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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #25 on: January 11, 2010, 08:49:42 pm »
siguro ok lang yan sa mga civil marriages pero sa church wedding that is a capital NO....


church wedding is a blessed sacrament..it is a blessing ,a gift, sacred vow.....which you cannot break....

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #26 on: January 11, 2010, 10:35:25 pm »
siguro ok lang yan sa mga civil marriages pero sa church wedding that is a capital NO....


church wedding is a blessed sacrament..it is a blessing ,a gift, sacred vow.....which you cannot break....

i agree with laces... but being married is not only in the eye of peoples but also in the eye of God.... well civil marriage po ata yung sakin kasi sa huwes ako.... and sa opinion ko dis agree ako na may expiry ang kasal... bakit may expiration ba pagmamahal?? hehehe may mga napapagod oo, may mga nakakarealize na hindi yun yung tao para sa kanila, at may mga tao din na may mahal na may iba pa na gusto hehe ion short mapagmahal ika nga
pero it doesnt mean na expired na yung nararamdaman nila...
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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #27 on: January 11, 2010, 10:50:08 pm »


sino kayang bugok ang may panukala nito???sa ibang mayayaman o ibang pulitikong pwede to kc papalit palit cila ng asawa..



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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #28 on: January 11, 2010, 11:09:48 pm »
Disagree, why because marriage is a commitment forever.... nasa promise yan during pag-ikinakasal diba... na for better or "worse", till "death do us part"... siguro sa mga nag-propose nyan hindi siguro naiintindihan ibig sabihin ng promise na yan o kaya wala talaga silang alam sa batas... ganyan lang yan.... bakit kaya maraming taong ganyan???....

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #29 on: January 11, 2010, 11:47:17 pm »
finger4u   ;D 

oftentimes, its not finding the right person but rather being the right person.
uu nga po  ;D basta din it will always takes two to tango  :D

(a marriage is a partnership,a union,not a battle ground.The moment you stop treating one another
with love & respect,your marriage ceases to exist.Once you start living w/anger & distrust of your partner,
He/She no longer your husband/wife.You may be living together,but you are not married.You may wait years
to finally end the relationship,but you are emotionally divorce when you closed your hearts to each other-
again thats just me-my intellect-lolz  ;D )

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #30 on: January 12, 2010, 12:00:27 am »
as per my opinion: I Agree.. BUT (there is a BUT) in regards with the parental obligations of the siblings, there should be a strict guidance in supporting the children on the following basis:

1. Financial - if both parties (mother and father) are working, they should have a written agreement on the financial support for the kids..
2. Equality of Time (re: Schedule) - a written agreement should be imposed in regards with the schedule of stay in both parties ie.: 1 month stay with the mother/ 1 month stay with the father. BUT on the basis that the party CAN support the children financially, morally and spiritual..

If one party fails to comply with the following rules, hence, he/she will no longer have the rights in the stated agreement and the siblings will stay with higher level of support..

(this is based on the day-to-day account as per observed by yours truly, namster)
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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #31 on: January 12, 2010, 12:48:32 am »
ten years? ang haba naman. 3 months lang pwede na. at least wala pang mga anak na mai envolve.

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #32 on: January 12, 2010, 12:50:36 am »
ngeek! parang rehistro ng sasakyan may renewal.
sa malamang maraming di magpaparenew dyan.

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #33 on: January 12, 2010, 01:10:53 am »
they're just trying to circumvent the sanctity of marriage..it's not far from divorce law..  smoking::

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #34 on: January 12, 2010, 01:14:44 am »

Patatagalin pa nila paghihirap ng pagsasama ng mag asawa nyan,biro mo 10 years???eh di gawin na lang nilang batas ung divorce sa pilipinas...

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #35 on: January 12, 2010, 01:22:30 am »
Maaaring maganda ang gusto nila pero subject ito sa napakaraming abuse na lalo lang magpapahirap sa babae.

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #36 on: January 12, 2010, 01:29:03 am »
Nakakagulat at walang nagbanggit sa 'til death do us part na linya sa kasal. Aanhin ang relihiyon kung hindi paiiralin. Palamuti lang pala.
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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #37 on: January 12, 2010, 03:33:15 am »
isa lang makikinaban nito! Ang gobyerno nanaman

san ba magparenew sa PRC? kung ipapairal nito baka in effect may
1. spousal board exam,
2. spousal license (prof and non prof),
3. 15 units in marriage studies

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #38 on: January 12, 2010, 03:43:43 am »
para lang mapansin at mabalita  smoking::

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #39 on: January 12, 2010, 04:41:38 am »
isa lang makikinaban nito! Ang gobyerno nanaman

san ba magparenew sa PRC? kung ipapairal nito baka in effect may
1. spousal board exam,
2. spousal license (prof and non prof),
3. 15 units in marriage studies

bwahahahaha panalo!!  laffman::

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #40 on: January 12, 2010, 08:15:06 am »
Ewan ko lang ano pumasok sa mga utak niyan.  >:(
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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #41 on: January 12, 2010, 09:01:12 am »
ganun na ba kakitid? di ba din nila iniisip ang magiging epekto nito? hindi madali para sa mga bata na magkaroon ng mga magulang na magkahiwalay...ito ba ang gusto nating gawin, ang mag create ng society ng broken family? in the first place bago magpakasal isipin muna kasi mabuti kung kontento na talaga sila sa partner nila at decided na talaga sila na yun na nga bago magpakasal...wag gawin trial and error ang kasal...kaya nga kasal e to settle down...ano yun gagawin na lang isang laro ang pagpapakasal at pag aanak? suriin muna kasi mabuti bago magpakasal...ang pagsasama sa kasal ay dahil sa pagmamahalan sa puso at hindi lang sa puson...kung puson o libog lang wag na muna magpakasal mag girlfriend na lang... bago magpakasal mag-isip muna ng madaming beses at di bara bara kasi wala ng bawian...kung misserable ang marriage ng iba kasalanan nila yun at wag na sila magdamay ng iba...ang batas na ito ay pwedeng maabuso...asan na ba ang values natin?

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #42 on: January 12, 2010, 09:06:43 am »
sabi ng nagsusulong ay para protektahan ang kababaihan...yun nga ba? di ba nila naisip na mas lalo agrabyado ang babae o mas mapapasama sila kung ito ay maaabuso? e paano yung mga kababaihan na nagmamahal ng tapat at ganito lang ang mangyayari...this only gives a reason sa lahat para magloko...just for justification sa mga maling gawa...hindi ito ang solusyon, it's only a scape from the real problem. andun at andun pa din ang problema at hindi nasosolusyonan...

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #43 on: January 12, 2010, 09:09:54 am »


protect everyone itong bill na to l think they have good intentions naman lalu na ang nag aapela ng Bill ay isang babae din  :applause
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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #44 on: January 12, 2010, 09:22:59 am »

protect everyone itong bill na to l think they have good intentions naman lalu na ang nag aapela ng Bill ay isang babae din  :applause

I think yung pong nag aapea nung bill eh isa sa mga naabuse right??? in that case sana naman po hindi yun matuloy?? panu nalng yung mga tao na nagpapahalaga sa marriage nila?? edi pati yung mga tapat sa kanilang minamahal ehh makakisip nadin na maghanap ng iba?? kasi may batas na magpapasa ng renewal.. at hindi kaya parang ang pangit tingnan... example.. asawa mo sya last 10 years ago ngayon asawa ko na??? opinion ko lng po... naquote ko lang yung kay master kasi about dun sa nagpasa ng bill
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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #45 on: January 12, 2010, 09:27:29 am »
Napaggugutom yata ang mga representatives ng party list na yan? Mas tama pa na magpropose sila ng divorce law. Sino ba agrabyado sa law na yan pag nagkataon? Mga anak at mga babae. To address yung abuses move for the strict implementation of our existing laws hindi yung puro kalokohan ang napagiisip nila.

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #46 on: January 17, 2010, 03:12:39 am »
parang ang nakikita ko dito:

"tara pakasal tayo, try lang natin, tutal after 10 years ay pde naman tayo magdecide kung talagang para sa isat isa tayo eh"

malaking kalokoha, bakit hindi nalang mag live-in tas after 10 years ay pakasal nalang ulit.

lam ko may mga legal implications ang marriage... pero it does not make sense. para bang laro nalang ang kasal. isa pa, bakit ka magpapakasal in the end eh pagsisishan mo din.

hindi dapat natin ito sisihin sa kung ano ang batas meron tayo kung bakit hindi nagtatagumpay ang marriage. hindi nga bat ang mga taong nagpapakasal ang dapat sisihin dahil papasok pasok sila sa isang contract ng hindi man lang inaalam ng mabuti ang ugali ng taong pakikisamahan nila, na hindi sila handa na magbigay ng wagas na pagibig sa kanilang minamahal at hindi sila handa na makasama ang kanilang kabiyak sa hirap man o ginhawa.

sa mga nagiisip na dapat may expiration ang kasal, well sana wag nalang kayo magpakasal kung hindi nyu naman kayang pangatawanan ang desisyon na inyong ginawa.

sa tingin ba natin masosolve ng batas na iyan ang broken family? oh baka mas lalo pa ito mageencourage sa mga tao na paglaruan lang ang kasal?

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #47 on: January 18, 2010, 01:00:34 pm »
eh di dapat ibahin na ang line na "till death do us part"? what do you think?hehe

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #48 on: January 20, 2010, 08:15:10 pm »
AGREE...kasi karamihan sa kabataan na ng aasawa ngayon e pinilit ng magulang magpakasal kasi buntis na..kung nagkamali na nga sa pagpabuntis ng maaga e lalo masisira sa pagpapakasal agad kaya nakakabuti lang na may ganyan para at least kung d na masaya at mgsisisi na sa maling desisyon sa pagpapakasal e d hindi na mag renew.

Kung masaya ka naman sa married life mo e mag renew ka lang naman ng mag renew,kaya la problema.

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Re: Renewable marriage' proposed: Agee or Disagree??
« Reply #49 on: January 20, 2010, 08:25:13 pm »
Sana naman ma reduce sa 5 years tagal naman 10 years hehehe.. toast::