwasyon ni MsSpyDrew at kawawa naman yung Bombay.
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EX ko nga po yun, hindi po Bumbay.... That was long time ago po
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sis nabasa mo naba yung thread ni ang batanghamog regarding sa orasyon :D baka makatulong eh .. :D
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sis nabasa mo naba yung thread ni ang batanghamog regarding sa orasyon :D baka makatulong eh .. :D
ngahaha.. orasyon talaga? :) sige.. last resort ko yan..
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ngahaha.. orasyon talaga? :) sige.. last resort ko yan..
ok .. eto ang link http://espiya.net/forum/index.php/topic,156299.0.html wag masyado mag laro ng brain teaser makaka apekto ng memory sa orasyon yan ::lmao
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nyahaha! ganun?! PMPL.. Thank you... interesting yan ha? :)
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How do you tell off a guy ( a persistent suitor turned stalker)... nicely?
Kilala mo po ba ang ugali at personality ng guy?
Mahirap din kase yan... A solicited advice could backfire against you...
May mga lalaki kase na pag sinabihan mo ng maayos na "friends lang tayo", "hindi kita type" and etc.:
1. Mas na-chachallenge sila, they tend to be more aggressive and more annoying to your part...
2. From a stalker, they turn to become more OBSESSED with you, meaning mas nakakatakot yun...
3. They accept it stratightforwardly but tend to commit suicide...
Extreme po ba? Hehehehe!
Nakakatakot din pag aggresive mode ang dating mo, yung tipong babastusin mo or sisigawan mo (yung walang tao sa paligid ha)...
Hehehe!
Try mo yung pa-epek style... yung pang high school...
Request your male cousin, brother or any kamag-anak na halos sing-edad mo that you would act like "mag-syota" para at least pag nakita nya, TURN OFF na agad sa kanya, so siya na mismo ang lalayo sa iyo...
Yun nga lang depende talaga sa personality ng lalaking yan...
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Kilala mo po ba ang ugali at personality ng guy?
Mahirap din kase yan... A solicited advice could backfire against you...
May mga lalaki kase na pag sinabihan mo ng maayos na "friends lang tayo", "hindi kita type" and etc.:
1. Mas na-chachallenge sila, they tend to be more aggressive and more annoying to your part...
2. From a stalker, they turn to become more OBSESSED with you, meaning mas nakakatakot yun...
3. They accept it stratightforwardly but tend to commit suicide...
Extreme po ba? Hehehehe!
Nakakatakot din pag aggresive mode ang dating mo, yung tipong babastusin mo or sisigawan mo (yung walang tao sa paligid ha)...
Hehehe!
Try mo yung pa-epek style... yung pang high school...
Request your male cousin, brother or any kamag-anak na halos sing-edad mo that you would act like "mag-syota" para at least pag nakita nya, TURN OFF na agad sa kanya, so siya na mismo ang lalayo sa iyo...
Yun nga lang depende talaga sa personality ng lalaking yan...
depende talaga yan sa personality nung tao. it all depends to TS, what she feels and thinks is proper given the situation. basta be safe and let people around you what is really happening po. better that people know what is really happening para if something comes up they know how to react accordingly.
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obsessed/stalker guy has different mentality..be careful...kahit magsama ka guy friend/pretend bf...it will not do you good...mahirap pa balikan yung kaibigan mo...
it's really creepy right?...standing in the dark..standing in the corner....paglabas mo opisina..pagbyahe mo nasa likod mo...pag gala mo sa mall, nasa paligid-ligid....and not knowing his next action would be?...that is really scary...
tapos pag may kasamang kang guy, a friend/pretend bf/suitor....bigla na lang lalabas...sasalubunin kayo..tapos sisikuhin yung guy friend mo..at worst bigla na lang sasaktan kasama mo....it will really freak you out..BE CAREFUL!
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obsessed/stalker guy has different mentality..be careful...kahit magsama ka guy friend/pretend bf...it will not do you good...mahirap pa balikan yung kaibigan mo...
it's really creepy right?...standing in the dark..standing in the corner....paglabas mo opisina..pagbyahe mo nasa likod mo...pag gala mo sa mall, nasa paligid-ligid....and not knowing his next action would be?...that is really scary...
tapos pag may kasamang kang guy, a friend/pretend bf/suitor....bigla na lang lalabas...sasalubunin kayo..tapos sisikuhin yung guy friend mo..at worst bigla na lang sasaktan kasama mo....it will really freak you out..BE CAREFUL!
yeah, really creepy. makes use do a double take on people who we let in our lives. hey TS, how was your stalker before he became a stalker? i mean where did you meet, etc, and when did he turn from friend to stalker?
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ay.... ::) lalake ka pala? anyways, nagawa ko na din yan... I had a boy friend that pretended to be my bf... wala pa din. Kahit daw dalawa sila payag sya!
WTF ginamitan mo ba ng gayuma yan? laffman:: -- ano ba naging ayaw mo sa kanya? alisin na natin yung pagiging stalker muna niya? wala ba siyang trait na talagang maganda?
basta never make a move na pwede niyang gawin dahilan na gawan ka niya ng masama na something aggressive or offensive masyado sa kanya like na ipahiya siya. maging handa ka lang rin kung kinakailangan mo ng taser or pepper spray bumili ka na haha the ipablotter mo habang maaga ;D
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WTF ginamitan mo ba ng gayuma yan? laffman:: -- ano ba naging ayaw mo sa kanya? alisin na natin yung pagiging stalker muna niya? wala ba siyang trait na talagang maganda?
basta never make a move na pwede niyang gawin dahilan na gawan ka niya ng masama na something aggressive or offensive masyado sa kanya like na ipahiya siya. maging handa ka lang rin kung kinakailangan mo ng taser or pepper spray bumili ka na haha the ipablotter mo habang maaga ;D
baka kulangin sa pepper spray / taser! pagka-deploy ng pepper spray / taser, sundan mo ng saksak ng isang mongol no 1 pencil sabay bali sa loob! ewan ko lang pag bumalik pa yan sa pagiging stalker mo! seriously, wala ka bang pinsan, kaibigan lalake na in a position to help you? yung tipong malaki katawan tapos marami tropang ganun din ang dating.
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TS, ipa-"DIGONG" mo na lang kaya yan! At nang ma-"human rights"... Hehehe! Sensya na, taga Davao kase...
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TS, ipa-"DIGONG" mo na lang kaya yan! At nang ma-"human rights"... Hehehe! Sensya na, taga Davao kase...
ha ha ha, Digong talaga eh. huwag naman, masyadong drastic pag Digong agad. pwede namang pitikin lang ng banayad at nang malaman niya na medyo sumosobra na siya sa kanyang mga ginagawa. pag medyo nag-level-up na ulit pagkatapos na mapitik eh di may dahilan na para i-upgrade na rin ang approach sa kanya.
for sure, marami nang mga human rights advocates ang aalma sa mga pinagsasabi ko. tatahimik na lang mga yan pag nangyari ang ganyan sa isang kapamilya nila.
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boyfriend-ed mo na lang...then magpakita ka masamang ugali....no touch, no kiss, no s3x, no date, no watching of movies, walang dalaw sa gabi...umotot at mangulangot ka sa harap nya...turn-off attitude talaga....hehehe...wala lang.....pero ingat-ingat lang po...
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@ ka-batch praeto_RYAN
Hahaha! Nag-level up na kase, from manliligaw to stalker... Delikado na pag nag level up pa ng isa to "OBSSESSED FAN", nakow... Hahaha!
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obsessed/stalker guy has different mentality..be careful...kahit magsama ka guy friend/pretend bf...it will not do you good...mahirap pa balikan yung kaibigan mo...
it's really creepy right?...standing in the dark..standing in the corner....paglabas mo opisina..pagbyahe mo nasa likod mo...pag gala mo sa mall, nasa paligid-ligid....and not knowing his next action would be?...that is really scary...
tapos pag may kasamang kang guy, a friend/pretend bf/suitor....bigla na lang lalabas...sasalubunin kayo..tapos sisikuhin yung guy friend mo..at worst bigla na lang sasaktan kasama mo....it will really freak you out..BE CAREFUL!
Nakaka praning talaga sya.. :)
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yeah, really creepy. makes use do a double take on people who we let in our lives. hey TS, how was your stalker before he became a stalker? i mean where did you meet, etc, and when did he turn from friend to stalker?
We met thru a common friend... Exchange numbers... mga 3 times pa kami nagkita sa mga special occasions.. Ganun lang.. Well... sabi nya na inlove sya sa kin when he heard me sing.. as in yun lang! friend... no.. acquaintance pwede ba...
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boyfriend-ed mo na lang...then magpakita ka masamang ugali....no touch, no kiss, no s3x, no date, no watching of movies, walang dalaw sa gabi...umotot at mangulangot ka sa harap nya...turn-off attitude talaga....hehehe...wala lang.....pero ingat-ingat lang po...
ngahaha.... He'd been stalking me all the way from Pasig.. Kahit anu ata pakita ko wa epek... He'll find it amusing pa.
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ka-batch Ungrateful Scholar, huwag natin isali yung from suitor / admirer to stalker dun sa definition ng level-up. let's consider his being a stalker the first step. better that he be "flicked" a bit for him to come to his senses. if he steps on the gas and accelerates towards his goal, rather than leave the scene, then that will be considered leveling-up. ayun, balato na lang natin sa mga tropa ni Digong.
Schandelah, he heard you sing and that was it for him? ha ha ha, i hear you po. marami talagang nabibighani sa boses. in fact weakness ko po ang mga babaeng magaling kumanta, kaya UTANG NA LOOB, let us not get to know each other, ha ha ha. and likewise i already have a lovely bird singing me beautiful tunes everyday, and i love her so dearly. ::lmao ;D
you may have overlooked some people but i think you have a friend who knows someone who can help you. what you need to do is talk to your close friends and let them know your dilemma and what you want done. it may not be obvious at first, but most probably you have a friend who knows someone who can help you. NBI and CIDG will probably be your bet for this kinds of things. and yes, they can do it covertly or by the book, if you opt to file a complain. whichever path you wanna take for this problem, it all depends on what think will best work for the situation.
for starters, can you at least give the general area of your location now? maybe we have some espiya borthers who can at least "endorse your case" to someone he or she knows.
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ka-batch Ungrateful Scholar, huwag natin isali yung from suitor / admirer to stalker dun sa definition ng level-up. let's consider his being a stalker the first step. better that he be "flicked" a bit for him to come to his senses. if he steps on the gas and accelerates towards his goal, rather than leave the scene, then that will be considered leveling-up. ayun, balato na lang natin sa mga tropa ni Digong.
Schandelah, he heard you sing and that was it for him? ha ha ha, i hear you po. marami talagang nabibighani sa boses. in fact weakness ko po ang mga babaeng magaling kumanta, kaya UTANG NA LOOB, let us not get to know each other, ha ha ha. and likewise i already have a lovely bird singing me beautiful tunes everyday, and i love her so dearly. ::lmao ;D
you may have overlooked some people but i think you have a friend who knows someone who can help you. what you need to do is talk to your close friends and let them know your dilemma and what you want done. it may not be obvious at first, but most probably you have a friend who knows someone who can help you. NBI and CIDG will probably be your bet for this kinds of things. and yes, they can do it covertly or by the book, if you opt to file a complain. whichever path you wanna take for this problem, it all depends on what think will best work for the situation.
for starters, can you at least give the general area of your location now? maybe we have some espiya borthers who can at least "endorse your case" to someone he or she knows.
You know Ryan? Last night and ngayon lang... 800 messages all from him.. saying I love you... Gosh! binali ko talaga ang sim card ko.. kakabuset na! pina blotter ko na yun nung Monday subukan lang talga nya pakita sa kin... naku I dont kung anu gagawin ko! As in ang init ng ulo ko now here sa office... haist.
Kumakanta kasi ako sa banda Ryan... My fave past time. Mas madalas nga kapag nasa club ako... libre na ang beer ko dahil sa pagkanta! ahaha!
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You know Ryan? Last night and ngayon lang... 800 messages all from him.. saying I love you... Gosh! binali ko talaga ang sim card ko.. kakabuset na! pina blotter ko na yun nung Monday subukan lang talga nya pakita sa kin... naku I dont kung anu gagawin ko! As in ang init ng ulo ko now here sa office... haist.
Kumakanta kasi ako sa banda Ryan... My fave past time. Mas madalas nga kapag nasa club ako... libre na ang beer ko dahil sa pagkanta! ahaha!
sinabi mo na ba sa family mo yan or tinry mo ireach out ang family niya at isumbong ang ginagawa niya?
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You know Ryan? Last night and ngayon lang... 800 messages all from him.. saying I love you... Gosh! binali ko talaga ang sim card ko.. kakabuset na! pina blotter ko na yun nung Monday subukan lang talga nya pakita sa kin... naku I dont kung anu gagawin ko! As in ang init ng ulo ko now here sa office... haist.
Kumakanta kasi ako sa banda Ryan... My fave past time. Mas madalas nga kapag nasa club ako... libre na ang beer ko dahil sa pagkanta! ahaha!
uh-oh ...
You don't need help.
He's the one who needs help.
kelangan niya ng special attention.
like psychiatrist or worse, mental institution.
break it down, yow! laffman::
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tell him you have a mental record and youre taking anti depressants. Then people call you Azula for a monicker.
But seriously, if the guy's freaky, like you dont even see him as a friend, then no choice but to avoid or be rude. Otherwise, just tell him straight out.
Funny but if someone we like follows us around, we call them Admirers. Otherwise, we call them Stalkers